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Without regular sex, there's no marriage.

He should actually get a side chick if he wants to continue his marriage or better still marry a second wife. Almost all the great men in the bible had multiple wives

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense retort as always!🙄🙄

Anyways, I didn't tell OP not to have all the sex he wants, I said he should free his wife so he can go get all the sex he desires from the woman he is eyeing outside of his marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

The tail should not wag the dog. You've left the topic

Kobojunkie:
You have never actually talked to a therapist, is what... neither a professional marriage counselor.

Sex is one of the healthiest thing a man can do, extremely important.

Regular sex keeps a man healthy physically, psychologically and spiritually

Kobojunkie:
Say what now?

⚉ Christian men are known to be cheats — they are world-renowned for blaming some dude called the devil for all of their atrocities in marriage.
⚉ Christian men are known to engage prostitutes— a good number of the over 280 million men registered on the OnlyFans website are Christian men.
⚉ Christian men are known to obtain divorce at the same rate as non-Christians do...

With an ever-shifting goal post, it matters nothing that you claim to be Christian, since your Christianity does not seem to keep you from placing sex— raw bodily pleasure— on a pedestal in even your marriage. Let's retire that "I am a Christian" card already! 😏😏

Do you often asked her for sex and she says no or you assume because she's pressing her phone she won't oblige?

Does she tell you no to sex because she's tired or you assume her body language shows she's tired?

Do you wait for you wife to initiate sex or you initiate sex whenever you want it even if it means 100% of the time?

You should be having sex atleast twice per week if you stay with your wife.

Kindly answer my questions so i know how to respond

SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?

The senate did nada, forget what they made the public believe

Christistruth03:
Stop waisting time and get to work straight away

All sole Adminstrators expenditure are approved and overseen by the Senate already

I already knew before opening the thread. You guys better fix this rubb1sh

You guys are being shown your hypocrisy

Softmirror:
It is pointles!

Impeaching a governor is a democratic process.

Tinubu is undemocratic and a pretender.what a scam!

Dotherightthing:
Great

Tinubu saved the state from anarchy and Fubara from impeachment.

Deceiving yourself and avoiding to look in the mirror

Softmirror:
What is the point of this thread?! Because it is pointless.

Been long i saw this moniker.

Where have you been?

bukatyne:
Melt

Peter Obi is building bridges. He will be president for all come 2027.

Any attempt to makr Ariwoola INEC chairman will be resisted vehemently

madridguy:
Peter is the most desperate politician in Nigeria today. A man with no direction, no principle, just going around " Ajara Jara Joro " in Baba Fela's lyrics.

He visited every just for eye service and cheap political gains. The same people Obi and his followers called many names.

If Obi likes, let him go and greet Kanu inside DSS custody, travel to Finland to see Simon Ekpa, still lobby Gentle The Yahoo, and go and greet bandit kingpin, Ado Alero, he will surely labour in vain.

Obi is building bridges. You guys hsve accused Easterners of not building bridges.

Reign Of Mockery, FFK, Bwala etc said many things about Tinubu but today you guys celebrate them.

seunmsg:
The internet never forgets. His Pantami still a terrorist? Now that Peter Obi is now a friend and strategic partner of Pantami, is Peter Obi now a terrorist?

Infact they'd say why did the army not capture him earlier because clearly they know how to

madridguy:
His people will not be happy with this news. They will still blame the Nigeria for not arresting the bandits in the North central and the North West.

Other countries are progressive but Nigeria is rooted in tribalism!

What a shame of a country!

Because Tinubu is in power. Ronus will never protest against that brother due to tribalism

Segzy19:
Why is another massive anti-police brutality protest not happening already? This is getting too much... It's unabating

Double standard being celebrated even though you can't pin any killing on Kanu

richmond500:
Kanu deserves his punishment.

As for the bandit leader, he deserve worse but this is Nigeria

When another govt takes over, you'll know the over $100 billion APC has embezzled.

The achievements of PDP is 50 times that of APC!

Alliswell248:
Show us what pdp did during the 16 years.
Apc built the second Nigeria bridge.
Pdp could not complete Lagos Ibadan express way.
Pdp could not complete oyo to Ilorin dual way.

Pdp wasted 16 billion usd on power.

APC does not know how to create wealth. The PDP did subsidy for 16yrs and Nigeria debt was 25% of what APC did.

APC and Tinubu are scams

LegendHero:
Don't worry. When state government start owing civil servants salary and everything turn upside down, maybe citizen will enjoy the benefit then.

Even if the new INEC chairman is Seyi Tinubu, Tinubu will be defeated in 2027

seunmsg:
Very funny dude. Why did he have to make his argument about North and South? When it is convenient, they lump the south west with the south to hide the marginalization of Yorubas. When it is not convenient, they single out the south west and claim all appointments are going to only Yorubas.


