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RightToReject:
[s]Provided that he isn't the instigator and the offense that made him react the way he did is a threat to his continual wellbeing, then his reaction is justifiable - even though his choice of retaliation might not have been the best. If he reacted this way to a minor issue, however, to hell with him[/s].

One who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

Your point is?

Guys that beat anyone that they are having sex with are mentally insane. God help us

Millenniumlady:
Reasons Why i don't date pastors.....It's better to be in an abusive relationship with a weed smoker than to be in this kind of relationship with a pastor....

Meanwhile.....did y'all missed me ?

True talk sha, but pastors missed u today for church

Romanoff:
When you are the one that called God but God didn't call you.

Funny but true talk

Osinachi00:
I'm 22 right now, and I don't even have any skill at all, please now I want to go into something I want to learn something please what skill do you think will be ok for me to learn please, I live in Abuja and I can't stay empty handed as time is no longer on my side and I don't really care about schooling anymore I have seen many young men in my area graduated with a very good certificate from school for over 5 years they stay at home without a job the ones who got job got job in a some hotels in Abuja earning less than 50K or 40k after graduating for over 5 years, all this things I put into consideration and it's making me give up on schooling as they say destinies are not the same but over 6 jobless graduates in my area is making me scared, I will still go to school but for now I need to learn something. I'm thinking of learning fish and chicken feeds production.

I know one young man there or under this thread will soon ask me to do yahoo well I have done it before and it does not pay very well and even if it pays very well that's not what I want to feed or train my future family with when I'm due to be a family man. so everybody should chook mouth here and let's come up with something nice.

Go learn coding bros

ijustdey:
https://dailytimes.ng/nigerian-father-stops-son-from-marrying-lady-who-also-had-an-affair-with-him-years-ago/

Lalasticlala

Hahaha this the film i watched last night titled The Age of Adaline

So what should we do now?

We should drink chicken?

or we should inhale beef?

Nonsense

Lol

Beey3026:
As a girl growing up you surely will make mistakes that you really don't know they will have impact on you in time. we were just friend nothing like relationship, I enjoy his company because he's not the type that think salutation means love. He used to help me i also used to help him too. Whenever I have problems I tell him he helps and I also respect and help him too. We borrowed money to each other but recently he's changing he is not like before anyway he called me on Friday to come and see him I did and he told me the money he borrowed me during my birthday that he need it in two days and I told him I don't have money yet and he said OK I should give him something in return I was shocked � and I asked what he said sex wtf? I felt embarrassed � I told him to give me a week I will pay his money and he attempted to push me down I was able to overpower him and I ran away. He's calling and threatening me for the money or I should give him sex for it. Why are men like this? Why did he change suddenly? Where will I get the money money from now to save myself from further damage.

Is this authentic? Just being curious.

Queenlovely:
who go interview me now.

this chatinet wows me oh.

when he first came to Nairaland , he was always ftc and want to make sarcastic comment always.

I scolded him at times. but it seems he is now mature.

he was the same thing with eco99

Lol people grow u know. The bros na nice dude. I think this is his calling

Alexandre7:
Part 2

(A) Have you ever meet Ishilove offline?
(B) Apart from Ishilove, have you ever met any other Nairalander offline? Was it male or female?
(C) If I reached out to Poco for an offline meeting, would you meet me?
(D) Ever been involved in a long distance relationship?
(E) Have you ever been involved in an arranged relationship organized by either a friend or family member? Would you consider it?
(F) Apart from cheating & abuse, what else would make Poco leave a relationship?
(G) Have you ever dated a man earning significantly less than you & would you consider it?
(H) Have you ever dated a man outside of your ethnicity & would you do it again?
(I) Would you consider dating a man significantly younger than you or is age a deal breaker?
(J) Does Poco offer second chances? If an ex-lover wanted to find their way back into your heart would you consider?
(K) Have you ever been stupidly in love that it clouded your sense of reasoning?

This one past jamb question lol

tsmith:
Consultancy fee is the fee you pay for the same advice your wife/secretary has given you for free.

You don't know the value of what you have, I really question you sense of judgement and reasoning. Unless of course you're joking.

I honestly agree with all your points... i think bros is joking bug time.

Your other point is spot on bro. Thanks for sharing

unity004:
so it's now that op notice the trend, something that has been around since time immemorial even here in Africa, men wear skirts on their wedding day

Hahaha this is funny me be dey think say na only Scottish people dey wear kilt

@GFICECOLD move on bro not worth the stress and headache she is emotionally cheating on you with those guys trust me. I know how some guys chat.

Leave her, work on your self development be a better person make money tell her she is badluck to you and you cant date her.

Xenry:
This is exactly why I choose to be single, I no wan stress at all at all, I value my peace of mind to the core. Look at what a girl is doing to you now.

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Now ask yourself, "what have benefited from this girl," can you find an answer to that? Those girls are manipulative and their wahala no dey finish. And they will waste both your money and time if you don't keep your prick inside your trousers and respect yourself.

