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bukatyne:


'Nigerian' husbands and wives like to eat their cake and have it.

They both want to be traditional and modern/flexible at same time.

Today, it is the men/boys wailing.

One said why should a woman want a man who does chores when she is at home watching zeeworld all day?

How would a woman supposedly watching zeeworld all day have money to contribute to the family purse in the first place?

Oh, she is an housewife watching zeeworld all day yet working hard to bring in money.

Tomorrow, the women would equate respect/submission to finance yet they would complain when a husband earning more/ sole earner treats them like trash.

My brother, just siddon look.

'Nigerian' husbands and wives are a perfect FIT.

ImaIma1:
It could be sweet now but how will it be in the future if it leads to marriage. What values will she teach your kids?

Don't bank on her changing afterwards. What if she doesn't? This is how I used to project like 5yrs down the line before making decisions especially on relationships.

KanwuliaExtra:
Show us your mama wey be TARTY!

KevUnique:
Afternoon delight.
Jollof and Zobo/ Native red wine

BKayy:
Here they come "Lagos Igbo" with their stupidity.
My dear you are ashamed that I am giving it hot to your Yoruba Boyfriends.
Anybody that gets ashamed when his/her ethnicity is talked about in positive light is not proud of it
You should be ashamed of yourself to identify with Igbo. You better stick to the Yoruba dick you are sucking and leave Igbo matters to Igbotic people.
You probably thought that like you, every other Igbo will celebrate their identity demeaning and hide themselves.
We are not the same madam and don't ever think we are from the same ethnic group. I am Igbo in and out and not ashamed to project is anywhere but you can you?
As for posting it on nairaland "a Yoruba owned forum"
Madam there is something called information and it rules the world. It doesn't matter where the owner of the forum is from. If it is successful you use it. Hating on it because of the owner makes on a chronic hater.
Do you know how many young Igbo people that visit this forum (and others) on daily basis and what the gabbage they add to Igbo history and identity does to their mental health?
Do you think Linda Ikeji would have been successful without inputs by other ethnicities including Yoruba?
By the way what are you here for?
Probably to make your self believe it is worth it to be dating a Yoruba by swallowing their hateful comments on Igbo identity and expect others to cower in shame like you.
If you are waiting for all of us to keep all of the good side of our identity a mystery while the whole of Internet is littered with the propaganda, lies and gabbage your boyfriends litter then you are in for a shocker.
You are probably the type that hide their Igbo accent to be accepted.
Anumpama

Ahamefuna0001:
Shut the f*ck up "Madam Ashamed" How many unifying topics have you created yourself??

Since when did exposing some truth on the Igbo culture become whining? If you don't have anything reasonable to say I guess you should crawl back to the oblivion your crawl out from.

Regex:
I keep praying and telling God, I don't want twins, triplets or anything more than one baby at a time.

It's one baby at a time.

angelusbrut:
If all you narrated here is true, you are a good man ,let her do her worst, she is not cultured, what is she bringing to the table,none
Let her leave, you get someone to help you look after the kids, double your huzzle too, those children will sure be a blessing to you.
The only blame I have for you is that you dated a nonentity

Acidosis:
The thing shock me..!

vhuqnl:
Go look for husband to marry. I'm not the cause of your insecurity

HRMK:
one of the lazy youths buhari was talking abt!obviously the way u talk to ur grandpa!!

Prospertochu:
My mother is living in church because her sister send her packing and she have nowhere else to go. She need that 10k I can't reduce it for now and she is not allow to come and stay in my father family house because my uncles and aunties will not allow her.

Acidosis:
Why are you giving your mother 10k monthly from a salary of 55k when you have a wife and 3 kids??


Your mother is VERY VERY inconsiderate.

Toks2008:
If you can't see sense in my post. Then believe whatever you want if that will make you feel cool. If you tell me a simple food stuff business in a small shop is not good enough for a mother of triplets then i can only wonder which planet you are from.

