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Education › Re: Dasola: Ibadan Poly Female Student Hacked To Death; Eyes Plucked Out (pic) by descarado: 2:23pm On Jun 16, 2023

Back to killing again. Election has come and gone.

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Romance › Re: Dammy Vs Hilda. The Hypocricy Of Nigerians sexuality, tribalism and stupidity by descarado: 1:54pm On Jun 16, 2023

1Sharon:
I just realised this recently. South Africa is one of the least religious countries in Africa and I like them even more for that.

Nigerians are too religious, It has made them stiff in personality. So annoying.

Nigeria is not too religious but uses religion to subdue and conquer her populace.
What is happening in Nigeria happened in England until religious wars started.

It's a phase, we will become like England one day.

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 1:36pm On Jun 16, 2023

Assetosky:
You just hurt your father's pride and ego. He won't forget this and might never advice you again

All the advice you needed from your parents ends at around 13 yrs.
The rest is from peers, surrounding and experience.

That's why parents can confidently put their kids in boarding school and or send them out to go and do boy boy at a younger age.
If you don't talk to your child like an adult, start now. Those words are stored in their memory and when a situation comes for them to use them, they will remember daddy or mummy told me this when I was 6 or 10.

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 1:30pm On Jun 16, 2023

DrDunamis:
Young man make you sha no die young ooh...
Regardless of what he said or what happened you were in no right to talk to your father that way. Honour your father and mother that your days maybe long. This was gross dishonour and disrespect.
Yes, most of what he said and how he said it was wrong but two wrongs does not make a right. What you said in itself isn't actually wrong but you said it with the wrong attitude and the wrong way so it makes it all wrong.
Firstly, apologise to your dad for your outburst and promise never to try it a again.
Secondly,with all diligence and humility explain to your dad that the opinions of the neighbours don't count in your lives and ensure you don't say it in such a way like you are trying to teach him. Let it be suggestive.

Are you afraid of death?
Why will he apologise?
Cos he is the father.
We keep on allowing parents box us into corners and see that as acceptable.
It is not.
Parents ought to know their limit.
Heck, my parents never boxed me into corners neither will I do that to my kids.
He came late and apologised.
This man will push him into the hands of what he was afraid of.
He the father should apologise.
Oh, we live in a country where parents never apologise.
Mine always apologise cos nobody is above mistake.
I apologise to my kids.

In fact, I don't hesitate to apologise for the littlest thing.
That is how it should be.
Parents act like mini God in Nigeria. So entitled.

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 1:20pm On Jun 16, 2023

SeriouslySense:
If you say so, everybody is right nowadays, and they cannot see any mistake in what they do, i really dont' even care these days, this is why i love animals. . And i care seriously for animals.

At this point, i concede, you have won the argument. Very good debater.

It is simple, lets not complicate it, if he cannot adhere to the rules, he can move out.
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It is not an argument dear. I give out facts as its obtainable everywhere except countries with low iq like us. I am a parent and live in a civilised society. Do not all in the name of discipline make your child lack confidence. The best gift you give your child is not education or money but confidence. With that, the sky is beneath him.
That is what separates us with the West or developed countries.

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 1:14pm On Jun 16, 2023

PoliteActivist:
He is 18. You are assuming his dad can physically beat him up.
I'm not surprised his dad is poor. That's exactly what his type of attitude leads to and he's trying to pass it on to his son and the poor kid instinctively knows it's wrong and resisting.
OP, my advice, be very respectful towards your dad but be away from him as much as you can. Move out of his house as soon as you can afford it. The greatest gift you can give yourself is freedom from what people think. He is unfortunate to have the opposite and he's doing his best to pass it on to you!

Thank you.

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 1:08pm On Jun 16, 2023

SeriouslySense:
i am not disregarding his arguments, i am simply pointing his mistakes.

He didn't make any mistake at all
His father will learn to talk respectfully around him.
The boy is now a man.

Read his post again but this time, apply simple reasoning without emotions and see he did the right thing there.

He started by saying he love his dad and he is a good man.
Common, give this guy his due respect and applaud him.
He knew what he did was wrong and was avoiding his father.
Has never been out late before.
He eventually went to dad and explained why he was late and apologised.

Dad wasn't even afraid he may have been kidnapped or had an accident BUT, what nebors will say.
That was when he lost it cos it TRIGGERED something.

After what happened, he started feeling remorseful.

Every action has a corresponding reac6ion.
Had the dad not trigger him, he wouldn't have made that statement.

If you go to the court of law, who throw the first stone matters, this time, the dad. That he is the dad doesn't count.
Dad disrespected him first.
His nebors are more important to him.

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Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:57pm On Jun 16, 2023

SeriouslySense:
He should apologies because he said he is paying the house rent.

