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RAFFIZY:
Good day everyone, I want to raise an issue that has been bothering me as a sibling, and also to my parents.

My sister who has just finished her SSCE exams has been engaged in indecent chats with various people on her phone, we were brought up under strict muslim parents, honestly they have done a good job parenting so far, for the fact that my mum knew something was fishy because she is always with her phone.

Her phone has been seized, since this happened yesterday she has refused to greet my parents or even assist in helping my mum cook and also refused to eat as well. Both parents have tried the best they can to enlighten us about social media and how to moderately use it, but my sister wouldn't care to listen, it's as if she is possessed because it has happened more than once under my parents watch.

Parents on this forum, kindly suggest ways to treat this matter urgently.

Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

peacettw:
She is going to another state and I bet he will want her to be visiting him often and on. How do you want her to go about all this 'in her critical state'?

Kobojunkie:
Her own pregnancy better pass the pregnancy of all those hawkers and market women out there?

Pregnancy is not a sickness neither is it a valid reason for a woman to remain unemployed. You insult billions of pregnant women out there working hard while pregnant when you suggest pregnancy a reason to do nothing.

crackhaus:
Our beloved NL pseudo-feminists and SJWs, how far na?

For how long will y'all continue to do nothing about these absurdities in the north?

DelTel:
Do you know the suspect, sorry criminal, personally?

Do you even know that the victim is a black 13 years old girl but your criminal friend keeps addressing her as a lady

Of course you can not know because, as alluded by you, you do not care to read

1stGenAmerican:
Here you go, sister. There should be an email link.

http://www.dcor.state.ga.us/Facilities/coffee-correctional-facility-0

You will need to give them his ID which is GDC ID: 1002690757.

MMotimo:
Excuse me? Did you just say YOU give ME something to think about?
You, a person that has failed to grasp the basics of evidence? The basics of how this rapist has been convicted on the strength of multiple pieces of incontrovertible, scientific evidence?
You, the person who called for fingerprint evidence to be re-presented and examined on national TV 4.5 years after the commission of the crime?
A person without the intellectual capacity to understand basic scientific evidence and think critically?
A person who lifted a food pic off the internet and lied that he cooked the food on a thread in the food section?
A hustler self proclaimed jack of all trades but unemployed master of none?
You, the professional Nland poster who also owns a wholesale and retail okrika shoe business, is a tracker, runs a writing service and sundry other fictitious businesses and has the time to post on Nland all day, everyday?
A person who is a demonstrated illiterate because only an illiterate uses dictionary words that have no bearing on the message when you are unsuccessfully trying to impress. Free tip - nothing screams illiteracy than improper use of “big” words
A person who heard about a fictitious $150k and promptly cast his lot with a convicted, unrepentant child rapist?
Same you who came on here to state that the trial transcripts are “confidential?”
Same you who disgraced yourself with that ultra-cringeworthy response to George Chidi which only served to highlight your embarrassing lack of social awareness and inability to understand basic sarcasm. Same you who has internet access but has no idea of the stature of that man in Georgia’s journalism circles?
You, a person that does not understand the implications of the FBI and GBI being part of this investigation? You think these are Ariara police and lawyers?
You, the person who would take on the mantle of online advocate for a person whose lack of good judgment and poor choices led him to life imprisonment after just 2/3 months in the US?
You, the person who does not have enough intelligence to know that collaborating, assisting a felon to break incarceration rules by posting stuff online could come back to haunt you?
Listening to you on this thread, is it any wonder US and Asian jails are filling up with your type? You think your village tortoise sense is superior to properly constituted justice systems?

Ogbeni, YOU are not in a position to give ME anything. There is nothing I can take from criminals and their associates. I simply have nothing in common with such people. God bless you.

armyofone:
@ MMotimo,

You are right - you keep your hands to yourself and leave that environment immediately you see trouble starting.

Now she will get criminal records that may screw up her career.

MMotimo:
Yup! Very avoidable foolishness

Uzomarrr123:
Try and watch the video …if na my daughter call person mama fool like that for public …I go slap am round 2 self

What nonsense

spyder880:
Tiles and paints are among the items I leave for my clients to decide the final choices, because them alone knows the reasons for each of their choices. You cannot fault the choice on a home owner, he may have reasons that we might never imagine for every decision.

I usually present all my clients with a very wide array of choices for them to choose from, my suppliers are always importing new things and we can bring in any design as fast as possible.

But, clients choice is sacrosanct.

bukatyne:


Will try it tonight.

Thanks

cococandy:
It’s what happens when the man doesn’t view himself as a co-parent. Rather he adopts the position of a dependent who has also has to be cared for by the wife and then feel ignored because the wife is caring for toddlers and infants more.
If he contributes equally to parenting the children, the wife won’t have to do everything herself and consequently will have time to tend to his needs as well. That way they can care for each other and their kids.
Wives aren’t meant to be pseudo moms for grown men. That’s the fastest way to kill romantic feelings between the couple

bukatyne:
@bold:

crackhaus:
I have watched the video.
I cannot have that kind of brother biko! Thank God for my genes...

Over here in Kentucky, we are a very proud people.

Wetin go make manchi go dey stay with a woman he's not married to in a house where she pays the rent (according to him, they've stayed in four different apartments and she has locked him out of three ).
It's obvious she pays the rent, cos no way on earth will she lock her fiancé out of apartments he paid/contributed rent for. Na juju?

What a silly person
And he was still not ashamed to record/post it...

The first time she locked him out, oga went back to stay.
Second time she did the same thing, he still went back to stay.

Nigga doesn't have pride at all.

He's the exact kind of feminized man modern women love anyway — a tool.

Make una carry am abeg...

armyofone:
I used to be like that. I hated the smell so much. I started trying it with carnation milk, little cold milk or parmalat.

I love it now. Best breakfast ever as it is filling. 1/3 cup or 1/2 cup of old fashioned Oat at breakfast no hunger till next time I eat lunch.

YangaBabe:
lol, e dey happen, people are sha different, nevertheless you can opt for something else like Golden morn, that one should suit you well. Plus, they are currently running a Heritage promo where to can land upto a million naira when you submit an empty sachet you have used. You should jump on this.

Afamed:
The same Okoro calling APC a boko Haram party, Are the same Okoro telling us that APC should zone her presidential ticket to SE.

The Confusion in okoro ehhhhh

MMotimo:
This Nland is literally filled with rapists, ndi Oyinbogoju.
Una patron saint is serving 3 life sentences +76 years in the US. When nemesis catches up with you, you start to proclaim false innocence shior!

https://www.nairaland.com/6789928/mistaken-identification#106511001

crackhaus:
This analogy is epic...