Until govt start paying my kids school fees ,then they can enforce whatever they like but for now they will be learning Igbo ,yoruba and Hausa language before French or Spanish .

thorpido:
Be content with such things as ye have!
You have married him already so quit thinking otherwise.You are honest with reasons why you married him.Now choose to enjoy him and your marriage rather than worry about what people say.At 33yrs old,you should have learnt to care less about many things.
You should help him dress neatly and trendy and he's good to go.

If any of your kids look like him,would you begin to hide the child?

I agree with everything above except the dressing him . Please leave him the way he is n only you will love him cos like you said he is a good guy. As soon as you clean him up plus his kind nature vultures will swoop . Love him the way he is , don't say no one told you .

stonecoldcafe:


He has a valid concern. He will struggle with this lady over monetary issues in marriage. She may be the type that wants to pitch in 5% while her husband brings in 95%. She will work and use her money for her personal needs or for her kids (perhaps not). Every other weighty thing will like rent, feeding, bills, health matter, fuel for gen, provision even her needs will rest on him.

It will be even more painful for your cousin knowing fully well she earns something! Such behaviour is not feasible in this day and age. Since she has refused to change, your cousin has every right to move on. If he marries her tomorrow and does SOS appeal, the question we will all ask is "didn't you notice this behaviour before marriage?"

These are what courtships are for, its a foretaste of marriage. Move on if you can't tolerate it in marriage.

are men no longer the head of the house ? The man giving 95 n the lady 5 is ok unless there's a problem then they both can do 50-50. We then wonder women are growing wings nowadays .its because they bring in 50 so they see no reason why they should be submissive .please go and work hard to take care of your families and stop doing things backwards.

ogawisdom:
Op he has nt married her yet so can't demand she uses her money to buy stuff for their future kitchen, it is at d lady's discretion. What he can do is to b buying d kitchen stuff himself or give d lady money to buy n bring to his house. It is his responsibility really . Marriage is nt a partnership its abt a provider n a helper, dts y d woman's total submission to d man's leadership/authority is nt negotiable

She is moving into ur house as d man, when she moves in she must then support u. It is good sha to see her making plans towards ur future together, dt shows commitment but at this stage it's at her discretion.

By d way wat kinda of man will allow a woman move into his house with properties, she should nt move in into ur house with things beyond her clothing's, personal effects n d likes but nt gas cooker, microwave etc p


U kw her well, do wat u think u shld do

you have said all . Can't believe that some guys now want women to buy household properties for them . Truth be told some women can be funny , they will pretend and buy all those things but the day you guys will have problem that's when you will know the world also know all the things she has bought you.please man up n buy your own things to keep yourself respect. When she comes in she will do the little ones that way you still have control of your home.

David onye oshi

When I see gejs picture or hear his name,I get that same cold feeling I use to have when I see or hear the name of that Liberian guy that brought ebola to nigeria . GEJ =ERROR

Next time take a train to burnt oak , you will even find our fresh pepper

Very interesting read and shouldn't be overlooked . This was how boko haram started ! But am happy that this guy is saying the truth ," it's northern elites and learned that are causing all these unrest in the north,The uneducated poor are being used .but I can't still understand how daft all of them are cos they are killing , maiming and destroying their own people n land. But please carry on, with the number of kids they breed there ,it will take a thousand years for all of them to die before they move to other parts of nigeria .

Demdem:


For years i shouted that Jonah-daft was a very useless administrator. no one seems to listen to me. Many claimed i was mad. These fools can now eat their words. Demdem has been justified. His antecedents has bayelsa governor suggest the kind of governance the fool operates on. With huge allocations, the fool did nothing in Bayelsa. for years, he kept on sharing money indiscriminately as if na him papa get the money. The curse only did the same at the federal level. Jonah-daft must be prosecuted.

nowadays anytime I hear GEJ name or see his picture , I get that cold feeling I usually have during the Ebola time any time I see a pix or hear the name f that Liberian guy that brought Ebola to nigeria .the name good luck Jonathan will always have a bad omen to it.

It's the northerners that benefit from boko haram funds that don't want boko haram war to end. Northerners , look at the people that killed your family .some are not bold enough to tell us how much the emirs and sultans got but one day we will know.

looseweight:
I hope the president will be able to stand the heat if he try to arrest Mr government unlawfully....

just like nothing happened in the Biafra guys case , nothing will happen if this one is arrested . Most of the hungry stooges now know the amount their masters share amongst themselves while leaving them to do the fighting n dying for nothing .

arsenal33:

You are one of the problems with this country.
Will you be saying this if your brother was one of the soldiers killed by BH because he was ill equipped?

not just the soldiers , what of the civilians bomed , slaughtered and displaced from there homes ? He is an example of stuff that should have been swallowed .

Iceskidd:
who cares? we already won.

and here lies nigeria problems .

I don't like people greeting me sef cos next thing is to beg for money like I have to pay for the greetings .

Why did he do it himself ? Next time send someone no member of the community will recognise . Let it be a lesson to men n women whom play with people's emotions.

