₦airaland Forum

shinealight:
Is Dimeji Bankole a northerner? Think before writing please!

Bomboiy:
LMAO,how will he deliver ebonyi state to Tinubu like this.

adedayoa2:
Tinubu is popular already.

Toneypen247:
What a life....marriage is not a do-or-die affair. Channel the frustration or grievances into something productive.

Now a life is lost at what essence

Hahahah at marriage essence

kingthreat:
To break it short to you guys. My girl has been a pain on my neck lately on her elder brother's case. We all know her brother is into weed and crack, thats the one we know. Guy is in his late 20s. Last year he made a decision in front of their family to quit and live a better life and they supported him.

Now he is fully back into his destructive habit. Recently, he has not been at home as sometimes he hangs out in a friend's place. His mum got a call from him saying he was picked up for no reason by the police and is presently being detained for nothing. When the mum got there, police told her the truth.

Man was caught during a raid on a drug joint and he must be bailed. Police was even telling the mum that they are lucky the raid was not by NDLEA else it would have been more serious. Mum was in tears seeing her son looking tattered and having gone back to such bad habit.

This is someone that is a graduate, but has let his habit make him jobless and a nuisance. I do talk to him sometimes on the dangers of weed, arizona, crack, xtacy, ice, etc. I even sent him 50k to keep him going at a time. He keeps assuring me he is okay. It is abit heartbreaking for me despite him not being my blood. It gets my girl moody most of the time.

Is there anything his loved ones can do to stop him from taking this? Rehab runs into millions and his family cannot fund it.
But is there something to make the nigga stop and stop being a problem on his family?

Will appreciate responses from those who were able to get their loved ones to stop drug abuse.

victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...

Brunosamel:
Lately I have been seeing husband's killing there wives & boyfriends killing their girlfriends due anger or infidelity but the truth is Some certain situations is very much preventable it all comes down to mental strength and capacity to turn negative moments to your advantage. Some of the ways of build mental strength is through physical fitness, reading and suffering or rather doing difficult things. It help to control those emotions and keep it to check.

I remember when I confronted my girlfriend for cheating on me I was heart broken but I had to channel my negative thoughts with positive feelings
I walked away straight to the gym and lay the anger on the iron it was a terrible feeling that made me to injure myself came back from the gym channel all my anger in her kpekus aggressively she was shading tears and I didn't even give a Bleep eventually I broke up for cheating on me it felt really good afterwards.
Ever since then I have learn to channel my anger on iron it helps me to think and cool off and make the best decision.

Note: She has been begging me to accept her back that she has not been able to to forget what I did to her, she has not been able to get over it. It's a game over cuz I have moved on with another girl life goes on.

Iniobong34:
But the man and the maid na werey o
y him no use cd
or better stil use the pullout techniq
or give her postinor2
i just pray the wife understand him

superCleanworks:
Please don't do it. it is against the WORD OF GOD. You will spend 6,000000 years in hell if you do it.
Bring her let me protect her for you and return her back when you are ready to marry her to avoid temptation.

Bar1941:
This lady still look very sexy @ 51, am sure her engine is still very functional, whereas you see some 20yrs old girls their body and engine is like that of a 70yrs old grandma due to overuse.

Anyway hbd Lady Kate.

lereinter:
Lolzzzzz

Under whose person's roof should he be having sex

Tokskob2008:
He should be more sacred now seeing as he is gradually loosing his grip on sure SW States that are supposed to be on lockdown and easy for him.

Other factors that will come out against him includes :
1: APC has nothing to campaign with
2: The hunger and worsen insecurity in the country
3: The North he so much bank on can't be trusted(i still find it hard to believe they will leave Atiku and vote for him)
4: Buhari won't help when the need arise. That man is bad at politics and since he has completed his own tenure I don't see him giving any any help to the party.
5: Finally people are getting wiser and no amount of vote buying can win you an election right now except you are really loved.