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Dr. Olufunmilayo on X use to reprimand men who insisted on never being off-guard with women and being very calculative. These men weren't misogynists - they only were realists and many with loving families they sometimes show off.

Guess who got accused of sexual assault soon enought? Same man. Ironically, he had to use chats and audio recordings to exonerate himself from Dr. Bimbo who accused him. Some of you are familiar with the story.

But Diss-Troy is over-the-top for telling you and other men the world make out to be villians because we were born with phalluses to do same – the same message he has preached consistently since 2016 when he created this account, and the proof is in his post history.

Lil Frosh had no defence when she accused him. No voice note, no chat, no video. She confessed years later but she's still walking free without any consequence, and a guy is likely dating her. Lil Frosh will forever walk on eggshells with women. His name is forever soiled despite her confession...and she was his girlfriend.
Remember Lyta too? Okay.

DissTroy:
I can't even edit typographical errors in the text above because of the spambots.

A lady who use to send very x-ràtéd pictures to me to get me enticed years back told someone mutual I used her, and deceived her. She initiated it but wanted a full commitment which I wasn't going to give.
Chats with her proved she initiated it, using words like "Even in it is once" to try to lure me and get me hooked on her.

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On X in April, 2024, a friendly acquaintance from school days was called out by his ex-fianceé. She accused him of wasting her time, deceiving her to get into her panties, and promising multiple women marriage to sleep with them.

His saving grace was chats of the girl partly making the moves, then later saying she'll never change her surname/use his last name which was a dealbreaker for him.

The story trended on Nairaland too. He was popular for selling copywriting courses.

Imagine if he didn't counter her during the chat or it never came up...

Yeah, completely let your guard down.

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You know what's ironic, Semid4lyfe? You're a lecturer – you're more at risk of being falsely accused by female students whose bidding you refuse to do. You should be saving evidence more than me. You should be advising others to do so for their own safety and reputational safeguard.

I found it.

To begin, search here: https://x.com/search?q=emmanuel%20akpe%20surname .

1. She got her friends to accuse him: https://x.com/i/status/1788442306997027144 .


2. This was her reply after he provided evidence that she didn't want to change her surname: https://x.com/i/status/1788650171858821338 .

3. She got her friends to ruin his business by terming him a scammer: https://x.com/i/status/1788294289191014769 . Notice the locked comment section when he provided evidence the same day?

This is the woman he shared life with for a while – his fianceé. Imagine if he had no evidence. The misandrist gang on Facebook and X were already malleating it to sex under pretence or something of that damaging nature. She was threatening brimstone prior.

If you like get lax and don't wake up to the reality of what a scorned woman can do. Since women are emotional, any woman can become scorned to wreck. Enjoy her love, enjoy her company and support and nurturing, but be aware of what a scorned woman is capable of.

I can't even edit typographical errors in the text above because of the spambots.

A lady who use to send very x-ràtéd pictures to me to get me enticed years back told someone mutual I used her, and deceived her. She initiated it but wanted a full commitment which I wasn't going to give.
Chats with her proved she initiated it, using words like "Even in it is once" to try to lure me and get me hooked on her.

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On X in April, 2024, a friendly acquaintance from school days was called out by his ex-fianceé. She accused him of wasting her time, deceiving her to get into her panties, and promising multiple women marriage to sleep with them.

His saving grace was chats of the girl partly making the moves, then later saying she'll never change her surname/use his last name which was a dealbreaker for him.

The story trended on Nairaland too. He was popular for selling copywriting courses.

Imagine if he didn't counter her during the chat or it never came up...

Yeah, completely let your guard down.

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You know what's ironic, Semid4lyfe? You're a lecturer – you're more at risk of being falsely accused by female students whose bidding you refuse to do. You should be saving evidence more than me. You should be advising others to do so for their own safety and reputational safeguard.

semid4lyfe:
You are

🔸Recording and saving call logs
🔸Archiving every chat
🔸Backing up to Gmail and Drive
🔸Preparing alternate logins
🔸Saving 12 years of evidence

When relationship with dem XX turn counter-terrorism operation?

