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Christianity EtcRe: Bishop David Oyedepo Celebrates 71st Birthday, Winners Worldwide React by destiny4luv(m): 1:17pm On Sep 27, 2025
Happy birthday Sir, Age with Grace. Cheers
FoodRe: Weirdest Food Combination: My Funny Story by destiny4luv(m): 5:36pm On Sep 16, 2025
Dry Garri and soup. Any kind of soup just put dry garri inside and mix together and eat. My childhood habit till date. Love the combination especially with egusi soup.
Christianity EtcRe: You Are Destined For Greatness. God Is Not Done With You by destiny4luv(m): 11:10am On Sep 14, 2025
Hallelujah GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY. It is too late to fail. Amen
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Customs Recruitment – A Harsh Reminder Of Our Employment Crisis by destiny4luv(m): 5:17pm On Sep 11, 2025
I know as a graduate u long to have a good white cola job, but of a true seeing situation of unemployment in the country I think its time to focus more on entrepreneurship, skill acquisition, remote job, content creating, freelancing, farming, etc. U are a graduate u have gotten that knowledge to diversify please put it to use, it will pay at the long run. Nor wait for white cola job go dey depress. Peace.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Finest Nickname You Have Ever Heard? by destiny4luv(m): 1:35pm On Sep 10, 2025
Almost all my colleagues/friends call me EASYMONEY
PoliticsRe: Presidential Aide, Sunday Dare Hits Back At Melaye Over Debt Claims by destiny4luv(m):
This people una nor dey tire to defend rubbish chai. You are mentioning other countries whose borrowing is higher than Nigeria, can you compare your economy and theirs? Borrowing is not bad when well utilised for its purpose, but you guys borrow with reckless abandonment with little or nothing to show for the borrowing that's the issue Oga defender.
SportsRe: Joseph Yobo's 45th Birthday Is Today by destiny4luv(m): 1:40pm On Sep 07, 2025
Congratulations Yobo
BusinessRe: ₦1m Or This Shop: Which Would You Choose? (Photo) by destiny4luv(m): 11:36am On Sep 07, 2025
Lol... funny question. Things in that shop is what over 3Million Naira. If you have deal on provision business before you will understand better.
CelebritiesRe: Peller Buys ₦580 Million Mansion And Car In Lagos by destiny4luv(m): 12:31pm On Sep 03, 2025
Congratulations Peller
FamilyRe: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by destiny4luv(m): 6:17pm On Aug 15, 2025
JONSYN7154:
@ BOLDED STATEMENT: In your house you don't know how to tell her how to dress?

Don't tell me you are a SHUEGBE MAN.
This thing happened 3years ago, why are you guys advising now. Different things have surely taking place from that time till now.
FamilyRe: Man Lists 8 Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin by destiny4luv(m): 8:35pm On Aug 11, 2025
This is no news
Jokes EtcRe: Show us how good and creative you are with your use of words... Fun all the way by destiny4luv(m): 4:15am On Aug 04, 2025
Alright you say! Sure everything it's it's to be alright at the end of the day.
SportsRe: Two Odds Specialist by destiny4luv(m): 3:50am On Aug 03, 2025
Good morning, pls add my number: 07061061477
Jokes EtcRe: Show us how good and creative you are with your use of words... Fun all the way by destiny4luv(m): 4:02pm On Feb 15, 2025
Goal getters are winners always.
Jokes EtcRe: Show us how good and creative you are with your use of words... Fun all the way by destiny4luv(m): 4:15pm On Feb 10, 2025
Here comes my day of Glory. Hallelujah.
AutosRe: "I Will Tell My President About INNOSON'' - Ivory Coast Amb. At INNOSON Factory by destiny4luv(m): 4:00pm On Aug 16, 2024
Awesome 👍😎😎😎
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 3:33pm On May 30, 2024
Not at all
Silentgroper:
grin

Is this not ahnie
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 5:07pm On May 29, 2024
Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner.

Christianity EtcRe: Enoch Adeboye Celebrates His 82nd Birthday Today by destiny4luv(m): 12:21pm On Mar 02, 2024
God bless u Sir
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2024
Lunch, Eba & chicken bangasoup, salad & coke to wash it down...

FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 11:06am On Feb 21, 2024
Lunch, Egusi soup and semovita

FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 10:49am On Feb 21, 2024
back2sender:
Naa one person eat this for this hard time shocked
grin grin Na company food oh.., I work off-shore
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 9:45am On Feb 20, 2024
Breakfast 🥞

FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 6:39am On Nov 25, 2023
Breakfast

FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by destiny4luv(m): 7:03am On Nov 24, 2023
Breakfast..... Indomie and chicken. Not my kind of food though, hurriedly prepared was hungry after working all through the night.

Jokes EtcRe: Show us how good and creative you are with your use of words... Fun all the way by destiny4luv(m): 11:40am On May 17, 2023
Music, heals lots of pain in the heart, especially when the right one is played to suit ur present condition.
FamilyRe: Group Of Divorced Nigerian Women Celebrate Initiation Of New Members (Pix) by destiny4luv(m): 7:31pm On May 16, 2023
Jennyclay:
Biko shut up!!

Is still better than staying with a murder, woman beater and a rapist all in the name of marriage.

Do you even have any idea of what these women went through in the hands of their monster husbands before they quit the marriage undecided. Indeed it’s an End of an Error.

You men are really disgusting!!
U are depressed, please go seek help. Clown 🤡
FamilyRe: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by destiny4luv(m): 7:23pm On May 16, 2023
Dearlove2me:
I have prayed about it, I have calmly talked to him. I have cried severally on his shoulder and he promised to stop, I have shouted, done everything, but he's not willing to let go.
Don't stop praying, keep praying. Nothing is impossible with God. Peace.
FamilyRe: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by destiny4luv(m): 6:41pm On May 16, 2023
Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.
Sorry for ur present predicament, well I was once a strong victim of gambling, my wife and I always have strong misunderstanding in that regard, but my wife on the other hand instead of arguing always she puts everything in prayers and find ways to talk to me in the most polite way. I didn't quit all of a sudden it was a gradual process. Though to be sincere I play game once in a while but not an addict anymore, just for fun. Adopt same and stop fighting him. All the best.
FamilyRe: A Nairalander In Dilemma by destiny4luv(m): 9:02am On May 02, 2023
pocohantas:
30yrs old extrovert without a job or skill.
On whose account is she extroverting?
Because you need money to be extroverted in Abuja of all places.

She doesn't call or check up on you and upon that, she still tell you say no connection. Data connection or what?

The first lady should never have been shortlisted. Not even for supplementary list.
Nor mind this mumu simp introvert. Some guys deserve serious slap on a daily basis
FamilyRe: A Nairalander In Dilemma by destiny4luv(m): 9:00am On May 02, 2023
Smokeybrain:
Happy workers day. Since am at home I decided to voice out what is bordering me. First let me give a preamble about myself. I'm an introvert, I don't take alcohol and I have never been to the club. I work with a commercial bank as an ABO and from Niger Delta. I leave in Lagos. I have two ladies in my life and I kind of confused.
The first lady is base in Abuja, 30 years old and an extrovert. She's unemployed and I have knw her for sometime now. This lady is the type that was perfection in everything. I have told her about my intention that I want committed relationship. She didn't say yes and she didn't say no. All what she did was ask me series of questions and I answered. She hardly calls and check on me. I do the most calls and initiate conversations. She can comfortably stay for days without hearing from me. I invited her to Lagos, she came spent few days and left. When she got home, she sent me a text that she didn't get the vibes she was expecting. I was confused. Vibes! What do u mean? She said connections and vibes was not there. Maybe she expects me to be gisting with her till midnight I don't really know. Sometimes I come back from work late, I will talk little, eat and sleep. I don't really know the vibes and I connections she's talking about. This is the lady I spent on, the her flight ticket I paid for it...am still confused.
The second lady, a Fulani Christian from the north, 24 years base in Lagos. A graduate and a fashion designer. She's just the opposite of the first lady. I don't give her much attention like the first lady but no day will pass without her checking on me. I spend little on her unlike the first lady and she doesn't complain. I will like to get married next year. I'm financially okay. Which of these two ladies should I go for am 31yrs.
E be like say most intovert nor dey get sense, and I guess u are one of them. With what u just explained did anybody need advice u b4 u know d right woman to choose. Wetin small pikin go know say na d second woman to choose na im u Advance man dey ask question put again. Come nor dey waste people time here, okoro

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