₦airaland Forum

Londonpraise:
It will close up at the right time always cover up the baby to avoid cold...
My baby's own closed up after a year and 2 months

It can take time. When my child's own started closing up, that spot was looking like a bump.
Shuuuu. That was what worried me.
Was told to let it be as it will even out. Didn't know when it did that.

Sure it can be frightening.

Favfables1:
I doubt you're a doctor...
Because no doctor ((unless the quark ones)) would prescribe an antibiotics without test...

And besides, you want to give "strong antibiotics" to a 2weeks old child just like that

OP PLEASE DONT FOLLOW THIS ADVICE O
Children usually have a depression like that on their head ((it appears to beat like a heart if you look at it)), buh it's usually not that deep ((the ones I've seen)), so please take that child to a hospital and clearify things...

Read her post very well.
Few people understood what she wrote there.
Or just move on.

This place eeh.

kettykin:
This is the grand father of them all. i still dont know why the east is not celebrating this fellow

Who told you the eat isn't celebrating him.
There are so many renowned people in the east.
They are just normal people who lived or lives quiet lifestyle. You hear more of politicians or political celebrities.

aribisala0:
There is no scientific basis for this
Neonates will be fine on exclusive breastfeeding and do not need water

Quite how exclusive breastfeeding will lead to dehydration is a mysterious NEW HYPOTHESIS

We have them all here. Researchers, professors and students

Mac12:
Talking from experience, there's absolutely nothing wrong with your baby. It will heal up on its on. Healing time differs in children. If you like, go do pass yourself.

Exactly. It's nothing serious really.

Uyi168:
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Okay, the staff at Anatomy department said the lady was brought to the mortuary dead without a death certificate from a doctor. The mortuary attendant before embalment claimed that he felt a pulse and the relatives started rejoicing that the lady has "resurrected". They were later referred to UBTH for confirmation and she was certified dead at UBTH.

the issue has been trashed and everyone has moved on.
so, Op, try calm down.

Thank you for the clarification.

Some have started fighting themselves already

Who is the biggest shareholder of GTBank?

Anything goes in this forum.
Kill one small snake, run and post and then front page.

Igbo news gives non igbos orgasm.

Beautiful nonsense

And it gets worst

He don't want to be rude again?

Mtcheew.

He almost lost everything due to stubbornness and yeye pride. Not to talk that he is a serial cheat.

Has he reconciled with his wife?
Arrogant fool

Kizzygentle:
They never leave once they have entered. If u like fumigate heaven and earth, it will only take one month max and they would return even in 2 folds.

That thing defies all treatments

docayo:
You are not serious at all. Your wife has menorrhagia following family planning procedure in a hospital and you come to Nairaland to seek for help? You neva start. You can as well go to the centre of a market to seek for help. Unserious human being.

You ended up not helping.
Sometimes people come online for advise from people who suffered from the same thing. To give them reassurance and hope.
Sometimes some good information can help you know where you are heading.
Nigerian Dr's don't explain things to patients. They won't tell you the possible outcomes when procedures like that are done.
Some Dr's don't know what they are doing. People end up here for explanations

You that even know the name, you want us to know you know a lot about it, why not simply reassure him and tell him to go to hospital again.

Mr I too know full of himself.

Mtcheew

Mood11:
Everything na women dey bear am
From menstruation to pregnancy now to family planning

It is well

At least you understand.
Also add taking care of the house and children.
And if something happens, she will be thrown out like a garbage.

Bobmarie:
Quite hypocritical. Human nature for you.

Don't mind him
Wives don't give money to their husbands.

When buhari tsunami started in Abuja, lots of men were laid off( construction workers)
I think it was seun that was taken care of those families.
Women that have built houses are not helping their husbands.
A woman can start selling pepper to make ends meet but a man will say its beneath him
Go to the various markets across Nigeria and interview the market women. You will be shocked.

Society isn't fair to women but it's changing. Go to the villages, you see men settle down playing drafts while their wives trade. These women have kids they solely take care of.

If Nigerian men continue with this, Nigeria will continue to rot.
Any country that maltreat the women and children don't progress.

cococandy:
That’s fine. not a bad arrangement based on how our society views marital roles and who’s supposed to do what. It’s actually more than appropriate. Maybe even generous on the woman’s part.

Until these guys are really ready for 50/50 they speak of.

My post is based on an ideal situation

Hmm, ideal situation for naija marriage
Nne, we are learning from the mistakes of those before us o

bukatyne:
But richer men give their wives random cash gifts: change your car, change your wardrobe, buy this diamond set etc. etc.

Why can't the OP gift her husband a new car or whatever toy that catches his fancy?

@OP:

A very complex issue.

This is where feminism, red pill and other ideologies fall flat under intense scrutiny.

Men & women don't think the same way and want same things.

Before someone comes to say that's how the men are brought up:

I am not disputing nurture however there must be something innate, natural that makes a significant number of romantic relationships where the women earns way higher an extreme sport. And this is across all races.

If the wife is not disrespectful, the husband's insecurities lets him see war everywhere while the in-laws are 100% certain that the man is emasculated.

The things the wife would get away with while poor becomes the most disrespectful thing ever and she has to bend backwards & stretch herself thin to keep peace.

This is where religion comes in: to subdue/kill that natural tendency to behave as the above.

From what I have read so far, it seems people have come to the conclusion richer wives don't help their husbands as much as richer husbands do.
The real fact is that a richer wife helps the husband a lot without emasculating him than richer husbands do to their wives.
A richer husband showering you with money and goods is all about power control. Subdue her with money. Then treat her as you want and get away with it.

