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PoliticsRe: List Of Outrageous Pensions Of Ex- Governors by DEXTROVERT: 12:01pm On Apr 07, 2016
It
Is
FINISHED!!!!

All
These
Should
be
paid
as
Allowances
To
Youth
Corpers
PoliticsRe: Photos: See Obasanjo Dancing With Former First Lady, Patience Jonathan by DEXTROVERT: 10:04am On Apr 06, 2016
what is this??
Car TalkRe: Milemaster 5w 30 Engine Oil Replacement by DEXTROVERT: 12:59pm On Apr 04, 2016
GAZZUZZ:
toyota 5W30 full synthetic, 5000miles.
how much is it and how do I get it, I currently reside in the North, jigawa state
FamilyRe: I Feel so Angry With My Husband. Help! by DEXTROVERT: 6:28am On Apr 04, 2016
Tekevwe:
I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.

Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.

The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.

The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.

I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.

There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.

Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40) and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.

He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.

I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.

Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him?
Please consider my sincere advice
I think God put this in my mind as I read your complaints


1. Don't act hostile or bone from him,you might start a journey of separation.
2. He's most likely depressed from Finances
Try
3. Look for, or present a proposal of ur own business or employment aimed at boosting family finances
4. Urge him to be regular with church activities, create a family regular praying time, don't forget to always stress financial dominance whenever you have to pray in his presence
5. Read Inspirational books on how to maintain peaceful home
Car TalkRe: Milemaster 5w 30 Engine Oil Replacement by DEXTROVERT: 5:35am On Apr 04, 2016
Heeee
Pls advice
I have corolla 04 sport
I have been using mobil 5w 20 since I bought it almost 16months ago, I change the oils every three months or 3000km


But wat I'm seeing here, I dey fear, I remember I saw 5w 30, in the manual


Oga GaZZUZZ what do you think from experience
Should I change or continue
Foreign AffairsRe: Ghana $8.4million Oil Money Missing by DEXTROVERT: 7:34am On Apr 02, 2016
Small
Thing!! , huh
Oil
Money
Is
Never
Found
Always
Missing ,
In Nigeria
We
Are
Used
To
It
RomanceRe: Counter Thread: 10 Qualities Of A Fake Boyfriend!!! by DEXTROVERT: 2:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
INTROVERT
pls
dont
listen
to
op...she takes ososgbo weeds
PoliticsRe: I Am Not Going To Resign - Kachikwu by DEXTROVERT: 7:05pm On Mar 29, 2016
Hmmmmm.
I
Know
One
Day
U
Will
Make
Us
Proud
Jokes EtcRe: My Wife Said That Me And Gej Look Alike by DEXTROVERT: 7:44am On Mar 26, 2016
yes bro you look like the poor version of GEJ
Science/TechnologyRe: A Python Snake Killed By A Nairalander by DEXTROVERT: 12:55am On Mar 26, 2016
FP nooni
Jokes EtcRe: Caption This Good Friday Photo by DEXTROVERT: 12:53am On Mar 26, 2016
Lol
TravelRe: PHOTOS: Truck Currently Burning On Ijebu Ode-ore Road by DEXTROVERT: 10:01pm On Mar 25, 2016
What's
The
Cause?

Did
He
Kill
A
Duck
Without
Putting
Coins
In
Its
Mouth?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Hilarious Tweets Of The Day "#warrigirls", See Snapshots by DEXTROVERT: 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2016
ireneony:
6mtchewww
Copy copy undecided
I miss u
PoliticsRe: FG To Stabilise Economy With N350bn by DEXTROVERT: 5:42am On Mar 23, 2016
When
Are
They
Going
To
Give
Me
My
Share
PoliticsRe: See How APC,Nigerians Reacted As PDP Post Pics Of APC Transporting N5bn 2 Rivers by DEXTROVERT: 10:35am On Mar 19, 2016
God
Almighty
let
strange
illness
that
kills
instantly
land
on
anyone
who's
planning
to
make
RIVER STATE
BLOODY
irrespective
of
his/her
party.


