₦airaland Forum

Zoharariel:
Oh shiit! Forgive me but I think they would have been better ........... U know, because of the pains & burns.

The poster above me is thanking his god for this tragedy. Y couldn't your Anunnaki god prevent the accident in the 1st place if he still exists?

Oh, Sorry I forgot - it is to show forth his glory - Clowns!.

This week, the God you have come here to talk rubbish on His holy name, will show you that He is God.

I know there people like you but I don't know you can be this ridiculous. Who are you to talk about God that way? Who do you take God for, your mate?

azeecoboy:
I saw this when passing by a street and couldn't help it but to laugh out loud
Some people just act weirdly

Some people just sh.it weirdly and weirdly dump anything anywhere anyhow.

jared007:
Bloody hypocrite like u pretending to be concerned about Pastor Chris and yet use derogatory word against Pastor Anita. Now what's wrong with the pic? Didn't Jesus say we have overcomed the world? Didn't Jesus say we are more than conquerors?

This is where I have problem with you when you don't read your bible yourself. As it was give to you, you swallowed it like that.

cynosure489:
i concur with your post, the same reason i posted that picture to paint another example of how far people can go with pastors.

When i saw that, i had a little laugh and was like "seriously, the best dad in the whole world"? It was actually non of my business until i saw your thread and decided to share.

Someone invited me to a church once and a lady pastor was teaching. She said you dont get blessing from God if you give to your parents like you get if you give to your pastor and so you should give more to your pastor, and i was like 'oh my goodness'. There i realised why some people have extremely poor parents in the village and still give all they have to pastors.

Thank you very much for your last paragraph. God bless you real good. That is why some people living in the cities and going to a church they dont know the history of the pastor that established the church are is some strange problems they cannot know the root until God opens their eyed to know the extent of this strange teachings had done damages to their life.

There is no that pastor that can convince me to give to him and not give to my parent. The moment he said it I know automatically that he is not a real man of God. His God is his belly. because that means he's turning bible upside down.

Thank you.

cynosure489:
Op you dey look for trouble. lol

how bout this - 'the best dad in the whole world'.

Well, you are correct in your view and I like that. I could call my biological father the best father in the world or my mother the most beautiful mother in the world depending on the kind of relationship and goodwill I derive from them.

But my issue here is some people putting man of God at risk of Holy Spirit getting annoyed with him. Similar thing happened to the children of Eli the priest, they were doing things that the father was not aware of and God was not happy with him, even when he knew the level of warning he gave them was not commensurate with the magnitude of offensive committed.

The man of God here may not know all these, he may not have time to have read this being published about him. He is a man of God but he still have more to do for God. He has not conquered his country and you are giving him the entire world.

What is taken for granted in the physical is a very serious matter in the spiritual.

Pls spare your pastor of get on rough edges with God. Thanks.

They live in barracks, paying no rent, access to free medicals. Children go to military school free. They use their uniform to perpetrate atrocities that load them with money. The top ones collect money from civilians living in mammy market.

If not of boko haram and the nigerdelta militancy, these people are like ministry workers, they are always idle not doing anything in the office. Some dont even have.

Come to think of it, what is their level of education especially the soldiers.

Even if you don't want to talk, some folks out there will spill words out of your mouth. But I am here to correct some over zealous Christians who often forget about Christ, the one that died on the cross to give life to you and I.

I came across this picture somewhere on the Internet and I was shocked. How can an unlearned Christian babe equate a Pastor to what Jesus did on the cross. How many Pastors are ready to leave their lofty office and died for anybody to conquer the world.4

Stop putting Pastors at the edge of getting into spiritual troubles.

How can someone who could not conquer a MULATO wife, could have conquered the world. I am pissed off.
Please stop this non sense.

