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Ifyjos:Their reaction is understandable, they're disappointed and hurt. As long as you show them you're remorseful and ready to make amends, they will soften towards you and take you back in. You need to find a way to mend your sister's relationship by reaching out to her fiance. I just hope it's not too late. Men move on pretty quick and may even be engaged to someone else by now. But still try to help restore the relationship, that could earn you points from your family. Can you see what your relationship with this supposedly caring baby daddy of yours has cost you and your family? He may not be the worst of men but he's not the best for you. You need someone to motivate you towards positive growth while he's building himself not one that rolls with thugs and believes he can become a millionaire overnight by washing cars. I hope this incident becomes a turning point for you to become a new person your family can be proud of in future. Genevieve was a little older than you when she had her child but look at her now, she's the pride of her family. You can also achieve as much as she has or even more. It all boils down to how you plan your life, the types of decisions you make and the people you surround yourself with. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
oshiokpu:Read and digest the bolded below. Its a long procedure but if those loan people flag your BVN and report you to CBN and one board like that, they'll deduct your money plus more interest than agreed and nothing will happen. Maybe they don't do that to all defaulters but a handful will still be used as scapegoats. It's better not to apply for loan if you don't have any plans or means of repayment Mufasa2010: |
As long as you submitted your BVN, any account linked to that BVN will be debited with heavy fines as penalty. |
topboss1:Story, do you think it was one day's beating that killed her? The beatings started from her pregnancy days till after she delivered. Amaka's evil parents tortured and starved her till her frail body could no longer take it and she passed away. Now they're transferring their wickedness to an innocent 4-month-old by abandoning him with strangers when he had blood relatives he could have been secured with. May they live long enough to suffer the consequences of their wickedness and die miserably afterwards. |
topboss1:Did your parents ever abandon you as a baby with a neighbour and went ahead to travel? If no then your justification of Amaka's evil parents abandoning a four month old with neighbour is senseless. Ibrahim did not kill Amaka, her evil parents did. If they're looking for compensation for the child they cruelly murdered, they should go and dig up her corpse. Mentally unstable cruel parents filled with bile that are capable of torturing their own daughter to death has no business keeping custody of the child they left behind. The more you try to shift the blame of the dead girl away from her parents, the more I'll keep hammering it that she is was brutally murdered by the same parents that was supposed to protect her. Wanna try me? |
Hexilon:It's the same scammer you exposed yesterday. That we insist on escrow doesn't mean you should allow a random stranger stand in as escrow for you. An escrow has to be someone that's trusted by you or reputable traders. THE SEARCH BUTTON IS NOT FOR DECORATION!!! Before you proceed with any transaction, make sure you carry out searches on all the details given to you by the person you're about to send funds to. The searches are more effective if you remove the spaces between the numbers and you search using both the 234 and the 080 number formats. If the search yields nothing, come to this thread and ask for the authenticity of the person (with his number included). We keep repeating this yet it's so unfortunate that people still get scammed. At least 90% of the scams that go on here if severe caution is exercised. Protect your money people |
danvon:Go back and read carefully. After the girl died, they travelled to Ebonyi and abandoned the baby with a neighbour. Does that sound like caring grandparents to you? At this point, the baby is better off in the custody of his father |
danvon:If yorubas had similar bride price traditions, I'd speak against it. There are other ways you can verify if a man can take care of your daughter (as if she's an invalid) without putting a price tag on her head. Say what you like but the bride price custom is fuelled by greed more than anything else. danvon:Have you gone through the posts one here justifying physical abuse, cruelty and murder? If it doesn't bother you, it bothers me. I'm not bigoted but if some sets of people are so keen on justifying cruelty and murder, they deserve to be called out. Now kindly buzz off my mentions |
People still name their kids Adunni ![]() |
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Osagyefo98:So neighbours and Amaka's friend decided to gang up and lie against her parents right? What do they stand to gain? In the eye of the law, if one parent dies, the other surviving parent takes custody of the child unless he's ruled incapable. I'm not talking about primitive customs and tradition here. If Ibrahim sues Amaka's parents for custody of his son, he'll win unless Amaka's parents can prove he's physically or mentally incapable of taking care of the child. Why should a grandparent assume full custody of a child when one parent is alive and healthy? |
Osagyefo98:Are you ok at all? The same Amaka's mother that beat her own daughter to death should keep custody of the child she left behind? It doesn't matter if the child is subjected through worse suffering than his mother as long as he's not given to his own biological father. I don't think you're ok at all. The way you people trivialize cruelty is making me understand why most of your men turn their wives into punching bags and your women maltreat underage helps. Seems physical abuse is a norm to you. This is upsetting to say the least |
