₦airaland Forum

Vulcanheph:
My brother, food has now become so expensive in this country that the things we used to consider normal before have now become a luxury.... Whoever the Op's husband is , that man is a lucky man for meeting a woman who is understanding and supportive during this dreadful Buhari's era.

I rest my case.

Thank you!
See as idiots are insulting her.
Maybe they want her to come begging here or look for one man to bankroll her then insult her and all women join.
This is how most women are. When push come to shove, they will go extra mile to bring food to the table. And the funny thing is that in this era, More are putting food on the table through small small hussling. Lots of men have lost their jobs and its easier for women to sell pepper or groundnut than men.
She just won me over.

ahnie:
Sweetie please save your breathe...na people like him sleeps with peoples wife's.
He has been brainwashed.

Gosh

U won't kill me o.


You are right. Fear people wey dey form too Holy. E get why.

Well done my sister and may the works of your hand multiply exceedingly. You are the type God uplifts.

ABCthingx:
Actually healthcare related works are understandable because they render 'essential' services.
Ask yourself, if she didn't trade today would she had die?

This nairaland you use, the owner is working for you to come online this morning and form righteous

She made a breakthrough today and that is what matters and we are happy for her. Be happy for her too abi is this not what Christianity is all about?

The same Christian Bible said don't judge so who are you to judge her if not a hypocrite.

Can all these happening be because of the on coming governorship election?

What do you want to do?

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, abeg no vex jare

How can I vex for you
How you dey over there?

ABCthingx:
Opening your shop on Sundays isn't something you should brag about let alone bring online for some cheap social media justification.

You know, I have never seen people who live in la la land like Nigerian Christians especially the team born again.
You get home and put on your electricity but you forget somebody was there all day keeping everything intact so you will have electricity

Emergency happens on sunday morning and u rush to the hospital to meet pagans.
I do wish you lots look the meaning of hypocrite in the dictionary.

crackhaus:
Basically...

Not, honestly

AngelicBeing:
Any god or godess, religion or religious founder that calls or depends on its followers to fight for him or her is a useless god and I spit on the face of that useless god

You dey oceans away dey spite
I hear you

crackhaus:
By the fourth or fifth time, he would have gotten used to that blackmail and not fall for it anymore.

You really think you can keep withholding sex for the over 40year duration that you plan to stay married, and still expect it to keep working every time?

40years is even tooo long... After year 5, nobody will tell you to start looking for more practical methods for resolving marital conflicts.

Withholding intimacy is not the best way to solve marital conflict from one party but do you know that men do it a lot too?
Shocking, right?


That aside, I presently have an acquaintance whose wife was constantly doing this until he said enough is enough. Like joke like joke, it's now on the level of my lawyers will tell you when to see the kids. Guy has moved to another city.
I didn't hear from the wife and it seems the guy wasn't forthcoming too when I started digging deep and I have washed my hands off the matter. The wife was his first and only woman and he said he simply can't continue without having sex. (Wife denies him if she can't have her ways, that's cruel) But the way he is going about it with his heart instead of brain will destroy him.

That guy is making a very great mistake. Fellow guys here have told him but all that's in his mind is sex.

udele1:
The same if brewing in the east.

Sarrki, wonder why people don't recognise you.

As soon as I read some of your posts, sardine was the name that showed in front of me.

You still can't change the way you write.

The same 2014/15,

They will soon give this one serious warning.

Nigerians who are politicians in uk and us has since zipped their mouths.


We come here and jubilate when they are elected into offices. Even go ethnic about it. How far people?
Do they know you exist?

The only good thing about buhari govt is that Nigerians will think twice before giving birth like rabbit
Those in the North included.

Ashirioluwa:
I read online about 2 or 3 Nigerian women over 60 years old that gave birth naturally. I don’t really believe the stories because it is very easy to buy babies in Nigeria

Fumi desalo void got pregnant through ivf at 58.

As long as you have the money, it's possible.

But I agree to the miracle ones we hear everyday in churches. They don't just buy, they also steal. Baby factories.

The older the man too. Some no dey rise up again at 35.
Mbok.

It should read" families"not necessarily mothers.
You guys never learn.

It's as old as Nigeria. As long as some personalities like traditional rulers, politicians an even religious men are given slots, they are up for the lucky populace

What nonsense

And this man is still walking free?

Karlman:
So what exactly am I supposed to do now so as to make sure I fulfill my cultural obligation without having to jeopardize my life and peace7
Solution is what I want to hear that is why I brought up this my issue here.

If it's your dad? Will you attend?

All these nairaland stories.

NoToPile:
He was going that line of not attending in one of his posts hence my comment, it would be quite bad for him not to attend, he shouldn't say because he can't fulfil the financial rites he would stay away.

K. Sorry if I appear rude. Not intended.

I wil like to know too. Never knew you need consent to do that.

