Politics › Re: List Of Outrageous Pensions Of Ex- Governors by DEXTROVERT: 12:01pm On Apr 07, 2016 |
It Is FINISHED!!!!
All These Should be paid as Allowances To Youth Corpers |
Politics › Re: Photos: See Obasanjo Dancing With Former First Lady, Patience Jonathan by DEXTROVERT: 10:04am On Apr 06, 2016 |
what
is
this?? |
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Car Talk › Re: Milemaster 5w 30 Engine Oil Replacement by DEXTROVERT: 12:59pm On Apr 04, 2016 |
GAZZUZZ: toyota 5W30 full synthetic, 5000miles. how much is it and how do I get it, I currently reside in the North, jigawa state |
Family › Re: I Feel so Angry With My Husband. Help! by DEXTROVERT: 6:28am On Apr 04, 2016 |
Tekevwe: I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.
Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.
The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.
The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.
I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.
There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.
Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40) and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.
He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.
I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.
Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him? Please consider my sincere advice I think God put this in my mind as I read your complaints 1. Don't act hostile or bone from him,you might start a journey of separation. 2. He's most likely depressed from Finances Try 3. Look for, or present a proposal of ur own business or employment aimed at boosting family finances 4. Urge him to be regular with church activities, create a family regular praying time, don't forget to always stress financial dominance whenever you have to pray in his presence 5. Read Inspirational books on how to maintain peaceful home |
Car Talk › Re: Milemaster 5w 30 Engine Oil Replacement by DEXTROVERT: 5:35am On Apr 04, 2016 |
Heeee Pls advice I have corolla 04 sport I have been using mobil 5w 20 since I bought it almost 16months ago, I change the oils every three months or 3000km
But wat I'm seeing here, I dey fear, I remember I saw 5w 30, in the manual
Oga GaZZUZZ what do you think from experience Should I change or continue |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ghana $8.4million Oil Money Missing by DEXTROVERT: 7:34am On Apr 02, 2016 |
Small Thing!! ,  Oil Money Is Never Found Always Missing , In Nigeria We Are Used To It |
Romance › Re: Counter Thread: 10 Qualities Of A Fake Boyfriend!!! by DEXTROVERT: 2:42pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
INTROVERT pls dont listen to op...she takes ososgbo weeds |
Politics › Re: I Am Not Going To Resign - Kachikwu by DEXTROVERT: 7:05pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Hmmmmm. I Know One Day U Will Make Us Proud |
Jokes Etc › Re: My Wife Said That Me And Gej Look Alike by DEXTROVERT: 7:44am On Mar 26, 2016 |
yes bro
you
look
like
the
poor
version
of
GEJ |
Science/Technology › Re: A Python Snake Killed By A Nairalander by DEXTROVERT: 12:55am On Mar 26, 2016 |
FP nooni |
Jokes Etc › Re: Caption This Good Friday Photo by DEXTROVERT: 12:53am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Lol |
Travel › Re: PHOTOS: Truck Currently Burning On Ijebu Ode-ore Road by DEXTROVERT: 10:01pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
What's The Cause?
Did He Kill A Duck Without Putting Coins In Its Mouth? |
Nairaland General › Re: Hilarious Tweets Of The Day "#warrigirls", See Snapshots by DEXTROVERT: 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: FG To Stabilise Economy With N350bn by DEXTROVERT: 5:42am On Mar 23, 2016 |
When Are They Going To Give Me My Share |
Politics › Re: See How APC,Nigerians Reacted As PDP Post Pics Of APC Transporting N5bn 2 Rivers by DEXTROVERT: 10:35am On Mar 19, 2016 |
God Almighty let strange illness that kills instantly land on anyone who's planning to make RIVER STATE BLOODY irrespective of his/her party.
Let your peace reign
click LIKES to say AMEN |
Nairaland General › Re: PHOTOS: Flydubai Plane Crashes In Russia, Killing All 62 Passengers On Board by DEXTROVERT: 10:30am On Mar 19, 2016 |
RIP to them
back to nja I'm happy for our aviation Services despite old airplanes of at least 50yrs we don't experience such
may nja never experience such.....amen |
Autos › Re: Do You Know Your Tyre Has An Expiry Date? by DEXTROVERT: 8:56pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
my tyres are alphabetically numbered not numeric....how do I read them |
Autos › Re: Clean Liberty Jeep 2008 For quick cash In Abuja price reduced 1m. SOLD by DEXTROVERT: 9:13pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
ADAMUSALEH: Still selling can u bring it to gwagwalada teaching hospital on monday |
Travel › Re: Graphic Photos: 10 Dies In Fatal Accident At Lagos Ibadan Expressway by DEXTROVERT: 11:18pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
I
wonder
the
joy
you
feel
when
the
only
thing
you
do
is
snap
dead humans
you must
be heartless..
please
stop
these
....
tell
us
wat
you
did
to
save
a
life
at
the
scene. |
Travel › Re: Graphic Photos: 10 Dies In Fatal Accident At Lagos Ibadan Expressway by DEXTROVERT: 11:18pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
I
wonder
the
joy
you
feel
when
the
only
thing
you
do
is
snap
dead humans
you must
be heartless..
please
stop
these
....
tell
us
wat
you
did
to
save
a
life
at
the
scene. |
Politics › Re: 10 Women Who Could Be Nigerian President by DEXTROVERT: 7:48pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
haba!!!
what
of
my
girlfriend
INTROVERT  ? |
Health › Re: How To Survive A Dog Attack In Pictures by DEXTROVERT: 1:15pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
God Bless This Op Every Wednesdays By 1:15pm |
Crime › Re: Careless Driver Crushes Benue State Student To Death In Gboko(Graphic Photos) by DEXTROVERT: 11:49am On Mar 16, 2016 |
H |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Ought To Be Recolonized Again For Another 100 Years- TRUMP by DEXTROVERT: 9:08am On Mar 16, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Nellie Mayshak, DG Of Pensions, Suspended For Alleged “billions Of Naira” Fraud by DEXTROVERT: 8:49am On Mar 16, 2016 |
I don't know what to say.... |
Family › Re: See The Snake I Killed In The Midnight (pics) by DEXTROVERT: 8:18am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Click LIKE If u believe this PLASTIC SNAKE Will Land On FP |
Romance › Re: Funny Way Fornication Landed Me In Biggest Trouble Of My Life.pray For Me by DEXTROVERT: 5:50am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Idiot.... |
Politics › Re: Buhari Recieves Highest National Honour Of Equatorial Guinea by DEXTROVERT: 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Of What HONORS Is It When We queue For Days To Buy Fuel And We Don't Have Electricity To Watch Live On Tv
..... . |
Romance › Re: Most Risky Sexual Position And Penile Fracture. (viewers Discretion Is Advised) by DEXTROVERT: 12:01pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
When You Do Two some With Edo and calabar babe And Ur Village Girlfriend Already Warned You
...... |
Politics › Re: Fuel Scarcity: Emmanuel Kachikwu Appologises For The Current Hardship by DEXTROVERT: 10:48am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Apologies Not Accepted I've Been Trying To Get Petrol In The ONLY FUNCTIONING Filling station In Jigawa State Capital, Dutse(NNPC) For Four days Now Yet After Queuing For 8hrs Daily I couldn't
NNPC Please Do Something Keep the apologise to your self |
Crime › Re: Ritual Killings-the Nigeria Police Release New Spot Of Ritualist And Tactics by DEXTROVERT: 7:40am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Hmmmm |