I know it seems wrong to do so, but he should if he can.

Let me use this analogy, if let say your wife is paying the house rent, and you asked her that question, maybe you will have to apologize to your wife. I am just saying.

What i am weighing here is not the money, it is the relationship or the person he is talking to. It is no way to talk to your father or parents because you pay the bills.

These are concepts we embraced from western culture, and if its okay with us, then its fine. I am not interested in who is right or wrong, but how we can function in a healthy way in the family or society.

Maybe next time, your ten year old child will say the same to you, because these days, children are getting good jobs too. .

What matters on the post which made me to contribute is where he said this reminded him of when he was a child and it made him shy and timid.
My dear, in a developed country, this is very weighty and he will be assigned a psychologist.

And this triggered his outburst.
You guys should read and comprehend.

I love that guy already cos at 18, he already know what caused psychological problem to him while many of us still don't know why we hate ourselves so much and are always very aggressive.

His intelligence quotient is high.

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Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:52pm On Jun 16, 2023

mariahAngel:
He dishonored his father.

That is not dishonour.
We are applying stat here darling.
Oyibo man is not using such words to rule us by proxy.
They use empirical research by renowned psychologists.
We are still babies in this world. That's why they are still guiding us. Now, somebody is doing the right thing and we are saying dishonour. Who has that helped?
Guy was triggered. Read his post.
His dad brought out his demon. He has been battling this same emptiness as a child courtesy of his dad( psychological trauma). Nobody saw that here except one guy. Everybody was on about his dad, his dad. What about him.
He will take over from his dad but as what?
His dad said he don't want him to be like him but he is doing exactly that!

That guy is a man at 18. (Some 30 something yrs old are here from mor till night begging.
Some are already calling him yahoo boy.
Yet they are here 247)
He reminded his dad he paid the house rent cos he want the dad to see him as a man with responsibility.

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Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:41pm On Jun 16, 2023

nedu666:
U don't understand. His anger with his father is that he was brought up to be shy and timid because of words used by his father. The shyness and timidity is affecting him, the talk of paying rent is outburst caused by his anger towards his parents. Many parents raise up shy and timid children who later in life blame and resent them for their situation.

Thank you very much.
This is why I'm raving.
This guy was already hurt by his father as a child and is on his way to recovery and the father want to start again?

Nigerian men please learn how to relate with your kids so Nigeria will recover. Our recovery starts from the family.
I thought I was doing well as a parent until I left Nigeria. Your child's number one friend is the parents.
They will ask them something like this.
Write what you love about your best friend.
Heaven help you as a parent, your child didn't write about any of you. That's the beginning of secret investigation you will never know about.

They will tell you that children need CONFIDENCE more than grade. What has grade without confidence gotten us as a country, nothing.
Those with confidence still rule us by proxy.

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Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:31pm On Jun 16, 2023*

mariahAngel:
Sincerely apologize to your father.
You crossed the line when you rubbed the fact that you paid the rent in his face.
You hurt him deep.
Apologize and make amends.

Why will he apologise?

What did he do?

His dad should be the one apologising not him.

Welet emotions control us.
Emotions didn't make the civilised and developed world what they are but good reasoning.

If this happened in the place where I am, out of respect, he will just tell his father why he was late. He don't have to apologise. The Nigerian factor made him apologise and the man started yapping. We don't know how to train children at all. If your child is afraid of you, he already has very low self esteem.
You see what is happening in Nigeria, that's product of low self esteem.
Because he is a dad so he cannot be wrong.

That is why I said Nigeria will continue to remain in perpetual slavery cos we allow emotions rule us.

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Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:22pm On Jun 16, 2023

DEBJOCH1:
YOU ARE GRADUALLY DIGGING YOUR GRAVE, YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST TO MAKE MONEY AT 18, A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. IF YOU TRUELLY MAKE YOUR MONEY GENUINELY THROUGH A LEGIT MEANS, YOU NEED TO LEVEL LOW TO YOUR PARENTS, NO MATTER WHAT.

AT 18, I TOLD MY PARENT TO STOP FUNDING MY EDUCATION, I SINGLE HANDELY PAY MY FEES TILL THE END, I NEVER REMEMBERED DISOBEYED MY LATE DAD EVEN FOR A DAY, RETRACE YOUR STEP FOR YOUR OWN GOOD. AS I SENCE, YOU SEEMS TO BE A GOOD CHILD, BUT SEEMS TO BE INFLUENCED BY THE WRONG SET OF FRIENDS. CHOOSE YOUR COMPANY WISELY.

