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Foreign AffairsRe: Japan To Launch 'fasting' Camps For Internet-addicted Students by dhammer(m): 11:08am On Aug 31, 2013
An education system that's actually working! We haven't decided whether all children should go to school or not.
Christianity EtcRe: Church Sign Has A Message For Homophobic Christians by dhammer(m): 10:52pm On Aug 30, 2013
Why do people keep bringing up this gay topic, let sleeping dogs lie already
Nairaland GeneralRe: Negative Thoughts About Yourself You Should Avoid by dhammer(m): 1:58pm On Aug 29, 2013
Ever notice how Nigerians result to insults at the very first sign of an argument? Its simply ridiculous.
LiteratureRe: Poetry by dhammer(m):
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Nairaland GeneralRe: Advantages & Disadvantages Of Living Alone by dhammer(m): 2:53pm On Aug 26, 2013
Wu Zetian: As far as I'm concerned, there is no disadvantages in living alone.

In fact, when and if I get married, I do not mind living in a separate house from my husband

Just the thought of living with someone, every single day.... *shudders*
Take the next available spaceship from the planet you are currently residing back to earth.
FamilyRe: Ex-wife Pays Divorce Settlement In Coins, Rice And Beans by dhammer(m): 12:54pm On Aug 23, 2013
Dang, at least she could have separated the coins so the guy can eat the rice and beans well.
CelebritiesRe: Wentworth Miller 'Michael Scofield' Is Gay by dhammer(m): 11:21am On Aug 22, 2013
Ohibenemma: It's all a deliberate promotion of perversion and really a sign of the end...(bash me if it makes you feel good) Nobody, I repeat, nobody is programmed to be attracted to his gender type, but human curiosity and demonically inspired experimentation has led to this wave of rebellion.
Just a few days back, we read about Kenyan male prostitutes who can no longer hold their shit and therefore have to use pampers to avoid public embarrassment, and someone tells me, 'gays are just wired to be like that, it's no fault of theirs'huh Seriouslyhuh I am patiently waiting for when they would NATURALLY impregnate themselves and produce offspring.
A 1993 study published in the Journal of the
Royal Society of Medicine found that fourteen
out of a sample of forty men receiving anal
intercourse experienced episodes of frequent
anal incontinence. However, a 1997 study
published in the American Journal of
Gastroenterology found no difference in levels
of incontinence between homosexual men who
engaged in anal sex and heterosexual men who
did not, and criticized the earlier study for its
inclusion of flatulence in its definition of
incontinence.

Be careful with misinformation, Africa is very good at that.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 - Round 2 - Hot Topics by dhammer(m):
Reserved for number 10

FEMALE CIRCUMCISION

DESIGNER: Kpolly

WHY DID YOU CHOOSE THIS TOPIC
Female circumcision is a really important life altering event which has been performed on about 130 million women alive today, of which Nigeria accounts for about 33 million of these. those female circumcision is often seen by most as a problem of the past which is not true, it is still a serious female health issue in Africa. I wanted this opportunity to explore it and build on my existing knowledge about this topic in order to understand why it is practiced, and its detrimental effects on its victims.

WHAT UNIQUE EXPERIENCE DID YOU DERIVE FROM WORKING WITH A DESIGNER
Working with my designer Kpolly was a very unique and rewarding experience, he is without a doubt an extremely talented graphic designer, he was able to visualize the message I was hoping to convey with poem excellently from the outset of our conversations and after just a few short emails, we had reached a satisfying conclusion on everything about the graphics for the poem.

WHAT WERE THE CONSTRAINTS INVOLVED IN WORKING IN A TEAM
I did not experience much difficulty working on the team. it was however frustrating posting and editing the poem on my phone.

