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LOL. FInally! X influencers and men have all woken up to what I have preached all over social media for years.

https://x.com/i/status/2024724605328347399

Always have evidence and keep evidence. Save evidence. Better be called a paranoid man than a ràpîst. Backup to Google Cloud and multiple accounts. Save voice notes and videos and SMS and chats...

Save evidence. You are all just waking up. This is your morning.

Theflint1:
This is a gotcha?

Worse than it – they've been unearthing her posts to show she's been radical for years and quick to read sexual assault or molestation to just about everything.

Go on X – it's an unearthing fest.

The point is to prove a pattern that her gaffe this week isn't a one-off – she's out to get men or ruin men for some crazy reason.

More importantly, take advantage of Twitter's Advanced Search feature to clean up your post history if you use to be a shitposter back then.

I've been doing it for folks so you should get people to do it for you – trusted people who won't betray you by screenshotting to blackmail you.


If you have a political ambition or would soon be in the public eye, go look up how Twitter Advanced Search really works then clean-up your timeline.

Do it now before you forget. X is the most unforgiving platform ever.

More of Simi exposed: https://x.com/i/status/473979226320687104 .

I was wrong about since 2016. She has always been very radical.

BlueRayDick:
For someone who is a dispatch rider who earns a little above minimum wage, it is an unreasonable risk not worth taking.

He need not bet his means of livelihood on the chance of whether the women would be receptive of his love overtures or not.

He's silly. If you have no real edge over a woman and, worse even, she has more advantages over you, you will be turned down embarassed badly.
That's why the same girl shaming the "Hi angle" men in her inbox has already packed her things for a weekend for the time she will be meeting that good-looking guy on the same Facebook.

Happens everyday.

Trending post in a group or on a page. A beautiful girl posts and it gains traction. So many guys comment in the nested comment section. She definitely looks at pictures before responding only to a few.

Works even with friend request on Facebook. That girl with 10, 000 follower and 2,200 friends will use accept when you have the advantage of:

1. Looks and carriage;
2. Influence. You have 30,000 followers, or;
3 You have only 1,500 friends but you're posting in exotic places and look rich.

Yes, women check your profile and timeline for these things. Sometimes you have them like your posts from 3 months ago then accept the friend request.

If the dispatch ride had number 1 going for him, never on this Earth will Sarah Martins call him out.

These women make different rules for different men. Know your advantage then use it – Portable knows his advantage, the fine guy down the street squatting with his friend knows his advantage.

Know your advantage and exploit it to your advantage to the fullest...without breaking the law.

raumdeuter:
There are several stories of Bankers who dated and married their customers

https://www.nairaland.com/2127218/banker-fell-love-customer-married

The main problem is the lady felt the dispatch guy was below him, [b] If he was higher up the economic ladder, [/b]you wont hear her complain about anything rather they will be in each others bed now

Even if he wasn't higher up but handsome and sounds very cosmopolitan (which translates to being well-educated/well-read), she would never complain. Never. Real story.

BlueRayDick:
If you like make you fine pass Ramsey Noah, the moment you leave your duty to engage in "Frolick of your own" wey dem no send you and it embarrasses your employer to the extent their customer reports you ; trust me you will find yourself looking for job soon.

True. It's a risk. But go to hotel lobbies and lounges this evening. Note the one with a good-looking guy on the staff then see how nicer women are to him.

If he's very articulate and maybe anything occurs to have him sending the bill to her via WhatsApp, trust me, something might blossom. It would blossom surely if she's unmarried and okay.

raumdeuter:
You wan rain on my guy portable parade, You realize say na him dey make this lady legs shake

That's where money comes in - the hypergamy.

This woman will still open a regular handsome young man with little money on the side if he plays his game well and she'll give him money. True story.

raumdeuter:
Younger women might care about looks, older women care about money. What Ned Nwoko will get away with, A handsome but broke Nollywood star will not get away with it. What are we saying, Fine boy Somadina couldn't get away with it

The POTUS said it best,

When you are rich, they let you do it. You can do anything You can even Grab 'em by the P

That's the point. I never stated she'd accept his love proposal. I stated she'd revel in it as it massages her ego of being wanted by a younger, handsome guy who many women will want.
She will never have shamed him.

Instead, she might even have made a video like, "Awwwn... This is so sweet. I like it when men are bold" to sell the narrative that younger handsome men like her.

I have seen videos of women showing off their handsome delivery guy or Uber drivers whose cars they rode in.

Women change rules based on the men they are deal with.