It is you who is digging your own grave.
Ewu

Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by descarado: 12:17pm On Jun 16, 2023

Wonder why people are coming after the guy.
From that day, the dad has known his son is now an adult and will accord him respect as an adult when dealing to him.
Parents don't know when they have passed boundary.
He apologised and explained why he was late.
That's a man right there.
So I applaud him.
Hear him, that attitude affected him as a child, and papa is bringing it up again.
The worst thing you can do to your children is talk down on them. This is the beginning of low self esteem which has brought Nigeria on her knee no matter how rich one is. Almost all our men has liw self esteem. It starts from things like this when they are little. Instead of talking about love and encouraging words, we are so quick to scream and castigate. The result is the Nigeria we have today.
We all are guilty of that and that's what shape the society. We can see how our society is already shaped.

Hus dad eill apologise in due time.
He was just shocked his boy is now a man.

Romance › Re: The Category Of Women That Shame The Size Of A Man's Gbola by descarado: 12:00pm On Jun 16, 2023*

Gbola can never wear out a vagina, rather a vagina can wear out a gbola. It's too small. Baby head can stretch it but it will eventually go back or close to what it was before or what it was.
It is very elastic.
(When nairaland was very educative before, there was a thread where married women openly talked about their vj state after birth. Majority said it went back to normal. Those with stitches said it became tighter they have to go and open it up a bit)
As the gbola get sizes, so also vj. Find your size.
I'm sure you boys don't know that.
There are babes that have never wanted big gbola or visa versa near them. Reason, they don't fit. When you get your size, hold it.

Has nothing to do with virginity. You can disvirgin a big vj and tomorrow start accusing her of flirting.
Nope darling, her vj is simply the big one that requires big gbola not your tiny dik.
Free her. She is innocent.

If you are small, look for small vj.

Example is south Korea. Its noted that south korean men has the smallest gbola. Ask their women, they are made for their gbola. They are not complaining.

All these low self esteem boys looking for whom to blame over their tiny dik and lack of performance.

Ask pornstars. Anything to denigrate women. Makes them happy.
Go to who broke your heart and iron it out or better still look for the size that fit your small dick and stop complaining

A male partner that sleeps around can easily be noticed than female partner. Sex education 101.

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Family › Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by descarado: 10:55am On Jun 16, 2023

Chinny024:
I don't think so.. Except the man don't take recognition of it.Declilning sex, amount of attention she gives u are all on a diminished rate..Even the number of times she calls...A woman’s action would be more glaring including immediate pepper body at him most times unlike when they started the marriage.🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women do lose interest faster dear.
As time goes on, prik no dey rise again. Man can't power like before. Man is constantly tired.
Except few with very high testosterone, the rest are just there. Why do wives go behind their husbands to get it?
After the rush to answer Mrs and make baby, a woman now want to fulfil her sexual fantasy and very few husbands meet their spec. When you want to marry, that is put aside ny many.
That's when they notice hubby has very small dik or dik without head.
Sit with some women who are not closed off and hear jists. If not religion and culture,..
I live abroad, half of the married women at my place of work bang anyhow and without care. In naija, its just hidden.

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Family › Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by descarado: 11:41am On Jun 15, 2023*

Badmashii:
Op the koko be sey d wife don old and her engine no get oil like before na y. But all things equal,the man no fit try such rubbish even if dem don dey for 100years. That's why kayanmata is not an option. It's super necessary....if you know,you know.

100% of women at 60yrs can still bang comfortably but can men sustain erection comfortably at 60?
Heck, what am I saying, midlife crises see most men losing it completely.
The problem with you boys is that you brag too much when reality is the opposite. It's men that go for sexual enhancement drugs not women.
Or is it men with millipede kind of prik, the bent one, the very short one. One that cannot stand at full mast. Women take shit and still respect men without talking but these idiots will come online everyday to denigrate women even when odds are against them. Some even shot empty.
Culture and kids make women close mouth. Not that the man is irreplaceable. Respect women so they will respect you.

It's known fact that married Nigerian women are the most promiscuous in this world. Do the maths.

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Family › Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by descarado: 11:30am On Jun 15, 2023

Chinny024:
...might be because of see finish..

Women also lose interest too..It's a two way thing..

Thank you.
Women lose interest faster than men.
Just that Women are smarter.
It's never on their faces and actions that they have lost interest.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by descarado: 9:37pm On Jun 14, 2023

White kimchi and fermented sauerkraut
The sauerkraut is like medicine.
Gosh.
This is the first time I made sauerkraut. Not used to it yet. German national food while Kimchi is Koreans national food.

You get the highest concentration of vit c from these 2 and the good bacteria.

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Politics › Re: Tinubu Rewards Jack Rich With An Oil Export License by descarado: 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2023

Tinubu eye has been on oil block. He now got one using this guy as front if actually this is true.

