This is real negative PR. This man will be ruined and destroyed

faithfull18:
Some women need to start standing up for themselves.

Never let anyone talk down on you or go physical on you.

God abeg don't let anyone I know fall into the hands of these kind of men.

The irony is even the so-called spiritual brothers are the worst offenders.

Wee you stop it there @ spiritual brothers

No appointments? or simply starved of attention. which is it



Guys watch


https://dnbstories.com/2022/04/video-of-osinachis-husband-peter-beating-her.html

Why don't you divorce ?

Seekinganswers:

What part pls

Ojodu. I can connect you with an agent that can find a building, or uncompleted or fenced lands if you need

Better

GloriousGbola:
You want your wife to live alone in a house in this our Nigeria.

It is your wife that will be filling generator, changing tire, doing handy man work around the house?

In addition to cooking and raising children?

You wan kill am because you are paranoid from watching too much step bro pooorn?

That's the point. If the op takes tooo much of the comments here seriously, he will begin to hate the cousin who may not even entertain such thoughts. Paranoia, mistrust, insecurities and negative thinking ruins relationship


A woman should not be alone because there's alot to be done in a house and the cousin is just too old. If 10-18 years of age, it would have been better


A woman staying alone is extremely risky. He telling the cousin to vacate leaving the woman alone too is extremely risky


If he tells his cousin to leave, he should relocate his wife for atleast a year from that place so he cousin imagines the wife too no longer stays there. Infact, he should tell the cousin he intends to relocate and the wife will be relocating as well to be close to her family for a while and use the opportunity to tell him that he'd get him an apartment, that the wife would be lonely alone hence he wants her to go stay near her family.


Cc : cj1900

This war musn't escalate

Food is ready Adesuwa


luvlyADESUWA

Seekinganswers:


You don't seem to understand
The cost of 500kv solar is just too much.
You buy panels and batteries.
You end up spending say 50m on solar
When you can just buy your 500kva transformer and 500kva generator as backup.
I doubt you will spend more than 2m monthly on power bills and 3m monthly on diesel.
The maths for solar is outrageous on first run
You also have to spend more than enough on batteries

How did you come across the maths, 50M ?



Anyways, you can enjoy between 18-20 hours power supply at Berger



The cost analysis of 500 kva generator and three months feuling cost and 500 kva transformer


See, why not first procure a cost analysis of different systems ?

Seekinganswers:

I am generating over 400kva

And it will work for 247
You now see that solar is dead on arrival?

Smiles. Says who? I can map out a 500kva Solar generation system for you and draw up your blueprint on how to achieve what you want to achieve. Hire me, let's brainstorm these challenges together. There's no where that will allow you enjoy such heavy power generation in peace. You will be found out and will face wars

cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

Your wife is the best person to ask, there are pros and cons to the situation. He may be providing security. He should also have his place, help him get one than ask him to leave. 120-300k can get an apartment. Is it what you can afford?

skales67:


Will Smith's ban and punishment is well deserved!

You don't just walk up the podium during a stand-up comedy and slap the comedian because you feel he insulted your bald-headed wife who even cheated on you with a mosquito-look-alike.

He (Will Smith) was once my fan but after that incident, I have decided to boycott watching his movies.

It's the same thing

Seekinganswers:


Solar is not an option
They are devices that costume much power
So it won't be an option sir

Are you generating more than 10KVA. There's solar for up to 100kva consumption

dammyBoxes:
free speech is different from malicious statement. Jokes are covered under freedom of expression, it is not falsehood, it is not disguised, the listeners know it is a joke

There's limitation to free speech. The whole world knew Will Smith was in crises mode before the incident, why carry a match to a place filled with fuel spillage everywhere?

Afrobasic:


Not surprised by this response

Like I said. You be solid mumu. Can't expect anything better *spits*

Nae. I don't mud sling. Busy. Good day

Afrobasic:


You be mumu.

Solid mumu.

Your wife/babe will be beaten in your presence and to your shame. On that day, you go remember my comment. Good day. Fold your hands when that day comes

Na by force?

mustmust:


Yeah because will took the wrong approach.
He could have simply protested by taking a walk out of the event with and see how the academy will come apologising to them

Like i tell people, I won't choose how i react when i'm provoked, the aggressor should choose their actions wisely. When provoke, it is unwise to tell a victim how to react

SmartyPants:


If you're into law at all, you can't have made those points you made in your initial post nor in this one.

The Academy did not apply the law of the land, they applied their own internal regulations which every organization has.

And Chris Rock should be the victim. Please let's continue with our work abeg. I dey busy

SmartyPants:


1. Nigerian law is not American law

2. Defamation is not actionable per se, per the development of the law in that regard. That is, the alleged defamatory act must cause actual financial loss to the victim for any damages to be awarded.

3. The key element of defamation is not ridicule but falsehood. If the comment is based on facts, there is no defamation.


Doctor stick to your doctoring and leave law alone.

You'll be surprised i'm more into law. The academy award has now become a law court too abi. I'm busy with work to reply.

Good. Then was Chris Rock's nasty comments against Will Smith not worthy of same treatment being in the same category? Any information used maliciously is tantamount of ridiculing the victim, hence an offense. So, why is the academy awards banning will smith for ten years and letting Chris Rock, the one who incited everything walk away freely like he's the victim. This world ehn

Abudu2000:
abeg u guys should quit recommending solar pls, so for a few appliances to be powered one will spend 8m when it won't even work during rainy days. The homes I know powered by solar the bulbs lighting seems very dim.

With 250k I can get a neat new generator to serve me 5years at least even with 1k fuel daily from that 8m it will power me for that full 5years plus remaining change. Unless for someone that has no appliances to power I'm not sure I can recommend solar. Plus I heard their batteries don't even last at all, at most 1years and it's charge circle will be drained by half

You will need atleast 6,000 - 8,000 daily to charge high powered devices using generator. Not 1,000 Naira please


Your ideas about solar electricity is flawed. I've been using it for 5 years plus and i have no regrets


When the production cycle can get damaged from electrical fluctuations then you'll understand the importance and value of solar electricity

Bluffly:
Stop all this old and young game. We all travel and see how things are. Road expansion is not a solution but other alternative means of transportation such as tram, train that are really connecting the entire city, clean and safe. Many are yet to buy their cars

Be less reactionary. You have a lot to learn from a position of humility


Enjoy your day

Good

Emmastan291:
Wike the Redpiller
Wike the wicked
Wike the Mr Flyover

You no well

Go to Ojodu, Berger you'll get atleast 15-18 hours


Have you considered heavy duty solar installation. With 5-8M you should be able to setup a 5-8Kva Solar installed

Lol


Go to craiglist man. You don't have hommies around DC here. We may have the traffic, but you need geographically targeted traffic for your biz. Better still but local DC consumer email address leads and blast your way to business success. Not here

Good luck with the hustle mate