Family › Re: I Just Found Out The Easiest Method To Keep Kids Calm For A While by descarado: 10:04pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
A child that can draw that is old enough to know that somebody sleeping should be left alone.
Training starts from the first day a child is born. Discipline your child properly. Discipline is not shouting, screaming or beating a child. |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by descarado: 8:25pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: Tell that to your father.. I don't know you and i never mentioned you, so don't come to my mentions with foolishness. Until you start reasoning like a man instead of a person lacking in self confidence, you will always get peoples attention including me. |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by descarado: 7:39pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: As long we live under the same roof she must be the one to cook... I can cook if i am alone. It's simple! See this one. When they say men come out, this one go join. Kekekekeke |
Family › Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by descarado: 7:31pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
pocohantas: If he is a professional or good at it, fine. Most (Nigerian) men are VERY clumsy in the kitchen. They take ages to cut ordinary onions. Mess up the whole place and are totally clueless on how to do many things at the same time in the kitchen. The sight of this infuriates me and I would rather I don’t see such. Not forgetting that the meal would most likely be basic at best.
Sounds sexist, I know. Men feel the same way about female drivers.
I would personally not have a problem with a man not cooking. The problem would be if/when he opens his mouth to say it is below him. Just like the ediot in the OP’s house. Here parents especially mothers failed woefully. Why can't a man cook for heaven's sake? Guys in my family both extended cook better than females. You must cook o. |
Culture › Re: Kayanmata: What I Observed At Abuja International Tradefair by descarado: 6:26pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
That trade fair is one of the greatest scam of the century. Have been there once yrs ago. I left in anger |
Crime › Re: 'How The FCID Kidnapped Me And Demanded N10 Million' by descarado: 6:09pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
I pity those who AIG no be their dad  |
Celebrities › Re: Mr Macaroni: VP's People Pushing The Agenda That I Didn’t Graduate (Pictures) by descarado: 12:49pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
oliverwrites: Nothing is excellent about his comedy. He is basically portraying women as some intimacy gadgets and it is sick that does bitchy girls ( who almost definitely are call girls ) allow themselves to be used for such nonsense.
I find him very irritating.
However, I do not agree with him not calling out yoruba leaders. They should be called out when they deserve to be but the motive should be right. I don't mind my father even be called out, if he deserves it. Call out anyone and everyone if they are working against our dear country. Thank you! This guy is the worst comedian ever. No respect for women. No creativity. I once blasted him on his page. He can't see brother shagi and emulate him. Wonder what people see in his contents. |
Travel › Re: Anambra International Airport To Commence Flight Operations October 21st: PICS by descarado: 11:40am On Oct 11, 2021*. Modified: 8:26pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
[quote author= post=106639900]Built without borrowing[/quote]Tell obiano to invite flavour and phyno for the opening ceremony. |
Travel › Re: Anambra International Airport To Commence Flight Operations October 21st: PICS by descarado: 11:36am On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Investment › Re: MTN Nigeria Offer ₦90 Billion Bond For Sale by descarado: 8:25am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Buharinomics lso affected MTN. It's alright. |
Education › Re: Popular Uganda Pastor Jailed For Raping At Least 13 Male Pupils (Photos) by descarado: 6:47am On Oct 11, 2021 |
At least sentence was served. In Nigeria, nothing will happen |
Romance › Re: Was I Too Fast In Defining The Relationship? by descarado: 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
bestman09:
 I don't know where this borrowed custom and tradition is taking us to. I'm married for over 20 years now with 2 of my children in the university.
I met my wife and proposed to her in less than 2 weeks in 1999 and today we are still together. Some people spent years courting and the marriage never lasted. My parents marriage was over 50 years before they went to be with the Lord and they didn't court for a week before getting married.
Courting doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.
