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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Writer Needed by Dharkcocoa: 1:36pm On May 20, 2022
lardy96:
I need a content writer who can write 3-4 short news stories per day (300 words each)

Hello!
I'm Chioma. A content writer. I can help you with this project. Below are my contact details;
WhatsApp : 07066950747
Email: Chiomaikejiaku@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Writer Needed by Dharkcocoa: 1:28pm On May 20, 2022
I am a content writer and also a university student.
I am a creative writer with good work ethics. I would deliver the jobs at the appropriate time. Below are my contact details.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Data Entry: Home Based by Dharkcocoa: 11:29pm On May 06, 2022
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Family / Re: New Year Post Wedding Pictures With My Beautiful Wife by Dharkcocoa: 12:53pm On Jan 02, 2021
You have a beautiful home sir. Just looking at his family you'll know he takes good care of them. Many more years to you and your Mrs

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Autos / Re: Man Meets A 6-Year-Old Auto Mechanic In Benin - Pictures by Dharkcocoa: 4:05pm On Dec 26, 2020
CandyOps:


Shatap your mouth. define child abuse fess. in a short while that boy would be skilled enough to fend for himself. Almost everyone I know who went into trading or a skilled job while I was seeking admission is now a big guy. I wish I started earlier

As you said "when i was seeking admission" not when you were in primary2 bro
Family / Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by Dharkcocoa: 9:29am On Dec 26, 2020
wwwkaycom:
My niece came visiting for Christmas, I was so glad to have her with us since yesterday. She'll be leaving on Sunday.

We came back from our church programme today and just as we were finishing lunch, this young guy just knocked on the door and my niece Shola went to open the door for him. He came in and she just introduced him casually as Clement, her boyfriend. She led him straight to her room and were there for like 3 hours before the guy left.

I felt insulted and irritated by her action but my wife would not allow me to say anything. She said I will talk to her angrily, she however promised to call her and counsel her gently before bed this night. That must be the kind of rubbish she has been doing in her school because I know she won't even dare it with her parent. She has been telling me her mum especially is high handed and just too tough for her liking.

I'm still not so happy because of my wife's action, or am I been too old school or archaic?

Sir you aren't archaic. It was rude of her to invite someone into YOUR home without prior notice. And worst still taking to the room, what happened to parlor. Sorry to say this but your niece lacks respect


Me seff no fit try am with any of my family members. Do well to let her parents know because if she gets pregnant tomorrow they'll say it happened in your house.
Romance / Re: My Girl Replied Her Ex Boyfriend's Compliments Of The Season. Now She's Begging by Dharkcocoa: 9:33am On Dec 21, 2020
Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

� children!
Investment / Re: What Investment Mistake Would You Never Make In 2021? by Dharkcocoa: 10:01pm On Dec 20, 2020
yomi007k:


Treasury bills made me a millionaire. It is safe and real. It is just that the rates are low these days.

I invested in it from 2015 to 2019. I enjoyed high rates of 18%,15%,12% per annum before I pulled out.

Which bank did you use and what amount was invested
Investment / Re: What Investment Mistake Would You Never Make In 2021? by Dharkcocoa: 9:44pm On Dec 20, 2020
Sysdatek:
Lalasticlala

Investing under impulse

As advice
Avoid all these Forex trading companies MBA and co
All these plans . Avoid online ponnzi

If you want to trade . Learn online from professionals


Invest in business you. Know and have some level of control over and you will be fine

Exactly sir. Avoid any online scheme that promises 10k per week. I have lost a lot this year on all these 1k schemes yet i wasn't paid. Even that binomo scheme of getting Double within 45 mins. I lost 10k. In total i lost to online schemes is 15k. In as much i try to console myself that its a small amount it doesn't dispute the fact it was wasted and would have been put to better use

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Literature / Re: Life In Vene-ah Kingdom by Dharkcocoa: 2:33pm On Dec 18, 2020
May God bless the author
Family / Re: Advice Needed On My Late Dad's 1st Remembrance by Dharkcocoa: 2:57pm On Dec 17, 2020
soulstalker:
Good morning romancelanders, this is not right section, but i need more opinions about this thread.

