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Here's advice on the greatest years of your life:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GHXkCsJ2fc

Here's how Nigerians are migrating to the US.

Made frontpage few days ago. Had to repost it here for anyone who interested in relocating particularly to the united states


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAiqIyuG0hM

Here, fourteen people discussed all the things you have to take into consideration to make your decision to relocate including the three highly controversial pathways to residency. I suggest you listen till the very end.

It's a very practical conversation, highly educative and thankfully, they aren't selling you anything. Pay particular attention to what the geologist says he had to do when he relocated.

All the best.



UPDATE:

Here's a few tips for anyone graduating school and starting the greatest years of his life. This contains practical advice for the world of work.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GHXkCsJ2fc

This is also very good advice. You can all thank me later

Marriage counsellor. There's a husband shortage

Why all these topics on cheating. Why's no one talking about faithfulness?

Here's are a few moves you can make after being caught cheating


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hPQMw4D0hk

thank me later

Whycatch a cheater?

So true. Respect is key

Okay

Nobody cares

Incoming missile attack

Okay

Are you a learner

Exmilitant:
Why would any boy or girl be in a relationship that wouldn't lead to marriage?

Great story

Rip

Wow

With Nigerians suffering like this.

Just wow

OP, you need an action plan. You're not among friends. Contrary to your beliefs, no one's out to get you. Everyone's just watching out for themselves

Listen to this: How to handle close betrayals like a BOSS



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWqppErCr60

Prepare yourself, formulate an action plan. You can thank me later

If you have gambling issues, this video provides a few tips and cautionary tales towards overcoming


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mP4QV93kSWI

Thank me later

Where's the list

OP, how old are you?

Most advice would depend on your age and your proximity to the marital decision.


There's a lot I could advise you about but I think it's best you hear for yourself. I collated some resources that I think should help allay some of your fears.

You need to meet as many men as possible.

ideamonster:
OP, I read your question and understand your dilemma. Almost nobody here can give you accurate counsel but here are a few conversations and resources that should hopefully help you arrive at a decision you will be comfortable with for years to come.


1. What do you need to start a family?
Most times young women are fixated about certain attributes in men that serve no purpose in a marriage. Can you eat his physical attractiveness? What if he's a hunk and he has an accident, would you leave? This video shows young women addressing what a Nigerian woman really needs to start a family


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cl43qph3dWQ



2. Is there a shortage of eligible husbands?

There are a lot of men who can date you. But how many of them are qualified to be husbands, or of the marrying kind? There are yardsticks for assessing if a man is a marrying kind. In the video below, young women like yourself had to tell themselves hard truths about their chances finding suitable men. Like someone said, pen1s is abundant, but husbands are scarce. Pay attention to what the single mother in this story said after she was told the truth about the man she was dating.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DNoFXD4Bjo




3. How to make the tricky love decisions

This conversation focuses on capitalising on available suitors. Whoever is wooing you now won't always be available. Opportunities of a lifetime have to be used within the lifetime of the opportunity. While the participants are obviously younger than you, I'm certain that you'll benefit greatly from the conversations that they are having.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk


4. Regretting the men who get away

Are you certain that you won't regret losing this man? You need to be certain that a better offer comes along. In this conversation, there are women just like you who share their experiences of turning away suitors because of a variety of reasons. One had huge regrets, the other (just like you) was undecided. Pay attention to the girl wearing the pink tee-shirt. Her story appears closest to what you have narrated.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0


I'm certain one of these stories should be helpful in decision making.


Thank me later .

UPDATE:

I came back to read this after it hit front page and realised some comments made it seem like I'm encouraging you to marry him. That's far from the truth. Nobody here can give accurate-enough counsel to make a huge life-changing decision like getting married. But OP, if you've decided to go along with him, you need to be sure he isn't too good to be true. . Again, while this video below doesn't apply much, I think it contains a few cautionary tales- tings you should be skeptical about in his story.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU3zIpAEQ64

Ultimately, the decision to take is yours. I wish you all the best.

Ideamonster

Hope this helps someone battling effects of childhood trauma in their adult life. What didn't kill, has just made you stronger


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjG7yR_k3wQ