Even if I don't want to give anecdotes, there are actual experiments of women making excuses for men who are lower than low...simply because the men are attractive and have a certain carriage.

Like this one: https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/8/tinder-experiment-shows-that-women-are-willing-to-date-men-who-are-abusive-racist-and-even-rapists-as-long-as-they-are-cute.html .

If you've been in a situation where a pretty lady walks in but gravitates towards one guy she spots out while ignoring the rest, then sharing a drink with him soon and they are already holding hands, you'll know. No, she's not a whôre – just a regular female who is hypergamous.

At bank queues then, the good-looking guy with a certain carriage had the women on queue make way for him or accept his plea to be attended to by the bank staff.
Let one Portable-looking try same.

Only those who don't realize how fickle women's standards are believe them on these things.

raumdeuter:
Technically what offence has he committed? If it was a guy she liked or had more levels would she have reported him? If it was the Manager of the dispatch company who came to deliver in a Benz.

I know of a case, Nigerian female doctor was asked on a date by a Nurse, And she was like a whole me, asked by a nurse, what insult, She wanted to report the guy to HR, A few weeks later, A consultant asked her out on a date similar manner, and she went with him

I had to go check to see the guy's pictures. If he was a good-looking, articulated young man, she would have reveled in the compliments.
https://www.instagram.com/p/DU-PFXViKpS/ Not surprising.

Women make excuses for men they find attractive (looks and carriage). Always since the end of time. It's not Nollywood.

How else do you think guys approach older women? Happens in real life. Happens everyday.

How else do you think gîgolos are always better-looking than the women they date and way less successful? He has the looks and carriage advantage over her and her hypergamy makes her gravitate towards her.

Women like the polite attention of men who would themselves be considered attractive by other women. If the women are older, they consider it flatter for their ages because women are wired to constantly validation.

That doctor would have basked in the compliments of even an intern in her establishment if he is very attractive and articulate. Especially if he is more attractive than her because women like hypergamy.

Let me not tell tales. They make excuses for men they consider attractive.

They'd make more excuses for Poco Lee than Portable if both smacked a random woman's butt in public.

Luigi got women make excuses for him. Ted Bundy had women make excuses for him.

This girl's name is Itohan. She tweeted women should falsely accuse men of ràpe in 2024.
A year later, she falsely accused an InDrive driver of robbery and ràpe.

His life was ruined for months. He came crying online. Investigations proved she lied. She's walking free and no consequence. She's still giving hot takes on X.

https://x.com/i/status/2024667095812759877

Imagine if it wasn't a digital transaction and he had no evidence?

If you like don't protect yourself, especially around women who haven't proven 100% loyalty and their strength of character.

When misandrists masquerading as women right activists and feminists continue to make men out to be villains and monsters, you further embolden the Patriarchy to be more strict.

https://x.com/i/status/2024175381629083654

Check "Mirabel Taliban" or "Simi Taliban" and you'd find hundreds of accounts agreeing with the Taliban eroding women's rights since Wednesday – something nobody on Twitter NG agreed with prior.

User09:
This doesnt look believable and the wordings look so strange.

Why would Simi type or utter the words "Please dont let this spoil my marriage"

Most Likely fake.

Everyone says it's on her Snapchat. Many accounts have posted same. I can't confirm because I'm not on Snapchat and I'd sooner confess being a City Boy than create a Snapchat account to view.

BlueRayDick:
lolz.

Woman comes online to talk about an issue, a lot of people called her out for her opinion, and she kept dragging with them. Dragging her husband for the spat they had with her makes them appear weak. There's no two ways about it.

All this talk about control you wife do not apply here. It only shows they can't successfully have her account for her actions but needed her husband to be the cannon fodder they can take out their vexation on.

I suspect it's because she was acting as if she's not moved by the dragging she was getting, that's why they had to go for her husband who shared absolutely no opinion on the matter.

I don already tire for this back and forth over a matter that is actually a non-issue to start with .

LOL. Janemena the stripper dancer, twerks online. It's because her husband allows it.

McMbakara's wife sexualizes herself to men online and jumps on them, simulating sex like in the old school Kerewa videos. He gets blamed because he allows it

Mercy Johnson stopped taking on roles where she's in sexual positions when she got married. Immediately she began going ultra-feminist on Ned Nwoko in support of Regina, her husband took the heat. He likely called her to order and she's stayed off such gender war cases since then. She'd have been all over this Mirabel's case if not for her experience with the Regina debacle.