December 27th will complete one year in which my dad was buried, and according to friends and family, i was told we should have a remembrance party in his memory.

I am the 7th born in the family, but the closest to my dad before his demise(none of the kids have access to his properties except me).

Now the families are tasking me big, i mean a whole 500k from me alone for the remembrance party(despite the fact they know my financial state, which i was scammed a huge sum of money months ago and i also just ventured into some business, and the registration for my 2yrs old son school by january). So my question is, why are they planning so much for the remembrance? Why did they bill me that much? Or are they possibly passing a message to me because of my dad's properties? But fact is me i don't have such amount of money on me talkless of contributing that amount? Pls ur sincere advise is needed..

Don't let them financially abuse you. After putting the whole bills on your head, after that day they won't be there to count your losses with you.

They should draft a budget for it and everyone should contribute their quota if not they should count you out. Pere!
Celebrities / Re: Cubana Chief Priest Slams DJ Cuppy For Tagging Him On Pictures by Dharkcocoa: 11:56am On Dec 15, 2020
kingGerman1:
you guys are not getting cubana is actually a club which she was dere for relaunch bit chief cubana is a former worker of d club but uses d name cubana

Exactly, seems she thought he still worked there that's why she tagged him. Shebi he has left cubanna, he should kuku change his name
Family / Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Dharkcocoa: 7:04pm On Dec 14, 2020
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section


Sir if you value your life and that of lady B involve the police and lawyers. Make sure she signs an undertaking and keeps a distance of 40m from you and all that pertains to you. You saw someone that's all shades of infidelity yet you had plans to marry her, i wonder how you men reason sha
Romance / Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Dharkcocoa: 4:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
Originalsly:


The lady needs no medicine. What would you say to someone that takes in a lion and expect it to behave like a sheep?... to stop killing other animals and be feeding on grass? Do you think beating will help?

Spending money to keep her loyal is what you're calling investment? Guy... that is a gamble where the odds are heavily against you winning. You gambled and you lost. What do people do when they gamble and lose?

Normal men go through that... quietly suck up their losses.... learn from their mistake and move on with life. You can't beat your investment out of her... neither can you make her be loyal by force. Can you change the stripes of a tiger?

A fool and his money are soon parted.










Well said sir
Romance / Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Dharkcocoa: 4:05pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]





Uncle the fact you hit her till the point she became unconscious says a lot about your hidden demon. When you got proof the first time you should have simply ended things. Nobody would care if she cheated on you assuming she ended up dead.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Dharkcocoa: 12:46pm On Dec 08, 2020
HolySpiritspeed:
What I can tell you is, whenever you see a business deal that seems, TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, especially the ONES THE DEAL ANCHORS SEEM TOO DESPERATE TO GET YOUR MONEY then: RUN! RUN!! RUN!!! I learnt the hard way. I almost died.

Secondly, never invest hastily in any business even when pressured. Take your time, study the business and pray about it and when God direct you, stick to it. Avoid desperation while investing and safe yourself premium tears.

But all in all, I sincerely thank for my life, because I've come to the understanding that, maybe God allowed me to go down that drain to teach me THINGS! As in teach me things.
Because He (God) pulled me out more refined, both inside out, stronger, tougher, biggest and best. And I thank HIM for everything.
Because my brother what I learnt and have GAINED within that experience /period are SOLID GOLD.
I also experienced firsthand the truism in the saying, " what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

Finally, in this journey of life ehn, hold on to God tight and you will never be shamed. Talking from experience.
Bless you.


Well said ma. Thank you for the advice. Earlier this year i lost my money to a ponzi scheme on facebook. I was depressed for months, thankfully i've learned my lessons. I thank God for the experience because it was when i was broke i had the time to read financial books. First book i read was rich dad poor dad, and since then my life hasn't remained the same.

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Dharkcocoa: 7:01pm On Dec 04, 2020
HolySpiritspeed:
Lost over 2 million to an investment gone wrong. HIT rock bottom, as in, ROCK BOTTOM! That sometimes, I ask myself, is this how life is? Lol! I can only laugh over these experiences now sha!

