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coogar: and i am sure our ancestors saw this problem back then and decided to use polygamy to keep it to the barest minimum. western education and their political correctness saw polygamy as something evil and the practise was being ignored ... then came high rise of divorce rate and plenty of single women lying fallow in their father's houses with no chance to get married. in the next 10 yrs, women would start kidnapping men in public and locking them in their basements!

Lwkmd... In that case, there is fire on the mountain....

sparko1: hey mam, not with that profile pic, the holy spirit go borrow leg.

Na wa you oooo. That one na washy

betadaz: @OP simple answer: Supply pass demand, yet price refuse to fall... hence continuous rise in stock.

Time for promo! Get 3 for the price of 1...

Lngkm

Fhemmmy: Cos now most men are no more going for women with no career.
Cos most women are no more into being an housewife
Cos some men are scared of ready made women
Cos some women are only looking for some quality that are found in [b]barbie dolls[/b]

As funny as this seems, its realistic...

Dyt: Yes me
If I kiss a guy, he faints for like 30mins
Wakes up and kisses me like he neva did

Shoo! Only you? See washy...

xynerise: Una go use charm for guys come here dey form good kissers

Lwkmd

HELL NO!!! If anyone says its natural, the person would be implying that God made a mistake from the outset in the creation of man. Whereas, everyone knows that everything God created was perfect! Not to mention that man has the imago Dei (that is was created in the image if God)...

Thats just a way for people to give a backing to their promiscuity and it aint natural in men...

@op, may God bless you for this wonderful piece.

Personally, I am grateful to God cause there is nothing you would do to seduce me or something... Self control matters a lot and unless a whole lot of people build themselves to be able to control their sexual urges, they will keep living lives like animals with no self-control...

Like someone rightly said, if and only if you would program your mind the right way, then getting over it would be just a piece of cake. When you tell yourself often that you cant do without it, your sub-conscious picks it up and stores it, and even when you aint ready to give in to such, your subconscious tells you that you should remember you cant do without it...

So, there is need or people to re-program their minds the right way as not to fall prey to this menace subconsciously.

What do you think yourself? Lets know your mind...

The thing with someone like me is.. I dont really care about initial experience, but thats not to say it wont help. Buh in reality, your expertise prior to our union is not a yardstick for making the go.

What I am really concerned about is a woman's willingness to learn. I cAn afford to take her to a catering school to help ameliorate her cooking skills. Moreso, I could afford to bring my mom in to help her grow to be a good cook. Now, these depends on her willingness to learn and her level of humility. Because very many might be egoistic to a level they wont wanna succumb to adhering to those measures.

In any case, my wife is my wife and as such, I would do whatever I can to cover all traces of her short-comings. But that would depend on her openness to learn and be corrected...

kimberluge: D kitchen is not a woman's office anymore,mayb in d past bt tyms hav changed n men too can cook if d lady is incapacitated. Afterall,everyone has hands which is used to cook.

Thats a very wrong ideology... The fact that I am not one of those men that would wanna subject a woman to slavery and all and would love to assist in every way I can, that doesn't take away the fact that the kitchen is the woman's place and nothing, I mean NOTHING can change that...

This is rather one of the problems the so-called modernization has brought to the fore. Women no longer wanna take responsibilities. Left for someone like you, I guess you would also wanna subject a man to feeding the child, washing its diapers and all that... Now, its not like its unheard for a man to do such, but the issue here is that, don't ever assume such to be a man's duty.

Gosh! Moral decadence has taken over that women no longer see the need to fulfill their pre-defined obligations. What happens to being homely and all?

Na God go really help the men of this generation cause with the majority of women having a wrong perception of what duties they are entitled to, we men are on a long thing..

SniperInADiaper: Just kidding oo

Take these kisses:

I was wondering if you were high yourself...

SniperInADiaper: Are you serious? What the hell are you high on?

*unfollowing*

High on? Now thats ridiculous...

SniperInADiaper:

Thats just the ugly truth...

Fhemmmy: Cos now most men are no more going for women with no career.
Cos most women are no more into being an housewife
Cos some men are scared of ready made women
Cos some women are only looking for some quality that are found in [b]barbie dolls[/b]

As funny as this seems, its realistic...

