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If only they had their own lane

Naa, there is more than one person for each of us. You can only decide to stick with one at a time if you want.

Paulnoma:
What if the person dies or marries someone else....you remain single till u die

Most religious people are hypocrites.
Gather courage face them and see.
They are just human

yom2:
but I thought they are d most religious people like naija

Guys let's vote.

There is someone out there that was created for you.

You may not understand.
But I know what am saying

Kobojunkie:
1. So, you believe people weren't born whole from their mother's wombs?

Marriage is suppose to complete you by bringing out the best in you... Not a battlefield like your scholars make you believe.

We make poor choices about anything in life marriage is not an exemption.

If you don't feel right.
Breakup.
A damaged parent can not raise sane children

Go on Facebook and you will see a lot of them men from middle East making sex video calls, posting nudes and porn to whoever cares to watch.

Come check those systems in 2 years time

What if both parties agreed to part ways in peace? Counselors should also know when to encourage divorce so as to save raising children by damaged parents in toxic homes.

Na wa

Can you deliver to Abuja?

Where are our lawyers?

Clout

Your dad survived it with her. Like someone above me said.

She can bless you, you can't bless her.

If you can't accept her the way she is then, you can go get your own apartment.

Remember your bloodline is your history, you have 50% of her gene in you.

Probably spiritual issue for him...am long gone

MadarasBlade:
Probably he didnt find you attractive.

This happened to me. I divorced his ass after many years of starvation, endurance, hopefulness and many other things I can't say on here

Abuja is ready to welcome you.
I'll suggest areas like Dutse, Bwari, Lugbe, Apo or Karu, Nyanya area.
Food business is a sure business too

It's a good idea. If your village is safe and they even go playing in another village. Then it ok.
As for your wife, you'll have to talk to her differently and in many ways and languages for her to understand. Don't make it a big deal either

Yes. I do. We do and plan fun things to do together to keep good memories

You alone seem to understand what am saying. Truly it's rare because of religion and civilisation. But you can find it more in a descent not extremist Islamic home.

tosinhtml:
What you're saying is rare but possible, I have seen it where people, couples, siblings etc loving each other unconditionally. The occurrence of this is probably like 1 out of 100.

I am not one of those who has the capability to love unconditionally but I cannot deny the reality that I have actually seen it happen to people I know.

Too much religion and civilisation may make you not to understand what am saying.

Am not talking about judging any human

Am not talking about dating or marriage

Am talking about the missing family/bloodline value that is the root of the descrepancies we face in our society today.

Kobojunkie:
You are not being realistic at all is why I am having a hard time grasping what it is your are saying here.

Yeah, Izzou seems mature.

The essence of my thread is not to coarse anybody to accept my thoughts but to put it out there for others who may share the same thoughts with me.

I use to be a hater of my own immediate family until I got therapy...am still on it

Am sharing what am learning...

Sure I could change the post because I don't want you to score yet

Klass99:
I want to tackle you on some of your subsequent points, but I am not even sure where to begin from and you will still change the goal post for me. Watching you and Izzou debate the issue was enjoyable, his last post on exiting your thread nearly killed me with laughter, the guy knows when to quit a merry go round argument.

What is unconditional love self
It seems y'all are misunderstanding it

Kobojunkie:
Unconditional love ? Where is this coming from?

Because women are what, useless to you

ChizzyBuna:
There are 3 types of people that take relationship adivce from women.
1. Children
2. Fools
3. Simps

What if the other party is not interested in the union

Try bail her

Babe, Move. Before you get pregnant. Don't bring a child to this mess

I speak from experience. If you know, you know

Your moniker suits your imagination

LuvSwollenPussy:
Lol. This divorcee 19 girl, you sha want to dey talk like woman of all wisdom and you never get the experience enough. Calm down you never reach that level. You don't sound responsible yourself let alone knowing what responsibility costs

It can. There are always exemptions in life.
Myself cannot be one alone.
I know alot more

Notorioustroll:
Money cannot tame the desire to have a taste of another dick.

Speak for yourself, not every woman is like you.

I get your drift. Am talking about family values and blood line.
Am talking about accepting our family and learning how to appreciate our differences without being judgemental with family members. Am talking about reducing our expectations from our bloodlines, we didn't chose our family

Klass99:
I can go on but I am sure you catch my drift. Unconditional love is a crap load of BS, I think only the Lord God Almighty is capable of it, but even with Him, you go collect when your cup is full and you don't want to repent.

.... It is deep..

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Okay

This is the point where i sign off from your thread.

Thank you[/color]

Yes.
Unconditional.
Leave judgement to our creator.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So the child that was dumped at the roadside by his biological mother should love her ?

Is this part of your point?[/color]