Nkechi Blessing got too crude and her boyfriend took the heat. He only got a break when he left her.

It's not about what I think or you think. I don't think there's anybody here who treats his woman as a commodity. I like opinionated women - I've said it. But I like women being logical while enjoying their freedom of opinion.

Simi has always been more emotional than logical when it comes to gender issues. Society expects her husband to correct her.

She's Mrs. Kosoko? She took on his name and became his by law.

BlueRayDick:
I don't do all this whole gender war and "them vs us" takes when it comes to matters involving the two genders. I look at things from a logical point of view and not from the prism of pre conceived whataboutism.

A woman decided to have a spat with people online based on her own opinion. The right and reasonable thing to do is for the people who disagree with her to dig it out with her.

Crossing over to start dragging her husband up and down just doesn't make any sense to me. Simple.

Hopefully, your wife doesn't misbehave badly in your neighborhood. That's when you'd realize Mummy Cynthia who owns the the supermarket down your street you're cordial with joining in to term you a weak man who can't control his home.

Ever heard, "Oga, control your wife nau?"

Our society still deems a man responsible for his woman.

Ask yourself why the laid-back Adekunle Gold had step in and it was so important for Simi to mention he stepped in so it doesn't seem like he's a husband who's lost control of his home?

She had to mention it to placade her in-laws too.

Now Adekunle Gold has manned up to control his wife. Simi has apologized, stating her husband is angry, her in-laws are too, and it's causing a rift in her marriage:

https://www.facebook.com/100063752402145/posts/1475600274575039/ .

Something he should have done years ago.

iamoyindamola:
Like I said this wasn't the first time, if he had spoken to her before she would have adjusted or he doesn't have control over her

If you misbehave, people will pity your wife: "Poor woman. God knows what she's putting putting up with."

If your wife misbehaves, people will sreprimand you: "Weak man. Simp. He can't control his home."

BlueRayDick still hasn't come to terms with the fact that, as men, in the gender debate, we are playing the losing game. If you lose 0-1, you're luckier than the man who lost 0-17. But you with lose regardless.
Life has a sure penalty against you as a man. You're playing against Real Madrid in the Bernabeu, guys - the referee dislikes you before the kick off. Just don't concede too many goals.

BlueRayDick:
Wait let me ask you a question.

What do you think Adekunle Gold should do in this instance after the wife has already said what she said?

If he had talked to her when she said all those disparaging things about men in times past, she wouldn't have jumped head-on into this one.

He obviously has no control over his household.

Adesuwa Etomi, Mo'Cheddab and the likes campaigning for women's right in 2016.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2016/08/girl-power-heres-what-adesua-etomi-sika-osei-mocheddah-beverly-naya-have-to-say-about-negative-stereotypes-feminism-more/#:~:text=Adesua:%20The%20fight%20for%20women's,a%20wife%20and%20a%20mother. Doing the actual work instead smearing Nigerian men as ràpîsts every other day.

Both have been married for close to a decade.

Adesuwa has been at symposia and headlining events about women's rights. She partners with Banky W to do same too sometimes.

No jumping on drama. That's why Banky doesn't get insulted. He chose his wife carefully.

If you marry a loose-mouthed woman with combative, masculine energy, you played yourself.

Adekunle Gold has always been a cool guy. But Churchill was always a cool guy too who got hitched with a crazy Tonto Dike. Since he left her, he's no longer getting disrespected by random people on the internet.

semid4lyfe:
Hmm, Simi effed up but I do not support AG being dragged for it.

Simi is a grown adult, not a minor. She's a wife and not AG's subordinate. She has agency, freedom of expression and does not need control or supervision.

She should be held accountable for her words and actions. Dragging her hubby because he did not manage her mouth be like say na him be her owner.

It's unfortunate that AG was dragged into her ish but hopefully she has learnt the hard lesson that her family is not off-limits to internet people and will be dragged if she talks recklessly.

Why? It's not the first time she has gone ballistic on men in general. She's always stoked gender wars.

If I go about terming all women as whøres and damaged goods to be used and subjugated like Andrew Tate does, my partner is fair game too.

Adesuwa Etomi is married and was a name in her own rights before she met Banky W. Prettier and classier than Simi and she could easily walk all over men but she keeps it classy and moderate.

Adesuwa campaigns for women's right too. Check her Instagram but she's not out there making men out to be monsters.

I can go on and on.

