Gbagura:
If she still insist on taking the kids, FFK should get an injunction which won't permit him to give his 1 kobo to that lady. She ain't doing all these to only have those kids to herself for the sake of mother's love but also to get millions from FFK monthly in child's upkeep.

Out of the so called 18k signatures, don't be surprised 17,900 are her fellow yeebos. That's how they support themselves blindly.

do you breathe through the a n u s ?? What a black heart fellow you are ... tufia...

Sad

Why did they pick Buhari's call ?

Benwallt:
which way EAGLES? Why will they pick Buhari call na? For what exactly?

i been reasonamooo

Moses na machine, his turning skills no be here

Odewaleadesoye:

Amen oooo!
Though my heart is doing "gbim gbim"

no fear, i know say na ur game mak ur heart dey do gbim gbim, e no go cut

Moses should be accurate with his passes abeg, 3:1 is the score in favour of Nigeria... this i have seen

That Sadiq no supose wear Nigerian Jersey again

How much dem give Eguavon wey make am dey feature this Sadiq sef.....

Who put that aboki Sadiq sef

Wetin dat man dey scratch�����

Who go put aboki sadiq for that pitch ?

spydera:
Na wa to sirdick ooo

dat one don play finish, he no go enter again

matrix199:
It's about time!

Imagine giving loans to pay back in 2weeks with 50% interest. That's not even a shark loan, that's a killer whale loan.

u wey see the terms and still went ahead to take the loan, dem blind ur eye.. make una relax joor

NTA shame dey shame me

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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If you cant relate with my siblings, there is no point getting married to you because you are definitely gonna cause separation between me and my first ever family... The first ever pple i grew up with and suffered with.. so to me the guy is definitely doing the right thing... to avoid chaos that might lead to his untimely d*ath in the future..... My dear go look for anoda man cux that family is definitely not for you. Thanks

shuttox:
Sokoloan has frustrated many Nigerians...

I wonder how they get the victims relatives/friends contacts

why will you borrow in the first place when u had no intention of paying back? If na u bring out money dey loan pple and dem dey run with ur money, how will u still be in business, let alone pay ur workers... those loan company has helped some of us but as Nigerians that we are, we keep bridging the agreement and shedding crocodiles because someone wants his money that he gave to u back.... its unfair and painful, mak una reasonam unaself

Mariangeles:


So what if she wants to be a housewife?

if she wants to be a housewife, she should face the consequences of being a housewife which is to manage anything she see. Just imagine, ur hubby guves u 4k weekly, u what are you contributing on ur side, if he brings 4k and u bring 2k thats 6k, atleast u guys can manage... ok u ran to nairaland so that they will tell u to leave the man ? This is not topic abeg

Dem wan rename that secondary school, school wey never meet college of education standard, let alone polytechnic, na e dem wan name University, not just University but University of Science, Ike gwuru

No single youth, they have resolved to paying hungry old men to be coming out for them...

Blamziefarmz:
iPhone 11 but she Dey enter bus at 6am go work . Misplaced priority

i swear, wen she for buy the 9ja used golf 4 or 2.2 camry mak her wife carry dey go work

Na hunger, hunger go just kill me

People dey say they have lost millions, person wey dey owe me , ask me to send account number so that h3 go pay me, that was the last message he sent, my account number wey i send never go since.... and this guy is chatting me on whatsapp with Kuwait Number.....���� i don call number tire, wetin dek dey speak for me i no dey understand am

Using my phone to teach my daughter how to do calculations using the phone calculator app, cux my phones look like a calculator to me right now

It good like that, atleast if you want to insult someone with ur comment, we go know say na better phone u use dey comment from

Nnemuka:
I mean who records an apology?
Who records calls with a "loved one"?
What is he afraid or or what has he been planning ?

Shameful

my dear, i was in a relationship, at some point i became afraid of my partner with her arrogance and pride and i start bugging her and recording her text and calls... On a good day when i realised that i cant continue , she tried to paint me bad and boom, all her calls and recordings vindicated me... na who never know woman go dey take them lightly... Fear this ur gender, fear dem, even u supose dey fear urself like this

Una say Churchill is evil, now kpokpogiri is wicked , so you guys are not seeing any fault in Tonto abi? If she is that good woman , why will a new relationship that has not lasted upto 6 months be having issues, she should work on herself and learn how to be under a man or she shut up and remain single for life.... Im begining to have the thought that Churchill is a good and tolerant man for having her all those their marriage days... Pride goes before fall,, women who feels they are in equal position with men, they are the ones that almost have broken relationships... Believe me there is no way you will love and respect a man and see him as the head of the house ,and the man wont value you . Even if he wants to cheat, he will accord u the respect and do it far away that you wont even find out and he will never ever show you attitude that he's tired of you.... Women learn how to be under a man, men love it when they are in control and trust me, when u allow a man to be in control of the house, with your loyalty u can get him to do anything for you...

Which channel is showing this match please on dstv

Legendary, this song is dope i swear

Antoeni:
All suleman likes woman, but this one own too much,
He is a chronic womanizer
Extraordinary

now that you have typed this ru bb ish, so sapa has left you abi ? I knw your type, always commenting with borrowed data

All i see here is slav ery, how do these people come up with all these ideologies and still feel comfortable with it

Globalhustler:
Haters just full this nairaland like water. With their loud mouth..one was saying Obi cubana, jowi zaza na noise makers, dem no get money reach Linda ikeji. No be ment be that?

no mind them, poverty attimes dey enter brain, com dey mak som pple dey behave like mad persons, inakwana Linda Ikeji to dey compete with Obi Cubana