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shegspearl:
bro... that one done happen already. the wife helped the husband to rape their only daughter

Lò bá tòn

Imagine how the child would view humans.That all of us are wicked. Evil that men do.

Gwan2:
That awkward moment wen ur Mama go say no be she born you wen ur faced wit criminal charges in d court..wen d resemblance she hav wit you is so glaring.
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Worst still, is promising d court to help them in dia search for ur true maternity...

Gwan2 how and where on planet earth did you sit down and reason this? You got me laughing like I inhaled laughing gas.

Pain:
We the Association of Nigerian Men (ANM) hereby disown Dr Akin Baruwa.
No such name exists on our membership list either married or unmarried.

Signed Chairman

Regards

Signed Member

IdiAmin1:
Rape is bad but until proven, you can never tell.

Hi IdiAmin1 you're actually correct on your point above. But then permit me to add my thoughts though.

I'm sure you will agree with me that owing to the fact that molestation is turning into an order of the day, it is actually easier to approve that the offender committed the crime than disprove. Reason why I blame both the parents and the lecturer.

The parents - are they too busy to escort the girl to the school, not thinking through on the different scenarios that might play out if the girl goes alone?

The lecturer - is he so busy not to read, listen to news or hear folks within his community discussing about the issue of molestation, that he had to enter into his office (God knows where since UNILAG denied that he exists let alone occupying an office in the school) alone with the girl?

I still don't understand the way some adults reason (I'm not referring to you but the parties I mentioned above).

Peace to you bro, and have a wonderful day.

modelmike7:
And he has an office in the same university?! ........................

Exactly my thoughts. One of these days, we will wake up to hear that a man has molested his daughter and the mother will support the father, saying that the little child is hallucinating. May God safeguard us from the evil thoughts of wicked men.

dhardline:
Did i just read this?

Same question I asked myself... They might even contest in the forthcoming elections in 2019 under the aegis of PAN or AAN, whichever suits them.

deebsman1:
Good, whether biggest or smallest, sha give them one and something nice, african's always backward with biggest, largest, whatever est tag

You got me ripping with laughter, honestly.

Let me add mine:

Latest...

Unibentested:
I hail una my people..

Bros, I respect you for your dexterity and time to fish out the motive of the scammer. If all of us can do this regardless of how desperate we are in need of a job, then there will lesser cases of fraud. For the greedy ones I can't speak for them.

Salute.

VickyRotex:


Level pass level

Abi nah . Na here you come hide abi leave Literature matter for us.

I hope your Sunday service went well?

I don't want to spam this thread. I'll ask about the book in the other thread. Shalom.

dfrost:
PS: I've seen men who can kill anyone who abuses the female folk. Believe me.

I posted this yesterday and here is an evidence already. Please give it to some men folk out there that protect the women folk (sister/mother/gf/wife/passer-by/et al).

@
classicB
soonest
yetseyi

Please heap some praises too for some of the men folk that die trying... Shalom

lexisjay:
......men that do that can be classify as an irresponsible or. Secret cult member wch I stated earlier...will always try to comment thanks so much

You're welcome brother. Shalom.

SirShymexx:
Shalom, bruddah.

And don't drink too much juice - it's not good for ya health.

Drink bottled water.

Alright bro. Will heed to the advice. Thanks.

DEGREE2466:
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DEGREE2466

I agree with you but a busy now to prepare my argument to support yours. Will modify very soon.

SirShymexx:
P.S: I might sound a tad incoherent - that is basically cos I'm typing from a phone.

Forget about the coherence. Message passed, message received. I'm not above mistakes either owing to typo.

classicB
soonest
yetseyi

Don't be afraid of all men. Don't loose guard either. Shalom.

EggovinMma:
I don't want to believe you're a rapist. I don't have love for them, sorry if you're pissed.Take care.

Apologies accepted. Not pissed though, only surprised. We will all get there eventually.

Please shout it out to the women folk: enrol in a self-defense skill. Karate, judo, jujitsu, taekwondo et al. Make sure you don't use the skills for attacking the male folk. Only for self-preservation.

Shalom.

yetseyi:
Can the guys assure the ladies this.

Where is my own nutriC?

Yes we can. Did you notice that some guys were actually defending ladies on the thread? So we can whenever the need rises.

Don't worry I'll serve yours once the water in the refrigerator gets cold.

boman2014:
GUY, U SURE SEY NA UR FRIEND OF MIND SEND U THIS FHOTO?

boman2014 you for do eye like say you no see am nah . Sometimes mistakes do occur when some of us are in a rush to post topics, comments online... That's why it's called mistake. Shalom

EggovinMma:
Well I think the system should start by giving your likes lethel injections. Una don dey plenty, it's better for una to reduce small.

Haba EggovinMma , sorry if my post was misinterpreted. So sorry about that. I never insulted you. There is no need to wish me death by lethal injection. I was asking for suggestions on ways to curb the issue. Best regards.

SirShymexx:
Thirdly, Teenage girls aren't even the only ones who go through this ordeal - a lot teen boys also do.

Fourthly, I doubt rape victims are in the majority. So why the unnecessary noise, when it can be dealt with in a more effective way, without creating unnecessary suspicions/tensions between both groups?

Lastly, The world doesn't revolve around them alone - men are also out here and we're also victims of a lot of things.

P.S: sorry for the long post.

Hi SirShymexx,
How I wish I could give a glass of chilled Nutri C (wetin you dey expect before? ) for your post. You are among those that have hit the nail on the head. The following are my submissions based on your post:

Third paragraph - I agree totally with you. When I was in my early teens, a family friend (female, in her late teens) came over to our house on a routine visit. As soon as she saw that my elder sister wanted to get something outside, she come over to me and started stroking my private part. I was shocked even as little as I was. I slapped her hand away but couldn't push her away because she was quite bigger than me. Immediately my sister came in, I reported the matter to her. My sister gave her a slap of her life and warned her never to come to our house again and she never did. So boys can also be victimised.

Fourth paragraph - Rape victims are not in the majority, they are also not in the minority. Are you also aware that husbands rape their wives too? It's a consent issue. Probably at that moment, the wife was not in the mood. But the unnecessary noise owes its credit to social media. More people are becoming aware faster than ever before. Like you said and I quote "it can be dealt with in a more effective way, without creating unnecessary suspicions/tensions between both groups". I reasoned on this line with classicB and she quite understood. But you know men, we are so hard-wired that we can only break at the highest level of pressure. So sometimes we sulk it in and pretend nothing happened while women talk about it. Like I mentioned earlier, they are at the receiving end. It's a very traumatising ordeal. One can never feel the pain of another unless you pass through the same treatment. What I understand from the participants of this topic (especially the women folk) is that they need assurance from the opposite gender that they will be protected (excluding those who hunt for trouble on their own) and also the male folk should speak out for them when the need arises.

PS: those who are interested in reading the long post will always read it if they want to learn. No man is an epitome of knowledge. Shalom.

EggovinMma:
many home based guys needs proper orientation. They think and behave like lower animals.

So how can you help them (all of us) get the orientation? We are ready to listen.