What is it with damaged Simi to always paint men as monsters at ever chance she gets?
When it doesn't favour her, she plays the victim.

iamoyindamola:
Simi is yet to post after mirabel confession.
When i watched the video, i knew she was lying the story didn't gel at all same way i didn't believe timi dakolo's wife back then
But emotional people everywhere will tag you rapist

I don't care. I've been asked even by my lady to stop such posts as it would scare potential female leads for gigs off. I don't care.

If posting on Whatsapp and Facebook that I avoid getting personal with feminists and gender war instigators will scare them away, let them go. I'm immune to such Cancel Culture.

I will continue to post it publicly. There are 220 million people in Nigeria alone. 45+ million active on Facebook monthly. If, say, 3 million feminists refuse to deal with me for business, I'm safer and better off. There are 42 million potentially sane ones.

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Ironically, the same women reach out for shared intimacy privately because, based on female logic, they want the exclusivity of being in the good books of such men.

Ask any of the Red Pill gang or blunt men on Facebook and X, and they'd tell you the same women reach out to get friendly.

Simi was a gender warrior from around 2018 or so. Go check out her fights with Mazi Ibe on Twitter (who was iPissVodka then). Simi was always showing signs of being bitter about men. In 2017. She has several tweets giving the misandrist vibe over the years.

Then look at her familial background. She was raised by a mother who never submitted to men. Two failed marriages, no strong male authority figure... I know it's harsh but men have to be logical.

A girl is a reflection of her mother. If she didn't submit to a male authority figure who had influence over her like her father, uncle or elder brother or saw her mother submit totally to a male authority figure, why do you think she'd submit to you as a man?

Go check out the way Phyna of BBNaija behaves then check her family. Tonto Dikeh? Now compare to Bimbo Ademoye who has a strong male authority figure in her father then see the difference...

I have refused to commit to women for this singular reason. When you see a woman being combative online or in-person, go dig up her family. Including all those "I left home to feed home" types.
I refused to commit to a girl because I saw her mother humiliate her father by talking to him carelessly. The girl played it off but I couldn't shake it off. I didn't tell her why – I simply drifted off because she was pushing for commitments with public tags. Not with that type.

Adekunle Gold knew what he got into. But, if we are being blunt as men, being SS himself reduced his chances with women back then and Simi was going to take a chance with him, the risk regardless. Different now that he's rich and famous. I understand why he committed to her but he sure knew who she really was and is.

Theflint1:
I only think of the stress and wonder if you show this level of paranoia to every aspect of your life, afterall people have tales of betrayal come their way from men and women alike, and yea it doesn't pertain to rape cases alone.

You just added this part.

I state it that I do so when interacting with women. You should do so when interacting with people who are more emotional than logical. Emotionality is a flaw sometimes - it beclouds logical judgment.

As a rule, before becoming intimate with a woman, I check her out on social media. If you're into mentoring, flee from any woman who is blindly supporting that Mirable girl this minute. CEASE COMMUNICATION. This is the litmus test you were looking for.

If she has the gender-related tag of "Women right activist" or "feminist", run.

If she's always instigating gender wars or resharing to give hot takes painting men as villians, run.

I did run years ago from one I was with who was supporting and calling Tonto Dike "King Tonto" when she was humiliating Churchill. Sweet lady, she could go all the way for me. Was nurturing. She gave gifts too. But the signs were there.

What if she became vindictive because I didn't do what she wanted? At the slightest opening of getting a role in another city, I eased out. It could have blossomed but that was my cue.

In all, you don't have to agree with me in public. I know I am too blunt with these things. Just protect yourself.

If you live in the West where as a man you are already a crime, telling you this is akin to preaching to the choir.

Protect yourself. Defend yourself. The U.S. hasn't been attacked in years but Pentagon is 24/7 ready.

Theflint1:
This is the case for at least 99% of men, 99% of whom aren't as paranoid as you've become.

You admit it at least. That's the realization I want men to come to.

Maybe it's my writing style which comes off as combative and aggressive most times - or overly assertive. ChatGPT did summarize it's my on-Nairaland persona when I searched for "Disstroy".

Maybe it's because I preach it consistently, harping on it without fail. It's like a Pastor preaching about fleeing from bad company daily and the congregation concludes he's paranoid because he harps on it.

But I understand how the world truly views men and men don't have the benefit of doubt.

That's why a single mother asked me to let her minor daughter understudy me years ago as she's interested in UI/UX designs. Girl was 16 or 15 and done with high school. I turned her down politely with excuses.

