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FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 11:48am On Jun 22, 2019
kennygee:
This is so true. My best post on NL in the last 5 years.
smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley
one for each year
thank you
kiss
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 11:09am On Jun 22, 2019
by their fruit you shall know them wink
this thread is the fruit of a woman who compares herself to Jesus cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 11:04am On Jun 22, 2019
crackhaus:
My comebacks are the reason you keep trying hard to prove to me you know anything about diagnosis. cheesy

Where did you get your degree from?
you have been diagnosed and exposed
to protect innocent souls from your manipulations
but your useful idíot bukatyne is already beyond redemption
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 11:02am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
If the women are truly interested in the welfare of the children,

Why don't they insist on the fathers' presence?

Why don't they live together to be a condusive environment to train the child?

Why do some of them deny the father visiting rights?

Or it is only money that is used to care for a child?
who the heck are you talking about?
and who is haunting you?
please take your meds
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:31am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Someone who supports slutty behaviors telling me I am a disgrace.

I understand your pain.

Never too late to retrace your steps. wink
you are NLs slut number one
always talking about how you can't stop f...... your husband
nymphomania is a burdensome disorder
not sorry for you
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:30am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Of course common sense seems like madness until a stranded pregnant woman who should be catered to hands and foot is running around looking for how to get her reluctant baby daddy to commit.
it's not about the woman
it's about the child
who they should be taking care of
by taking responsibility
like decent people do

but you would not know what class and decency are even if it hit you in the face
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:26am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Ok.

If the woman gets pregnant and insists on keeping it against the man's wishes, the man should be financially responsible.

What happens if the man wants the baby at all cost and the woman goes ahead to abort it?
he made a wish when he was shooting without protection
simple!
after that the well-being of the child is the yardstick
not your madness
get help!
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by desvi: 9:25am On Jun 22, 2019
ibkayee:
smiley
Can't do wrong with a Benz smiley
not at all smiley
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:22am On Jun 22, 2019
fieryy:
For real, it takes TWO to make a baby and it ought to take two to carry the responsibilities.

I laughed when I read her "a man doesn't have a right to his sperm" comment.

Wtf grin grin grin grin grin Loooool
I swear I can't laugh anymore
this is too síck
goes even beyond stùpid
I seriously think that she is developing some sort of madness

my aunty who goes to church like every day told me once when I was younger and asking 1000 questions about the Bible
not to delve too deep into the Bible as it has the potential to make you overthink and lose your mind
here is the perfect example of such occurrence
this is serious oo
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:18am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Maybe from surveymonkey.

I take it you have no answers.
I don't understand dùmb questions. wink
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:18am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaha

On my way to bringing up quality kids.

And one more course: how to avoid washed up, overused sluts wink

I don't want desecration to our lineage.
you are disgrace enough so I understand cheesy
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by desvi: 9:17am On Jun 22, 2019
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:16am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
What do you call a woman who lets a man sleep with her without protection when they have not mutually agreed to have a kid or are not married?

Since the burden of contraceptive solely rests on the man, shouldn't we had over reproductive rights back to the men?

You see how stupid you sound?

In this age where there are even female condoms and after morning pills.

You are actually the one dragging women back to the 10th century when men determined if women would be mothers or not because there was no contraceptive.

And nowhere did I say the men were victims.
what do you call a man who ejaculates inside of women he is not married to and who doesn't want children yet has bastards all over the place?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:15am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
So a woman doesn't have the right to say no if the man is not going to wear a condom? When she doesn't want to be a mother?

The rate at which you lose and gain rights is alarming.
in the same way a man has the right and freedom to use a condom, a woman has the right to insist on the use of a condom
if they take the wrong decision at this point, they have to live with all possible outcomes and take responsibility
the rate at which you ask nonsensical questions is worrisome
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:11am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
This your thinking na wa.

Is Kim's sex tape now a yard stick of women liberation?

Do you know how many times she has regretted it?

Do you know that Kim doesn't even identify as a feminist?

Is there anything wrong with decency and been pious?
how you come up with the monkey questions is a mystery cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi:
bukatyne:
OH, you are ashamed to tell your parents you have chosen to be a slut?

I guessed as much.

Just internet braggadio.

Of course, I will teach my kids to be chaste and that marriage gives consent of sex to their spouses in addition to other things so they need to choose very carefully.

I will also teach them how to have fantastic sex lives with their spouses so to curb adultery and enjoy the God's gift in their marriages.
nobody gives a flying f.... what you will teach your children
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:09am On Jun 22, 2019
fieryy:
She is that stupid, but she thinks she's "woke" and making an impact
this stupidity in these arguments is making my stomach churn
a man sleeps with a woman, doesn't use protection, shoots inside and we are supposed to see him as a victim when he is asked to take responsibility for his actions and his child
like he was forced to sleep with someone without protection and impregnate them
and then she will ask me why he has no right to his money? grin
it can't get more stùpid, can it?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:42am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
The more you talk, the more you paint women as stupid people incapable of thought or taking control of their lives.

If a woman wants to sleep around and knows that she is the one with the burden of pregnancy, wouldn't common sense tell her to be more careful?

She has more to lose and at stake, she needs to be responsible for her sexual health.

Except when a woman was raped, she has the right to insist that the man uses a condom. She doesn't and cries foul when the pregnancy occurs.

Again, a man doesn't have right to his sperm if only the woman can determine if she wants to be a mother or not.

