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FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:07pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
In all religions, societies, customs, cultures and families,

Men want women as chaste as possible.

That is why an average woman would lie about her body count if high to a potential husband and every first sex encounter is a rape or forced.

The number of women who have claimed to be virgins while they are not is also enough to be reckoned with.
and yet Kim Kardashian who was sùcking díck on camera got married to a rich successful man who could have easily chosen ten virgins wink
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:05pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
Well someone who loves sex with different partners is a slut.

Male or female.
so?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 5:04pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
If telling people (women in this case) to be moral is been radicalized, I will own that badge.

If you have gone through my threads in the past, this one should not surprise you.

And no, I have not changed Church.
you don't only tell women to be moral
(whatever that means from your subjective perspective)
you want to force your views on them
you are judgmental, self-righteous and patronizing
and to top it all you think you are saving Nigeria and compare yourself to Jesus cheesy
the only thing that is missing are the bombs
Isis-Bukky cheesy

You are the perfect case study for how radicalization develops
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi:
bukatyne:
Does this make sense to you?

Women have rights to their bodies, men don't have rights to their money

And it sounds like equality?

Are you willing to take responsibility for your poor decisions?
did you seriously think this argument made any sense at all? cheesy

they have a right to their sperm wink
nobody forces them to ejaculate inside of a woman and have unprotected s*ex
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 4:58pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
You are not making sense.

You think multiple sexual experience is something to be proud of?

I see why desperation and mental disorders is on the rise.
You read that where?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Rude To Police Officer On Duty In Italy by desvi: 10:55am On Jun 21, 2019
what are we supposed to do with this information?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:52am On Jun 21, 2019
crackhaus:
I have a feeling you're diagnosing yourself and this is all you. cheesy

Insecurity?
Substance abuse?
Mummy issues?

cheesy
denial is part of the narcissistic personality disorder
but your comebacks are very lame Mr Dunce cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:35am On Jun 21, 2019
crackhaus:
cheesycheesy

I'm really a 'movement' on this forum, so much so that invalid monikers I have never even give a second look know me so well.
And if we investigate, you're not even a quack doctor or native doctor, not to mention a proper doctor, yet you can diagnose. grin

Seun you ought to start paying me for bringing traffic to family section especially on threads that didn't even get to the FP.
your narcissism shines through every single post of yours
which leads us to some of the traits of a narcissist

has an exaggerated sense of self-importance
exaggerates achievements and talents
[and the list continues going by the comments on this thread]

let me guess
you have also problems with substance abuse of some sort and mummy issues
did she not have enough time for you or gave a sibling preferential treatment?

you don't have to suffer in silence, your nagging repressed feelings of insecurity can be treated
no need to fuel yourself with discord and mischief
it is self-destructive in the long run
recognition is the first step to betterment
don't be a dunce cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:59am On Jun 21, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:
Gossssh!
I have a lot of demons I swear. grin
They are never after me o. We are very good friends and we PARTY a lot. IN PEACE.cool

Your OP keeps fighting with hers and constantly opens some disturbing threads to unleash them on some unsuspecting “gullibles” who don’t know their lefts from their centers or rights.

I had the misfortune of going through her list of threads TODAY. . . for the first time. Boy! I was quite entertained. cheesy

You on the other hand . . . . . I will dissect at another time. One PSYCHO at a time please! cheesy
narcissistic personality disorder with sadistic tendencies
I pity his co-dependents, obviously the nicest of people
typical
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:53am On Jun 21, 2019
Acidosis:
No, that's for daughters of Jezebel. Daughters who were raised by people like me cannot date or sleep with multiple partners.
"men" like you are scared of women with experience
I know you dread the comparison with other men
you made it clear on some other thread
and we can all imagine why grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:48am On Jun 21, 2019
Acidosis:
grin grin
You forgot to include the right to be confused about the paternity of potential societal bastards.
see ignorance grin
that's for daughters who were raised by people like you
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:05am On Jun 21, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:
It is not easy to spot chameleons o!
You can only spot them they “move”. cheesy
I am still waiting for the explanation of “the feminine-mystique” big-big grammar blown here.
If you can explain, please share. wink