First question I asked myself was, "If this girl becomes entitled or her mother becomes entitled asking for stipends as my understudy or something else and we fall out then she accuses me, what would I say? I'd be soiled forever. "

Few months later, the woman approached me if I could help with TikTok monetization. I went to view her account. She was dancing and shaking her parts in the videos. The exact kind of women like Mirable who would do anything to trend and get engagements.

My supposed paranoia potentially saved me.

semid4lyfe:
1. Your wife chats you that you hurt her, and your first instinct is not "how, what did I do?" Instead, you overanalyze her wording and get annoyed. You interrogate het and question her motive. You wonder who might see the chat and screenshot it. You frame it like she's trying to set you up. Ko buru.

2. Your wife mistakenly hits her face on a door and it swells. You stop her from going to a family function, church or work because of optics. Because people might assume wrongly. Because people go talk. Because in your head, future witnesses are already lining up to testify for something that never happened.

You do not trust your wife. You suspect and are negatively perceptive about everything. That's siege mentality, and I gats say you're imprisoned by your inordinate fear, negative perception and distrust of women, and really no one should be living like that.

Ja ara eh.

Wait! You don't realize in the social media age you're living a seige where even the most harmless things are misread?

I swear by the Heavens, she's reclining beside me as we type. Munching on biscuits while seeing a movie.

I swear by everything sacred what I type here about this issue is the same I have posted with my full names and information on Facebook over the years. At least a certain Uyai on Nairaland you might all know has seen my posts on pages and groups and interacted with them by calling me "Disstroy".

I swear by the divine that she has (my lady) also seen me post these things...even before we became a couple.

I've seen people being ruined, man, by vindictive women.

You understand how crazy it is that a girl in years past is sex-chatting with you but you'd rather switch to WhatsApp call?

Always ask yourself when chatting with a woman, "How would this be interpreted if a group of 300 random women are reading it?" Imagine the craziest scenarios.

All my life, no woman has posted a screenshot of my chat with her publicly. None that I know. I also have never been accused. Mostly because I choose them carefully. But if that day comes (and hoping it never comes), Diss-troy has his armoury stocked only to defend himself.

Male filmmakers and television houses continued to give actress Dorcas Fapson roles in the same 2019 she accused the Taxify driver falsely, in 2020, 2021 and beyond.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dorcas_Shola-Fapson

No man would have had that grace.
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Safe for Ghislaine Maxwell who orchestrated the Epstein pedóphila ring, no other woman in the Epstein files has been arrested or prosecuted. Whoopie Goldberg, Hillary Clinton, Oprah who went deep...

But many men have been charged. For being in the files. Some without evidence of actually doing it.

There's an actress who messaged Epstein about gifts to the minor girls.

Remember Johnny Depp and Amber Heard? You forgot so soon. Need I go on? Is Amber Heard not living free? Has Depp recovered?

Society considers you a monster by default as a man. From birth to the end of your mortality, your job is to prove you are not. Stay on guard!

Shegzdave:
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Because there are no consequences for false rãpe allegations. The only popular case of a fãpé accuser being followed up is Rudeboy PSquare charging the accuser to court.

Actress Dorcas Fapson (whom I have mentioned here a thousand times) continued to get roles and endorsements after she falsely accused a Taxify drîver of rápe in 2019. He was already sacked and lost friends by the time he was exonerated.

B_Moore accused UchedandyMUFC. She moved on with no consequences even when she recanted her lies.

The Emmanuel copywriter guy I mentioned in the morning responding to Semid falsely accused by his fianceé is still reeling from it.

Mason Greenwood? Didn't his girlfriend recant her allegations?

No consequences.

The real villians are the men who champion these allegations without hearing from the accused men or seeking proof.
The VeryDarkwhatever is doing it now.

A lot of you did it on this thread to Akpabio beginning around this time last year. Nothing he said was heard. You all believed Natasha without a single proof.

Mirabel saw the massive support Natasha got and how to monetize it so she used the format.

We created Mirabel. Those of us who support these women at face value.
You are the reason more men's lives will be destroyed by false ràpe allegations. All of us.

raumdeuter:
While I get the crux of what you are saying, it can only protect you so far. After a while of being in a romantic relationship, you drop your guard. A man with a steady babe, whether main or side, you cant be recording everything that goes down between you two.