Arnoldo:
Less than half of those that passed jamb get admitted..what makes u think we hav enough skulls 2 accomodate every aspirant..in unilorin only 13k of d over 30k dat passd utme nd post utme

The no of schools in Nigeria now can take all that passed JAMB. Or u can go to poly or college. Stop making excuses that will make u jobless after graduation. We need to fix this economy in a hard way. Its a matter of time you will all immortalise Buhari.

blueto:
http://www.punchng.com/dollar-scarcity-parents-of-overseas-students-weep-in-banks/

President Buhari till 2023. PYO till 2031. By then 1Naira will be £1.

Overseas students. What's wrong with our university and hpme made goods.

These are the parents spoiling our economy. They should go to jail.

loopman:
PDP Chairman, Boko Haram godfather.
PDP is Boko Haram, Boko Haram is PDP.
#CONFIRMED.

The PDP caucus does not like this man. They have succeeded in putting his life at risk. The north eastern people can swap their lives for Buharis. They will end up murder this man.

resty4:
Buhari has no such power.recall d case of jonathan n sanusi lamido. But d dullard is a tyrant w no regard 4 rule of law, apc wl pay 4 her tyranny!

You are very sick I'm your brain. How do you manage to post on social media.

When you talk about Buhari you should apply caution.

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

You are a good writer, I don't know when I read to the bottom of your articles. Please when is the part two coming out.

Thanks.

Vikkiboi:
This is not a fabricated story at all.

This is a true life story and someone is in a very tight situation and your comments, opinions and suggestion is highly welcomed.



A friend of mine started a 6 month I.T with a major company in lagos 3 months ago.

The company is one of the big fish in the country, I won't be wrong if I rate them as 'Big 3' in this country.

Everything was going quite fine for her until last week, friday to be precise when the unthinkable happened.

A boss in another department asked her to do something for him in which she did, she was later summoned by him to his office and the drama started.

He closed the door and came so close to her asking her to go out with him. Mind you, the boss is in his early 50.

After saying no to his request, he tried using a blank cheque and money to entice her.

When all these didn't work, he tried using force on her, his Manhood was already up and ready for some action.

He started touching her, struggling so hard with her, and it was almost leading to rape

As soon as she noticed there was nothing she could do at that moment since he was stronger, she request that they should go out and not do such in the office. The boss agreed and opened the door and told her to wait at d car park for his driver.

She just ran out of the office and went to somewhere he can't find her that day.

The boss later came to her office looking for her and told everyone he wants to send her on an errand.

After ignoring his calls, she got back to d office to hear d report of the boss looking for her...

Just got report that he has also been to her office this morning to look for her and he has called also.

Married man for that matter! What is happening to guys these days?

Ladies are suffering sha

What do you think is the best thing to do in this situation?

Please I need your suggestion.

You are attracted to him because of your provocative mode of dressing. Men are moved by what they see. Dressing like Deeper Life ladies saves ladies from lots of Konji wahala like these, but you girls won't hear words.

drss:
me personally feels GEJ should continue d silent treatment. who is buari dullard to demand GEJ explanation GEJ owes nobody any explanation. all i see is trap set all ova d place for GEJ to fall into their useless game of lies n decied should he talk.
Since buari dullard has taken d path of ridicule, lies, propaganda n abuse of power against his percieved enemies n d opposition, let him continue decieving himself in d scam of fighting corruption. by d time nigerians gets to know d true nature of d so call arms deal saga, buari will be stoned out of aso rock.

Ori e ti fo. Your head is broken and the Brain replaced. There's no conscience in you. Your conscience is shredded. If you know how many who have died and the number homeless as a result of jonadaf.t cluelessness you wont be talking like a dullard like this.

Come to think of it, if actually Buhari is a dollard, according to you, Mr mumu. And Buhari is able to unearth all the corruption perpetrated by your hero jonathan, then jonathan is a super dullard.

You must have come from mumu familly.

ideykwum:
I'm not Igbo...Stop the paranoia and stop appealling to the gallery. Is Igbanke not in Edo state? Aren't you tired of Igbo-bashing? Tribalist!

Lol! You are my brother. But to be candid, Igbo too dey do robbery work. Shame no dey when God dey make them. If them put money on juju, Dem go steal the money plus the juju go sell.

ideykwum:
How do you know the guys aren't from Rivers? Emeka Exe could be from anywhere including Delta or Edo.