THE POEM
The poem, represent 2 points of views; one being an elderly woman who is adamant the old ways are the best, the view of the razor blade used for the deed and the view of a little girl named Zara who was the victim who both believe it is a practice that should be eradicated.
The poems begins with the denouncing of any guilt by the elderly woman as she trivializes the death of the young girl, explaining it away as an uncommon consequence of female circumcision, she further goes on to justify the practice as well as abuse those who are against it
The next stanza, lends the point of view of the razor blade used for the act, having been used so many girls go through the circumcision process, he is frustrated and outraged but unable to revolt against is wielder. He is further distraught by the death of the death of the little girl and he gives us a little insight into the event.
In the last stanza, the little girl voices her surprise and saddened at how she was treated , asks a lot of questions seeking an answers, on seeing the full scale of the problem calls on the living(the reader) to rise up and take a stand

IN CONCLUSION
Female genital mutilation is a really serious issue which needs to be addressed and more awareness has to be made about it , which is something I really hope would be accomplished with the poem, together we can put an end to this terrible practice. Thank you.
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LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 - Round 2 - Hot Topics by dhammer(m):
Reserved for number 10

FEMALE CIRCUMCISION

It is a sad thing which happened here today,
I did all I could but sometimes things end this way, but you know an innocent life is but a trivial price to pay! Forget what these educated fools say, they live in their glass houses, brainwashed by technology, oblivious to the necessity of the ancient ways. All they know propaganda,
all they feed on is the white man’s lies,
the lies have led them astray.
They say our practice is wrong, they say it is evil, Heresy indeed! I, my mother, my sister, my friends,my grandmother and her grandmother before and a thousand generations preceding is proof, circumcising our young girls is the key.
Circumcision takes a wild woman and makes her tame, it gives her the virtues of modesty, chastity and all she needs to remain sane.
So you see an innocent life now and again,
is truly a very small price to pay.

Humans and their backward thinking, it stuns and disgusts me! I a simple razor blade, has seen more violence than I was made to ever see. I have seen the blood of countless innocents spilled. I cannot protest or fight the grotesque ways I am used, for if I could I most certainly would, in the end the fight is left for you.
Her name was Zara, she was only 4 years old,
she was held down on that cold floor,
like a thousand girls before, while in shock and still confused , I was picked up by a timeworn woman, a woman who should have known this was an evil thing to do, the quiet morning air, was filled with a high pitched shriek, a sheik which will echo throughout time, a testament of the misdeeds of human beings, after forever the deed was complete but bleeding did not recede,
as the floor went from a pale grey to a bright red
the high pitch shriek turned to a low pitched whisper and then silence. Silence from the perpetrators, silence from a guiltless girl, silence, only silence.

I did not deserve this, no one deserves this,
the dehumanization of females by ignorance,
a truly sorrowful thing.
I Zara am now just a rumour, just a memory,
so many lives like mine lost for no apparent reason. Africa my beautiful mother, why have you done this to me, to us, your lovely daughters? So many women dead, so many living in shame, so many deeply physically scarred and even more emotionally derailed . so many lives changed, for a tradition which makes no sense. It is time for the living to rise up and say, no more! Let all men and all women, all boys and all girls, Fight this darkness and free so many from a manmade hell. Together shouting with one resounding voice, no more! No more mutilation of the female child, no more exposing her to fear, pain and emotional distress, no more giving her incontinence, infections, infertility and death
No more daughters living in shame, no more victims of chronic pain, No more, No more! A stand must be made, for the girl child unborn and countless more before their humanity can be wronged . The time is now, take a stand! Take a stand!
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LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 by dhammer(m): 10:47am On Aug 17, 2013
Thanks
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 by dhammer(m): 10:47am On Aug 17, 2013
Cuddlemii, please I haven't been able to get in touch with my designer, could I please get an email address or phone number
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 - Submission Thread For Round 1 by dhammer(m): 6:28pm On Aug 16, 2013
KPOLLI, wheeerrreeee aaaarrreeee yyyooooouuuu?
LiteratureRe: Poetry by dhammer(m): 12:17am On Aug 16, 2013
Reserved for No. 13
FEMALE CIRCUMCISION
LiteratureRe: Poetry by dhammer(m): 12:15am On Aug 16, 2013
Reserved for No. 13