That doesnt account for non verbal cues between partners where you both give each other eyes, but you do not have to say explicitly"Do you wantu nack? Yes r NO? which is the bulk of nacks that goes on between partners

but that does not stop her from coming out at a time in the future when she felt slighted or see you trying to expand your mentorship grounds to say on November 15 2024 at 5:23pm, I only consented to 1 round and not the 2nd round. Or I told diss-troyy to stop after 5mins an he continued for an additional 7mins

A woman that wants to catch you has a lot of weapons which you cannot prepare for every scenarios, even when they try to take down cartel bosses, na women dem dey send to them who will be steady for years nack them thousands of times gain their trust but still have an agenda

True. The whole point isn't even recording - it's having evidence. For example, I hold most chats on Whatsapp. I don't delete messages with females (no matter how nasty and explicit) and I'd just archive them. I don't hold such anywhere else. I just backup my chats regularly, including raunchy media any must have sent - as it. I forget such conversations or people even. I still have chats with exes and randoms from 2014 or so. With images and videos shared.

And I don't chat with females who use disappearing messages or delete chats.

And I mentioned about choosing women wisely who have shown 100% loyalty. You date and marry a Tonto Dike and you deserve what you get. Or all these "purrr" females; or the ones with tags.

Also quell allegations immediately. I once told mine, 'Why did you chat me up to say I hurt you? You know it's because I dismissed what you said when you went on and on about XYZ. What if someone reads your chats like your sister or friend, wouldn't the assumption be that I physically hurt you? Is it deliberate?' It was the last time she did it and she'd rather talk about her concern in person.

If she had continued, then it would have been intentional. I don't keep female besties - any woman I am committed to is my bestie while it lasts so of course I have to be free around her.

Imagine your wife being hit in the face by the edge of the door on her own or by the kids mistakenly. Her face is swollen then she wants to go for a family function or work or church...

No, madam, you will treat it first. Thousands of people will see it and assume her husband beat her up.

If they have a breakup or enstraged in the future, those people will testify they saw her with swollen face.

See, you have to be preemptive about these things.

Society is merciless to men regarding these issues. As a man, society deems you a monster by default. Your whole life is proving you are not. Neo Akpofure just found out yesterday.

raumdeuter:
Can this lady claim she was recording to protect herself for future eventualities and she has not committed any crime

Well, she uploaded without cause. She intended to cause damage to his reputation if true. Most people are yet to fully read the Cybercrime Act (amended in 2024). If we all did, we'd be careful about our online activities.

If the President had called her a whōre he's never met yet pestering him, the video is proof to exonerate her.

Like Macron shaming and disparaging Trump during Davos, only for DJT to upload chats which prove Macron is in bed with the Trump administration on everything from Syria to Venezuela yet making DJT take the fall as the lone bad guy. That was fair game. Macron hasn't really said much since then because he brought it on himself.

raumdeuter:
spy--360 you don send one of your spies to do video recording of Tinubu while he is negotiating nacks

Maybe the girl was following dis.stroy advice to keep evidence, now she is in NSA jail

https://www.nairaland.com/8621432/nsa-ribadu-accused-detaining-woman

She's not in NSA jail - she was abducted by state agents.

And, based on the Cybercrime Act, I can use private correspondence or interactions held in private to defend myself from a false accusation. The accuser making reference to such automatically makes them wave their privacy right about it.

If a lady alleges rápe or claims Mr. A infected her with a venereal diseass, she will be subjected to medical examination and her right to privacy waved.

Let's say a girl alleges I punched her in the face, referencing a conversation recorded we had where it proves otherwise is fair game. Then she'd be held to libel charges.

Everything I do is trying to be on the right side of the law.

It's why even when I find something to use against someone off Nairaland, I'm careful about doxxing them. The UK is even more explicit with such things.

sleekdot:
Just take caution especially in an environment with a lot of young beutiful girls and as a fine young lecturer.

If you ignore Adaora and dey give Nkechi attention, that is enough for Adaora to cook story about how Mr Lecturer


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyEDRSiI4wc&list=RDPyEDRSiI4wc&start_radio=1

Simple! That's what I have been preaching for years and truly understanding the nature of emotional beings.

For example, during e-fights here, the most logical ones control how far they go; the most emotional ones here are always the first to dox with information outside of Nairaland. Now imagine what it'd be like with a being running on a full self-replenishing tank of oestrogen coursing through her. That's a disaster waiting to happen.

I do not preach all that red pill nonsense of treating women like trash or campaigning against marriage or saying a girl who isn't a virgin is automatically a whôre. None of that.

All I preach during gender debates:

1. How men should protect themselves from false accusations and extortions, and;
2. Demanding 100% loyalty from women before giving commitment to them.

Nothing more.