Also, you assume every female co-worker is a threat, every lady is a future accuser and potential litigation.

Isn't the paranoia, constant scanning for danger and hypervigilance draining you? I mean, you can't be at ease living like this.

Make you take am easy o. Life is to be lived at ease and enjoyed, not lived in anxiety and fear.

LOL. BBNaija's Neo Akpofure just got accused on ràpe by his sneaky link.

UchedandyMUFC got accused of ràpe in 2018 by _B_moore after their sexcapades ended in 2016 because he didn't want a full relationship.

Should I go on?

I'm not a single man. I only settled to do forever with my lady after years of vetting and testing she passes certain checklists. It doesn't mean if she gets to work after a little tiff to message me, "Honey, you hurt me today", I won't address it. "You hurt me" could be because of something flimsy like dismissing something she said, but in a screenshot, strangers on the internet will interpret it as "You béàt me".

If that side girl you're into is active on X, you're one tweet away from your life being ruined.

If she has a history of inciting gender wars or has the "women right activist" or "feminist" tag, you're a probable target. Even if she's active on Facebook.

If she has ever been in a 'dragging' online, you might be the next person. Do you fully know the social media activities of the women you got intimate with?

I have never been the subject of an online or offline scandal and certainly not any involving sex, causal or romantic. I do not kiss and tell, or tell the explicit details of what I do between the sheets , even with the closest of friends.

But, for every woman I have been intimate with in the last 12 years nonetheless, the Heavens know I have a cache of our interactions saved to proof it was wholly consensual and, at times, the women made the moves. It'd come in handy when I become a topic of public interest running for a position maybe or in a place of more elevated social influence.

Neymar? Justin Bieber? Dani Alves? Shannon? Reno Omokri who as accuse by Natasha Akpoti in 2019 only for his evidence in 2015 to save him? Need I go on?

You can let your guard down around women you get close to if you like. Hopefully, you don't become another cautionary tale.

Men are just realizing to have proof? Audio, video, text, pictures... Save every evidence.

https://x.com/i/status/2023856448854503490

Archive chats with women but never deleted. Save evidence then backup to a dedicated Gmail account. Gmail free version is 15GB. Save fo the drive. Add your trusted account so in case you ever lose login access, you can use an alternate login method.


Protect yourself. Even that coworker can accuse you. Save chats and call logs.

If that side girl calls you she's coming over, record it then. Chat her up like you could barely hear her so she responds. Screenshot then save. When she gets home, casually talk about activities while you did together before she went back home. No less than 12 years of saving evidence on my end.

War-reading even though I hope I never have to shot a cannon in defence. But stack up your armoury.

Neo is being asked to defend himself despite the girl no providing time, date, visual evidence like chats or anything.

DissTroy:
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The case which made this go viral was of a 29-year-old Chinese woman, Hao Li, who pursued sex with a policeman then turned around to accuse him of råpé. His only saving grace was him recording everything. She's been jailed for 6 years.

Actress Dorcas Fapson who falsely accused a Taxify driver of rape in January 2019, only for him to be saved by his dashboard cam after he'd been canceled from everywhere, needs to have her name on the register.

Women who falsely accuse men of béatîng them need to have their names go on it too.

Misandrists have been going on a false rape accusation spree in the last 3 days. Countless men have been ruined and are being ruined.

BBNaija's Neo is the lastest victim: https://x.com/i/status/2023813392256184677 .

If you like trivialize your interactions with women. If you like don't save evidence backup to the cloud for years with even talking stages who got disappointed you didn't date them.
You will learn the hard way.

raumdeuter:
How did Chimarake become Tinubus choir boy? They were not even in the same party but I guess the impact was too much that even the blind can see it

Multiple Headies award-winning singer, Nyesom 'Nyedeba' Wike, of the On Your Mandate Opera House says "hi".

I think MrCōrk is the best and most intelligent Nairalander ever.

There you have it - reference it as proof of MrCōrk's towering intelligence over hundreds of thousands of Nairalanders.

