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FamilyRe: Should I Get Angry Or Not? by Dheartless: 12:39pm On Nov 14, 2014
I do to others what I will have them do to me.

I pay others in their own coin and I expect them not to get angry at that.

if I was in your brother's shoes, I would have gone with you to your Msc celeb.
considering the fact I was told 2 months before time and also1month and 3 weeks before my decision to when to see my girls parents.

if I was in your shoes I wouldn't let his decision be an hinderance to our brotherly relationship and I wount let it also affect my relationship with the girl.
BUT I must surely give him a taste of his action, without any show of resentment.

lastly he might not have meant to do anything to hurt your feelings (consider your decisions wisely, you know him better what he is capable of doing and what he is not)
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless: 5:56pm On Nov 12, 2014
ileobatojo:
I'm sorry o, but doesn't this support Mondisweets' point?
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless: 5:49pm On Nov 12, 2014
ileobatojo:
I'm sorry o, but doesn't this support Mondisweets' point?
give it up , u can't help her .
when I arguued that the charges against the guy would be minimal, she argued, trying to proove that the guys actions was way beyound minor charges.
I also said it would be difficult to even proove he his guilty of any charge laid against him.
this is just a charge and he is not yet guilty of anything, moreover the charges against him is only a minor compared to what the girl was charged with.
this prooves that the girl was the main offender as everybody has been trying to point out.
the guy got charged for same crime as the friends of the girl (in which some of them didn't even raise a finger), so they might come out not guilty, same as the guy.
mondisweet has been unreasonable with her arguements
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless: 12:10am On Nov 12, 2014
Mondisweets:
if no one was affected why did other passengers move away? and if no innocent passenger was harmed, what do you call hitting those passengers who tried to stop the fight?

do you call the beat-down he gave to the second girl "minimal"?

and the passengers plus the video cannot prove that both parties acted violently in public?
please tell me why its called public violence again?
I understand that you would want to stand your ground (right or wrong) since this is a debate or better an arguement .
a wise man once said " arguement only grows deeper and results into resentment and disagreement rather than agreement"
so I will let your opinions be grin .

but not before this last "fun"

answer to the last part of your post is:
one party (which constitute of a number of persons) violently attack a second party (which constitute of just a guy), and the second party resulted into self defense in the most careful way anyone could've defended himself/herself in same situation.
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless:
Mondisweets:
look up res ipsa locquitur. if the facts speak for themselves there will be no need for a passanger to expressly claim that he/she was affected. do you wait for a dead victim to express a claim that he was killed before you charge someone with murder? undecided


i never refused that he retaliated after being attacked.

the moment the fight escalated to include other people it exceeded limits of defence, it became an act of violence in the public
1.well then, there are no dead innocent persons or even dead guilty persons in that video
2.there are no innocent victims affected by the guys self defense and if there was any, the degree of its effect would've have been minimal and would've not been a very serious case against the guy.
3.the only person who would've have gotten a chance to prove a crime committed against him would be the guy (crime for both verbal and physical abuse, and also crime for threat of possible reoccurrence of the committed crimes against him)
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless: 11:00pm On Nov 11, 2014
Mondisweets:
If negligence is sufficiently proven as a form of fault she can still be found guilty of assault not public violence. Same way Oscar Pistorius was charged with culpable homicide as opposed to murder because the state prosecutor failed to prove an intention to kill.

I will give you an example of 2 similar cases were different judgments were given

In, Pinchin v Santam a pregnant woman was involved in a car accident and as a result of the accident she lost amniotic fluid and when her child was born, the child was born with a disorder. she managed to prove that there was a casual link between the car accident with caused her to lose amniotic fluid and the disorder her child developed. she was awarded compensation for damages.

In RAF v Mtati a pregnant woman was involved in a car accident and when the child was born the child developed brain damage. she could not sufficiently prove the casual link between the car accident and the brain damage her child suffered and her claimed was dismissed

