₦airaland Forum

Yes.
Unconditional.
Leave judgement to our creator.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So the child that was dumped at the roadside by his biological mother should love her ?

Is this part of your point?[/color]

This is where religion has come to destroy our history and brotherhood bloodline..

This is why we condemn ourselves and claim to be from where we have no ties with.

This is why we raise children to hate/envy themselves on little dispute.

If we can't love our own blood regardless, how do we then love another.

Let us learn to value and respect family ties

izzou:
[color=royalblue]God will always value a relationship over blood

Jacob and Esau were brothers. Yet Jacob remained relevant

Ruth was a Moabite. She chose to stick with Naomi, and became a descendant of Jesus...A Moabite..

So if my brother hates me, I should choose him first because he is my brother?

What makes us family is my relationship with you. If it is not there, nothing can be forced[/color]

The foundation for us to bind ourselves as family is the Lord's making. You are already binded by blood. Now it's your duty to create a relationship...

God didn't choose our spouse for us. We did.
God chosed our family for us. There is a reason.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]How can i uphold a value that does not exist?

There has to be a foundation for us to bind ourselves as a family; and that foundation is our relationship

If we don't have any relationship, we can't call ourselves family

If we have a relationship, we can call ourselves family[/color]

By upgrading your bedroom skills/stamina and be responsible financially

If you want to keep her for yourself alone.

It's tested and trusted

Family members are related by blood. Relationship or no relationship.

If this value is upheld rightly there will always be a relationship within the family and the society at large will benefit.

Remember, family is our first society.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Being in a family does not qualify us to have a relationship

It is being in a relationship that qualifies us to be a family

So the phrase "irrespective of your relationship" flaws the point.

The relationship gan gan, is what defines us as a family[/color]

Ok, so the baby is your blood but you have memories with your wife and you can still make more babies with her

My friends call me Moses. Omo I dey trek fire commot from my legs

What God Has Joined Together, No Man Put Asunder To Is Family.
See, you can choose your spouse or partner to create/procreate a family with. But, you can't choose your family members. A man/woman can lose a partner to the cold hands of death and get remarried within a few months or years but your family members irrespective of your relationship with that member can never be replaced by another.

If parents can adopt this common sense into their household principle then, things will start getting better in our society.

Parents should learn how to teach children to accept their differences as siblings and give unconditional love each other.

Edited: Your family is your history

Good hair cream and conditioner on a clean scalp will keep your wig cool even on hot sunny days

In most cases I see...

Bad spouse, good in-laws
Or
Good spouse bad in-laws

Or is it just me

No. Please

Good move Dino

Na

I fell for his handsome looks but his character almost destroyed my life and my kids

How about the upkeep of their kids?
Maybe his mum will also take better care of her grandchildren too

Why Next Life?
Because it's not paying in this life....my heart bleeds

Solofresh2:
Your goodness will pay for you in your next life

If she loves kids yes. Test her with other kids to find out if she loves kids.

Some people/parents don't like kids

Postinor happiness is just 2days

Postinor:
a night with me and u would experience true happiness

Gawd, this looks like real happiness.
Why don't we (good people) deserve this

Edited: real happiness is natural chemistry from both sides for me.
Am not talking about money.

Am not open for that yet

WantsandMore:
hmm interesting, don't you have a partner who requires your sexual attention?

No other benefit like you mentioned but there is peace of mind and self respect benefit involved especially when you have kids like me

WantsandMore:
but why the sudden choice of celibacy for such a long time though? Asides from spiritual benefits any social or economic benefits?

If you like yourself. Every other person will like you the way you are

Turn your weakness to strength by being very creative at one or two things

Learn to be contented with who you are

I bet you, even when you become 100 years old, you'll be looking like 50, ask El Rufai.

Lastly, never wish to be anybody because you are the best version of yourself

Too much of forgiveness makes one a fool. And that fool will pay dearly in future.

Once bitten twice what again

Please let's learn...

How do you forgive a con man or a manipulative person

A real man shouldn't be intimidated/afraid of successful women.

These days we have more lazy ass men without ambition in life that only want to feed off their women. They think having a third leg makes them a man.

We also have men that love their women so much that they want to limit the potential of their women because they are not man enough to maintain being her man when she becomes successful.

Let every man know their responsibility in life before looking for a woman that fits into is life. No Lies!

Take away taxes and expenses. How much do you really earn

Lol! I have gone 8months and still counting.
I know a lady that has gone 9years another 3 years.... $€× is more beneficial to men in older age than women though

Tinubu is not Buhari.

OChimex:
Na only Nigerians go wan fly airplane, then come dey go motor park to wait for him flight: and when him flight no show, him go begin pray to God to bring him plane come motor park.

Keep being optimistic about Tinibu, it’s good.

You only expect a different result when you do things differently.

Let them bring it on. We are ready for anything . Am optimistic about this new government though

No. I said the reality and what works for others

qtguru:
Sounds like an asexual's fetish