Let
your
peace
reign


click LIKES to say AMEN
Nairaland GeneralRe: PHOTOS: Flydubai Plane Crashes In Russia, Killing All 62 Passengers On Board by DEXTROVERT: 10:30am On Mar 19, 2016
RIP to them

back to nja
I'm
happy
for
our
aviation
Services
despite
old airplanes
of at least
50yrs
we
don't
experience
such





may
nja
never
experience
such.....amen
AutosRe: Do You Know Your Tyre Has An Expiry Date? by DEXTROVERT: 8:56pm On Mar 18, 2016
my tyres are alphabetically numbered not numeric....how do I read them
AutosRe: Clean Liberty Jeep 2008 For quick cash In Abuja price reduced 1m. SOLD by DEXTROVERT: 9:13pm On Mar 17, 2016
ADAMUSALEH:
Still selling
can u bring it to gwagwalada teaching hospital on monday
TravelRe: Graphic Photos: 10 Dies In Fatal Accident At Lagos Ibadan Expressway by DEXTROVERT: 11:18pm On Mar 16, 2016
I wonder the joy you feel when the only thing you do is snap dead humans you must be heartless.. please stop these ....

tell us wat you did to save a life at the scene.
TravelRe: Graphic Photos: 10 Dies In Fatal Accident At Lagos Ibadan Expressway by DEXTROVERT: 11:18pm On Mar 16, 2016
I wonder the joy you feel when the only thing you do is snap dead humans you must be heartless.. please stop these ....

tell us wat you did to save a life at the scene.
PoliticsRe: 10 Women Who Could Be Nigerian President by DEXTROVERT: 7:48pm On Mar 16, 2016
haba!!! what of my girlfriend INTROVERThuh?
HealthRe: How To Survive A Dog Attack In Pictures by DEXTROVERT: 1:15pm On Mar 16, 2016
God
Bless
This
Op
Every
Wednesdays
By
1:15pm
CrimeRe: Careless Driver Crushes Benue State Student To Death In Gboko(Graphic Photos) by DEXTROVERT: 11:49am On Mar 16, 2016
H
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Ought To Be Recolonized Again For Another 100 Years- TRUMP by DEXTROVERT: 9:08am On Mar 16, 2016
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PoliticsRe: Nellie Mayshak, DG Of Pensions, Suspended For Alleged “billions Of Naira” Fraud by DEXTROVERT: 8:49am On Mar 16, 2016
I don't know what to say....
FamilyRe: See The Snake I Killed In The Midnight (pics) by DEXTROVERT: 8:18am On Mar 16, 2016
Click
LIKE
If
u
believe
this
PLASTIC SNAKE
Will
Land
On
FP
RomanceRe: Funny Way Fornication Landed Me In Biggest Trouble Of My Life.pray For Me by DEXTROVERT: 5:50am On Mar 16, 2016
Idiot....
PoliticsRe: Buhari Recieves Highest National Honour Of Equatorial Guinea by DEXTROVERT: 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2016
Of
What
HONORS
Is
It
When
We queue
For
Days
To
Buy
Fuel
And
We
Don't
Have
Electricity
To
Watch
Live
On
Tv


.....
.
RomanceRe: Most Risky Sexual Position And Penile Fracture. (viewers Discretion Is Advised) by DEXTROVERT: 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2016
When
You
Do
Two some
With
Edo and calabar babe
And
Ur
Village
Girlfriend
Already
Warned
You


......
PoliticsRe: Fuel Scarcity: Emmanuel Kachikwu Appologises For The Current Hardship by DEXTROVERT: 10:48am On Mar 15, 2016
Apologies
Not
Accepted
I've
Been
Trying
To
Get
Petrol
In
The
ONLY FUNCTIONING
Filling station
In
Jigawa State
Capital, Dutse(NNPC)
For
Four days
Now
Yet
After
Queuing
For
8hrs
Daily
I couldn't

NNPC
Please
Do
Something
Keep the apologise to your self
CrimeRe: Ritual Killings-the Nigeria Police Release New Spot Of Ritualist And Tactics by DEXTROVERT: 7:40am On Mar 15, 2016
Hmmmm

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