₦airaland Forum

Lovely traditional attire.
We have westernized ours

Mariangeles:
That gif

That is.
Have been laughing non stop .

Jaqenhghar:
Say no more

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This make my day

Ishilove:
Not many people can afford real gold, you know

I know.

diplomat058:
you don't know the foundation of the Effium crisis. I am yoruba and I served in Effium. That upstairs in ruins was where I used to play bet9ja at a shop. The 'perry investment' shop was actually a PoS Shop. I feel very sad seeing this. Most of the my students and their families have been displaced, and just last week, I heard the news of the probable death of one of my former colleagues at a school there. I served from 2019-2020.

The crises is about Land. Effium are the supposed indigenes, but the Ezza people have immigrated over the years and outnumbered and dominated the indigenous effiumites. Also, the Effiumites are not Igboid, and this is one of the factors instigating the Ezza who are apparently an Igbo subgroup against them. Effium language is not intelligible with the central Asusu Igbó at all. They are said to have migrated from Cross River in the olden days.

I believe the first step in resolving the crises is to declare a state of emergency in the place. It has gone past inter-ethnic rivalry into a full blown genocidal war. They may explore the option of 2-community solution by demarcating the Land, just as being proposed in Israel between Israel and Palestine. Indeed, I doubt if peaceful coexistence will be possible after this crises. This is the third war they are fighting over land since 1999, so I heard.

Very indepth.
Land, land, land.

If Umuneri and Aguleri can fi d peace and co existence, these two communities can.
At least the former were fighting over something which is massive oil deposit in the affected land.
What are these ones fighting for?

Umuneri and Aguleri was the bloodiest inter community war in igboland I guess spanning for yrs.

After the war, boys recruited by both sides found themselves in higher institutions in the east and that was how cultish escalated in the east.

Men and power.

Ishilove:
The ring dey cause heat rashes

If it's fake gold or substandard gold. Most of the so called gold in our market are substandard and people don't check labels before buying. They dont even know what to look out for.

Real gold or diamond are very costly.

Just a ring. Nothing more. Wedding ring won't stop adultery. Some guys get off on married women while some babes are on the lookout for sugar daddies.

shizzleStar:
The major challenge we have is the presence of sellouts and cursed fools amongst us. Ngeneukwuenu Ojiofor jrusky to mention but a few

Everybody both family members have sell outs.

But when you love yourself exclusively, you start seeing others as a stepping stone to where you are going.
Hate the fulanis but despite their political affiliation, all fulanis are one with one goal which is conquer Nigeria. And they are doing everything possible to actualize that dream by using others as their ladder.

The worst thing to call anybody, even your enemy is a failure

Igbo love yourselves only.
The hatred is very real. On and off line.

Mind your biz. Let your right hand Not know what your left is doing.

armyofone:
Soul sister
Have a blessed and pleasant day!

You too

mariahAngel:
For real?

*Group photo

Hear it comes

Why did we allow them access to our lands in the south in the first place? How did this happen?

armyofone:
I'm Sagittarius


haha
good morning.

Oh lala
I am sag too

You choose a partner with this, you are gonna be highly disappointed dear

First and foremost is communication.

Flexibility


Then attraction.


Others follow.

When your marriage is 15 to 20 yrs, then you will understand the power of communication and flexibility in sustaining marriage( true marriage)

Or rather ask elderly couples what kept them going

Kind ko and smart ni

To each his tent

One of the footballers I like

They should have said something like 1238 prosecuted and 359 jailed to make it look real.

If you wanna lie, make it look believable

mariahAngel:
Do you know that you have the same vibe as armyofone?

You both remind me of each other

Seriously

Maybe she is my sis from another mother

Flavour know how body be am.

Tuface is now a motivational speaker.

Imaginary billions will finish one day.

Girls still don't learn.

It's the poor kids that one day will wanna kill one another over inheritance that I pity.

gbami:
Let me guess.. you are not married.
When you get married and he can't provide make sure you remember me.
Guys listen. From a married man. Marriage no be fantasy island o. It is reality. Nobody expects you wife to contribute a penny in marriage unlike relationship. You go get High BP if you can't provide basic stuff for your family. Reality is different from "20 ways to make marriage work" written by one single woman.
If you can't provide basic for yourself and another person...no marry. Guys, Stand up, Draw your ears..Repeat after me.. "If I no fit provide basics for myself and another person, marriage motivators leave me". You can now sit down guys.