My word is enough proof in this case.

raumdeuter:
Umo Eno award has a lot of legitimacy since he was given by his peers. WHile Um Eno won for 2024, Tinubu was called that for his total 8yrs term

Its like a student wo was first in SS1 vs a Student who finished first at the end of entire 6yrs

So, Chimaroke, Tinubu's very own choir leader, is now a benchmark for good governance?

Chimaroke calling Tinubu the Best Governor makes him the best?

I guess Ayade calling Yahaya Bello as the best of their set or vice versa automatically makes the assertion weighty and worthy of reference during good governance debates?

raumdeuter:
Was Vanguard one of the governors in Ortoms time? Chiboy was a governor who managed a state like Tinubu and he claimed Tinubu was the best unlike some people who must not be mentioned whose handpicked successors called him a failure

If this is your submission, Nigerian Governors Forum awarded Gov. Umo Eno as the Best Governor in Nigeria in 2024:

https://von.gov.ng/akwa-ibom-state-governor-bags-best-governor-award/ . Reported by an official government website.

I mean, all 36 governors jointly awarded him. Tinubu didn't have that.

By your submission, Umo Eno is resoundingly a better governor by his second year in office than Tinubu was in 8 years.

😊

raumdeuter:
Is Vanguard also a governor who called his fellow governor the best?

You know what it takes for you as a programmer to claim another programmer is the best in your class?

If the programmer has a direct plug to Silicon Valley's VCs who value AI wrappers at $2.2 billion in the first 6 months, I will call him The Greatest Programmer Ever. He's my surest connect to VCs and funding for my own startup ventures.

Tinubu at the centre is Chimaroke's direct plug to the center and the treasury of the most populated black country on Earth. He will say anything.

raumdeuter:
Was Vanguard one of the governors in Ortoms time? Chiboy was a governor who managed a state like Tinubu and he claimed Tinubu was the best unlike some people who must not be mentioned whose handpicked successors called him a failure

Israel will tell you Davido is the Messiah the Bible foretold.

SamKlef will tell you Wizkid is God's begotten second son.

Gov. Dapo Abiodun of Ogun wins "Good Governance" Award as the best Governor of 2022: https://thenationonlineng.net/abiodun-wins-good-governance-award-in-london/ . Yes, Dapo as in Nigeria's very own Eleyi.

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Then in 2023, Dapo won the "Best Governor of the Year Award" by The Sun Newspapers.

Guess who owns The Sun? Orji Uzor Kalu.

Ask Ogun people what they can see on ground.

We can go on.

Raumdeuter, Yaya Bello of Kogi won "The Best Governor on Growth and Development Award" 2023.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/yahaya-bello-wins-governor-of-the-year-award/

Do you need more?

Ask Amoto and Recy to tell you the true state of things.

raumdeuter:
So we shouldnt believe Chimaraoke, we shouldnt believe verified projects with links and videos dating back 25yr ago

What should we believe?

Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue State bagged the "The Best Governor on Security" in 2017 by Vanguard Newspaper: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/08/ortom-bags-best-governor-security-award/ .

Yes, same Benue - the same Agatu massacre and other massacre Benue with high crime rates.

Should I continue?

raumdeuter:
Actually it was a member of the class of 1999 who named Tinubu the best of their class. Its like your fellow classmates acknowledging you the best. Those outside might not know you well but people in the same class



That is from the Cable abi na Tinubu owns thecable too

LOL. Chimaroke is Tinubu's lapdog (and only figuratively as I do not intend to refer him as a dog).

Chimaroke has released more Tinubu praise singing albums than Sony Music's entire catalogue.

The patronizing, exaggerated words of an "On Your Mandate" crooner seeking to further ingratiate himself to his buddy who is now GCFR is proof?

20 years from now, someone will reference OUK's The Telegraph Best Governor award to Monday Okpebholo as proof he was the best of the 2023/2024 set.

raumdeuter:
Tinubu is the easiest governor to defend because his projects litter everywhere

Na why other governors called him the best in the class of 99 and best Governor in 4th republic till date

Here's Orji Uzor Kalu being tagged the best governor of the 1999 class:
https://www.nairaland.com/7666291/orji-uzor-kalu-best-governor .