SniperInADiaper: To help men cos men suck on their own.

Dang! Which means women suck more cause you were created from a man. So, if a man sucks after creation, imagine taking a part from a man in creating you. That definitely made women suck more cause they aint standalone beings, always dependent of men. If you doubt me, how were you created?

Charliemorgano: NAIJA LADIES IN CATEGORY
18-25....60% Young Uni Students in flexing age struggling to sleep with rich daddys for financial assistance
25-30....70% Dating One married man or the Other...Lecturer/Boss/LandLord etc(friendship with benefit)...some still continue in their 30s driving brand new cars courtesy of chiarman
30-35....50% of them Praying for Ceremonial husband that will give them a child while keeping the Chiarman as side attraction...Am not in a rush for Marriage i wana be ready made.lols

Chei!!! Men don finish this thread ooo

delkuf: U guys are failing to look at it from another angle. LUV is fading away. there is no true luv any more

Yeah you are right... Thats worth taking cognizance of

Mamacita007: Its this kind of post that make many women rush into the wrong marriage even when deres no love just to please people and to stop them from talking. Is not better to wait for the right person than to marry becos u're almost 30?

You are right sist

sadeiyare: Why were women created in the first place

To complement men...

Fhemmmy: Cos now most men are no more going for women with no career.
Cos most women are no more into being an housewife
Cos some men are scared of ready made women
Cos some women are only looking for some quality that are found in [b]barbie dolls[/b]

As funny as this seems, its realistic...

^^^That article explained it all...

Well.. i think its more of my personality than looks... I am very confident to the core, with great personal charisma but yet humble...

@op, you wan dey intimidate us?

Osama10: [size=14pt]This is Pure Lust.[/size]

Just pure? I think its purest and more like refined lust. Person wey be say if him nack akpako, everything don finish.

Imagine, @op, how on earth do you think a person who professes his undying love(as claimed by you) for a girl will wanna rape her? Na wa to you ooo. That one na pure lust abegi! Who that one wey him yarn na gimmicks to take make the girl open for am na. Ahan! She no wise ni?

Besides, the guy is the only son and blah blah blah is not an excuse to have anything to do with him. That would be doing it outta pity, and in case you don't know, you can never build a relationship on pity and you expect it to last.

Draw ur girlfriend ear oooo, before she fall prey.

Or maybe they are the ones who chose not to marry the ones who loved them as most would say: na love I wan chop? Or similar statements... So, if a girl marries someone she doesn't truly love, thats her problem. I think she should live with it till death cause I never believe at this contemporary age, one would be forced to marry someone he/she doesn't wanna end up with...

For whatever reason you wanna marry, go ahead and marry but remember, if you get married to a person for the wrong reasons it will definitely hunt you at a later time. I just hope people are more cautious and more considerate in choosing a life partner, cause marriage aint dating or courtship...

[quote author=sagytarius™]Post ur pix lets affirm. lol, just kidding.
Well, as for me, I enjoy my uglidity. It drives women and their troubles away from me.[/quote]Same here...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Guy leave that side. Better husband no scarce, most people simply have "Over-inflated" favorites....[/quote]You are right anywayz... And like someone rightly said, they tend to be more materialistic than realistic... I think that defines why most remain unmarried at such age...

luvmijeje: *Sigh* dmcdad,that kind of love is what is called here 'maga'.It is rare to find and in my opinion it is the kind of love that lead to death.

Yeah... True love itself is dangerous. The reason its rare is because many people no longer believe in love. Those who claim to love and just infatuated about their partner and don't feel love itself... And I tell you, until a lot of people realize or discover what love really is an allow it to flow, things will continue to deteriorate...

Badt guy... Mehn this your formation bad wella oooo

Flashaldrin: well articulated. Thumbs!

Hmm... Thanks. I give God the honour.

tumababa: u mean 6.1.3 ??....

Yeah I guess thats what he meant...

Flashaldrin: dmcdad, bless you bro! You just said my mind! Did you actually write that??

Yeah sure... Why do you ask?