Started afresh, and we are making giant strides by God's special Grace. And most importantly, I sincerely thank God for my life! Because I know HE is faithful to take care of my needs even beyond what I can ever imagine. And perfect that which HE has began in my life!
You see this life ehn, e no easy! But we move and thank the Lord!




Please all these investments gone wrong stuff, can y'all throw more light so others won't make the same mistakes

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Career / Re: Meet Ebere Asonibe, A Graduate Who Is A Native Doctor by Dharkcocoa: 7:08am On Nov 29, 2020
Family / Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Dharkcocoa: 6:48am On Nov 29, 2020
Perfectsouth:
thanks bro for the words.. Since I stopped mating with her, have seen improvement.. Don't just don't want to break up with her yet cos she will do everything to stop me from seeing my kids


Sir the best is to divorce. Even the bible said the basis for divorce is adultery and you have enough evidence. You're just the one giving yourself headache. Get custody of your kids then sue her and her brother to court. My 2cents
Family / Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Dharkcocoa: 6:42am On Nov 29, 2020
Perfectsouth:
no matter what happens, those kids will never suffer their mother's sin....
Wish she could give me my kids but she is using them as her bargaining chip


Sir the best is to divorce. Even the bible said the basis for divorce is adultery and you have enough evidence. You're just the one giving yourself headache. Get custody of your kids then sue her and her brother to court. My 2cents
Religion / Re: How Do I Receive The Holy Spirit? by Dharkcocoa: 4:59pm On Nov 23, 2020
I'll recommend watching some videos by pastor David Diga Hernadez on youtube about the holy spirit he explained it well. Just search encounter tv on youtube
Romance / Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Dharkcocoa: 12:36am On Oct 13, 2020
ReluctantAdult:
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.


If indeed it was a man's nature to cheat..... God in his infinite wisdom should have created multiple eves for Adam then.
Family / Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Dharkcocoa: 9:15am On Sep 04, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE SAYING BUT THERE'S NO WAY I'M MAKING MY PREGNANT WIFE COOK FOR A BUNCH OF GLUTTONS. IF I CAN'T AFFORD CATERING SERVICES I'LL TAKE A LOAN, OR DISSAPOINT ALL THOSE INVOLVED ALTOGETHER.

THIS MAN RIGHT HERE IS SELFISH AND INCONSIDERATE. THAT'S ALL I KNOW. THE WIFE HAS A WILL THAT SHOULD BE RESPECTED SOMETIMES (IF NOT ALL THE TIME) AND THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WESTERN VALUES OR FEMINISM. THIS IS JUST COMMON SENSE. IF I HAVE A MAID AND SHE CAN'T DO A CHORE BECAUSE IT'S HECTIC, IT'S SOMETHING WE CAN TALK THROUGH INSTEAD OF NAILING HER HEAD. WE'RE ALL HUMANS!




Well said.
Family / Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by Dharkcocoa: 9:13am On Sep 04, 2020
Mr Husband, your wife is stressed out. Whether you assist her or not. Have some sympathy. Next time learn to prepare meals in order to assist her better.




I keep telling parents to make sure their male children acquire culinary skills too. Since eating isn't gender based, cooking shouldn't too.

Just get 2 or 3 people from your church to do the cooking especially Youths, they'll gladly help.

She's your wife, not a slave.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Do You Need A Better Job 2020? Come in! Lets get you a job by Dharkcocoa: 8:04pm On Jul 06, 2020
Ikejiakuchioma@gmail.com
Properties / Re: Please Help. My Apartment Is Being Haunted By A Ghost. by Dharkcocoa: 9:06am On May 24, 2020
The Lady is an Earthbound. I feel there are mysteries surrounding her death she wants you to uncover. You said your gf and her were close , she should have an idea.

Until the her death is avenged she won't rest. After that she'll ascend peacefully.
When next hear her out

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Celebrities / Re: Cynthia Morgan Is Depressed, Here Is Her New Look by Dharkcocoa: 8:48am On May 24, 2020
It's really depressing. I hope she bounces back

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