₦airaland Forum

DEBJOCH1:
MEN, I. AM JUST SPEECHLESS, I DONT THINK YOU CAN BE AS BADLY THRUMATIZED AS MOU, EVEN WHEN I WAS PLACED ON SEDATIVE, ALONG THE LANE, I DISCOVERED THAT I CANT SLEEP NATURALLY WITHOUT TAKING SEDATIVE DRUG, I DID THAT FOR MONTHS, I HAD TO WARN MY SELF THAT AT MY 30'S I AM TAKING A DENGEROUS PATH BECAUSE EVERY SIDE EFFECT OF ANY SEDATIVE OUT WEIGH IT'S POSITIVE EFFECT, INSTANTLY THE ISSUES OF MICHAEL JACKSON$ DEATH CAME TO MY MIND, I REMEMBERED HE DIED AS A RESULT OF HIGH DOSE OG SEDATIVE. I TOLD MY SELF IF I AM GOING TO DIE AS A RESULT OF NOT SLEEPING NATURALLY SO BE IT.

I WENT USING NATURE AS A CURATIVE MEASURE, I GOT HONEY, GOT MORINGER SEED, GOT EJIRIN LEAF, BITTER LEAF, BITTER KOLA, WONDERFUL KOLA (THIS IS A GERY DENGEROUS KOLA), MILK, WARM WATER, GOT THE SERVICE OF THOSE HAUSA WANZAMI (LOCAL BARBERS THAT USE TO EXTRACT BAD BLOOD FROM HUMAN SYSTEM, WITH PRAYERS, VIGIL I TOLD THE DEVIL SINCE YOU HAVE SUCCEEDED IN DEPRIVING SLEEP FROM ME EVERY NIGHT ME AND YOU WILL BATTLE IN VIGIL, GRADUALLY, FOR YEARS, THAT WAS HOW I STARTED HAVING NATURAL SLEEP AFTER PRAYERS. LIKE PLAY LIKE PLAY THAT WAS HOW GOD RESTORED MY SLEEP MY SLEEP CIRCLE.

HONESTLY YOU BROUGHT THIS UPON YOUR SELF, IT TAKES ONLY GOD TO RESTORE YOU AND, YOU WENT TOO FAR, I PRAY THAT GOD SHOULD HEAL YOU, YOUR SYSTEM HAS BEEN NEGATIVELY IMPACTED.

Yong4ever:
pentazocin is one of dangerous drugs of addiction (DDA), you got it all wrong to have required the services of auxiliary nurse or quack as the case may be,no registered or qualified nurse would give you pentazocin in such a way, looking at the picture alone shows that you've not been injecting it the right way, this drug is strictly given either intramuscularly or intravenously, now that you've gotten to this stage of drug dependence, I suggest you visit a tertiary health institution ASAP, to seek expert review especially a psychiatrist.

cococandy:
If only they would do that instead of using it as opportunity to insult every woman in the world.

Imagine saying the creation of women made the world insane. So xtupid

Buddha3:
No offence, but you're not entirely correct. That mixture, when blended in the right quantities and ginger is added, acts as a very strong sex stimulant. It is not a stereotype.

Samantha124:
I'll need to be unemployed or be a stay at home mother in order for me to teach her all of those things.

And some children are just stubborn even if you teach them all of those things from a young age.

Let me give an example about me, my sim card had parental control from when I started owning my own phone till this day... But that didn't stop me from buying another sim card from the black market and use it to access some porn sites as a teenager because I saw some students in class having porn in their phones and I became curious... I used my eldest sister's ID to have the Sim card registered...

I only threw the Sim card away when I finally got satisfied with what I saw in those porn sites and no one at home ever found out about it because I was very good in hiding it...

GboyegaD:
It is not scarce here and it seems like it is in its season as my local Walmart now has it all the time. Just surprised the price doubled now that it is in abundance.



I only know of fried plantain.



It is well.

Sprints3:
kanye is one confused assshole today worship God tomorrow rant say illumati is after your life, next day do rubbish ontop internet like this one. When he was on IG b4 he deleted his account. He can post pictures today and deleted everything tomorrow then put Jesus is lord as DM. I just don't understand him. He is kind of suffering from mental illness

Angelfrost:
Another day in the life of a money-miss road!

Kanye still has an identity crisis and attention-seeking issues!

THISLIFE01:
Hmmm...I Watched an old movie were white men did same thing to a black lady. It wasn't funny at all, they ate from her / maltreated her at d same time.

cococandy:
Always jumping on opportunities to tell your mother she’s useless behind her back. Pick up the phone and say it to her directly

GboyegaD:
Dinner:

Rice and dodo.

MariahAngel,

Abeg, price is dodo go up for una side sef? For here the price don double.

pansophist:


It's like you've just started dating women. I'm assuming you're a man lol.

If a woman is in need, you will know. A man may hide his need because woman loose respect for men they support financially. But women? I'll know.

They leave cues. She will talk. She will say it indirectly. It's impossible to confuse it, unless the man just don't want to help. A woman in financial need is the easiest thing to spot in the world.

If I ask "how are you", and she said I'm not fine, I'll only continue asking her what the problem is if I'm sure I can help. If not, I'll just tell her " God is your strength ".