Delta or Edo no be part of biafra map again? These igbo kwenu self. Because igbo men were caught in robbery action you want to defend east westerners who are typically armed robbers.

lifeisabitch:
Toasters every where, some are talking marriage just that they are way beneath my level. I have my own target

Why do people still say husbands are scarce?

You can never get your target. Your target had come among those toasters but you were blind to identify him because of your myopic mentality. You can only get toasters, husband may be far from you until you get sense.

psucc:
Even WAEC that demands 450 words essay would not tolerate writing beyond 200-300.

His anti graft war had already been infected. Buhari prosecuting Dasuki is a clear case of being the complainant, the judge and the jury.

I have heard and seen the govt prosecuting people in possession Od stolen goods and why will Buhari walk free when Dasuki is in prison having gotten 2SUVs from the very items that got Dasuki into trouble?

You this kid, you don't have brain at all and its like you unrepentantly in love with poverty or probably your education is not sufficient enough.

I spit when I read posts from you. You are very sick on the brain. Ori e ti gba le.

calddon:
Clergymen should face d gospel of the kingdom of God as directed by our lord Jesus and leave politics to the politicians....... Anybody who disputes this knows not his Bible.

Leaving politics to the politicians is like giving knife to a slaughter man to help slit your throat.

Because we have left it to them over the years, that's why we are where we are today.

It is suicidal to handover your soul to soul eaters. Politicians are thieves. Especially Nigerian polithiefcians.

waternogetememy:
The daft have become Emperor of the Zoo Republic. Wat else can we expect from an illiterate President.


Where do we start to educate him on the Rule of Law and Separation of Power?


Where do we start with due process, Human Rights and Civil Liberties?


Where do we start?

Your head is upside down and there's no brain in it. It had been replaced with sawdust.

ZERO...And I was too generous with marks. You see why we needed his certificate? Good. Carryover president.

Who cares, you what is your level of education that you are scoring someone ZERO.
Anyways, your name speaks for you. You are NOBODY.

anonimi:
Including you sir
Abi make we forget the two SUVs plus $300,000 ni?
We no go gree to forget lailai, walahi!


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There are some idiots on Nairaland. You know Buhari was ex president in Nigeria. As ex he is entitled to some benefits, which at times he considered too flamboyant and refuse to take.

You also read the reason why he took the bullet proof SUVs as a result of threats to his life. Everything given to him was part of his entitlement as ex leader of Nigeria.

How do you expect him to know that dasuki used arms money to buy him all these. If not he is in power how would we have discovered all these atrocious operations done under the leadership of the President Jonathan?

Some people read what is in their mind not what they are reading. Even after reading the right thing they interpreted them as the wrong thing. Please allow baba to face his Gods appointed assignment and deliver, especially you, from poverty.

All those prophecies that if Buhari touches some people heaven will let loose, if babangida is put into prison tomorrow nothing go happen. If obasanjo goes to jail next month, life will continue. God puts baba there and he will do good justice to the nation.

samocholi:
Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,


I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.


I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.



I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.


By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.


After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.


Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.

She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.

when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing..
My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.

To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.

so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car.
she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.


She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.



I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do.
I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.


Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.

she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.

Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.


My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.

Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.

Brother, I have not finished reading your stories but you didn't do proper check-up before you married.

I will be very sincere with you, Pentecostalism has done a lot of wreck to some people when it comes to marriage. Though not in all Pentecostal churches. In those days, if anyone wants to marry, he or she could have like three suitors and wants to pick one, they will go and pray about it and usually God will tell the man of God who is right. Though, as we used to say, Marriage is not all bed of roses, their may be challenges but a battle had been won at the beginning. Now you have entered an unknown battle. You friends knows about her involvement with occultism he did not tell you. A proper spiritual check-up would have revealed such hidden secrete to you before you entered the trap and you can't come out because I don't support Divorce.

You have to go and pray o.