TheFlint1's uncle, Governor Monday Okpebholo, was awarded as the best governor of 2025: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/02/okpebholos-emergence-as-new-telegraph-governor-of-the-year-2025-in-education/ .

Just a little addition: Orji Uzor Kalu is the Publisher of The New Telegraph which awarded Monday, and The Sun.

Reminds of the image laundering role of The Nations Newspaper and TVC, right?

raumdeuter:
After FG gave the license, its left to state govt to attract investors, Tinubu attracted Chinese investors Udom attracted BUA. So why cant Udom claim credit for the major investor that provided jobs and opened up his state.

In my books that is a bigger visionary than saving states money into your own personal bank and personal brewery that your successors say its worth next to nothing

I have named many roads and capital projects under Tinubu with evidence. I will report in case you didnt see the first time

Don't deflect. Nobody has mentioned Peter Obi so far. I have deliberately avoided Obi.

Let's beam the searchlight on Tinubu whom you guys keep saying built Lagos and transformed it.
Fact by fact.

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By the way, Raum, I can post more than 50 links of OUK and Theodore Orji supposedly building roads in Abia but those on ground know it was rubbish.
Remember, the former has a newspaper and all you need do was buy airtime on AIT and NTA then with no questions asked.

Why do you think Lagos-Ibadan media was used as a slur even back then? It was because everyone knew they were laundering Tinubu's image while the reality on group painted a different picture.

Tinubu built roads but Lagos was notorious for horrible roads under him?

Tinubu built roads but getting from one LCDA to another required you taking a stress test? It was like traveling inter-state.

Stuck on roads at midnight because everyone had to drive in a single line. Why? Well, there are 419 craters in the middle of the roads so the alternative was to drive through people's lands and compounds and these people had to put up banners to deter motorists.

Was it Ketu? Was it Abule Egba? Was it Ajah or Festac? Which roads were really functional under Tinubu?

Tinubu built public transport but Danfo and Molue were cautionary tales.

But, hey, "Tinubu built Lagos".

Thank God for the internet so those of us who know can air the truth. No more of those gatekeeping media where media platforms in his pockets like TVC, Nations, MITV and the likes who projected these half-truths and falsehoods as the true picture.

raumdeuter:
After the approval of the FG for the FTZ, why are the other approved FTZ not as functional or prosperous as the Lekki FTZ? Maybe it has to do with the vision of Tinubu and the continuity and mentorship of his successors who ensured the project continued. Once again this is Tinubu in China wooing investors, F can give approval all day long, without investors it will be another sandy football pitch

Road were terrible before Tinubu and I have highlighted the various road projects under him above

Oh! So you admit it was the FG's machinations, the same OBJ you insist truncated all developments in Lagos under Tinubu?

About FTZ. Onne FTZ s a hub which has anchored Rivers, and parts of Imo and Abia for years. You should visit.

Liberty FTZ in Akwa Ibom was officially announced in July 2021. Udom wooed BUA and others. Sterling Global Group functions there. I had to visit in late January to see what's going on. The attendant employment has multiplied by several times. You should see it yourself or research.

But even Udom CAN'T take credit for the FTZ on his own. Umo Eno has upped it with more investors and FDI. As much as I don't shill for him, I have admit it. You should Google many times the both have visited foreign countries specifically to woo investors.

Immediately power was deregulated to states, Otti has attracted investors to improve the power situatuon in Abia.

And that's the bare minimum a Governor is expected to do.

You don't see anyone attribute everyone to these Governors like you do to Tinubu.
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Yet, we can see roads Otti is building. We saw roads Udom built. We are seeing roads Umo Eno is building.

We saw roads and other capital projects by Fashola and can easily name them.

How come roads under Tinubu were so horrible?

What did Tinubu do, Raumdeuter?

Raumdeuter, forget about the political violence under Tinubu for now. Let's really analyze Tinubu as Governor. He was horrible.

Capital projects: Poor.

Unemployment: No real way to measure then but given the observable, poor.

Security: Don't even get me started.

What did Tinubu really do as Governor other than to magnetize the encomiums of past governors like Mobolaji Johnson as his; and his supporters telling us all what Fashola did were by Tinubu?

