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are u really asking this question

Ok dnt take it u hear keep sitting at home jobless ur dream job will soon land

Better go n start somewhere if u kw what is good for u, did I hear federal college op u may weep seriously b4 long if u turn down this job offer.

90% percent of graduates dnt like their jobs but they must survive. Ur major problem is dt u still dey chop mama thank ma with free shelter

vizkiz:
Couples are proclaimed married when dowries are paid (In Africa)

Biblically/in the modern world, when they are joined together as one by a priest.

u r getting it absolutely wrong if he has paid the bride price and the bride's father gave her blessing and consent they are married b4 God and man. joining by a priest doesnt mark d beginning of marriage dts just what u grew up to believe

to send most of its viewers to hell fire with its softporn content

Gloriagee:
Please (re) define slightest provocation

How long have they been married? hw long has she worked on her marriage? hw long has she endured this and tried to make it work?

u will find the answer u seek in there

Acidosis:
See, I understand the fact that a lot of men cheat, I understand the need for maturity in marriage.

In this case, maturity has no role to play. This woman, from the way she types, has lost her self esteem. It is very evident seeing how she coined her words. That's more than enough damage for a normal human being.

God forbid, if this man succeed in killing her unborn child, what would you advise?

There is nothing else to endure than separate from the man. Not all separations lead to divorce, and even if it leads to total separation (divorce), so what?

Is it not safer and better than staying with a man that beats her to pulp at the slightest 'provocation' in the presence of MIL? How can you explain that?

The man already uses condom, pays for hotel beds, etc. What other advice do you think he needs on "safe intimacy"?

How can you recommend prayer on the one hand, and again recommend 'safe' adultery?

Would you preach these words to a sister? Would you buy condoms for your sister to give to a frolicking hubby?

Why dish out what you cannot digest? She has lost her esteem already, why complicate it further?

Next thing, this man will come home with prostitutes.. what would you advice be? Move to war room?


No marriage is worth dying for even if she married Dangote.

how long has she endured n worked to turn things around? 1yr, 3yrs or 5yrs? rushing for separation and divorce when other available options has not been exhausted is bad advice. d beating happened only once bc she seized the man's precious items n stopped him from going out for sth, pushing a man to d wall bc u r pregnant is a no no.

finally did you read the part where she said she is not independent financially i hope you will give her a job, shelter, get her another husband, take care of her kids n mother when she rushes out of her marriage.

Nobody is dying their marriage is facing its biggest challenge and if they can surmount it, it will be bliss from here

Acidosis:
There is nowhere in the Bible where God recommended prayers for a cheating partner. In fact, God did not recommend marriage for Cheats so pray from now till kingdom comes, your prayers won't work. It will only work on the TV screen (e.g. war room).

You cannot marry an ed.iot and expect God to change him to an Angel. God has already told you that two cannot work together unless they agree.


Stop twisting the bible for your selfish deeds. Will you go to the war room if your wife turns your bed to a brothel?


You guys are evil. What is bad is bad. That everyone close to you sleep around like dogs doesnt make cheating RIGHT.

U still don't n won't understand no one says cheating is right but I am telling u dt u needs alot of maturity and wisdom to manage and sustain a troubled marriage - this is sth u can never understand.

D mindset you go into marriage with is summed up in this. " for better for worse until death do us part" anything short of this shows immaturity

Gloriagee:
I doubt that Acidosis is advocating divorce. He's only contesting your suggestion that she should advise her husband to have safe s.ex.

Yeah, maturity and wisdom is required but does not equate condoning extra marital 'safe' sex. After all, who's gonna enforce that her hubby conducts safe sex.

Do u actually realise the dangers of extra marital sex? Look at this lady sacrificing and asking her hubby to route all his money to his building project in the hope of a better tomorrow yet without registering for antenatal at 7 months.

Can't u see his affection and resources are being diverted?

U shld go back and read d next sentence dt follows d safe sex part, it's merely a change of strategy sometimes u can't change everything by force. Besides safe sex will help prevent d worst dt is infecting her wife, so is like a lesser evil. So I am nt supporting cheating but trying to see if d man comes back to his senses.

D major problem of d man is dt he is nt providing for d wife n kids, if everyone shld divorce at d slightest provocation no one will be married for up to 5yrs including ur pastor n d wife

dre11:
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•Mother upbeat her son is alive

•Colleagues described him as easy-going, thoroughbred professional





http://sunnewsonline.com/revealed-dr-orji-attempted-suicide-four-years-ago-2/

Mmm and serious heart break from his fiancée cant be ruled out too

Acidosis:
If OP was your sister, would you post this non.sense?

She should advise her hubby on sa.fe s. ex?



Where did you all come from? Did you guys grow up in a family or farmland? What did you Learn from your parents?


