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kabrud:
Hahahahahahahahaha, these akpu-eating flat heads will never cease to amaze me.

I thought these tribal slurs was only in the Politics Section. Please respect others. This is someone's marital problem. No need to trivialize it.

henriettanenye:
Please the word "Jealous" should be removed from the caption...It should be replaced with "heartbroken"

Gbam! How can someone be jealous of what belongs to him/her?

To those that said she went to far, don't ever pray to be in a position to act irrational. But she went too far indeed.

dominique:
I've not touched the data since as I've been browsing via hotspot. Seeing this thread now, I decided to check my data balance and I saw a balance of 1024Mb.

dominique no vex ooo. On a lighter note, you get data, you still dey use hotspot. Who get the hotspot? Na wa ooo for you sef. (just messing with you fa)

ayusco85:
This should be the best post I ve read so far in any job search related thread on nairaland.
Since work experience is what recruiters hammer on the most, and fresh graduates lack that the most, I think they should listen to your advice on how to get it.

Nice post

Nice one OgidiOlu3 and ayusco85. I advised someone lately to go any company that suits his field and ask to work for free in order to garner experience. If he performs well, they can even employ him. On the other hand, he will not be wasting time sitting at home. Thumbs up guys!

menix:
OP, am sure u re above 60yrs because that was the criteria used on my dad in the 50's/60's..

I started primary school in the 80's nd I did not encounter such criteria...

omérta

You can do the research yourself, albeit here is the Nigerian Marriage Act.

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

Nice points although I'll counter some but lemme start with the below [Point 4]:

4. AVOIDING THE USE OF WEDDING RINGS
This may not sound more of a big deal to many, but it does contribute to create a non-verbal awareness of your marital status even from a distance to those who may want to pick interest on you. Thereby prevent the unnecessary temptation. So, be proud to use your wedding ring especially when you and your partner live apart/travels, etc

What happens if the spouse loses his/her fingers or both hands, what happens?

Buenos noches, hombres, mujeres en la casa

Iamhatey:
here and there. Been kind of busy.

How is your learning?

Muy bien. Tú?

Iamhatey:
yo is fine

Where art thou gone to?

Iamhatey:
Holla

Hola señora Iamhatey. Cómo está?

nowpresence:
How do guys add accent to your words.
Gracias in advance.

Hold your apostrophe key and press the letter - voilá! There you have it.

Buenas tardes señora. Yo soy dfrost. Tú?

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[quote author=Ganiyat72 post=49937574]What a warped reasoning u have got!, I praised the igbos u abused me, what if I had used un complimentary words, perhaps you would've demanded my head on a platter?.........smh[/quotel]

Honestly, you shouldn't have responded to that post. You praised the man of course. Sometimes silence is golden. Pèlé.

Please move on.

ItsQuinn:
But you don't know what he's gone through and you simply can't understand

That's like saying that a doctor that hasn't experienced appendicitis pain should not console or operate on the patient. Some of us don't tell our history on social media. You don't know my story. Let's leave for a convenient time.

Always remember: we don't know the power of forgiveness until we need it. Ciao.

ItsQuinn:
Actually I'm helping him heal his wounds my way

Haba sis. Not good enough your way nah. I'm not saying your way is bad but loving method is better off. We can persuade him to see his dad.

ShoProperties:
Looool Funny You me that have hot temper i can just give him a small mark before rushing down to mumcy ...

That your small mark go turn you to a murderer before you go even know. Watch your temper abeg.

dirtyslap:
he can't win me back...he lost me long ago...he is d reason I become a military man...if he come to me, I swear down, I'm gunning him down.

dirtyslap even though it hurts but think twice, thrice before your decision. So many things may have influenced his decision (negatively). Please note that I am not in any way supporting your dad. Never. A man should never run away from his responsibilities. I will tell a story and invite you to the thread. One never knows the power of forgiveness until you need it my brother. Show him how much better you are compared to him.

@ ItsQuinn, you are not helping matters at all. Na wa for you ooo. I'm not saying you are a bad person, not at all. But you can help dirtyslap to heal his wounds. For crying out loud the man is wounded and you are adding insult to the injury. No be like that nah.

general111:
thanks man.u made a lot of sense.

Thanks man. All sense belongs to God and he gives to all. Na to use am be the main thing.

ShoProperties:
can u stand the shock it's easy to say but not easy to carry out since u are carrying a weapon trust me %90 of us will first test the weapon on the cheating partner before going to see the mother

Well like you said "90%“ I'm not part of the greater statistics. Expect anything from your fellow man.

When the three witches told Macbeth that man born of man will kill him, he never understood the import.

@ the bolded, by the time you are done with that, mumsy may have been hacked down. No think am bros.

Some of us are different, hombre. I'll say it again, mumsy. Adiós señor.

Nice tips, mainly for those that use prepaid meters.

Your findings or someone's?

OP what your dad did in your presence was wrong, albeit next time they start raising their voices, take your leave else you'll end up taking sides. My one cowry of sense.

OLAADEGBU:
Why should I not have an abortion? What reasons are there for why I should not consider having an abortion?

Why do you want to commit abortion?

ShoProperties:
You saw someone fighting your mum, you rushed into the house to fetch a weapon and found someone in bed with your wife.
Which would you attend to first?

Please comment.

Mumsy first of all. Later we go reason the infidelity matter.

nowpresence:
How do I join this group. Would love to learn Spanish.

You are on already on the thread. So no formal invitation is needed. Yo soy dfrost. Yo soy un hombre. ¿Tú?

Sleekshady:
Buenas tardes mis amigos, como estas ¿

Bien Sleekshady. pregunta - eres un hombre, mujer, niño o niña?

What is wrong with us?

I miss my Maths teacher . To all the teachers doing it for passion, have a blast.

Back to the matter at hand, government should be at the forefront of making sure that teachers are well-paid.

If they don't, then the private sector will treat them like trash. It's an eye-popping situation to hear what teachers earn. How they survive every month is what I can't comprehend.

How many people commenting on this issue have been in the OP's situation or in the OP's brother's situation?

How many are married? Because before you start advising someone, you already have passed such situation before.

It's just like advising someone on how to answer questions at the embassy when you've never applied for one.

bodmas119 sit down and discuss with your wife privately, discuss with your brother privately and then discuss with both of them.

I don't know what your brother is doing but if he doesn't have a work, he's still your brother. You have the DUTY to feed him. You can't chase him out because he's not working or because he doesn't have a place of his own at the moment.

As per your wife, you can't kill her with work. If you want to appreciate your wife, take time off from work and do want she does from start of the day till bedtime. My guy I assure you: you go almost collapse. Like someone posted, hope you don't want your wife to be looking like 50, when she's actually 31. Later you will create a thread how your wife looks older than her age.

In all the advice you have received from folks here (married and unmarried, crazy and sane, those that have brothers and those that don't), work your path.

There's no single recipe for a successful marriage ogbèní. Ciao.

PS: sorry I came to the party late.

DesChyko:
My guy.. Na tomorrow I dey go ask them wetin he go use textbook 12k do

12k for wetin nah? Nah UNILAG nursery and primary school be dat?

Well done papi. Your hijo is cute.

I hope you no follow dey price school fees, abi nah which one you say make them remove

elnino3:
Great thread.

Necessito màs escribôs

Qué?