Judge Tinubu as an entity not by association: What did Tinubu really do as Governor?

Thankfully some of the guys here also grew up in Lagos under him so we can all corroborate those claims?

Nothing really. He couldn't even maintain roads by past adminstrators like Jakande that's why the roads were horrible.

raumdeuter:
There were several years of misrule and neglect by the military which preceded Tinubu. Which he had to clean up. I remember how flooded Victoria Island used to be especially Ahmadu Bello Road and the vision to clean it up

The leadership of Tinubu an his mentorship of his successors ensured that the vision was kept alive, Without Tinubu, Fashola will never win a ward in Lagos. If instead of Fashola it was Obanikoro or PDP who succeeded Tinubu, an argument can be made that Lagos would not experience that growth it did. The failure of Amaechi is why the light rail in Rivers has been abandoned while the ones in Lagos have been completed


This is an article below showing when Tinubu went to China and negotiated with investors to the Lekki FTZ, That is visionary, why have other FTZ's not have that success

He achieved all these as governor despite the FG holding back LG funds for Lagos

No! This is wrong.

If a Nigerian state government requires a free trade zone, it needs the vetting and approval of the Federal Government. Just like you need the FG for any actualization of seaport dreams. Please prove me wrong.

The same Obasanjo granted Lekki FTZ, just as Onne FTZ was granted in Rivers, and Buhari granted Liberty FTZ to Akwa Ibom in 2020. Go and verify.


Thank goodness you admitted the roads were horrible under Tinubu.
Stop attributing Fashola's and Ambode's successes to Tinubu. Same way Ronaldinho helped Messi settle in as Barça's main man but Messi' successes are entirely his.

Tinubu was a terrible Governor. We have not forgotten so you guys should stop trying to paint a different picture.

Going from Victoria Island or Maryland to Ajah to visit relatives was hellish. The roads were horrible.

From Iju-Ishaga or even Ketu to AIT's Alagbado was testing. Stuck in traffic for hours. That's if your vehicle doesn't fall into a crater in the middle of the road.

You want to navigate from Ketu to Abule Egba? Good luck with the roads.

Spend hours in traffic on a Sunday. Stay for no more than two hours with relatives then endure the hours back.

It's one of the reasons people didn't visit relatives often growing up. Except during long holidays as kids.

Why are people insisting on whitewashing Tinubu, making him out to be who he wasn't as Lagos State Governor?

Point out his proteges like Fashola and we'll give him credit for choosing a greater successor. But Tinubu? These lies don't fly. Some of us can remember vividly.

Tinubu was horrible as a Governor and he had violent scandals trail him all his years as Governor. From Funsho Williams to others.

raumdeuter:
If you are talking about Tinubu, I will take the question

His track record as an excellent administrator when he was governor of Lagos state where he laid the groundwork for a prosperous Lagos. We could see his foresight in things like BRT, LATMA, LAMATA, Lekki FTZ and many laudable projects which has pushed Lagos far ahead of other states in Nigeria

Its amazing that Tinubu spent 8yrs as governor same as Obi in Anambra but for Obi it was curses that followed his reign

So the attraction to the Father of modern Lagos is natural since I am draw to doers and not Lamba-ists

Lagos was far ahead of other states during colonial times before Tinubu was born.

Roads were horrible under Tinubu and public infrastructure in disrepair.

Oshodi and Mushin under Tinubu were just like Aba before Otti. Anybody who lived in Lagos pre-Fashola can confirm. It took Fashoda less than two years to clean up these areas which Tinubu couldn't do in 8 years.

Lekki FTZ isn't exactly a making of Tinubu. There are other FTZ like the Onne FTZ in Rivers and recently the Liberty FTZ in Akwa Ibom. All by pronouncements of the Federal Government. You should thank Obasanjo for it, not Tinubu.

LATMA and the likes had their own versions across states in Rivers under Amaechi (Heard of TIMARIV? Google it.) and Akwa Ibom under Akpabio. Sustainability by successive governments is another debate entirely.