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After all, you guys will end up being each other's ex, so it isn't worth the effort, bro.

Wpw @Xenry your comment is wow everything from A to Z you said is spot on. End up being each other's ex is Savage

Yeah bro girlfriend is not all about sex trust me, it is having someone you can talk to, when you have a bad day someone that will say everything is going to be okay. Someone that will try to drive you to the apex of your career example is you are earning 150k and you are earning the same that alone us going to motivate you to do more to earn more someone that'll tell you bhiney i paid your gas bill etc. Sex is good but sex is not everything

God is with you, he is going to perfect your healing

tayeloveme4rel:
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart

Your mother loves you she sees you as a kid, next time dont talk back to your mother and try talk to someone closer to her

Richy4:
Stop beating yourself up. you have said what was on your mind as a friend... that friend of yours is insane if it even occur to her to continue with that guy again after the public display... it was even captured on camera...Assuming it was done privately the way Joseph in the Bible was intending to call off the engagement with Mary, then it would have been OK..
Anyways, let me remove my mind from the gutters and honestly hope the EX boyfriend fall on the extremely forgiving category...

Gbam God bless you boss... I change your moniker to rich wisdom. Your positive honest post is why some of us are still here

Qatar2022:
Na true question I ask him na,
don't you know it will inter?

100% agree bro. Just the blunt way you said it almost makes me choke laughing

JBsconcept:
Its really appalling the way women talk back at their men and even threaten to challenge him publicly if need be. I have been faced with this with my woman, please how do you guys handle this because I gave my woman a slap and warned her never to repeat it. Is that right or wrong? Inputs required

Input

1) beating the woman you sleep with, wife or girlfriend is not a good idea.

Next time just ignore her give her silent treatment let your woman come to her senses

Qatar2022:
Very stupid of you, when you're doing it don't you know it will inter?

@Qatar2022 you are funny

fabulous2000:
hello everyone... I'm in a dilemma right now... my girlfriend called me about 4 months ago that she is pregnant for me...

ever since then the love I av for her has reduced drastically... I always feel she got pregnant intentionally for marriage sake when. I am not ready for marriage.

she is still in school and we are planning to get married after school... but right now I feel betrayed by her.

what can I do to make the feelings come back.

Bros good day

1) take part of the blame not that you are weak but because real dude accept it when they are wrong. You had unprotected sex, what were you expecting? You planted a seed you go harvest now.

2) talk to her, plans for your unborn child try show her a caring heart. Listen marriage with baby doesn't make things easy it is better to provide for her be the dad and not get marry if you do not love her.

3) try go for DNA test just to clear that cloud of doubt.

4) Pray that God help you through and favour you with better job to provide for your unborn child

5) good luck bro invite all Nairalander for naming it shall be well with you. Jollof rice loading

SUPERPACK:
Use her for money ritual.

habsydiamond:
Na over Sabi dey kill our girls/ladies ooo... The whites that started the feminist thing no dey exercise am the way we do here... Oyinbo sees it as having the same right as ur man, standing up to him... Providing for the family together, having investments separately, bank savings separately and so on... At the end of the day na divorce dey end most of them... God wey create you know say u are not of this level to me.... Stick to that and get a man that will understand u... Simply arithmetic

Well said bro i agree they have prenup before marriage and they share things 50 50.

harmony75:
mmmm who could be more terrible than tinubu?!?! mmmmhmmm

Lol Tinubu is going to be worst president ever Nigeria go be like Chad, Gabon Uganda etc trust me.

Yeye man you don auctioned lagos to yourself now you want to auction Nigeria. God no go let you

Sweetmom:
Na Ment?

Lol ment mixed with weeds

Mranybody:
No


Those are transgenders


She has only pussy


Just like someone who is lesbian and also straight

hermaphrodite is not transgender

Someone with both male and female organ is known as hermaphrodite.

Transgender is a man or woman with s3x change etc example is Bobrisky

MrCork:
...sound like horror film..
..so u saying she is one of those female born wit punnnny & prikk?..correct?.. bro forget her!!(no oofense)

Nooooo i think you are kidding now

MrCork:
bisexual ke??
..ok so u saying u sleep wit guy who dress like female..correct?.. bro r u ok in the head?(no oofense)

Sleeping with both sex male or female

Mranybody:
I have been disturbing my female Best friend for sex since
But she always refuse despite the fact that she has bleeped many of my friends
she usually tell me everything so I know everything about her
she's bisexual tho
Whenever I ask her why,
she will say fucking me looks somehow and that we should stop talking about it
Please what might be wrong?

Rubbish you has slept or fvck most of your friends in your words and you want to fvck her? Where do guys like you draw the boundary? Or is this a tales cuz it is weird in my.opinion trying to sleep with a girl that you know all the people she has slept with

SmellySperm:
another tales by moonlight from Simp.Lovethaa


dropping threads like back-to-back unam!!

Lol 3 gbosa for you