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Adoption is never easy in Nigeria.
Most adoption houses are using stolen children.

Kobojunkie:
There are laws in Nigeria that basically give custody to the man who raised the child, in marriage,
over its biological father.

They are very naive and sentimental.
In my place, constitutionally, any child born inside marriage belongs to the husband. Period.
You see, constitution recognised as of old that someone can't father a child, some will ask their riend or family member then to do the do for them, these days, they will tell the wife to go and where as long as they don't know.

That's why, you know as a man that Mr so so and so son is yours but you have no legal claim over that child even if you later marry and is childless.

Also, a child that is born out of wedlock in which the father refused to acknowledge by paying pride price, after that child is born, you are on your own.
The constitution backs that child as belonging to the woman's family.

Some will tell you federal law supercedes these customary laws but without them there is no federal laws. Nigeria recognises each epoples traditional laws and what work for some may not work for others.

Also, especially in igboland, women go outside to get pregnant to save face first and the husband battles whatever problem he is having if it is curable cos of pressure and the fact that she don't want to expose her husband and sometimes it's the husband who suggest this. Most of these children will come online to rant anyhow.
They should grow up first and face real life.

What a country

NoToPile:
I understand your point as culture varies but I think its better to attend without doing anything financially than not attending your in-laws burial. Even if your people don't come with you, attendance is important.

Why will he not attend his inlaw burial?
If it's his father,will he also not attend?
What nonsense in the name of no money or is this a jinx as usual to start demonising as usual?

cococandy:
I’m suspecting these folks are igbo. I still don’t know why we go overboard on funerals when the family is grieving and should be extended a hand of help and sympathy. Rather, the community wants to use that opportunity to extort them. This part of our culture has never been acceptable to my spirit.

If one in-law is expected to bring goats (multiple) how many are the others then expected to bring and how much in total are they expecting from this one family? To whose benefit? Did any of them even give a hoot about the man while he was alive? Now he’s dead they want to be dined and wined by his hurting and grieving children.

Extravagant funerals should be done only if that’s what the nuclear family wants for their father and whomever amongst them that wants it badly should be the one to pay for it. You shouldn’t be mourning your dead family member and also stressing about not having money to entertain community people.

Not only igboland.
Except core North, its the same all over Nigeria.

Also, in some igbo families like mine and village, they have stopped extravagant funeral. Its mainly the married daughter that make this very difficult for her husband and his people cos she want to show she married into rich family or her husband is not araldite.
If a married woman insist that this is what she and her husband will bring to the table, that is the end of the story.
It's not in any written constitution actually. People continue to add and add and it just became the tradition. Ask for the constitutional phamplet and they will start stuttering.
Benue(idoma) is worst than igboland. Your father while alive will tell you that you must kill 5 cows for him when he dies. You see sons will start saving for cow money 10 or 20 yrs while daddy still dey alive.

Illumined9933:
2015, 2016, when the Nigerian Army killed unarmed ipob protesters like they were sub animals, the children of satan celebrated on nairaland. Now, the Esn guys are haunting same Army guys ,and they now understand that they can be killed in the east.

They now fear. And this fear our esn has created within them is very important for us.

See the way they killed shiites, that would have been our fate if not that they now understand that we are now dangerous.

Read my first reply to this post

It didn't come out well so I had to quote you again

[quote author=Illumined9933

See the way they killed shiites, that would have been our fate if not that they now understand that we are now dangerous.[/quote]The way you guys do cho cho cho online depicts lack of emotional intelligence
You talk unguarded. One of the reasons people are very afraid to associate with you online
How old are you guys? Learn how to talk intelligently cos majority of you rope your organisation into serious mess. You don't represent ibop in law court or internationally. Some well crafted professionals do
Why not make their work easier for them by arguing intelligently rather than this childish tantrums you all display all over social media or you think they are not part of information gathering by those that want to crush you.

You guys need to grow up. That your leader talk anyhow doesn't mean you can talk anyhow. You want freedom, you don't get it by admitting you can now kill soldiers online. No country, I repeat, no country or organisation will back you.
Tuah

Andy uba with the federal backing.
Hmm.

This guy was close to going to jail before he liased with buhari and his people to mortgage anambra if they should spare him.
He owe billions and can do anything to lay his hands on free money. Was he not the same man singing Jonathan's praise not long ago?


We vilify FFK but this man here is worst than him.
I pray he lose and fulani govt will abandon him.
Anambra will deal with him. He is very inconsequential.

sisisioge:
OMG! How did a saddist get into the UK police? Look how he cut a beautiful life shot! Wow! How very sad!

We have so many sadists in the Nigerian police force.

The police hq will comfortably bury this matter without further investigation if fingers point towards one of them or outrightly deny it.

This man here will be seen by a team of psychologists and his life starting from childhood will be thoroughly examined and written down for study and teaching purposes in the future.

The WHY must be established by experts.

What did this man do to them eeh