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Janemena case don close. Its tiwa today, tomorrow it will be tonto and Kpokpogarri.

Gossip is addictive like wine and women.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Bullocks!

Why should he go back to the people who rejected him at first? What for?

Shameful.

Whenever you quote me, be civil. Don't mistake me for some people.
Or, don't quote me at all.

advanceDNA:
They are refusing the guy outrightly ...they are not telling him to marry their daughter and and enroll in a school..

How can u tell a guy to go for a four year course b4 coming back to ask for a woman's hand in marriage....it's unheard of..

Men marry women and then send them to school....that's different ....

.but refuse someone just becos he's not a graduate is awful.....
If the guy were rich like a footballer ...they won't even think of his education...many footballers don't have degrees until later..besides the guy sdt say upgrading isn't good...he only said he's not doing it just because a family thinks he's not worthy of their daughter.... And if u think the same...u are just as shallow as the girl's family

They just don't like the guy.. SSCE was just a disgracing excuse...

You guys don't get it.
If a prospective inlaw rejects you based on what you can easily achieve, go and get it.

It's a norm all over the world. Parents have demanded for worst.

I can see that most of u have systematically shifted the whole blame to the girl. Girls bend go and bend.

What's hilarious about this?
They pay prayer warriors

AngelicBeing:

My brother things dey happen o.
How can one video lovemaking?
I thought all these na gossip gossip as usual.

advanceDNA:
So he should go for a 4 year bsc at 36...u people should be realistic abeg...
Will the girl wait for another 4 years..

It's not about SSCE...they just don't like the guy...SSCE is just the annoying excuse they could find...

If graciousgod190 is very rich....his certificate would never have come at all... It would have been a case of bwing impressive for acheiving so much without a degree..

Which kind yeye family is that...

If you go to onitsha, most of the traders there are schooling. Yes. They want to level up to the society standard.

He should go to school.
It is a criteria.
Ladies have done worst for the men they love.
Where I am, a guy I know very well abandoned his betrothed after this babe paid more than half of the asking price for international students with all her life savings for him. Initially, it was my babe, my babe, next is if I ask how is your babe at home, he will say forget that. This was a babe he has allowed me face time with her.
Guy is not ready to go back to Nigeria.
Busy courting oyibo babes here and there.

Girls have defied their parents and took in, eloped, went to live with their men when parents said no.
Some girls from very rich family has stooped so low to marry guys that didn't even finished college.
The first daughter of whiz oil, a very very rich man married one guy that came to her fathers place to look for menial job.

Let me hear pls. When it comes to a man stooping low for the ladies they love, we will start hearing stories.

So there was one really?


I give it to these people.

GraciousGod190:
i chosed the latter, as soon as I heard it.
thanks

You never loved her.
No need. Move on

This is the Nigerian system we are talking about.
You just integrate yourself into the system
Many traders went to outreach programmes. It's not even serious. Mostly weekend.
Why didn't you do that.
Sometimes money isn't enough.

Sometimes, so.e families will reject wife to be simply because of this except she is a student.

Go and enrol into the nearest school close to you.
Afterall orji uzo kalu become a graduate as a governor. Money isn't enough in this case.
When you enrol, go back again and meet them. They won't say no.
Unless you find the girl not worth fighting for. In that case, I will say, move on.

Most business men in onitsha are graduates.
Nigeria especially igbo value higher institution although we have chunks of graduates without work every year.

helinues:
Alaye, save us the epistle and stop spamming the threads..

Why posting health related issue on politics section..

No choice but to post this as to address that poster.


I can see her posts are hidden. I went through some of her posts. She is always ready to insult anybody who disagree with her like she did up there.
No wonder the mods keep hiding her posts. All the medical reports posted, she hid her name. Who takes such serious especially in this present day Nigeria. Maybe, hiding her name is more important than her health.

So because he is from redeemed Church, we no go hear.
Hundreds have been " struck dead" since the inception of this ugm, add thousands killed by fulani bandits and hunger. Is he different from them?
Make we here abeg.

Kobojunkie:
How can I access them please?

Go to your village. That's the only way you can get access to them.
I happened to sit on one excruciating deliberation between our kinsmen and maiden chapter. Enough stuffs written down as I was the then sec.
It took more yrs before it was added to the main constitution. Even though its not yet added, it can be acted upon as it has been deliberated on and the relevant groups said aye.
I think they do constitutional review every few yrs, write down what popular opinion is, some yrs later, they publish new constitution. It's real democracy.

If a maiden is reported for violating any law, the law and its penalty will be read out before her.
I don't know how it's done in other places.

DEMZEE:
It's biology. Women can't serve two masters. They can't serve two dicks, it's their innate biological makeup.

That's why women and men cheat differently

It is well.
There are some cultures where women marry more than one husband.
Have you heard of polyandry?
Some part of Northern Nigeria practice polyandry in the olden days. Tibet, small fraction of India etc still practice polyandry.

Internet is also a great teacher.

Kobojunkie:
Majority of our forefathers were not rich or wealthy in any way. I remember my own grandfather was not a particular rich man but he had two wives because he wanted more children.

Traditional laws as far as marriage remain, in most cases, as handed down and in many of these laws, women are considered property of their husbands, so also their children. So it not really in a woman's interest to be married by those very laws as the risks are extremely high that she will be deprived a share in properties from the marriage is the case of dissolution, divorce or abandonment.

Traditional laws are actually written down. Well detailed and segmented. Always deliberated on and amended regularly. We have what we call kinsmen constitutions.
Each kinsmen constitutions collectively make up village constitution which brings about the town constitution

Watched the video where he went to electrical line in alaba.
Guys pursued him chanting kanu we know.
Now he has remembered kanu.