FEMALE CIRCUMCISION
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 by dhammer(m): 8:01pm On Aug 14, 2013
Thanks for this, so what's the next step?
Christianity EtcRe: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by dhammer(m): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2013
Religion corrupts everything.
ComputersRe: MTN Is Slow When Using Modem To Browse But Fast When Browsing With My Phone by dhammer(m): 1:13pm On Aug 10, 2013
Change your modem settings to 3G only
HealthRe: U.S. Reports Malaria Vaccine Breakthrough by dhammer(m): 11:34am On Aug 09, 2013
Dibiachukwu: Igbos don't take this vaccine!
it's people like you that make life.much more difficult than it has to be!
FamilyRe: Share Your Addiction!! by dhammer(m): 12:01am On Aug 05, 2013
I'm addicted to the future
TV/MoviesRe: Denrele Attacked For Sending Beverly Osu To Represent Nigeria At Big Brother by dhammer(m): 11:22pm On Aug 04, 2013
Is he her father? See nigga see trouble o! Haba
CelebritiesRe: Hotel Selling Cooked Human Meat Found In Onitsha by dhammer(m): 11:17pm On Aug 04, 2013
Nairaland mods please you dudes should get off your arses and ensure lies aren't propagated. It is ludicrous!
PoliticsRe: Secrete Picture Of Aso Rock by dhammer(m): 11:15pm On Aug 04, 2013
Jobless slowpoke
FashionRe: Tumisola Ladega 14-Year-Old Designer At Africa Fashion Week London. by dhammer(m): 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2013
udilson: I see wit all dat bra fully her chest nd still she dey calim 14 years naija wahala
. Dude cover it up! Your ignorance is showing.
Christianity EtcRe: Letter From Charly Boy To Pope Francis by dhammer(m): 2:54pm On Aug 02, 2013
I don't think this issue is one where a compromise can be reached. Gays are humans, whether you like it or not and you probably have a friend whose gay , whether you agree with the lifestyle or not, its there just like rain or fog, its a natural occurrence, heck homosexuality is more common in the animal kingdom than masturbation.

Changing people should start from same sex secondary schools where boys unfortunately explore their sexuality with others of the same sex. Certainly not making it illegal, that helps nobody.

A little digression, I think the fundamental problem with nairaland is there are too many strong headed illiterates who have no intention of listening to logic or considering someone else's point of view.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition Season 2 - Submission Thread For Round 1 by dhammer(m): 11:26pm On Aug 01, 2013
NUMBER 17

THE OLD BOOK

The old book lies on top of the bookshelf,
So many secrets it holds left for dead,
Countless people walk in and out every day
So many give it half a glance and then stray
Pick me up! Please pick me up!
I'm covered by dust and rot
My hinges with rust and worms,
Someone put me in your arms, read me
That’s what I was made for, that’s where I belong
Maybe that gentleman or that girl,
Will give into curiosity and free me from this hell
Maybe her, maybe him, maybe tomorrow
Maybe next week, maybe in a month
Maybe never at all, maybe never at all.
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Christianity EtcRe: Pope Francis Has Changed My View Of Homosexuals by dhammer(m): 4:45pm On Jul 31, 2013
I think I figured out the primary problem with nairaland, there are too many bloody illiterates who can't see reason, logic or possess basic human traits like understanding.
WebmastersRe: Things Web Developers Must Achieve by dhammer(m): 3:32pm On Jul 30, 2013
Dude this list is silly. A good Web designer must try to be the best, period.
PhonesRe: Blackberry Empathy-what Can U Say About This New Bb? by dhammer(m): 9:38pm On Jul 29, 2013
This phone was a concept blackberry never made and are not planning on making

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