₦airaland Forum

All women? Are men created as saints?

Urheadmaster:
Same thing applies to all the women around the world

Emotional cheating is traumatizing

Having your own space while still married can strengthen your union. It's also called Respect my Space

Louder my dear brother. Make their brainial-eye open

Kobojunkie:
God no send anyone "Til' death do us part!", so, I no follow that one at all.

That phrase should be erased/edited.
We can't be tied to nonentity in the guise of 'Till Death do us Part'

litigator:
At the end of the day, one cannot help but wonder what happened to the popular " till death do us path".

Do you?

@everyone
Kobojunkie
PoliteActivist
DontBullshitMe
Dearlove2me
Divoc19
Goalnaldo
Dogalmighty17

Chai, you nailed it to the brim.
But, I wish I had proper counseling when I got married. When I tell people I married for kids regardless of character they think I am nut

humilitypays:
To born children (especially a male child)
To have a homekeeper and a cook
To satisfy family (parents) expectations
For visa (japa things)
Few Nigerian men marry ladies for money
Few Nigerian men marry for sex, very few
As for Nigerian women, they marry for the below reasons:
To escape family poverty
To escape future poverty or lack
To secure their future financially
To have kids
For visa (marrying guys abroad) to japa
To help their suffering parents/siblings
To pepper their friends and mates

Sound you meant?
You won't understand

SenecaTheYonger:
You married because you wanted to see what your baby will look like?

You should like all those illiterate market women. This is something they can say

Thanks. I have already taken. I personally think celebrating the act of shahada makes people to come, fake it for attention and gift. I like to do things myself and seek help when I need one. My status should be known by my identity.
You gerrit
Thanks again

Dmamasboy:
Hello there. Sorry nobody got to answer your question on this. I hope you’ve already taken the shahada. So the answer is no. It’s not compulsory to take shahada before witnesses. However it won’t be a bad idea as it’ll help people around you know of your status and address you as such. It’ll also help them in assisting you with the knowledge to practice Islam the right way. May Allah SWT see you and us through. Amin

No. I lost everything I got in with.
I only have my kids to my credit.

Blupen969:
Then it's a win - win situation

Not really

Blupen969:
how do you feel about it?? do you regret it?

I wanted to see what my produce will look like

Kobojunkie:
1. You were rich without a child? Why didn't you opt for adoption instead?

Not true please. Some men cook even better than their wives

I got married because I was rich without a child at 25 years.
So, I jump in on who was not right for me. After 11years of endurance with 3 kids, I bounced...

What's your story?

Terrible. All health related issues in old age are the side effect

Get an adult toy to compliment it. How do you think small rich men manage their tall girlfriend

My mum is very diplomatic. You will tell her a secret and the next minute she shares it with your siblings.

LoL!
Don't rush it. You now have a good phone. Start making funny skits and post online that is a good way to also invest in yourself firstly.

HellVictorinho6:
despite all the talk about god by my relatives,colleagues,offline friends and talented people like u on this forum , i keep wondering when poverty will stop frustrating me in addition to the badluck i have in terms of approaching the opposite gender towards anything related to romance.

Come on!

Explain na

HellVictorinho6:

Wetin Yesu did you na

HellVictorinho6:
jezus!!

I can respect someone I don't obey.

Respect means not being rude or disrespectful.
You can actually disobey your elders in a respectable way

femicyrus:
How then do you intend to respect someone you won't obey?

Isn't that hypocrisy?
Then You are neither reliable nor trustworthy as an individual.
A typical Nigerian. No wonder the bad image you are painting Africans across the globe.

Ndi lineage of hypocrisy

Respect is different from 'Obey'

femicyrus:
All your concerns are only celebrated in Africa yet your backwardness is legendary.

Murderers, ritualist, corruption are all covered up in respect for elders in Nigeria especially

Then you are about to erase your lineage.

If you don't respect your elders. It means you don't respect your culture, tradition and heritage.

femicyrus:
I no dey respect any elder

Your list will not meet it's match because it is hard to find all these in one relationship

Ruke1989:
Trust is more important than love. What you and your ideal partner need to make marriage work for both of you are:

Common sense is what makes marriage work not love. You must both have equal Intelligence quotient so that you don't have brawls due to poor IQ and comprehension problem from the other partner

You can imagine. Does nyash really matter when doing the do or it's just for friends validation? Somehow I like how the Muslims
cover up these things.
I personally like to stay slim and that means all my nyash are gone except I do a nyash surgery that will give me side effect later in life.

This is another reason, young girls want to add weight so that all their figure will sprout.

Na wa

Ruke1989:
lol. Actually, I was beginning to be aware of the craze for nyansh and bobi during my 300L as I had two roommates who experimented with sex and talked about sex all the time. I was very uncomfortable with it because uptill then and even 4 years after university, I had never had a girlfriend. Nairaland was another place I began to see how men craze for nyansh. I think it's a mob effect because essentially, I was disgusted in my childhood days with the "real big nyash". When I eventually wanted a relationship the two girls I ever approached were so slim and nyashless that my female relative began to find me awkward for liking a girl like that. The relationship didn't work. But again, the point is, the girl I approached was intelligent and knowledgeable type just like me. I believe like attract like. Why should I bury myself in a big nyash when I know some of the girls like that are obsessed about their own nyash and it turns them to flirts

She has an unforgiving spirit. Some people are like that. As much as I try not to judge. It's good to avoid some people that have hurt you.

stormborn28:
That Annie don look for husband tire she no see. Na him make am kill her friend. She go don dey reach 40 years old. An angry lady and broken with frustration. As a woman you have to watch your character, life style and be humble. She wouldn't be bitter because by now she would have been married and forgotten about this her friend. She lived a wayward life fvcking around

She couldn't pretend anymore. She has been battling with her personality and pleasing her family for long. She needs your support to grow even if you feel like judging her.

It's all God's will.

Could you please correct your text colour

@mamagee3

Money ritual exist to those who use their brains to calculate how to make money from the society at large.

It's just logic or you are given a loan in secret to to payback after sometime.

Dangote didn't do ritual, very few are successful today because the competition is tight cos of population and the economy

I'd always thought 2 Scorpios are perfect together. But there must be 99.9% trust

Theboy21:
School him more The last time i date a scorpio girl, it was next to perfect for a start, didn't last as expected, Trust issues caused everything i am a scorpio

Fear human.
The heart of human is deep.
Dear God, keep us away from evil people.
Please

Awon kan waye wa sh'aye
Awon kan waye wa sh'ishe
Awon kan waye wa sh'ere
Awon kan waye wa ....

You garrit was there 2011

kyuniii:
Fpn OTM Department right.