When pregnancy occurs and the woman aborts it in spite of the man's insistence and demonstrated ability to care for the unborn, what do you call that?
a man decides whether he shoots inside or not, to use a condom or not
are you that stùpid or only pretending?
RomanceRe: Woman Shocked To Discover Her Boyfriend Of Two Years Just Got Married. See His E by desvi: 8:40am On Jun 22, 2019
uuzba:
The girl too must have been very dishonest with herself and foolish.
I know that women have this 6th sense they use to see behind a man's words and actions. They can know when their man is lying.
And this mumu girl didn't use her sense for good 2 years? A man just wear suit and near you small, na im you go open nyash fast-fast?
she is young
it's normal to be gullible at this age
the hurt is part of the learning process
what he did was wrong however
we should condemn the trickery, not the trust she had
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:38am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Tell your parents you are one and give us their feedback.
tell your children mummy is a rapist apologist first wink
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:36am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
You are comparing an average woman to Kim Kardashianhuh? Or Kanye West to an average man?

Where can I borrow sense for this girl?
I knew you would refuse this example because it contradicts your narrative cheesy
but such examples exist in real life too
step out of your bubble

Kim did a sex tape with her boyfriend which he leaked.
yeah, right grin

She wasn't a slut sleeping around on camera.
no, she was pious and decent, still is grin

And she is a very very successful woman herself.
after the leak wink
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 8:17am On Jun 22, 2019
Pavore9:
Because she is already at the top.
exactly
RomanceRe: Woman Shocked To Discover Her Boyfriend Of Two Years Just Got Married. See His E by desvi: 8:17am On Jun 22, 2019
this is heartbreaking
I feel for this girl
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 8:14am On Jun 22, 2019
Pavore9:
She is more likely to marry within the upper class. Women marry up, marrying down tend to bring its issues as the husband tend to feel uneasy.
she can hardly marry up
that's the point
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 7:53am On Jun 22, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:
Have you ever seen a rich man and his wife quarrel?

Their quarrels are close to cheating, investment mistakes, choices for the kids, vacation or not.


Have you ever seen a middle-class family or poor family quarrel?

If not cheating, kneeling down to cook food or standing up, calling me daddy or mummy, finances, money for house rent, financial contribution, or wasting of food in the house, and others too numerous to mention. cheesy


Even if I want to quarrel with my wife, I want it to be at the back of a limousine. You won't have time to know if she greets you in the morning or not.
grin
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 7:52am On Jun 22, 2019
the social class is closely linked to aspects such as language, manners, lifestyle and values
it's not only about money
so yes, marrying someone with a similar background may have many advantages and enhance compatibility
who wants to teach their significant other how to behave and how to talk?
on the other hand, some people's posh behavior may come off as awkward or even arrogant in some circles
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by desvi: 7:50am On Jun 22, 2019
funmisticqueen:
You were making sense until you said women should cut their cloth according to their size, forgetting that women are hypergamous in nature and will always want to marry men that are better than their fathers. please ladies,go for men above your class.
and what if a woman belongs to the upper class?
who will she marry?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:34am On Jun 22, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:
This should have been your original post for your topic, instead of sneaking in “soft porrrn” literature to buttress your point abi? wink If you did not post about “dry-humping” and “”dickkkk”s to give your readers a much-desired harrrrrdon, who would have read your thread? cheesy

You think you are super-clever ni? grin
You forget Naija na 419 capital of the world humm?

You copied and pasted the article and you agreed with the writer as OP #2.

What part of the article did you disagree with? wink




This is the “preaching-style” of awa pious church-ladies aka “fishers of men”!

Preach on sista! Nothin do you!
Your disciples are reading! cheesy
I can’t wait to hear or read testimonials from the “feminist mistique” movement.

All the best. kiss
why is it that the most religious moralists are obsessed with séx in a way that borders on addiction?
like maniacs they seen even other people's vàginas taking the world down cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:30am On Jun 22, 2019
yeyeosoronga:
Women are sexual beings and they have their own needs however they seem fit. Same as men.
Allow women have the final say on how they want to use their puna.ni. Afterall its theirs. If they want to go on a fucking spree, it's their goddamn business and take your nose out of it.
Perhaps society is wrong in the emphasis its placing on women. The emphasis should be more on the men if we truly want a better society.
I saw a thread on emphasising contraception in men rather than women and it made a lot of sense. A man can impregnate 10 women within a year, but a woman no matter how much she sleeps around can only be pregnant at most twice a year. For the greater good of society, it's high time to shine the torch on your fellow men.
Secondly, the most sexually liberal societies I know have lower STD rates and better reproductive health than we the 'moralists'. One night stands mean nothing to women abroad, and they still have a lower rate of STI than us here. Instead of trying to shame women and their sexuality (which obviously hasn't worked), how about doing something different?

Anyway, I will post something soon on my thoughts on morality and mention you so you can save it as food for thought.
wow!
thank you!
that's a fresh perspective
I picked something new today smiley

@bold
exactly!
instead of demonizing the most natural aspect of human existence
we should use our brains and be rational in our approach
we need a sober discussion that empowers people to enjoy their séxuality with minimal risks
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:16am On Jun 22, 2019
Magnoliaa:
As in, soo much better. I'm grateful to be born in this generation! So many enjoyment, technological advancements, discoveries, and things that make living easier etc
enjoy smiley wink kiss
RomanceRe: All Eyes On A Lady As She Twerks On A Man In Public, People Video Her (Photos) by desvi: 7:24pm On Jun 21, 2019
Cutezt:
Na wa o

Watch the twerk video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Szdk4IfHJQ
shocked
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:13pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
That’s my point, if we have to search for a word that covers both, then that should tell you men and women are not judged equally as regards to promiscuity. More proof is on this thread.
obviously smiley

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