I grew up in a very difficult situation and i have seen ladies real time give birth in the morning and went back to business in the evening. I am not here to argue with anyone.

Cheers and have a great day.

vhuqnl:
Shut up. This is not America. Shut your hell

NoToPile:
Simply because if she doesnt have an established business with a sales girl or a good job theres no point, she can't start anything now because of the triplets.

Those children are the main jobs, even if she looks for work, they have to pay for daycare which they can't afford.

Under normal circumstances one individual shouldn't be taking care of triplets alone, its the begining of mental breakdown now add insufficient funds to the mix, its not a very palatable one. Even those who get the money dey sweat.

She is a superwoman

Toks2008:
what is the difference between a triplet and a twin with two extra toddlers making 4?

Dont get me wrong, im not saying it is not tasking infact giving a case where the guy can fend for her and the kids i wont advise that she lifts a finger to do any other thing but as the case is, she just has to else the die will just die of High BP then she will understand that she is on her own.

HRMK:
obviously ur hiding ur salary from her but is she handicapped?she shuld bring something to the table too and u must hustle more!dont rely on salary alone!!

jidify:
Brother there is nothing wrong with your wife rather your issue is your finance. No woman can run a home of 5 people with 25k and ve happy. Those triplets will use pampers of same 25k monthly not to talk about feeding and other expenses. You need to up your game. You don't even have reason to save because in the first place you need to carter for your present need else there might be no future. Consider your wife and triplets first then other family members will understand.

Toks2008:
My mum was nursing twins with older siblings that were still young and she was still doing her hairdressing business.

What sort of question are you asking? There are lots of business she can do. She can open a small business like small shop to sell provisions or food stuffs as well as other types of businesses even if she is still breastfeeding the children...

The guy is trying abeg.

BKayy:
See this one. Who is talking about the rest of the world?
Ndigbo are the only people of black skin that know about the Cosmos and devised their own calender which is even better than what you use.
I can sense your inferiority. But it is normal to feel inferior when engaging a superior race. Your inferior self think Ndigbo should keep mum while unscrupulous elements mess with their history. What you are getting from me is a tip of the iceberg. I decided to burst the clothing, politics and calendar today and more are on the way.
When I am satisfied you won't even have enough of inferiority to bask in.
Give honour to whom honour is due

purples25:
Don't f with someone you can't marrrrryyyyy.....

BKayy:
Ndigbo are the only Sub-Saharan group/Nation with Indigenous writing system, days/calender and year. The other that would have challenged Ndigbo for this status is the Ethiopians but they don't consider themselves as Negros.
Days of the week in Igboland is four days/week (Eke, orie, afọr and Nkwo)
Igbo new year is the third week of February.
No other group in Nigeria has this. They only copied the western and Arabic calendar

Bukasint:
Old age is real. Baba until the woman end up with HIV AND OTHER SEXUAL DISEASES IT WILL BE SORRY FOR HER....DEMENTIA IS REAL.

Zooposki:
No wonder Nigerian women are also cheating and their husbands are raising other men’s children. Nature has decided what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Everything kon balance.

thebosstrevor1:
He earns 55k he should give her about 40k, he should stop giving his mum money and should not think about savings now.

He should get another job, pampers, baby milk, if the wife is not breast feeding are all expensive.

The man is still talking about sex, if i was him, i don't think sex will be in my books, the kind work i go work, my wife will beg me to stop.

Uber and taxify is now available, he should join that and work hard, things will change.

thebosstrevor1:
Poor people sperm and wombs are very fertile

Oboy...una just start, already 3 children don land.

Bros, their is nothing you can do, for your survival sake, reduce or stop the money you are sending to your mum.
Your 55k must complete to take care of your family.

Responsibility is at the door, try to find another job to complement the one you have.

Liposure:
One child is a headache, three children is a migraine. Its not easy

RedSquid:
. Baby. Who in the world will take care of 3 kids asides the mother. My dear sit down your turn go soon reach