2 married ladies who live close to my house in abj single handedly built their houses. See their husbands rides. I noticed that even though these lady have very expensive rides, their husbands ended up driving them. My immediate nebo trained the husbands nieces and nephews in higher institutions, helped secure work for some.
At a point, me that's still new in this game had to tell her to save for her child( she adopted a child at older age). The thing is that you will never hear women come out to say they were behind their husbands financial success, taking care of the house cos it takes away the man's pride and ladies love to protect their men's blokos. Because, the standard is man helping woman, it's assumed women don't. That they love their money too much.

People will be shocked at the number of women who house and feed their family yet the walk while their husbands drive cars bought by these women.

I'm so tired of people coming on here to bash women when we all know that these women can stoop so low, go extra miles to make things happen in their homes yet their men take all the glory.

swedbase:
Fake story. They would have noticed it when they were taking his finger prints before deportation. They couldn't see his database in the system?

U go fear nairaland

authority2006:
The truth is that he didn't have to choose, he should respect his wife for who she is. I can only see problem if the siblings come around and she doesn't want to see them near her home or husband. Are they going to be living with the siblings after marriage? No be to dey visit one another once in a while?
If the kidman is not interested in the relationship anymore, he should man up enough to say it.

BTW: most of the people on this forum are introverts, like 98% of us. That's why we are here most of the time because this is where we do our own talking.
Copy: Havilaah1

Exactly.
Guyman wan run.
See excuses.


Unless your guy have your back 100%, once you want to marry and start seeing things like this, run and never look back.
You will never have peace in that marriage.


Look at Peter okoye and his wife lola.
Had Peter not had her back, that marriage would have ended since.

This lady should be celebrated, not that Mr macaroni.
Without her live stream, we wouldn't have been here.

Heard of her for the first time because of this case.

She is the living hero of this endsars protest.

pocohantas:
And they are in constant communication with him too. The woman’s side typically puts more effort into making things work!

I am sure her mother calls him too.

How many times has his siblings and family called her? Did they call her and she didn’t pick? Do they know her own birthday? Omo, being a woman in a marriage is hard. You’ll see families that don’t even love themselves, they’ll want to use you and settle.

Entitlement disposition.
We are doingbher a favour.
We get am too much for naija.


Being a woman in marriage isn't hard.
It's choosing well.
Most times, financial gains cloud our judgements.

bukatyne:
@bold

I don't have time this morning.

My simple advise to OP:

RUN!

God will give you your man.

I wouldn't waste time running without looking back.
That marriage is a failure already before it has started.

It's painful.


Always marry whom you are compatible with.
It's not only sexual chemistry.

Broken relationship is better than broken marriage.
Yours will come.

Marriage never start and his family members don carry your matter for head like gala

I will run without looking back.
They have somebody they want him to marry and the guy isn't man enough. See as they are dragging a man for brokos

Adakintroy:
Na me de frustrated but na una de protest up and down. See how eye de turn una. Buhari never finished with una. Me am rugged. He no get wetin Nigeria wan throw at me..but you pussy nigers de cry like women up and down for small Nigeria mater.

My own be say. Macronni is a yansh peddling pyschopath. He should not be leading a prostest..let him use his art to send the right message to youths.. all of you idiotess absorbed yourself of any responsibilities to societies and place everythi g at the feet of politicians. Even the idoites wizkid will join and support protest with their useless yansh music.

Suffer never kill una. Them go shoot una like dogs. You go see them for bar for night de waiste money carry big yansh come de complain say country hard. Country hard and you de use iPhone. Hardship keep you there.

I needed to quote you.

I have watched some of his skits. Nothing except degrading women and guys will scream aaayeee.

In a civilised country, he will be in jail straight away.

He has no respect for women. Very disgusting skits you can't watch with your kids.
I watch brother shagi.
Do you see how he uses his skits to address everyday societal problems especially those in power?
That's what comedy skits should be.
Even if he want to yab some behaviours of women, it should be balanced like bro shagi does.

Seankhalifa:
d only way he can be a true hero... he should not contest for office... and help the voiceless fight for their rights

Do you believe that?

Let's sit back and watch.
By the way, I watched the video where he confronted policemen for extorting one guy so. Go and watch that video, this time concentrate only on Mr macaroni, then make your judgement.

Oduduwa707:
I really don't care abt Mr. Macaroni but, I must say I'm beginning to adore him. He's indeed a great guy! He's got integrity for real!

He also refused to ass-lick politicians (our usual oppressors) like the way the typical 9ja youths do. All those other stupid comedians that went to visit the V.P... it shall never be well with you all.

God bless him!

Nigerians are so easy to deceive.

He isn't the first, nor will be the last. He is smart with eye on the main goal.
Heroism is never part of Nigerian culture.
All self proclaimed heros have ulterior motives.
Study your history.

She must have been told to continue to endure, he will change.

Rydermaverick:
What do you mean by "fantasy drama"
Most of those stuffs you see are pranks man..
Religion ain't clashing with science it's just that most people are too quick to believe rather than do deep research..

They are labelled fantasy drama cos they are not true. Just imaginations of the writers. Just like batman spiderman.

Religion is seriously clashing with science.
If you live in the West, they have passed this phase long ago. Tell them this and they will laugh at you and move on. In 20 yrs times or more, less people will believe this.

Yeah, religion hinders development. No development without science especially in sub saharan Africa