Incredible

Basemann:
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Epic
You just captured it

armyofone:
Garri dey cause constipation. After that meal, whether he fit release number 2 is the quality assurance question before we copy/try that food and ask for recipe.
DenreleDave, tell us true - purge or consti ?

Oh my gawd
This guy have suffered.
Didn't see your post.

mariahAngel:
Garri and banana with milk?

...and you no purge?

Does this make one purge?
The garri will absorb all the water inside his tummy na. So constipation mbok

Nigerians and drinking garri is like 5 and 6.

crackhaus:
Cool story, but as it was said in the old testament:

Amos 3:3 (King James Version)
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?


The lady in your story made it easy for the guy to do everything he did. She probably most certainly never made him feel less of a man despite.

Descarado, note that my comment above is purely in response to your story... nothing to do with the OP.

Personally, I am much too proud to live permanently with any woman that I am/was dating... in her own house... a house she's paying rent for... Hah!!!
I don't know how any of these men do it, I can't be comfortable lai lai.

Any thing more than a month is even classified as "permanently" in my mind... yet some men are able to quit their jobs, drop their previous lives, and move in with a woman (a woman) only to end up staying months, some staying years...

It's not normal

You are absolutely right. That lady is a gem. How I live my life today as an adult and a married woman is shaped by 3 ladies, her, my sis( cousin but I call her sis) and one of my cousin's wife. And I never regretted learning from them.

People's annoyance wwith the guy was what he called her. Made him look like he was an opportunist. He may have lied to boast his ego. You know how it is and projected false identity. There is nothing He will say that will remedy the fact that he called her a desperate lady.
Mbok.

How you dey?


Let me answer this. In Abuja, since bubu ascended the throne. Thousands of men are without job. Women can stop so low and manage any job but these guys can't. What they do is look for one lady who is of age and working or from a rich background and hook up. You play your card well, you will be balling.
So so many of them.
Attended wedding of one.

zsch:
08067242191

That is elliptical not treadmill.

bukatyne:
Very annoying and ungrateful OP.

See his mouth like 'I cannot live in a small space' yet one kobo he did not have.

I blame the woman.

You know, this reminded me of one lady that was a tenant in my sis house. She met the guy where ever and they started dating. He was working in one govt establishment in a town while she work as a staff( sec) in shell Ph
Lady advices him to quit cos there should be more job opportunities in the city for him than her quoting and going to that town.
Easier said than done. Guy stayed 1 yr, no job. You know sec wear cover shoes and suits. Na so he dey clean, dust and air shoes, dry clean work clothes and what have you

Sometimes this lady will come back, see him taking her shoes inside and she will start admonishing him. Please stop. You make me feel so bad. He said he knew how to do ice cream so she got all that's needed and he started. Supplying some places, and still searching for work. 2nd yr, they got married. Lady did everything, bought a car for him to use for his ice cream biz and was still on the look out for job for him.
We go to their house to eat afang soup. Guy is the best cook I have ever known. Even my married sis will disappear to their house to eat from his pot( akwaibom),
One day, when I came for holiday after a long time, I saw they now have 2 cars, guy has a job at shell courtesy of the wife. She bought a new car for him and took the first one.

Even my inlaw one day said that this is a man.



This guy would have enjoyed this lady to the fullest and she will press all necessary buttons to make sure he get employed but pride goes before a fall. He don't even like her. I pray better man come her way.

Who knows the empty promises he made to her. How he had 10million in his account.
Mbok

incredible!

breadplanets:
are you for real? Do they also wear wedding gowns for these traditional retirement ceremonies? Are you actually from abiriba? Cos what the poster you quoted said is true about the massive wedding ceremonies done during the festive periods in abiriba. Yes dey also do their retirement ceremonies but saying what he witnessed was not a marriage ceremony like really?

Thank you . He just made me look like a liar.
Wonder what I will gain by that.
Please which one is retirement age ceremonies?

These people na enjoyment people

When you eat a change initiate it.
Hubby should have started small small aerobics at home and call wifey to join one day. Though she might protest, make it fun an it's bonding.
As time goes on, the consciousness is created and they exercise at home or if they have money and time for gym.
Reverse psychology always work.

Seems the reason bobo goes to church is bc of pastor's wife. Time to change church. You won't feel comfy in that church anymore.