Very funny video.

Pray he don't win.
He reminds me of ffk and shettima

Why won't they have free hand to shoot and overun communities as they like when all the security apparatus are in South East looking for grand parents and kids to kill and label ipob.

As long as east remained a conquered zone, all is well.

Laughter will be ours in the end.
Freedom takes years of patience, bloodbath and agitation to materialise but eery second always lead to victory.
Refer to early civilization to 21st century.

Davash222:
She's 5 and she's a Baby.


If she's not comfortable with that, tell her to start calling them Orobo when next they call her a Baby.

Exactly.

At that age, children are already trying to be bullies. Tells more about the homes they come from

If they call her name, she should give them a befitting name too. They will stop. The only thing you need to teach her is never to fear them.
As long as she is confident, have no fear. Nobody will bully her. They will be best of friends in the future. It always end that way.

If I'm to marry today, I will not do wedding.

Once I've done the one recognised by my culture and the law, I'm good to go.
Wedding is clout chasing.

effort1:
Sirjamo, mannabbgrills, Tinubuadvocate, madridguy, can you pray that God should handle your life the way Buhari is handling Nigeria?

Every evil you defend will haunt you, all of you. Your children will also eat the fruit of your wickedness to full measure.

Those ones get erection at the mention of anything igbo and kanu.

Even if their family members are suffering, they won't care. That's how praise singers are. Nigerians are suffering and smiling people

Lamasta:
Go and ask your uncle he's at the best position to explain to you

Exactly.

You would have learnt a life lesson from your uncle. Not random posts by people who doesn't wear the shoe.
See as the guy is dissecting his uncles family here.

Before being Nigerian police, they were first of all Nigerians.
So their behaviour is just as an average Nigerian with small power will do out there.

And this man will be released eventually.
No be naija again

After all the problems u men have caused Nigerians, your problem is office of the first lady.

Na so. I dey hear you.
How I wish office of the first lady is among Nigerian problems

jesusjnr2020:
It's because it's always been up to the children to choose which path they would take at the end of the day, regardless of the training the training they received.

They cannot be forced just like God didn't force Adam and Eve, but just showed them the right path, and made them know the consequence of not taking it, so it would be up to them to choose it or not.

God bless.

I disagree with you.
These parents are very rigid. Children are very vulnerable when growing up. Parents need to be their friend but instead, they are quoting the bible and forcing some people's doctrine on their nose. Your kids need you to simply be their parents.
Your positive attitude towards them will draw them to you and you integrate them into Christian lifestyle slowly and surely simply with your examples. A child that his dad is a medical Dr want to be so cos of what he has seen his dad do as a Dr.
Nigerian religious leaders are very patriarchal, very rigid and unapologetically stubborn. They hardly apologise as they feel they are above mistake. Ordinarily, a Nigerian adult don't apologise to his kids. He will become less man or woman. Children are left to make their own choices then. Let's not forget the condemnation and hell fire for any bad thing the child do instead of correcting the child with love.

Simple.
Cos being godly to them is being rigid, unemotional and attentive to your kids who are vulnerable and need you to be their friend when growing up.
Nigerian bran of Christianity tire person

Klass99:
Lol , this drama just gets more and more interesting.

But the part in bold was not Tonto's business or story to tell. She's a real b... for doing that.

Because she was exposed and publicly embarrassed, she felt the need to go down with someone else.

That was a malicious move on Tonto's part and I don't blame people who drag her up and down social media.

Tonto is evil. Why mention her name.
She is trying too much.
Life is not competition.
So she knew this man has stuffs like this and was publicly kissing and praising him?

Until I see video, I don't believe voice notes. Anybody can doctor it.

Caseless:
I've always said it, if your wife flaunts her sexiness online, she's inwardly looking for attention of other men. I mean, "They'll tell you that doesn't mean she's a hoe, it doesn't mean she's courting other men, she's trying to impress her husband(most dumb excuse of all) " etc. If it walks like a duck, "squeak" like a duck, then it's a duck. If you do like a LovePeddler online, you are likely to do it in private.

Exactly.

Also if you all you talk about online is how hushpupi, obi cubana, e money etc are balling online. The chances that you are a yahoo yahoo is more than 100% and you can do anything for money.

pocohantas:
I think that particular lady (Merit) is Kpokpogarri’s pîmp, because he is always telling her who he fcked or is about to fck.

Jane’s problem was not knowing when to retire and when to shut up. Mercy Johnson used to be pretty wild back in the days, but she got married and became No1 submissive woman, Nigerian standard. Nigerian men forgave her of all her sins immediately. No be she dey with her husband and 4 kids now? She done turn role model for career wives sef.

Even if Jane’s husband doesn’t have sense. Even if he is the greatest simp in the world, Jane should have known pressure would keep coming till that marriage sinks. She should have had some respect for her husband. But no, she wanted to show us her husband is a supportive modern man.

How market now?

They have settled this when this Jane made a 360 detour and triple dared tonto to release the audio.
I read video dey too.
Toor

Yes, I agree. Mercy Johnson is now a role model

Tonto makes her money through controversies. She should have not mentioned Jane's name but send her coded message.

Stop watching Nollywood

PROUDIGBO:
This reminds me....they’re yet to pick a name for the airport!

The Governor shouldn’t be tempted to name it after himself...that appears too conceited. Either choose a outstanding son of the state like Prof Chinua Achebe, or leave it for the next incoming Governor, who could even name it after him if he so wishes!

I prefer Dora Akunyili Airport. To tell the world good people of anambra loved her and her husband. I wish.