Under Tinubu, Lagos had a high crime rate (higher than the rest of the country despite not being the only ethnically heterogeneous one), poor public infrastructure and the likes.

Heck! It was common knowledge companies in the Ikeja parts and other areas had to tar and fix roads as part of their CSR because the LASG was lacking. Not different from what Shell was doing in Rivers' Bonny Island or Mobil and ALSCON were doing in Akwa Ibom's Eket and Ikot Abasi respectively.

seunmsg:
What has he done wrong? How’s this scientific findings his fault? Even at that, does it in any way take away the oil wells unjustly ceded to Akwa Ibom by the Supreme Court in 2012? So, why the insult?

Before Bakassi was ceded to Cameroon, there was no much controversy as to Cross River’s ownership of most of these oil wells. So, why are some of you so adamant on taking away everything from Cross River? It’s more annoying because technically, you guys don’t even really have oil in that state. If the internationally accepted 3 nautical miles rule is adopted, you guys won’t even be an oil producing state.

You are very stûpid considering their corked oil wells all over my family lands and I had to travel months ago to resolve a dispute regarding oil exploration.

I don't blame you. You sit somewhere and get fed by oil from our lands then insult is online.

Asinîne møngrél!

Men are fighting back. There are trending false accusation databases to publicly and forever document women who falsely accuse men of abuse.

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Men are filing entries quickly.

Share it amongst your friends

The case which made this go viral was of a 29-year-old Chinese woman, Hao Li, who pursued sex with a policeman then turned around to accuse him of råpé. His only saving grace was him recording everything. She's been jailed for 6 years.

Actress Dorcas Fapson who falsely accused a Taxify driver of rape in January 2019, only for him to be saved by his dashboard cam after he'd been canceled from everywhere, needs to have her name on the register.

Women who falsely accuse men of béatîng them need to have their names go on it too.

pkasso:
It's a joke, bro. There is nothing wrong with celebrating your special person.

Valentine's Day is overrated, though. I don't think we should set aside a date to show love. It should be a continuous thing. After Feb 14, that wife-beater wey carry wifey go romantic dinner go still revert to default settings. So, who is deceiving who?

It's the one day on the calendar where sexual immorality is excused. You are allowed to get wild, but the consequences na you go suffer am.

The part that annoys me is seeing some Primary schools and even kindergartens celebrating Valentine's day. Wtf? And don't come at me with all this platonic and agape love nonsense. Valentine's is a celebration of romantic love, why get innocent kids involved in this?

The most interesting thing about Valentine's Day is the day after. Thankfully, the next day is Sunday so there'd be fun in laying in bed with your lady scrolling all the social media drama, scandals, and controversies.

Betrothed folks would be caught in hotel rooms. Couples in long distance relationships would air their dirt where one party's phone went off from evening.

There's a foólish man somewhere in a long distance relationship who would send his woman a gift or send her money tomorrow while she spends the night getting banged by another man.

There's a student cohabiting with a girl who wouldn't figure out her whereabouts tomorrow.

There's the teenager in 100 level who gained admission this January or last December and this is her first time without a curfew. She'd be in an ørgy tomorrow. Maybe get drunk and pictures leak.

The day after is fun to drink in the dramatic aftermath as long as you have got your woman right beside you.

Theflint1:
Neither can they afford the cost of dialyisis or whatever ill health they'd suffer after consuming these fake products.

Better these stuffs are not on the shelves and people face palmwine and ogogoro squarely instead of these fake drinks that nobody knows what they put inside.

Tell me you are a Niger-Deltan without explicitly stating it. We are never beating the stereotype.

Ghanaians sold their votes for boiled eggs.
https://www.nairaland.com/8615075/mahama-recalls-ghanas-high-commissioner

TheFlint1, see your people.

Just a friendly reminder that somewhere in Nigeria today, a fraudster was given a special seat in a Nigerian church, a k!dnapper made a special donation on the altar, and an armed robber got conferred with an Ecclesiastical title while the Pastor got on the podium to preach against Nigerian politicians.

DissTroy:
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Darn! My phone is listening on me and my text.

It got suggested to me on YouTube.


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