Like the good old days, time to have some fun.
I gat the time. . . . for now.
Till I lose interest again. cheesy
I just love ya! kiss
FamilyRe: "It Is Disrespectful To Eat Meat Without My Permission" Man To Girlfriend by desvi: 7:59am On Jun 21, 2019
Jman06:
Me that like feeding my girl like a baby, I'll even be happy seeing her consume those meat from my plates. There's a special kind of satisfaction that comes from seeing my girl feed well, especially from same plates with me!
lovely! smiley
my family observed the same behavior in my significant other and it's what made them love him wink
but it is mutual since I believe that taking good care of one other is an expression of love and a pleasure, abi? smiley
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:55am On Jun 21, 2019
Daeylar:
That marital rape thread along with the title must have been really offensive
Kanwuliaextra has been dragging that thread and she only read the title. Imagine what she would have done if she read the thread.

I really missed.
my brain can not fathom what she would have done cheesy
but the question alone has cracked me up grin
I am sitting here smiling like a rétardo grin smiley cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:53am On Jun 21, 2019
Acidosis:
Foolishness is when people can't seem to understand that gender equality does not entail sexual equality. Keep preaching it @OP. Man and woman, as in gender, may be "equal", but male and female, as in sex, are not. This thread dwells on the latter, reason being there are too many biological and anatomical factors against the female.

Aside perpetual insanity, I don't see why anyone would get mad because the "society" seems to place more and better emphasis on the one with higher risk factors.

The extent of bitterness as seen in many responses here is beyond my understanding. A man will shoot his shot and japa in peace while you're there worrying about missing period, contraceptive, abortion, and 9 months of sickness, yet you wanna compete on a fcking spree? You m a d, sister??
let our reproductive rights be our issue, we have access to birth control and we decide about life and death (abortion) cool
you don't have this choice wink
so make sure you don't have hungry bàstards all over the place
will serve society a great deal wink

thanks
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 7:11am On Jun 21, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:
I rest my “basket case”!
Please, up your game on your next “copy and paste” thread.

Just make sure the title is as “catchy” as this one, so it does not offend your audience. At least you have improved your format from “the joyous morals and ritualistic raptures of marital rape”. cheesy

Kudos!
you are killing me with laughter cheesy


KanwuliaExtra:
Thank you sah!

You know some of us are above FIFTY on NL! cool
We can’t be caught replying with “gifs” or “gafs” na. The most I can afford is the use of NL “igboticons” or “”ngbaticons”. wink

Just educate me on what the qualities of “feminine mystique” entail. I am not too old to learn. I promise. wink

Madam “Bukky” failed to enlighten me. In fact, she took me on a merry-go-round of searching for some “holy virgins” for men who are serial, marital rapists. grin
smiley cheesy grin
RomanceRe: Bride And Her 7 Bridesmaids Slay In Swimsuit (Photos) by desvi: 5:21am On Jun 21, 2019
all shades of beauty
FamilyRe: Court Orders Man To Pay Ex-wife N62 Million For 27 Years Of House Chores by desvi: 10:26pm On Jun 20, 2019
I love my job very very much smiley
that's all I have to say
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:16pm On Jun 20, 2019
cococandy:
Me and you often agree on many things and disagree on many others.
But I won’t also shy away from telling you the truth when necessary. I understand you’re a conservative Christian and I respect that for you.
The problem is that recently you’ve been trying to convince everyone else to be. That’s impossible and you know it.
What happened choice?
someone has asked bukatyne recently if she was going to a new church
to my mind came the words radicalized and fundamentalist
ISIS-Bukatyne grin

just joking
sorry oo
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:05pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.
cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:02pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
Any reason why I should do so?
to save the world? cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 10:00pm On Jun 20, 2019
cococandy:
Because of the need shame women into suppressing their sexuality. It usually always comes right down to that.
tell me about it wink
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:59pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
Good.