I will still write to you when I am able to read all your write ups.

Sorry, but there is nothing God cannot do.

chuzydon:
Am a guy of 21 from a family of 5, am the eldest, everything used to be fine but the older I grow the more me and my mom seem to be falling apart, today she shouted on me and I shouted back at her very loudly so she left for her room and started crying.

My dad came home from work and she told him everything and my dad asked me to kneel and apologize but my mom was still crying saying I have hurt her a lot with words and all that and even if I become a billionaire tomorrow I shouldn't bother about her that she's cancelled me as her son for good that I don't appreciate her at all.
I don't know how things got so bad to this level and am not even a rough kind of guy, I feel so hurt now and don't even know what to do to make up for things. I just feel like our bond is about to be shattered for good.


pls help I need reasonable advice i don't understand what's going on anymore .

The fact that your mom shouted or used to talk to you does not mean she hates you, she is trying to bring the best out of you. You may have been going out with friends that you have shared your experience with and they advised you to get yourself freedom by shouting back at her.

She is your mother, she will never hate you for any reason. What you need to do is to go back to her and beg her until you make her happy. From now on, you need to become soft when it comes to her issue and always be around her. Help her to do everything in the house, in fact don't allow her to do anything anymore. If she coughs go and say sorry to her. Just behave as if you are her husband.

You too imaging your mother with five kids, and you just 21years the eldest. She has been trying in her life working tirelessly to take care of you guys, it is not easy, this may have even made her to become aggressive. Please, go back to her severally and beg her until she says it is okay.

See, you need that your mom in every areas of your life. For you to have a blessed family of yours you need her blessings. You will understand this when you need her. I am talking to you from experience because I am 20years older than you. I will not write too much so that you can get my point. But any advice on this space that does not make sense, don't mind them at all, that is Nairalanders for you. Merry Xmas.

rry807:
Dear Nairalanders,
I attached this picture so that others will understand my feelings because the other place i shared they said am not serious or just trying to frame her, there is a girl i have been dating before God and man she brings food for me at times and i eat but each time i request to visit her house she will refuse with silly excuse and God knows i really wanna marry her then as God may have it, I did some investigations and with help of God i met an old friend who knows her and family very well, so he took me to the girls house to see her family casually, the front door was locked so we passed through kitchen, my people what i saw made me speechless the whole house was so dirty from the kitchen to the parlor was all messed up, and this is a girl that made me believe she’s cool, make ups, claims her family is rich etc. Please what do I do?

When you marry her, get her an house help. House chore is not easy.

alcmene:
Imagine imploring brutal force where diplomacy is highly needed owing to the fragile state of the nation.

Infact..........I NO LONGER HAVE CONFIDENCE IN BUHARI GOVERNMENT

Come on sharrrrraaaaaappppp! Shut it up little boy.

It is obvious wike is going to be blown away. He himself knows he can't come back as governor after the election that is why he is fighting to the supreme court.

My only worry is the MUMU wey dey follow am wey no see road as the wicked himself have seen.

Wike will go to prison after the election. May be the witches have not seen that. He will give account of what he, patience and Jonathan did to NDDC money. #48billion that they took from NDDC.

But in this case, I suspect God may have removed vasti for her Esther to have been enthroned. Someone told me that's the prayer point of some leftover ladies who are looking for husband by force.

Most ladies miss their husband by: being too hard to get, desire to enjoy life before settling down, promiscuity, covetousness, indecision, very high aspirations.

I have a lady friend that I could have married several years ago, but that time she didn't know I will go this far. One of our friend she was dating eventually dropped her for another. Now she is 40, not yet married.

Ladies try to have foresight. Don't be blind by what you see.

sauceny:
Most of this footballers barely have a solid investment,all they do is club & party...So all that amount being said might not even be in their account.

It shows you don't know of hotels KANU Nwakwo has in ikoyi Lagos and jay jay okochas investments in Europe. Jay jay has the best water bottling company in Europe. Sit down there watch the peanuts they spend partying and clubbing.