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Guess we're holding tonight's family meeting here? Huh? |
Oh yeah, where's Amya? |
[quote author=crazy_in_love]Hello Everyone. I have a guy I am 6months older than and he is talking about marriage. Do you think marrying him will be a wise decision. Does age play any part in marriage?[/quote]If that age gap can pull money from the bank, oh yes, it does! |
Do men still send ladies to school? |
juicyguy: I am really considering visiting her.Dude, forget her and move on or keep living on false hope while you spend more. |
[quote author=tpia@]how many write ups have you done so far?[/quote]I'd lost count. |
Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]Just this nightE be like say e get as the thing dey do you. Don't worry, I will bless your madness, e go make sense ![]() |
When did you start creating silly threads? |
Just when i was about finishing my next write-up on single-moms. Hey, I don't know about using a baby to hold me down. . .best believe, i'd break-loose! But i know so many ladies will fail in having a home, hence, being a babymama is good decision. |
dmcdad: shey football stamina na im dey talk about ni?LOL. Abeg ask Xyne. |
xynerise: It depends on the man's staminaYeye like you. Which stamina? LOL ![]() |
Yes, the gullible ones actually. |
xynerise: Yes na. To avoid......For how long? ![]() |
Dude, as a man, your fear shouldn't be leaving the girl, your fear should be what the future holds for you both and how to make her live a better life. Love without money can be a pathetic feeling, so, at this point, you really need to think and think right. I'm sure you've experienced real hustling and chronic poverty, i can't imagine 4 people living in a room but best believe, you'll survive anywhere and you gonna make it. My concern now is what are you gonna survive at? How promising is the little stuff you're doing in Nigeria? What's the details of you going to europe? What are the provisions over there and from your knowledge of your own friend, how responsible is he and how geniune is the offer? I think from your post, i only know a little about your terrible past and if you ever consider your friend's help as a sincere one, go ahead and lead 'your people to know her people' and if possible, get her pregnant before leaving (reasons reserved). From how your relationship has stood the test-of-time, i think this ghetto love holds a beautiful future. All the best as you think and act rightly. |
xynerise: Dont watch romantic movie alone with ur ex*in her voice* Really? |
WackyJ1: This one is beyond meLOL. So sincere ![]() |
Is this a love poem? |
xynerise: Who cares ?Guess your brain dey safe-mode when you posted this? BTW, which "her"? You still dey market? LOL |
Cathaliya: Somehow, I think D-explorer should come and see one candidate of his tolerance speech some time ago. ![]() |
kofsy: Thanks! I'd pretend I didn't see this!I'd pretend i didn't read this either But take the advice, I'm NOT interested in your bitter tears. . .you've gone too far as the case maybe. You should only be smarter than him. . .face him with the truth you've gathered from her. BTW, you no even fear, see girl get courage tell you say em dey bed your man, you still dey think of how to handle her? That chick is desperate! Go meet your man and settle your issue. There's no one-way to deal with relationship matters and that's why people fall prey over and over again . . .so don't tell me about experience(s) because i've got leads. What you've gathered from here so far is the blunt truth, though in a hard way. . .and again, a beautiful ring could be a beautiful bait too. Be wise! ![]() |
kofsy: Hmmmmmmmm! There's a reason "experienced" was in the title of this post.Maybe the same reason too many ladies here are not as dumb as you. You blame the game and spare the player? 'Expect a better score'.. . .DX got no V. |
You wanna be a street-fighter? Huh? Oh, you're so scared to kick the balls of that dude? You're careful not to lose him? Right? Oh, the ring is so precious to you and despite sensitive error, you wouldn't face him and talk sense into his head? You wanna pardon him and bite the side-woman? Was he seduced? Lets assume it was a mistake but why is he keeping it from you? And to imagine all these happening before marriage. Young woman, you never jam! That side-chick no dey smile o. See swag wey she take tell you say em dey fukc your man. . .oh girl, she go beat craze comot for your head and after your fiance go ignore your swollen face abi na your teeth go comot sef. Simple! |