@Op, look for a serious lady and leave kids alone Some guys will meet a lady and go straight to proposal after observing her from afar. So many marriages have been contracted this way Lol at leave kids alone  You dey vex o |
Education › Re: Brutal Flogging Of Students: Kwara Govt Opens Probe, Suspends Madrasa Leader by descarado: 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
favour32: That flogging is not unusual. Such barbaric acts are very common all over Nigeria especially in the North. Serious  I mean how can people lay their frustrations over life on another like this? |
Education › Re: Brutal Flogging Of Students: Kwara Govt Opens Probe, Suspends Madrasa Leader by descarado: 6:56pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Charles Awuzie: Religion In Nigeria Feasts On Poverty, Lack Of Functional System by descarado: 6:49pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Limassol: pardon his ignorance... Most people don't realise that inequality exist in many countries. In Abuja and other major Nigerian cities, can you tell us how many minutes it takes them to come? In Abuja I know that ambulance don't function at all. The few they have are not fully equipped. Swallow your pride folks and say it aloud that nothing is working in Nigeria except corruption and religion which is also an arm of corruption |
Politics › Re: Charles Awuzie: Religion In Nigeria Feasts On Poverty, Lack Of Functional System by descarado: 6:44pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
OgunLaakaye: It will take you less than 5 minutes to locate a church or mosque in Nigeria  Reality. |
Family › Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by descarado: 6:30pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Funny lots |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by descarado: 4:35pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
kangminhyuksho: Lmao that excuse is so stale. The people getting married also have obsessed fans and they don't have 2 heads. These ones are not ready or just haven't found their "one" Hmm, few get married early o. I use to watch 2 days and 1 night. Learnt a lot from the cast. One episode talked about this. The numbers were so much. They fizzle out as soon as they marry. Very few remain popular and they work their ass off to remain at the top. Look at the popular ladies. You think no marriage proposals? Fans will just hate them. Don't know how those people reason. Some are 40yrs and counting. The name marriage scares them. Do you watch ask us anything? Issues like this come up regularly. |
Phones › Re: My Wife Was Robbed Of Iphone 11 Yesterday In Lekki. How Can I Track It? by descarado: 4:27pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Tpave: It has been recovered. Thanks Congrats. When you have big phone, get a substitute. All these small phones. They will steal and sell very cheap. What do they know |
Phones › Re: My Wife Was Robbed Of Iphone 11 Yesterday In Lekki. How Can I Track It? by descarado: 4:24pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
There are rules of survival in Nigeria. People should learn that.
A bit hard when all we do is show the world we have arrived. Tueh.
Hope you find it. |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by descarado: 3:52pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
kangminhyuksho: Lmao the thing that happened to yunho has also happened to Choi Jin hyuk lol, I'm pretty sure it's not going to affect his career in the Long run even though he's been dropped from the variety show he's hosting for now. Anyway all I have to say is if these oppas don't want to get married, can they at least order their girls for some home service or at least go to hostess bars that don't flout covid rules. Aigoo how hard is that? *Sigh*
*Currently watching*: hometown Cha Cha Cha, lost Song of the day: tomorrow will be better day - Lee Sung kyung They want to get married. It's their obsessed fans. Just finished police University. All, ticked excellent. Enjoyed it till the end. My best character is the professor cum detective CTH, Seems like it's an ensemble of idols. Hmm, they are seriously taking over all aspects of k entertainment and they are doing well. I saw this naija father Korean mum model in one drama so. Finally, South korea is opening up to the outside world. You can't expect the world to love k entertainment when you don't open up to people with diverse background to be part of u. Sam okere comes to mind. |
Family › Re: Should I Cut-off My Parents? by descarado: 12:23pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Workch: when this wanted to happen in my family, I looked my dad in the face and made him understand that his children including me are his responsibilities and he can’t make me his retirement plan. I can only help when it’s convenient for me. I didn’t choose to be born, he made the decision @op, listen to this wise saying. Respect man. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Heavy Makeup Bad For Christians? by descarado: 11:36am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Of all the things  |
Health › Re: Kenyan Man Burns His House, Digs His Own Grave And Commits Suicide (Photo) by descarado: 9:12pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Mental challenge that was totally ignored |
Celebrities › Re: Obi Cubana Defeats Elumelu, Makinde, Others To Clinch 2021 Man Of The Year by descarado: 7:51pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Eziokwu  |
Family › Re: Is It Okay To Beat Your House Help? by descarado: 4:16pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
MufasaLion: You're right also but some humans are naturally greedy and wicked. Recently, a very close friend of mine was narrating how their house maid did some terrible things meanwhile she was never beaten, nor maltreated. She had access to the kitchen, sitting room e.t.c.