tungamaje:You people really see females as commodities to be traded. This is totally wrong. I can't imagine how I'd feel if people are negotiating and deliberating how much my head is to be sold like a piece of item in the market. There no honour in selling a human being, just a bunch of greedy elders enriching themselves |
Most banks don't cooperate and treat scam issues with levity. Even after you get police report and court order, they will still continue pussyfooting till you get frustrated and let go. This is what happens when you get employ graduates who were into internet fraud as students. |
Game on! |
It's only a criminal or a person with criminal tendencies that will be fuming over increased security and law enforcement in an area. My worry is the newly employed vigilantes don't use their newly acquired powers to harass and extort innocent civilians. They should stick with the crime fighting job they were employed to do |
klax:Another hypocrite. Do you know the emotional torture a woman faces when her husband cheats with maids, random women, wife's sisters and relatives some of whom are underaged. If you can push the blame of a cheating husband on the wife then we should push the blame of the cheating wife on the husband |
streetsoldier1:But you people are always pushing for children to go and bond with deadbeat dads who abandoned them. Don't kids associate with fathers that sleep with maids and even have lovechild outside? Typical Nairaland male hypocrisy |
Ecobank is now the go-to bank for scammers to operate with. The account numbers resemble GSM numbers without the first 0 (eg 8105349418). Traders Beware!!! Too many suspicious handles lurking around, (like the one below) don't rush into transactions with people you're not familiar or comfortable with and remember, no escrow no trade! Oluwadamilare05:They should send first to a two week old moniker with no contacts attached, you're seriously unserious. Anybody that sends first to this individual without escrow should blame no one but himself |
dotuntayo:That's also another possibility cc Sodiqapril |
My dad has his books in his library. I read Toads for supper years ago but I can't seem to remember the storyline. I think he was also the author of one novel "My Mercedes is bigger than yours". Such a phenomenal writer he was, RIP great icon |
sodiqapril:That's not too long ago but no harm in deworming again. Were you having the frequent hunger pangs then? Also do you take multivitamins or blood tonic containing vitamin B12 and folic acid? Those medicines induce hunger a lot. |
When last did you deworm? |
mapet:For the sake of the boy, they should just do the rites. It's their belief that a child born by their daughter belongs to them until she's paid for (like a piece of object). An evil family that can beat their daughter to death will do worse to the son she left behind. For the sake of the boys future, they should just do the appropriate rites and collect the child. |
The buildings are similar to the ones at Ogba. Hope they allow a flexible installmental payments though, not everybody can afford to cough out that lump sum |
agadez007:You're so wrong on that. Actor UC Ukeje married a Yoruba lady, former Mr Nigeria Emmanuel Ikubese married a Yoruba lady, that former beauty queen that's a pilot (she's Yoruba) got married to an Igbo man, actress Zainab Balogun married an Igbo man. And those are people in the spotlight o, how much more everyday people that are not in the news. The world should have advanced beyond all these tribal discriminations but bigotry keeps drawing us back. |
franchasng:How about the one that used his pregnant girlfriend for rituals, was he a Muslim too? The earlier you disgusting bigots realize that good and evil resides within every race, tribe and religion, the better the world will become. Just spewing irritating comments everywhere. Because of mentally unstable people like you, a life is cut at it's prime, a little boy will grow without a mother and will probably be made to suffer by his useless evil grandparents. That doesn't matter to you, all that matters is tribe and religion of where she got the pregnancy. I spit on mentalities like yours |
If she's still in that marriage, then she's stupid. But she needs to report the Cyber bullying threat to the police. |
Ajeboter:Why can't a 60 year old have a banking app? If he's educated to an extent and/or knows how to operate a smartphone, mobile transfer is not exactly rocket science. Besides, he could have used USSD code to carry out the transfer |
This is so unfair, very heartless parents. Even if you don't want her to marry the boy due to tribal and religious differences, the moment a child became involved th families have become connected. This is what toxic tribal and religious bigotry does to people. I hope they release the baby to the father's family after he has carried out the appropriate marital rites because they're going to put that poor child through worse suffering than his mother endured. |
Goal disallowed. Scores remain 1-1 |
You can't have it all in a relationship, it's not possible. If he's caring in other aspects, just stick with him. No person or relationship is 100% perfect |
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Bro let her go and seek the face of God for forgiveness and become a true born again to retrace her lost glory.
that I can tolerate, but not otherwise. Whether he is rich or not, my daughter will never try it or she and the guy will dance the dance of the ancestral masquerade together