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Yes bro. For the cruise if need be.
But if the other person falls in love na vawulence premium

Albertone:
So you date for fun and with no intention of it leading anywhere?

Beating her won't end it.
When will women learn

He could even love another woman with 8kids if he has the right chemistry with her.

It's only painful when the chemistry is not mutual. Like it is in my case. Because love is blind

bepositive11:
If a man can't genuinely love a woman with 3 kids, what makes you think that he can genuinely love a woman without any kids?

This sounds so right but not everybody can do this.

bepositive11:
If someone treats you badly, you respond accordingly instead of allowing them to continue disrespecting and mistreating you.

What happened to YDP, Youth Democratic Party

Thank you sis. May God bless you richly.

delpee:
I believe children are better off growing up with their 2 parents but not in a toxic atmosphere.
All will be well. We'll rejoice with you in due season.

At all

Johel:
Life no balance...

Yes. It is not a divorce just separation for my sanity.

MadamExcellency:
Why not try separation first? Divorce with three children may be extreme for a start.

Rehabilitation is possible with prayers and rejuvenated love from out of sight.

Never again.
God help me.

TrollsNeverDies:
are you planning on remarrying?

Thank you.

Draslo:
you should both consider the best co-parenting options so as not to break those kids. No matter your collective decisions, ensure their mental wellness is in check.

God bless and goodluck

Thank you.
The signs we there I have been hopeful all along

Originalsly:
Guys do not change.... whatever it is about him that makes you want out .... was always with him... was there before you marry him... but were you looking for signs?... studying him his ways?.... or brushed aside all signs of trouble and hoped marriage will wipe them away? .

You just cracked me up

dbestuncle:
I get you. It's good to get a life of your own, infact it was one of the advice I once gave to my wife though at the time she misunderstood it but I am not a kidnapper and all her life shouldn't rest on me, the burden too much to carry a full grown person isn't small work.
Too many childish men this days.
Another question?
Pls let it out, tell us, no vex tell us even if it means doing it on a new Monika.
Then also today's marriages has plenty issues because of the lack of a place for a good third party.
Have you tried some third party interference

What will happen to her after the green card.

VictorUSA:
As useless as women are (except my mother, sisters, mentees), I will let her do whatever will get me a green card.After deportation is impossible, i will never go back to Egypt.Straight to the Promised Land without looking back.

It's probably time to clear my Monika issues.
Divoc19 is Covid19.
2ndly. That's how I have been feeling all these years. It's time to get a life for me.

dbestuncle:
I have read through the trend. Tried so hard to understand your person by reading through your 16 personally created trend by you and also trying to view some of the places where you have made comments.
1st thing I don't get is why that Monika.
2ndly I feel your marriage can still work!
Pls share more reasons why you need this separation.

Thank you dear friend.
Oil dey your head and God will bless you more.

I am now convinced that a very few are truly lucky. This is my teenage love. I pray never to fall like this again. It's like a charm.

Sammy101111:
God bless you please be strong dear friend . you are a nice woman my friend please be strong only you can help your self

You had to open a new one just to say this?

Thank you.

What if it is the other way round?

It's always good to be rational when dealing with your fellow human.

satandeterrible:
Looking at many disgusting fools here supporting the woman.
Nonsense!

The issues are plenty.
But I will need space before I lose my sanity.

JBriel:
I hope it's not the usual where the man refuses to work, always demands sex, never in anyway useful to the home/family, only exists for sex and the woman slaves away. Na Dem full outside. They won't allow responsible mehn marry never.

There is no accusations here.
Am only expressing myself to my Nairaland family without changing/creating a new Monika.

Nonexisting:
You planned the divorce long before now which is why you chose this your username. Why don't you get over with it already and leave us the fucck alone while at it. I'm sick and tired of one sided stories and accusations.

Very true, they sometimes turn good to bad. They are so manipulative by hiding their other side while the good people will be praying and be hopeful till their death.

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is
Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Yes. This is the reality of my time.
I can't do marriage/slavery again.
Finances to make the little ones know that life can be better. I am very hard-working. With God on my side. I'll do better.
Thank you

blinking001:
Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

You are making me tear up too. It's was a tough pill to swallow because I use to form strong woman. I'll keep updating.

Thanks for your love and prayers

ObamaMessi:
Aunty Divoc19 what happened? I've always loved you. I've always admired you.I've always cherished you.I've always prayed for you in my subconscious mind.But what's going on again?

I can't believe i am shedding tears...It reminds me of the pains my mum went thru coz my dad and step mom were just too abusive! I love you aunty and always bear at the back of your mind that a 19-yr-old boy named Victor Divine who grew up in Jalingo, Taraba, now in Houston, Texas, LOVEs you so much.

Dont know why am too emotional about this, but aunty take care.God is with you.

Regrets are for kids.
Learn a lesson and move on

Not in all cases too. Opposite attracts. I don't know why

Holluwhakemmy:
Not in all cases like attracts like

The other way how?

WrksOnMyMachine:
Nigeria, I hail thee!

It would be the other way around in another country. Many Japarians dey suffer, but they no fit talk.

Yes I will. But not marriage

Of course.
They are not voting Party rather Individual

Not really, there could be use of force or exploration. Religion is not suppose to be like cult now

Ibironke4s:
The prime reason for religious prostitution is lack of foundation

Pictures

Laye
PM You on top of this prophecy?

FalseProphet1:
Send me a private message and I shall tell thee more things that the spirit revealeth.

Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Hian, you didn't see well. Look again

FalseProphet1:
I see you getting married this year.

This I have seen.