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sexyLeamon:
That's a pretty vague question. Happy in what way? is it emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, or financially? There are always two sides to a story. Does she have ample reasons on your part that is not making her happy? Have you talked to her about how she feels or what you perceive how she feels? Communication is the most important i[/b]n regards to resloving problems. It helps because you see how the other person feels and for all we know we may be guilty of things we weren't even aware of until it's brought to our attention. [b]Be honest with yourself and be ready to compromise and be willing to do what it takes as long it doesn't compromise the marriage bond. Try to take an interest in the things she likes, be aware of her feelings, be patient with her when its that time of the month for her, comfort her when she needs you there for her, and take the lead as a husband to settle matters. that's all I can say, I can't say much, she's your wife you should know more

well spoken sexyleamon, well done

@poster, you see a woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets, the reason for her unhappiness could be, maybe her past, or somthing she did in your absence and afraid to tell you for fear of your re-action, or maybe she isn't satisfied financially/sexually, or stimulated mentally or emotionally. Maybe you fight/argue constantly over little or no issues or you don't give her much attention which may eventually lead to her cheating on you cause inevitably she will meet someone that makes her feel "alive". She will meet someone that makes her feel good, special, loved, respected, desirable etc, then when she comes back home, she becomes depressed. It could also be a weakness in her which she is unable to share for the fear of being rejected, so you must be able to play the accommodating husband by bringing your vulnerability to bear, thereby lowering your defense so that she can come in.

There's something she's not happy / satisfied about, and/or wants to complain about and when they (women) are in this mood, they don't come out clean or go straight to the point, rather they keep going in circles like an aircraft trying to gain momentum before taking off. The demise of a close relative is not enough reason for her to be down. You see women are more discerning and calculative than men and they handle psychological pains much more than us. So you must be very sensitive in dealing with this. Before taking taking her out, doing long/short vacation etc, identify what's the true reason for her being unhappy, then you'll know where to go from there. Place more emphasis on the bolded part of sexyleamon's post, you can never go wrong there.

All the best bru

_{steps ostentatiously out of way, averting head from missile emanating from thread}

ThoniaSlim:
Why do men demand sex?

If you answer my question. . .I'll answer yours! Bomboclat!

hon, its in our nature to ask for sex, we were programmed that way. its the animalistic tendecy in us baby, in biology it is called hormones. Whenever a man sees a woman, sex is the first thing that comes his mind. Its is our place to initiate the mating process, while the dating process is very important for the ladies, because its evaluates and acertain the quality of man the lady is about to mate with and eventually live with. So while ladies ask for attention, care, love, appreciation etc, we only ask for sex, and that is not too much to ask for, is it dearie?

meanwhile, you got very pretty eyez

Not less than 17 companies and three churches were sealed off by Lagos State Environmental Protection Agency (LASEPA) on Friday for flouting the state environmental law.



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According to the General Manager of the agency, Mr. Adebola Shabi, the affected companies and churches committed offences ranging from noise pollution, oil spillage, unhygienic production process and gas emission.

The companies, which were sealed off due to oil spillage included Veracity, Rolly Poly, Road Network Transport and Seenak Company Limited, while those for noise pollution included Resnova Advertising Limited, a parish of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, two buildings belonging to the Mountains of Fire and Miracle Church.

Shabi explained that the affected companies and churches had earlier been served with abatement notice to report at the LASEPA office within the state secretariat, Alausa, but they had refused to show up for dialogue.

“Over a period of time, we have investigated complaints on sanitation and environmental pollution caused by the operations of these companies and churches and observed that they were not ready to comply with the state law,” he said.

He noted that the affected premises had failed to observe the monthly industrial sanitation exercise and that some of them had obstructed LASEPA officers from performing their duty.

http://odili.net/news/source/2009/oct/31/608.html

why bother

pray they also acquire hot standby ups to back up the generators, to avoid such embarrassment that happened last time at Abuja airport

there's somthing minimini-manamana, sweeter than manamana minimini, chai, low waist! shake your low waist _{whistles on}

tglaz:
the husband should have married his sister.
he isn't just man enough.
i am pretty sure he tells his baby sister whenever he sleeps with his wife too.

how are we sure this sister in question is really his sister

who gives a rat Bleep, would you rather prefer it in romance just answer the damn question or take a walk

nigeria magic

Rent a forensic ghost to investigate na

get rich or die trying tuf luck bru

I have being meaning to ask this question, any idea pls

[quote author=Xavier. link=topic=245845.msg3577129#msg3577129 date=1236766925]Zesty

Good for u, prepare for numerous fasting and also for sporadic praying sessions. Get ready to battle demons and devils also.[/quote]battle ke, when you can bribe them demons n devils, this is 9ja men and anything is possible

Oil=Blessing

Our Leaders=Curse

190:
^^^ dats cos ure jst a petty thief

lol

oh!, i left something out, deep and soulful secrets and endless sharing

Nezan:
What is becomrich trying to post? spam?

that guy is hell bent in dividing this our gr8 country, pls lets all give him a chance


@post

Bankole, Shut your trap, Solution: Remove the damn immunity clause, period

Everyone on-board NL, Please belt up and hold on tight as we watch this episode unfold, na siddon we look we dey, nigeria magic

Un-surpassed trust, Un-matched understanding, undying loyalty mixed with a little bit of personality and a good sense of humour

Nezed:
Might not mean much, but at least we get to rub shoulders with the BIG BOYS (Permanent members) and add 'non-parmenanet Member, UN Security council' to our name even if its for a year!

whats the point when you ain't got nattin

jassie:
Very Good. . . Naija dey active online man!!! Even without fast internet, power supply, we are still there. . . Shame on the politicians/govt. for limiting the potentials of this country.


seun, we built this website together ni o. . . na we dey post everyday, na ban u dey ban us. . . we suppose collect money for your hand. . .
we'll be charging $5/Post

seconded

Frankly speaking, many people today equate being emotionally moved by music as being moved by the spirit, but these are not the same. Real worship happens when your spirit responds to God not to some musical tone. Infact some sentimental introspective songs sometimes hinders worship because it take the spotlight off God and focus on our feelings. God request that we worship Him in Truth and in Spirit but our biggest distraction in worship today is ourselves, our interest, our worries and what other thinks about us (Fears, Fraustration, Faults and Failures), and once we lets this factors rule our mind set during worship, our spirit life gets de-activated, hence the communication link between us and God gets disconnected, then we find ourselves emotionally gyrating to some so call music either secular/afro juju etc.

wrong room, don't drive a toks

c'mon guyz, lets give the pussies a chance