kelvinrhs:


I agree...

Oh wait I'm op

bukatyne:


Honestly, I don't know what you except from us.

You concurred with all your wife said yet are too 'egoistic' to make changes about them.

You also told us that your wife is faithful and loyal. Her telling you what is 'killing' sex quickly tells me she also misses it.

I fact, she should be the one opening this thread and not you.

You have the yam and the knife.

Do as you will.

RicoBee:


Ouch! So sad that Nairaland is no longer a place where you can present your problem and get different good pieces of advice. OP, it's rather unfortunate that going through the first page, no one could uphold the honour of matrimony and advise you correctly on what to do. You are a good son and a responsible person.

[s]I would suggest you don't hastily discuss with your dad until you have 100% proof that he really wants to commit adultery. To get this proof you've got to keep a close eye on your dad. Meanwhile, if there is any advice you can subtly give your mum in order to look more attractive to your dad, without informing her of your suspicion, by all means do so. All the best bro[/s].

Cmeo:


All I am saying is that continent will higher casualties are not on the media giving figures of their casualties like Africa Center for Disease Control is doing now. Africa should be careful about it's reportage so as not to shot itself in the leg again to be called disease prone continent

Cmeo:
Please let us be careful how we sell out Africa to global media image running. It is very unfair to be reporting Africa Coronavirus causality while the Europe, North America, Asia, etc as a continent is silent on their own causality.

Africa and Africans need to wise up before they join this global media brouhaha train to finish Africa reputation again for another century. Joining them to do this to Africa will hurt Africa and it's future generations again for any century.

Auladimeji:
How does it feels like to be listening to one music for 4 weeks let alone 25 years

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Lanaglass:


Bukatyne, you are the one who needs to crawl back into that ill exposed and backward thinking, mindset of yours. And don't come out of that hole of yours until your mindset becomes more exposed/enlightened.

Your posts reek of shallowness, you carry marriage on your head like it's a trophy. You even said somewhere that women expire or have an expiry date because of marriage and children. Dem use marriage and children swear for you? You think without these two things a woman cannot live a worthwhile or meaningful life?

What are the two greatest commandments? Since you claim you say things that are within the bible. Does it say women you must marry and have children? Your yeye is too much abeg. For a married woman you seem to have a lot of time on your hands to posting long threads on NL (insensible threads if I may add) and like your friend Crackhaus you are all over NL being a nuisance.

Like the way you were on one thread, giving sex style advise to a man, when he didn't ask. You were so irritating with the way you carried on that thread, like kilode? Doesn't this person have anything to do in her house.

tabithababy:
. Which yanch has been opened in market square Is it the senseless and meaningless chats

missimelda01:

I am not a single mom but these cruel comments the men are making is moving me to tears. Some ladies need to be schooled on how to handle men. It's okay for a single father to find love and remarry but it's completely wrong to marry a single mom? Why are y'all hypocrites!

There's no stupid rules to love and marriage, but I don't expect some dumbass to understand that. Op, tell your family about your girlfriend's child.. if you see what you want in her, go ahead and marry her.

yeyeosoronga:
Much ado about nothing.
Women should stop carrying marriage on their heads.
They end up being losers for that.
Work on your financial capabilities and don't ever give that up for marriage or raising a family in Nigeria.
Your sacrifices will never be appreciated.
Allow men to love their mothers.
Nobody said you should not love your own mother/father, as they also sacrificed a lot for you.
Treat people with the same courtesy they give to you.

Kingsteve:
FACT: there are more females than males worldwide.
Logically, the OP is correct.
Men are scarce!

pocohantas:


How can you be “my man”, Do I look like a lesbian? Toor!!!! Chuchuchu

cococandy:
What if the soup is bad too?

I have this not-Nigerian friend (bless her sweet gentle heart) she always makes me egusi when I visit because I’m Nigerian and by default must love egusi (which I do) but not how she makes it.

I don’t know how to tell her to stop :She’s soo sweet.

Martinez39s:
Yet he acquired a fresh product. Swerve jare.

Martinez39s:
Ned Nwoko, like all smart men, went for a fresh product not an evening newspaper.

Blackmiserable:


No, he's not concerned about Nigeria. He rarely comments in other sections besides Romance. He almost never does.

Zimbabweans are blacks and even if the pics is indeed Ubunja's, how does it debunk anything?

sexylassie:


anybody can get a foreign number from Nigeria, you can buy it online

do not believe anything that man says

This is the man you are speaking to claiming Zimbabwean

Think about this how will a Zimbabwean man be so concern about Nigeria

the picture below is ubunja

that man is typing from Nigeria

does he look like an alpha male or a man getting girls

he is just a blogger looking for traffic for affiliate marketing