in both cases the nasciturus rule was applied in the Pinchin case it was allowed and in the Mtati case it was denied. Each is considered on its own merits
so then according to your post, kandikane is correct,
because he (the man in the video) MAY only be charged if a passenger claims to be affected by his(the man in the video) actions to defend himself and also he (the man in the video) MAY only be guilty if the said passenger is able to proove that he or she was tangibly affected by the actions of "the man in video"
if I didn't come clear, let me know.
FamilyRe: Man Smacks The Soul Out Of Girl On The NY Subway by Dheartless: 7:33pm On Nov 11, 2014
Mondisweets:
definitely, like I said he had the right to retaliate but it had to be within reasonable and justifiable means.
tell me something "master in law",
if a girl was in a train and was about to be raped by 4 men and then she tries to defend herself with a weapon (say a golf stick ),she missed one of the rapist and hit a fellow lady who was in the train.
when this case get to the court will she be charged for public disturbance and violent on an innocent person?
I just want to know.
RomanceRe: For The Guys-do You Prefer Dark Or Light Skinned Girls? by Dheartless: 8:49pm On Nov 08, 2014
amakufrancis:
about 90% of guys ike fiqure 8 girls which am not excluded...... Bro you damn funny oo, you mean you dont fancy em girls with large boobs with plasma flat screen bottom?
exactly flat screen.
me doesn't want no flat screen, unless that flat screen is a "tv", and not a 'yansh (a$s)".

you funny pass me self.
RomanceRe: For The Guys-do You Prefer Dark Or Light Skinned Girls? by Dheartless: 9:14am On Nov 08, 2014
any skin colour is ok by me, as far the girl has a moderate bo*bs , a big sexy booty and solid figure 8.

if you like white like snow or black like charcoal,
if you get jonny bravo stature, that is a complete turn off for me (most girls with very big boobs are usually yanshless #no ass#, making them look more Like jonny bravo)grin
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Your Man Has 2 Cars & let you Trek Around by Dheartless: 8:05am On Nov 08, 2014
she doesn't cook for him when she visits, she relaxes on his bed and expect him to cook ( her reason his because she is not yet is wife, that only a wife should cook for her husband)


I think that's same reason the guy is standing on.
(you can't own my car because you're not yet my wife)













everything I wrote is based on assumptions cheesy
RomanceRe: Wow! The Biggest bosom In Nigeria (SEE PHOTOS) by Dheartless: 10:22pm On Nov 07, 2014
I dislike big boobs like shit.
for me idi nla is the turn on(round big sexy a$s).
well one man's like is another man's hate.
FamilyRe: Gender Stereotypes Part I by Dheartless: 11:39pm On Nov 03, 2014
ileobatojo:
There's no need for long story. Here you go. Here are excerpts followed by a link describing the MSCEIT test in great detail and the meaning of each aspect of it.



The study you quoted said women were better in the branch of managing emotions after controlling for age. That branch is described above.


You're welcome.
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Managing
Emotions involves the participation of
emotions in thought and the ability to allow
thought to include emotions. Optimal levels of
emotional regulation likely will neither
minimize nor exaggerate emotion.
http://www.harrisconsult.com/files/MSCEIT
%20report.PDF

did actually see the above part of the article you read, that was posted by Nonso23?

1: managing emotion involves the PARTICIPATION of emotions in thought and to ALLOW thought to INCLUDE emotions.

2: OPTIMAL levels of emotional REGULATION likely will NEITHER MINIMIZE nor exaggerate emotion.

managing emotions involves being more affected by emotions even allowing it to affect your thoughts

women allow emotions more

regulation/managing emotions will likely not change the level of feelings of a person weither minimise or exergerate

women make no change in the effect of managing emotions in respect to their level of emotions or feelings at any given time

men don't allow emotions to affect their thought because they are not emotion managers
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Wife To Arrest Her Husband because She Was Beaten By Him? by Dheartless: 5:24pm On Nov 02, 2014
senseless person needs to be corrected just as a female on this thread said"she has to be able to woman up to the reactions she wanted"
she was senseless, she got a slap.
she became more senseless by trying to retaliate, she got the beating she wanted.

if I got arrested for correcting a senseless person (that is a crime.)

but I Wount be angry one bit.
why?
because the law ain't gonna kill me.
highest they will lock me up, period.
and worst I may be oppressed by some jail mate"even though I would've done nothing to provoke them (here is another crime again,.because I wasn't senseless to embarrass them with my st*pid mouth)"

what I know is that I have corrected a senseless person.
best case I might even correct those other senseless oppressors in jail.
FamilyRe: I Don't Love My Husband Anymore! by Dheartless: 4:55pm On Nov 02, 2014
the most annoying people in life are people who do not know what they want and yet believe they are right.
your aunt never knew what she wanted and now wants the man to pay .

let them both suffer the consequences of ignorance

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