Seriously, I need to write an open apology to all feminists on Nairaland. They are driving a noble pursuit. A lot of Nigerian men and fathers are irresponsible. The irresponsibility of useless forefathers have been shoved down the throats of the up and coming generations.

U are a complete idiot dt may never see the wisdom in my opinion so I may not bother to engage u. It takes a lot of maturity n wisdom to manage a troubled marriage and dts beyond the understanding of kids like u.

Divorce can and shld never be embraced at d slightest provocation in marriage.

vayne:
Nnamdi is filled with charisma!

And extreme courage

He is extremely loyal and begging to keep his job

joshboss:
Good day y'all. I'm a fresh graduate of Unilag with a pass degree. I studied mathematics and statistics. Any idea what type of job I can do with my certificate. Serious ideas pls...

Manager for ashawo house sure pass

U may be considered for gate man/security in any company provided u use only ur waec result and hide dt shi.t u call degree

If u r well built and with muscles u can also consider club bouncer

Good waec result is better than pass degree in Nigeria

Op Marriage is for better for worse till death do you part

Try to patch things up with ur hubby, 95% of couples are managing things in their Union to keep the marriage afloat. Almost every wife has received a slap from their hubby at least once dts nt a reason to quit ur marriage except it becomes persistent.

Be a good wife above all keep praying and fasting for this n God will see u through. Dnt rush for divorce.

Pray until sth happens, have u seen ur pastor on this b4 coming to NL where alot of divorcee will like u to toll their own failure part.

Prioritize ur welfare n dt of ur kids, let ur hubby be, if possible buy him more condoms n advice him on safe sex while assuring him dt u will always love him no matter what. This shld touch him n i assure u he will change b4 long.

My major problem with ur hubby is dt he is nt taking care of his home nt really d cheating part. If ur hubby was fulfilling his provider role i would ve said u have a lesser problem but he is not. As for the beating part dnt push a man to the wall, dt will nt happen again if u dnt push him to d wall

Jesuuuu oooo this na for gays

I will reply when u tell me hw much d maga boyfriend sends to his mum monthly

helpforever:
I saw a post about a woman complaining that her sister married an impotent man. I smiled, the man probably knew he had an issue and still went ahead and married. I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual.

It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out.
Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast.

We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40.

I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left.

Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her.

We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth.

She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard.

Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money.

We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her.

At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life"

I got very scared and left for home immediately.

I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did.

Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot.

I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection

In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate.

Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started
masturbating right since I was 17.

He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition.

But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation.
Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them.

I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC

Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened

Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was flirting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurrences.

Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard.

Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again.

Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues.

Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause.

Is it spiritual, medical or psychological?

Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection?

Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain.

I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself.

I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't
subject any woman to emotional pain.

At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come on, transgenders are women who just have a joystick.

I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful

I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell.

I have been living in pains. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them.

I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this.

I hope my issue is resolved.

But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probably keep on masturbating and never get married.

It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows.

I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid.

U have erectile dysfunction

Have u taken Viagra b4 100mg, jst try it n u shld ve rock hard erection if nt u have a big problem.

Again u have to get used to sex with females n stay off masturbation. Excessive masturbation esp d ones u do for years without ever having sex with a real girl is a killer.

U r nt impotent say dt 100times daily, exercise, take lots of fruits n vegetables n ur rod will come to live IJN thank me later

david22uu:
Abeg I get acct with one million naira mavro for sale.... can go for 300k

10k serious buyer

chloride6:
I doubt you are really who you say you are, because you seem to have no iota of sense. Why did your s.tupid self evade my question and cling to the federal character so design for persons of your minute intelligence. The federal character you continuously run your mouth about is a spin of the affirmative action practiced in the USA. Why don't you take a trip there and see how it should be done.

You reason like an slowpoke continuously using conditional statements, like " an NCE holder may be better than an M.Sc graduate ". In the absence of any testing with all things being equal, the M.Sc graduate is a better candidate. But your very poor reasoning capabilities coupled with eternal gratitude for the mediocre federal character system that ensures you feed your family won't make you see reason. It hurts to think that you are or will be someone's father. What an impending evil awaits the world.

I didn't think the day would come when a wuss would defend a non merit driven process, but it did, and you are the one that has the honour of being so intellectually deficient.

U r obviously getting annoyed calm down English comprehension remains ur major problem, it has been well established and documented that better academic qualifications doesn't translate to better performance on the job and dts what gave rise to aptitude tests b4 employment these days.

I dnt want to blow my trumpet but u will lie down to greet me if u see my CV. Coming online to brag is shallow and I won't go dt low. In d mean time keep hunting for job for ur jobless hopeless self n bear in mind dt u r nt better than some other candidate BC u went to a private uni n bought a good grade. With ur poor attitude n oversized ego, I see u spending over a decade in d labour market