So forget about the porn industry been male dominated.

No one is held hostage.
I don't know how to explain it so that you get it but I will try ...
the porn industry is largely owned and run by men

that's a fact

you don't need to add any hostage stories to it
don't know what that has got to do with anything?
are you getting tired?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:55pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
You see, the fact that a lot of men open threads about women doesn't I should open a thread about guys even though I have one or two addressed to them.

Rather, tell the men to open a thread about themselves.

The question you should ask yourself is that 'how many times does bukatyne visit the sexuality section? Did bukatyne comment on the thread in question without correcting the OP' ? Objectivity.

The fact that I am influenced by my beliefs and religion offline should tell you that I am me.

If I stopped you on the way and told you to be decent in a rude manner, I would agree I am giving unsolicited advice.

A thread you read the OP, didn't like and still engaged this much? You are enjoying yourself. You are enjoying this unsolicited advise on your own volition and you have the liberty and freedom to jump and pass.

I wouldn't dare compare myself.
go and visit the said thread and see how your attempts to save society are futile without the other half of the population
drink some wine before you do that
it's the place of no shame whatsoever
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:50pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful.

Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women.
cheesy smiley cheesy smiley
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:39pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
My demeanor disrespectful?

I didn't write the OP even though I agree very much with it.

That women should pick good husband? Disrespectful?

That women should be decent, ladylike and have decorum disrespectful?
again!
it was an example!

@bold
yes!
because this is a choice everyone must make for themselves
we are all different and that's a strength and not a weakness
yet you act like you are morally superior
and come off as mrs-know-it-all
you have even just compared yourself to Jesus you see cheesy
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:34pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
And women are so light brained to resist?

Where the women forced to act or join?

Omo, it is real hustle. grin

Men might have built it to satisfy men however the women are willing participants.
nobody said so
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
How can I preach to my brothers when I am a sister?
is there some unwritten law that states that you can't address them?
they are all over the place here preaching to us too so what stops you?
since your mission is a better society, you should consider the other 50%.
it would also lend you more credibility among the female folk
there is a thread here in the séxuality section, the contents quite shocking, I must say and I am not easily impressed
men share all kind of sexual escapades and what STDs they have already had but I have never seen you there

My dear, I have never cared about the agreement or disagreement of a cactus here or in my life.
I am a very objective person and states it as it is. If you go through my posts and thread, you would know that I am NOT a politically correct person.
I know it is en vogue to be not politically correct though people understand different thing when they use these words but that's a different topic
I do not consider you objective at all, you are very much influenced by personal feelings and beliefs

I would also not give an advise that I can not follow because I am a woman of my words and everywhere I go/am is a projection of who I am in part.
see, this is why you are not objective wink
but it's good you give only advice you believe in and I am sure you try to give people the advice you would give a sister
the problem is that you give a lot of unsolicited advice in a rather disrespectful way
there are better ways for sure

Funny thing is that one or two women would come in, read and pick whatever they want to and that's fine with me.
true, even me wink


Even Jesus Christ who shed His blood did not save everyone.
are you comparing yourself to Jesus now? cheesy

@ I encourage rape: is that's what you got from the thread, then good for you.
let's not go there
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:19pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
@Secondly, reminds me of the proverb I quoted in a post.

My obsession with sex on public display is repulsive while those loud about it are not?
didn't say so
you too shall be free in expressing your nymphomania cheesy

don't mind me wink
it's a free world
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:07pm On Jun 20, 2019
ThothHermes:
shocked shocked shocked

In other words, you have run of gas. They are less ridiculous ways to admit that though. grin
am just not interested in copy&paste opinions
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:04pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
Porn industry is male dominated how?

Are the women forced to participate?

Everyone tangles for people's entertainment while they make their cool cash.
it's run by men
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:02pm On Jun 20, 2019
bukatyne:
You find the statement that every woman must strive to marry good men disrespectful?

Interesting.
I find your demeanor on the whole very disrespectful
but I am sure you choose to be provocative so it shouldn't surprise you

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