₦airaland Forum

What’s the point behind a NL get together and no pictures
We Naijas and our elusiveness sha!!

dakmanzero:
Em, madam desree

Let me first issue a disclaimer: I am all for the propagation of the human race! I think Children are lovely because they like Mario and thats so sweet! I believe Love making is the best thing we can do on earth because it creates life, isnt that wonderful? I love women because we can't hev sex without them! (Not properly anyway, )

Now, with that said, I believe, madam, that 12 children is a tad excessive, and, considering this is a forum read by Nigerians, who are at the moment by and large unable to properly support families greater than 5, I think we should not encourage such oversized families.

Ferdimako's 2-child limit is a bit extreme (Afterall this aint china, we don't have an overpopulation problem here, just widespread poverty, not the same thing, we got lots of space but no money, ) but please do not buy into the mindset that says we can have as many children as we want as long as it makes us happy.

There are many things that would make us happy, that we have to forgo for the sake of responsibility. You may want to give your evil bastard boss a black eye at work, but that would be irresponsible. Similarly it is irresponsible to have children indiscriminately, even if you think you can support them (No man knows tomorrow)

Family planning is still a responsible thing to do. Please space your children and excercise restraint when it comes to filling the world with miserable,hungry,angry brats (suicide bombers in the making)

I said 12 there just to embellish my point, I know the situation in Nigeria might be different than that of western world. What I was trying to say is, you cannot tell people what number of children to have, unless they were your wife, sister or cousins. It is personal thing and only the woman and her partner know their economic competence and how best to raise their children---as long as they are not asking for hand-outs from anyone of us here.

PS

you are not ferdimako, are you??

1) Ashanti
2)Beyonce
3)Vivica
4)Ciara

I Think guys would be of better judgment!!

@ferdimako

You are beginning to sound like an unhappy, gay-ass, Anti-Christ that hates women and children.

You are in no place to tell people how many children to have, I’d say, if a woman wants to have 12 kids have them as long as you are happy.

I want 3 myself, so what's your beef!!!

I fix something to eat.
If it's too late to eat, i make a cup of tea.

very funny

I guess an educated guy would always want to be with an educated girl to avoid insecurities in the relationship. If we are measuring education with having a university degree, i have dated a guy who can be considered "uneducated" but he’s very intelligent and exposed but the issues about education always pop-up.

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@desiree
If Bush is so dumb,how come he is President and we are all here posting impotently on Nairaland?

Good question!!! we should ask the Americans how bush became their president and i'll leave the second part of the question for you to answer yourself.

Lovely topic to touch up on!!!

Mum Love you to bits.
I cannot even try to estimate your values in words or praises.
But i pray God give strength to keep on being here and being you.
You are one in million.

Passionate

Why do you always make a big deal about this ajebo thing?? sounds like someone desperately trying to be one.

Who said soaps drys the skin? Try some dove cream bar. It is the clinique ones that i can't stand, smells and feels like detergent to me.

i use bodywash at times they are not too nice if you've got oily skin like i do.

Big welcome to Ya!!!

Oracle:
Hmmmmm i think you're right Kiki
you seem to know much about jail
your name sounds like[b] kirikiri[/b]

LOL


i will choose work over prison any day. At least you get to go home at the end of the day!!

Bush dumb and gay

that's a wicked one

strippers are all for your dough o, I doubt if they mix business with pleasure or rather pleasure with business.

If she is truly committed to the relationship then she would come back to you, like someone said most guys out there have got nothing to over. You have a 50/50 chance.