Persephone1:
No Nigerian women aren't their own enemies. Nigeria consists of different tribes and culture, you can't expect every Nigerian woman to support some set of people who wake up one morning and start spewing bladderdash on social media. Thoughts that are very far from reality. How many Nigerian men can comfortably take full financial responsibility for their family without the support of their women? In this current Nigerian economy how many rich man do we have? . Foodqueen is right, these sets of people are the ones we see in markets selling Uwgu or other vegetables, they are the ones in appliances shops with their husbands hustling for daily bread but at night they come to social media to form what is not and deceive young minds.

2) Not every woman will subscribe to being totally taken care of because we know what that means to a Nigerian man. Not every woman can be docile, quiet and be a Yes sir person. If liberty comes with responsibility some of us will gladly accept. You can't eat your cake and have it, but it's better one isn't a furniture or trophy for exhibition.

3) What happens if the man dies? Not all women are narrow-minded. How does a woman who is always taken care of survive the loss of her provider? How does she manage her life and children? Some women think deeper than Now so they don't over work their husbands. And no those women aren't enemies, they are wise.

Lastly marriage shouldn't center on being taken care of, it's selfish. What about the husband? No be human he be? In a marriage base on love, you care for one another. That's the true definition of Marriage.

ahnie:
Madddddd ooooo
I forgot to hang some memes on Prestonn epic punchline.

Failure2019:
Mashed agbugbu

I don't know the English name

Prestonn:
Nor let my photos deceive you oh, even me self need money.

Acidosis:
Yes, ego issues exist but I don't think ego is the reason most Nigerians can't clean poo. Nigerians cleaning poo abroad do it for the money. They won't do such in Nigeria because, obviously, cleaning poo in Nigeria pays next to nothing.

It's easy to always recommend menial jobs and all that but more often than not, we are not always realistic. I know someone who went to do this menial thing. After about 2 days on the job, he landed in the hospital. His earning for those days can't cover the cost of drugs.

Note that I do not condone laziness. At the same time, I will be careful not to call a man who lost his job in 2022 a lazy or an irresponsible man. I also won't judge him for not going out there to lift bags of Dangote cement for N15 per bag. I won't do it too.

Acidosis:
Nothing is going on. Unemployment rate in Nigeria is currently 41%, meaning 4 out of every 10 men out there are jobless. Not everyone can "hustle" in an environment that kills opportunities.

We have to first and foremost acknowledge a societal problem before crucifying anyone.

cococandy:
No seriously if you ask them to give specifics about how she’s supposed to do it. All they’ll say is “Talk to him. Call family meeting. Talk to your pastor.”

Well what if after that he doesn’t change?

Then their next solution is to “pray and continue suffering”. Just to avoid calling a spade a spade. If he doesn’t care he doesn’t care. If he cares he’ll make the effort

GodPrince:
don't insult me little girl, I'm old enough to be your elder brother because I'm sure you are not more than 20, respect yourself. You know nothing about life, go wash your panties because it's obvious you don't have any clean pant to wear to school tomorrow

Klass99:
Lol 🤣. I can't deal with men who think that way or act that way. Weren't they created first to lead, subdue, dominate, multiply and be fruitful............long before we were ever created?

Aren't they meant to be the head and captains of their homes again? How do you even begin to submit to such men who want to be given reorientation and purpose by a woman? I can't deal ooo. What calibre of men exist today like this?

cococandy:
What else is she supposed to do for him? Since his parents didn’t raise him to have a sense of responsibility. She’s supposed to train him all over again?

bukatyne:
1. We use you people as example because the men dey manage provide. The other men in these cultures DO NOT provide and DO NOT do chores, DO NOT lead in the home. Take them out and their presence and absence is same.

2. I guessed as much.

3. True

4. That's why I am very insistent on a responsible husband. That wanting treatment has Kings is innate. Whether they do, they no do; they want that treatment.

5. Nice one

6. You see this ehn, will keep baffling me till the end of time. That's why I don't take most of them complaining seriously. You complain, I note how you train your sons and younger men around you. It is same, I look the other way.

7. Access to cheap help doesn't help matters. If your husband is not responsible at home, just pick a underaged child wanting to escape generational poverty and overburden.

8. 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀 😄 😁 truth is if you don't hold them accountable when they are not willing to pick up the slack, you will do it all alone and be overworked and bitter.

9. As in.

It is well.

cococandy:
Period. This is a new age and everyone who wants to survive must adapt.

Dremca:
I have always been an advocate of giving women equal opportunity as men but it turns out I always make big mistake doing that. I always get turned off when I hear women say, "My money is my money and my husband's money is our money." I was working on an idea and engaged a female friend to be a partner but the moment I told her to partly contribute financially in the new venture, since then, her countenance changed. I moved on and met another female friend and same scenario is playing out. Imagine if things go well, they will both want to reap where they did not sow.

How can Nigerian women be avoiding commitment and still be shouting feminism. They want a man to contribute financially in everything and they only want to come and enjoy when things are rosy. They do this in relationship/marriage even in business. so sad!

bukatyne:


Maybe that's the type of men the women like? Or grew up to see?

Apart from the SE, I can count the tribes/regions that believe in a husband who provides any form of leadership:

I know SW and SS regions don't. Their women provide, protect and defend the home (read a lady describing how her mother checks if the main door is locked every night), leas in prayers/spirituality, lead in child training etc.

A lot of Nigerian women need training on what a husband should be like and the men trained on the duties of a husband.

Some provide money and think that's all there is to husbandhood.