The fact that should be clearly stated is that no Yoruba people has even been appointed to head Nigeria’s electoral commission since independence. Even if we are to look at it only from 1999, SS(twice), SE, NW and NE have all been INEC chairman. In fact the north has been in charge of INEC for the last 15 years. So, for equity sake, everyone should be clamoring for an INEC chairman from the south west. That’s the only sensible argument anyone can make.

Its not sbout believe, its about fact. All states belongs in Nigeria.
The 1999 constitution recognizes states and local government areas

BATified2023:
so where does anambara, imo, ebonyi, Abia, Enugu belong?

N besides y is it that only u people in all d geopolitical zones believe region is not recognised?

Regions are not recognized in the 1999 constitution

BATified2023:
so which region should we put Lagos?

This Bago is showing dictatorial tendencies.
If he thinks appointing himself Tinubu's campaign manager guarantees his reelection, he is just a joker

They shouldn't beg, they should continue their impunity that 2027 is a done deal

Your using region so you can attach yourself to Lagos. Nigeria only has states so they should go to their states

BATified2023:
Good morning everyone, hope you are all cool? Lately we all saw news of uprising and protests from Nepal in which the gen z protested of social media ban and they went on the street to show their discomfort which led to killings, lootings and burning of properties which always accompanying any protest of such.

Now to the Nigerian situation, many people from a certain place are all over social media platforms wishing what happens in Nepal should happen in Nigeria, they really don't care of the repercussions but to them they want to do it to Nigeria so they can get back to Nigeria because their candidate lost out in the last election.


Now to the real deal, when they praise anarchy and you tell them to go and start revolution or protest or whatever from their region, they get triggered immediately and they go on insulting spree. The question is, why can't they start protest or revolution from their region?

Is it that charity no longer begin from home again?

Why must charity begin from another man's home?

Is it that they don't want progress for their own region?

Look at Racoon as a case study, I only told him to start revolution in his region and look at his response, like why not start the cleaning from your own house?

Why not get things right from your own place? Why must charity begin from another person's home?

He had the opportunity in 1967 when Igbos left Nigeria. He could have strategically pulled the Yorubas out of Nigeria but chose to stay out of cowardice

seunmsg:
Awo saw through the problem early enough. However, he was outnumbered and couldn’t do anything about it. He made it clear very early that Nigeria is not a nation but a geographical entity made up of many nations.

Because he was outnumbered by British colonialist and other ethnic leaders who were too myopic as at that time to see the problem, he came up with so many ideas on how to build a federal system that would still give each ethnic group an opportunity to exist and develop at their pace. He even suggested we should include a secession clause in our independence constitution so that any aggrieved ethnic group can activate it to get out of the union at anytime.

Awo started writing and researching about how to make Nigeria’s federalism work as far back as 1948. He kept researching and writing about this subject till his death. He’s arguably the only person in history that has written so many books about how to make Nigeria work as a federalist state. Sadly, the military came and crashed everything and here we are today unable to live and coexist peacefully together after over 60 years of existence.

Yorubas and Hausa-Fulanis should have left Igbos alone in Biafra. The consequences for that action will be for centuries

LegendHero:
Even till today 2025, the data still hold true. The SW regions has always and continue to be richest, most advanced, and sophisticated region in Nigeria.

Now I am starting to think Awolowo made a mistake with our Yoruba leaders. We should not have agreed to be part of Nigeria upon independence.

You're right but this is a slow deliberate process that will take a generation even though its the sustainable thing to do.

But there has to be other ways like stick and carrot approach. Provide the facilities and enforce the punishment equitably without partiality

descarado:
It doesn't work.
As long as it's in govt hands, it will fail loketherest of them.

Nigerians will poo and put in the waste.
Even if you label the bin recycled.

Nigerians are uncultured. We never ever follow rules. From the top to the bottom. Short cut is our second name.


Nigeria problem will start turning around when we start fixing our families, overhauling schools curriculums and activities they will move into adulthood with the orientation bombarded into them. The rest apart from this is waste of time and energy.

GEJ has another wife who would go if he wins however GEJ will support Obi. Its cast in stone

madridguy:
Obidients and their noise making. What is GEJ with their lamba master? Are they both in the same party? Same GEJ that cannot contest again, mama Peace come out openly to also said she doesn't want to go back to the Aso Rock so what exactly are they begging him for?

Where has the fighting brought Nigeria to? Sponsors tend to support corrupt candidates they can control and thats why its difficult to get a clean man as president

Thundafireseun:
Nothing on earth is handed over to a REAL MAN freely….

You either fight your way to the top or move aside for serious people who are physically and mentally fit for the war