vislabraye: The guy should go for another babe and watch her reaction.Naah! That doesn't work. The dude just lost her. . .except she's a teen. Playing hard for some ladies is a 'testing moment' for the dude. . .it's filled with doubts and internal interrogation. . . Should i? Should i not? Is he? Am i sure? Now, If you jump onto the next at that period, you only confirm her doubts and she would be happy she never accepted you too quickly. Your loss! |
Johncuba: My fellow nlanders,i wanna appreciate evry1 dat gave his/ha opinion...to doz dat think am a side guy,is dat rily possible whn its a gal dat i was ha first guy/love @ 15,a gal i disvirgined,a gal dat i hav ha fbk nd 2go passwords...atyms i wanna walk away buh my conscienc +luv wudnt allow me on 2nd tots i feel its cus i luv ha more dan she does nd am considerin walkin away...i rily nid ur opinions!I forgot the NL age statistic. Son, go read your books and read it well. . .instead of seeking privacy for sëx. |
cdamsel: shey na u open thread on crazy ways of spicing up ur relationship?(not sure I got d exact name of the thread sha) ![]() |
Harbosede02: muahhhh.morning ![]() |
vicchi12: Wow!! there is a probability that you don't know ur priorities are in life. Sweetheart, I'm 2 years your senior and I can think of is how to continue to hussle with going to school. I'm in College and I work! I am thinking on how to get my scholarship and how to make my mother proud, and how to be a doctor, and yep! I plan to be a minister in Nigeria before I turn 30. Do you want to get married and have children because you think you feel you have nothing to live for? Do you know what marriage is at all? is it sex you want?( I can proudly state I am a virgin and loving it). Woman, I don't know what your plans are, or your situation at the moment, however, getting married to some 23 year old dude should not be your priority. I don't know the type of people you sorround yourself with, but I want to encourage you to start moving with achievers( especially the female sex). You need to go out there and see life for what it really is. Life is way more than sex, husband, and children. Look at folusho Alajike, Ngozi iweale, Hilary Clinton, Tiwa Savage, Oprah Winfry. This great women at your age were not planning to get married, and if they did, thank heavens they had a re-think. Emulate great, strong , and God fearing women around you. They are not perfect, but they have things to offer. There is something I believe in, if you do what is right for your life, men will naturally want you! you wont have to rubbish yourself, or dignity!.....Babes, I know you are human, so am I. Do what is right. have something to offer, and men would naturally want you. leave the guy alone for now.Odikwa very serious! ![]() |
poshdiva: Make her jealous and build distrust in your relationship.ENDorsed! |
SniperInADiaper: If a guy intentionally makes me jealous I will leave his ass. No time for games.See shakara How would you know? |
Johncuba: My fellow nairalanders,i nid ur opinions on dis 1,i hav a gf dat hav bin datin for 5yrs nw buh d problem is dat from d very first day till nw, she wuf only come c me afta endless pleas nd quarrels, am sure she luvs me doe buh it makes me feel unimportant...please wah do u guys think?Let me pick the bolded. How serious are you with this lady? Your post up there makes it look like you're free from faults. What happens when she comes visiting? (major). What's the situation where you live? (major). Aside just the visit, what are the issues before now? (major). You mentioned 5 years like 5 day and you claim to be in relationship for those years and still a common-little visit is still hard-to-get. . .my observation is beyond the visit (which is one natural part of a relationship) there are unsettled issues between you-two. . .spill it and get help. |
ogugua88: No. I'm human. That's why it's best for me to never get myself into such a situation.Yeah! Losing it isn't far especially in that position. . .it could bring back memories. |
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But take the advice, I'm NOT interested in your bitter tears. . .you've gone too far as the case maybe. You should only be smarter than him. . .face him with the truth you've gathered from her. BTW, you no even fear, see girl get courage tell you say em dey bed your man, you still dey think of how to handle her? That chick is desperate! Go meet your man and settle your issue. There's no one-way to deal with relationship matters and that's why people fall prey over and over again . . .so don't tell me about experience(s) because i've got leads. What you've gathered from here so far is the blunt truth, though in a hard way. . .and again, a beautiful ring could be a beautiful bait too. Be wise!