She was just like a member of the family. During the BBNaija show she would watch it till midnight and was very free to do things. This is someone that they wanted to sponsor to the University. I must also say she had a well furnished room to herself (A.C inclusive).
See, some housemaid are just greedy, wicked and selfish. So because she is a househelp, she can't watch BBN? The children of the so called family are all Saint? So because they want to sponsor her to university, she can't be human again who has errors? Is that your friend perfect? See pride and arrogance. If that girl is her or his sis, child etc, he or she will first of all train that girl to behave well with patience but nay, get angry and tell whoever have ear that the house girl is greedy with nasty behaviour. Why will you have househelp in the first place if not laziness and proud spirit. Do anybody need husehelp in Nigeria to survive? It's poverty and giving birth to many that make people send their kids away to become househelp |
Career › Re: Would You Tell Your Spouse Of Salary Increase by descarado: 1:09pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Everybody here is claiming married or working when we know more than 90% of them are jobless. When you start working and in marriage for a least 5 yrs, you will be qualified to air your view on this matter. |
Fashion › Re: Women Who Wear Beads, Small Ones, On Their Waist. Who Are They? by descarado: 10:30am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Beads has been as old as metusalah in igboland and some African countries too. Caucasians or white just borrowed it.
So remove those pictures. That's how they always ascribe everything to white man when we know they stole most from diff countries the enslaved Mtcheew Yeah, men find it sexually stimulating down here. The way men in the North found some drawings sexy and alluring on their women's body.
Like tattoo, they all originated from Africa, now Africa man said tattoo is sin while oyibo man has embraced tattoo. What a world we live in.
Tattoo according to our dear pastors is sin. Mbok
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Fashion › Re: Women Who Wear Beads, Small Ones, On Their Waist. Who Are They? by descarado: 10:24am On Oct 09, 2021*. Modified: 7:32pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abagworo: Traditional African fashion Thank you. They don't watch period and costume movies? In igbo, its called jigida. My mum told me that when a woman come of age in the olden days, they take them to a woman who specialises in grooming them to motherhood and wife duties. They adorn them with uli( tattoo) and waist bead the day they will bring them out to the public to see them. I think it's after some months. After that procedure, they now marry. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by descarado: 10:15am On Oct 09, 2021 |
cococandy: Just don’t remove the condom after you both already agreed on protection.
No one is punishing you.
Y’all really hate to regard your sexual partners as equal humans who you have to respect their wishes.
It’s not that hard. Here, even if condom tear, you are in soup. Buy good condom. Even going raw and promising to use withdrawal method but failed, prison loading. A colleague( married man) said he printed out that part of the constitution and kept on his night lamp stand. Wifey isn't happy about it but he said he don't care  He is just being careful. Sense will not kill that man  I didn't even know such law exist until an acquaintance was invited by the police. I asked on uk thread and asked some male colleagues. They said that's the number one thing that sends black male immigrants to prison cos they thought its the same as in Africa where most time, the man does what he want in bed with a woman without her consent. Mbok |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by descarado: 10:05am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Hangulsaram: Sorry my Sister I’m just trying to learn and not in support of that because that is betrayal to me. So my question is how does that act equate to rape instead of betrayal or breach of agreement? In uk, that is the first thing a nigga will tell you to beware of when you land if he like you. Consent is the watchword. Don't ever pour inside without her consent, even if she is your wife, condom tear is not of the judges problem, you are heading to prison. The West is not Nigeria. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by descarado: 10:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Do you know the meaning of rape or you just want to chase clout?
It was consensual sex but he was wrong to have torn the condom. His crime is different from rape.
You people should stop misusing the word. An acquaintance of mine is presently in soup cos of this in uk. Yes, it's RAPE. They were going raw and at a point she told him not to pour inside buy guy couldn't hold it and poured everything inside. When he broke the relationship, the lady(english) reported him. Court case loading. Even when your wife say don't pour inside and you do, welcome to prison my dear if she reports you. Sex act should be consensual till the very end. Gone are the days women are plaything to men both married. You don't use condom, you have to live with the consequences, you pour inside, mbok |