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Crime › Re: Nigeria Police Arrest Brothel Operator In Delta " Underage Sex Workers Rescued" by descarado: 3:59pm On Jun 14, 2023

Made in Italy grooming cry

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by descarado: 11:08am On Jun 14, 2023

sayoberry:
Immediately yes

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 11:07am On Jun 14, 2023

dominique:
What did you go and get at the pharmacy? Hope it's not another dose of this drug?

Maybe to get the VERRY last one.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by descarado: 6:52am On Jun 14, 2023

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Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 6:41am On Jun 14, 2023

Goalnaldo:
She's the only one that comes to buy it and i think my boss agree to sell for her because she is a nurse. i have seen my boss vehemently refuse selling some prescribtion drugs to people without doctors prescribtion.

Tell him to stop pls. That she is a nurse shouldn't be a reason.
Be very careful before you enter into trouble there.
The connected will go free.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 6:20am On Jun 14, 2023

Goalnaldo:
drug addiction dont happen in nigeria? Methamphetamine(mkpurumiri) you hear people are abusing, is it sweets or plant?

I know about meth. We are not really an addict country. Its just that it's now increasing and it's worrisome.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 6:16am On Jun 14, 2023

maasoap:
That dude, is he still on nairaland? One day, two problems

It's the guy called sourcerer. He commented on the first page I think.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 6:14am On Jun 14, 2023

Goalnaldo:
she's a nurse and there's no day she doesnt buy it. At times, she comes up to 3 times a day.

You guys shouldn't be selling that stuff.
It is a prescription drug.
What do I know. In Nigeria, everything goes.

Nafdac abi ministry of heath should be notified so they can create awareness.

It's all about the money for an average Nigerian.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 6:10am On Jun 14, 2023

lexy2014:
Let's look at this way. How does loosing your wife justify your actions? You even have 3 kids you should live your life for and u using your wife's death to justify your addiction. That is lame. If every man who lost his wife did what you did, then we will have several amputated men all over the world. There are 3 kids whose lives depend on u and u somewhere destroying your life. Is that how to be a good father? Should her parents and siblings get addicted because she died after all they knew her longer than u did. You better stop being a clown, get your ass up and go start being a responsible father

The late wife will never forgive him nor her parents. I'm not talking about the kids. How does he make money or his kids don't live with him?.
They must really hate him now.
Very selfish human.

If people start opening up here, we all should be addicted to one stuff or the other then.
Who knows if the addiction started before the wife died.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 5:48am On Jun 14, 2023

maasoap:
Don't deceive yourself that you can do this on your own, you need professionals help. Check yourself into the hospital/rehabilitation centre. Stop wasting time

And seeing his body rotting away or thinking about his children would have pushed him to stop. He needs detoxification first and his wounds treated before going on a rehab mission.

I thought drug addiction don't happen in Nigeria.
I mean this is shocking. The nurse and pharmacist should be behind bars

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Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 5:31am On Jun 14, 2023

DEBJOCH1:
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I SLEEP LIKE A BABY OVER THE YEARS NOW, THOUGH I DONT IGNORE POSITIVE ADVISE AND WORD OF KNOWLEDGE, I DONT JOKE WITH NATURAL SUBSTANCES, I DONT MIND IF I AM RECOMMENDED TO ANY NATURAL FOOD WITH MAGNESIUM CONTENT, OR BETTER STILL, DRUGS WITH CONTENT OF MAGNESIUM WHICH HAS ZERO SIDE EFFECT, I WILL SERIOUSLY APPRECIATE. THANK YOU.

Wait a minute,
You want me to recommend something that has magnesium for you. As your Dr or what?
The audacity.
Incredible.
The things I read here.

Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 5:24am On Jun 14, 2023

Chidolalar:
.pls can pentazocine remove severe pain from keloid treatment bcuz am suffering from keloid scars on my jaw

Seriously right now huh

What is wrong with these people?

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Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Pentazocine, Please Help Me!!! (Warning Graphics Photos) by descarado: 7:55pm On Jun 13, 2023

samuelson06:
Those injuries came as a result of continuous injection at same site.

The problem with some of the so-called health practitioners in Nigeria is that they want to handle everything health.

They don't know when they should administer drugs or call in a social worker. This problem would have been handled by a social worker successful through the psychiatric hospital without all these damages.

Even when you have to administer drugs, it's not every drug that you should allow the patient to know. Maybe that would've helped this person to stop taking it when the situation was getting out of control.

Now, if God is not by his side, this sh!t may end in amputation.

That is a prescription drug. Why is it in the hand of a nurse?
Nigeria undecided

Where I live e, you can't get ordinary antibiotics that's everywhere in Nigeria over the counter. Importers are after the gain only. Our health sector is as rotten as Nigeria itself.
Bless late Dora.
None like her

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