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iice:
[color=#9900ff]There is a different between zoning out and telling someone to get lost
Mind what? Rofl. . .like i mind [/color]

whatever. . .

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I use whatever sometimes. . .doesn't always mean get lost. Just that i'm bored and beginning to zone out.[/color]

exactly what the poster meant never-mind though cuz we don't, trust me

wateva for

Yet anoda inane/retarded question/thread from them so called miss independent.

What a shame

@tudor

probably join u nice picture there n my regards to your friend bell, u guyz rlly look alike

ZeQuIsHa

ah! otio! ! . . . NL Iwu must be behinde dis o. . . even sistawoman no dey 4 here. . .

This world is full of people , we come across many in our day-to-day interactions , most we forget , few we faintly remember and there are very few which we vividly remember, in fact we never forget them , these are people who live their life like it should be lived , simple,selfless, and for others! It's just by mere association with them that we find our life full of color , full of hoping and worth living! Femmmy, you are one of those people, my own broda from another mother

I am an avid blogger for a while now and participating actively in NL. I read your blog posting and found them very interesting and informative. We appreciate your initiative here and in helping build a more powerful Nigeria! Keep it coming bru,

And for all my peeps in the house, my respect to y'all. Words can't explain how you all mean to me, and of course your posts/critics have contributed positively _''coughs'' to my life . I thank you all and wish you and your families the very best you would wish yourself this season and the upcoming year.

And lastly, i'd love to appreciate a wonderful friend that introduced me to this site, Zequisha you remain the very best part of my everyday, i never knew what my life was like until i met you, you remain the best, can't never forget you. I wish you a merry time. Lots off luv, kisses and hugs

mme aparawa ye mme mbobho, amaka adogho ate ya mme mgbufo e esio uyo,

@ubiaa5

Afo ato mmong. . .

It is no news that when you push a man to the wall he will rebound with uncharacteristic ferocity. The collective anger and despondency of Nigerians from years of rape and impoverishment transcends a ticking time bomb and assumes the unpredictable and leveling proportions of a tsunami. The superior number of days belongs to the thief but the single day allocated the victim is decisive and conclusive.

nich:
crap!
interesting how things happen. was he discharged based on what he was accused of doing or based on what the argument of the case was?

in situations like this, i tend to dislike law, but i guess the lawyers(attorneys) handling the case are to blame.
crap!

i quiet agree with you. See the ruling below

http://www.elombah.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=2437:asaba-federal-high-court-quashes-charges-against-ibori&catid=1:latest-news&Itemid=67

My condolence

would probably spend it in holland, with my guitar and ginger, i would rock my boo's world

ubiaa5:
I saw your post in d akwa cross thread in d culture section. tim ba o.

lol, did it crack you up i rem'ba i made a naughty post there it's really a pleasure anyway.

glad to meet my very own here. . . . nfana ibagha, dia uwen afo

ubiaa5:
u be real bush man,but u are my brother anyway.Abadie!

Its a lie, Ayeneka, edioko , esit ami anem etie etie ufan, afo anam didie adioygno? _{''excuse my spelling''}

ah! not again !

the network seems to be acting up again. . . . . sorry guyz, will keep tryin

aisha2:
The first Guy that proposed to me did not end up as my hubby cos our genotype was incompatiable. Now my Hubby, very crude
He just called and said " How far about that thing we talked about now, shey you are ready? Lets us do quick and finish in two months abeg" I was like what?

talk of real men. . . . No long thing jare, the journey is still very far

wateba

whats with all the copy and paste stuff, please spare us all the documentary. . . Too long to read anyway

its my understanding that a Tiv man usually presents his wife as kola to a friend visiting, as a sign of hospitality and also i learn t that the reason why Tiv girl are always hairy/Hot is because, in the early days, they usually have sex with monkeys, maybe in that monkey kingdom mentioned in one of these post , can't remember the name.

No disrespect to the Zakis

whats is the moral in this retarded thread

I first want to thank all of you who took the time to voice your opinion.

i'm sorry i took so long to respond. i wanted to read each and every response carefully. i have read a pleasantly overwhelming response and i'll tell you i wasn't shocked at all with the some of your opinions. i wanted to award a lot of you stars but unfortunately only three stars can be awarded. so i chose not to award any. it was too difficult to choose. however one response summed it up perfectly. took my words right outta my mouth, I hate to say this but, I bet that everyone here who said that their children come first is divorced from the parent of their child or in a miserable marriage.

1 - Children are not strong enough to be the center of the family.
2 - It's not good to spoil children with that much attention. And once you start, they are very hard to wean off of it,  if a child knows he/she can get his way by throwing a fit or crying, they will ALWAYS do it.
3 - The children will NEVER get to see what it's like for two adults to really love each other and be affectionate with each other.
4 - The children will expect to always be the center of attention and receive constant praise for everything they do.
5 - The kids will grow up, thinking that the world revolves around them, and that their spouse should treat them the same way their parents did. Of course, then THEY will get divorced too, which is a very painful process for anyone with half of a heart.

What kind of parent would be so selfish as to deny their child a chance to see what a healthy adult relationship is supposed to look like if they could show them one? That's exactly why a married couple with kids should have: - Date nights - Hot intimacy - Time when the kids go up the street and play with friends - Vacations - Family together time where the adults are affectionate to one another - The adults should be able to snuggle and kiss while STILL giving some attention to the kids The children actually benefit if they learn early on that it's NOT all about them.

They also grow up either in a broken home, or with two parents who barely even KNOW each other because the kids were put first. There is NO WAY an adult relationship can even survive if it's not attended with high priority most of the time. Of course, the children SHOULD be a priority, a close second,  or even tied for "first" as part of the family if you consider the world of good it does them to see that they are NOT the most important thing on earth, and they get to see what give and take and love and forgiveness looks like between two happy adults,  instead of two miserable parents who can't stand each other.

If you hear someone talk about how their husband "went nuts" after X number of years,  expect that there was a ton of passive aggressive, insane-making, neglect and other behavior going on. Most marriages don't just break apart with a loving, perfect wife and the husband just goes insane because he's a jerk-man. Chances are, he's been tortured emotionally and thrown on the back burner for a LONG time before he finally breaks. You ARE right, put your spouse FIRST if only to show your kids how it should be done so that THEY don't have to hurt too.

Peace out. . .

Solomon Grandy, born on monday
christian on tuesday
married on wednesday
took ill on thurday
worst on friday
died on saturday
buried on sunday

This is the life of solomon grandy

The die is cast