48noble:
When broke guys and uninvited guests attend an exclusive party...did the girls complain to you.?

after you say all women are materialistic . When old men have started spoiling them at young age . What is wrong is wrong and this is wrong . One of them may end up your wife or inlaw with no womb or worse .

brize:
Lol, and who is Uwazuruike? A fraud he is, the one people of the zoo will love to champion the cause of biafra(simply because he is compromised) a man who has been in this struggle and not even Ghana newspaper has reported about biafra, hahahahhahahaha for those of them that are about rejoicing, keep calm and know that biafrans don't know who is Uwazuruike, we only know of a man called Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, a man we are following with our life, a man who is a prince in his home town and rich and doesn't need my money for anything, a man who does not have more money than the zoo but he dares them about jamming his poor funded radio biafra owned by all people of biafra, we only know of a man who is fearless before his enemies, a man who says the truth that the zoo hates to hear, we biafrans only know of a man called Nnamdi Kanu who is formidable and within his short time of involvement in this struggle, biafra people are heard and being reported all over the world today..... We disowned Uwazuruike and there is nothing the zoo will do about it he is a poor man who is fed by Nigeria ....

the guy is the least person an Igbo youth will listen to. Someone that has sold his soul for money ,uwa ga e zuru ya Ike soon .

Viva Biafra !

the best man to marry is a God fearing man ! any other good qualities are jara. why are people never content ? you have a good person but keep searching for more ,i have been married for years so take it from me ,there will come a time when you might not even have proper sex for a year cos of work,children ,rent n bills to pay and that is when you will regret not marrying a God fearing man.

i have been laughing since i read this . i don't think she wants anyone to know about this ,just like steph linus that use to act those igbo plays on ABS osha back in days. now they form like they fell from heaven.

anything stolen is sweet but until it becomes yours then is same old same ol ! i beginning to think open marriage is best .

INTROVERT:
Those britts are just raising dust to calm Nigerians agitations. They won't lift another finger on Dieziani who is obviously smarter than y'all think and because the last incident should have served as an opportunity for the brits to bring her down if they wanted too. When she comes back to Nigeria then she'll be properly prosecuted.



my opinion.

this might be cos of the fact she never put her signature on any document. the inner caucus in nnpc will tell you that she always forced a subordinate to sign on her behalf on every scam.

If Nigeria where a country that worked, this woman should have resigned by now whether it's her fault or that of her staff member . But ofcourse she will sit tight n hope some fools will play the tribe game on her behalf . This is a disgrace n by the way am from aguata local government of Anambra state before some people will start talking thrash .

Can see my cleaner patty in the first pix ! And her excuse for not coming to work that day was " her hubby refused to stay with her kids so she stayed back " thanks nairaland for this pic.

if you knew all this why didn't you encourage gej to work very hard as not to lose power to the north ? what ever happens to Nigeria gej will bear the curse.

SAMBARRY:
This is the era of men divorcing their wives over amusing things

women if ya osbands wear torn boxers divorce him
if he has bushy armpits divorce him
if he snores loudly divorce him
if he's talking and saliva is escaping from his mouth divorce him
if he's sleeping and he leaves his mouth open divorce him
if he leaves his bear bear overfull like wole soyinka own without shaving it divorce him
if he's dirty D funny about d toilet thing and leaving dirty clothes lying around . I swear if women start complaining n divorcing their hubbies , marriages will last for one 2 years after see finish period divorce him
if he uses the toilet without flushing divorce him
if he eats without washing his plates divorce him



quote me for nonsense

funny about d toilet thing and leaving dirty clothes lying around . I swear if women start complaining n divorcing their hubbies , marriages will last for one 2 years after see finish period

UnknownT:
Ife residents should be careful now, Head hunters will soon be released cos Oba of his calibre does not go down alone

it's only virgins that should be careful ! Ashiis and tots carry on !

SaiBuharii:
Goodluck Egbere Azikiwe Jonathan will definitely end up in prison. He deserves to be an exconvict.

The man single handedly finished this country. I am still amazed at where he got millions of votes from certain regions. It shows the amount of stupiid people we have in the winning regions and the country in general. Buhari should perhaps clear this people.

Like I advise, now that the clensing has commenced, it's either you join the train and jejely go to the new prison we are building for you. Baba has gone to get prison plans from obama, airconditioned prisons.

Any trouble from naija delta militants or biafra soldiers will be met with tough comebackz...we will kill you. We have eneough bombs, you will die, it's one bomb per head. We will tie the bomb to your neck so there will not be a part of your body to bury. We will execute you all. I'm not mincing words today, distractions are not tolerated. You have been warned.

this guy right here should be held to tell us more about the bombs. boko haramite

ilobasama:
Even when you feel you have found the love of your life, the best way to cope with any heartbreak that may occur is to give a little room for disappointment. Even marriages breakup talk less of mere bf/gf..........these days ladies are not after love but money/secured future.

why is that ? Why ladies only want a secured future ? It's because of the same thing the men are complaining about HEARTBREAKS !!!!!!! Look at how most of the men in there 70s / 60s treated and treats their wives . Most ladies grew up seeing this and go into relationships on survival mode.

shigoslim:
Nigerian should wake up enough of all this media propaganda. APC should know that time is running and Nigeria is waiting for their change chant.

people like you are the reason why the world is in a bad place .

akunjohn:
Action needed,not straight or bend face.

onu ojooooo