The problem is not releasing them, where are they going to, what jobs have you created for them, I used God name beg them oo my phone is so precious to me
It not just a number but you have to be mindful of the age, presently my current girlfriend is a year older than me but we both do not look over that because I realize that she so submissive and respectful
Cooolme: I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.
Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.
I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.
Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.
It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.
Someone doesn't send you reciprocate the same no go killed yourself ooo
galileo180: Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.
I hate seeing useless topic, if this is the only issues the girl need a brain reset
Gadafii: A woman has shown me love in a such way that it scared me
This girl was literally over me, met me at time I was having it roughly and mentally breaking down, but I wore the perfect smile outside, deep down I was literally dying
Met in school, within days class mates already insinuating and she doesn’t even care, always want to be around, take hundreds of pictures with me, hold my hands, never demanded shit from me other than”just say you love me too”
Omo lile like me that I had one thousand and one battles raging in my head who get time for love, I persistent told her love is big word I don’t want to misuse, that my actions towards her will tell
Truly I really made her comfortable, laughed, support her and ensure I advise her without sentiments and she respected me for that, all this time I was at cross road, her love for me was genuine and innocent, she even had issue with her boyfriend then because of how she was always postin our pictures, we eventually ended up as very good friends, but I still see the hint of love and affection in her eyes, but she realize I can’t be that lovey lovey kind of guy she was expecting me to be, we stilll good till this very moment
For your information, she was everything my spec, pretty fair, sensible and homely Igbo girl, with massive sense of humor and beautiful smile, and she can cook pass chef baci 🤝💯but guy man no get time for love
codedgalaxy: A married woman that loves you can actually kill her husband for you.
They never mentioned loving a married woman here, learn to know your boundaries that once a woman is married you should never go near her again for life,
The way you quickly mention married women here u a suspect
flexydote: Op. God bless you for this your writeup.
That's how my babe have been telling me that I shouldn't worry about money, infact I shouldn't even talk about it.
That when we marry, there will be blessing attached to the marriage.
Reason why I don't want to go into marriage now is cause I'm not making to much to start feeding two mouth, health, cloth and practically take of two individuals now. So I told her to chill first cause tho I'm expecting something huge that could upgrade my financial status but the pressure to get married to her no be here o.
I have seen a lot in the streets to not have sense in this matter. Omo forget Love o cause when it comes to the real matter it boils down to MONEY.
back in the days sef, you only marry when you can take care of a lady not because of Love.
Gen Z dem have changed the narrative.
Marriage is an Institution but na only few understand that terminology.
You nail it bro, am in the same boat with you but my own is not pressure just that fees days ago I clock 29years and I am just wondering within me when would I accept responsibility but the income is not coming as expected and it border me alot especially at night most times I can't sleep at night
jeromestarks: I have dated a handful of girls. Yes ! I have. In fact, I am currently dating three girls ( FWB aside). But I have never met a lady who talks to me THE SAME WAY as do my mother.
I mean, this girl uses the same words like my mother. She faces me like my mother. She expresses confidence in me like my mother. One time, she told me that she would go to a caterer and book for 10k cake. I was like " hope you have the money for it?" Her reply was " you won't buy it for me? You will buy it for me don't worry"
As if she kept some money with me. Shuuu.
Same thing my mom said sometimes ago. She needed to buy a cloth of 12k for one occasion like that. As we were talking, she said " ehen, I will go to mama Ada and collect my clothes"
I said " that's nice" She said " that all you will say? Don't tell me you won't buy it for me ooo" Before I could say anything, she added " you will buy it for me don't worry"
This girl and my mom don't live close to each other. They don't talk on phone. In fact, they don't even cross path.
On many occasions, I have seen similarities in them. Their choice of food is the same. Their perception about life is similar. Their style of dressing is similar too ( my mom is not the type who dresses to impress. She wears what makes her comfortable and doesn't give a fvck about what others think)
If I am talking to this girl, I feel like I am talking with my mother. What's more shocking? This girl is only 19!
(The funny thing is that this young girl refused to be my girlfriend. She visits me like every day but won't allow me to do her).
If not that my mom is alive ehhh, I would have said this girl is her reincarnate.
Ever had such experience?
That girl is a young teenagers who has not experience anything yet , I can bet you is her first time of getting close to a man and those childish life is still with her, you better avoid doing anything with that little girl before you got her pregnant
We're family of 8 living closely together in the family compound. What happened here is that in 2009, shell company came to our community and and offered us and anyone interested a cheap and affordable borehole. We took the advantage to have borehole in our family compound.
Fast-forward to 2017, one of my brothers conceived the ideas of making pure water from the family water. The idea was a welcome development as we all donated towards the success of the business.
To cut long story short...
When the business became successful due to the environmental position (our compound is closed to border). My brother refused any member of the family an access to the benefits accrued the sale. My brother fought anyone who demand for a share from the sale. Literally most times in a week my brother could make a sale up 1m. In a week.
Currently, he is building another water factory unopposed by the family. Family compound is decaying and he said, he had no concern whatever happens in the compound and that his only concentration is in his business.
Being the last born in the family with negligence of help from the only brother who could recus me using that our local oil well. I decided to pick up a battle of GIVE ME MY SHARE OF THE PROFIT YOU MAKE FROM MY FATHER PROPERTY. The fight no be here. He is now asking us to come together so we can share properties so he can exonerates himself from the rest of us.
Please I need advice on how to crab my shares from this LIFETIME business.
Ikwerere people leave us alone, we are still fighting on how to pay you guys rent because month is ending soon
Savedone: please guys, please don't just scroll and pass, please I've tried to get little help here to no avail, please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since last week Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. Almighty God bless you
My name is Angela Oyom. Almighty God bless you and your family
When would you stop all this begging online, you keep taking this as your daily work, the little you have received used it to do business and stop this begging, every topic I enter I would see you doing this always
judecares1: Mr Supreme court governor or cant remember what most Nigerians do call you , your citizens are protesting simply because they are requesting for what lawfully belongs to them, this event happened last week but you waited a day to your rerun election to apologize. This act shows lack of commitment to your office as the 1st citizen of imo state.
Let the imo state citizens decide if they still want you or not.
If you can show lack of commitment by governing imo state from Abuja according to some online report during his 1st tenure, what will happen if he will be reelected?
Lets vote wisely
I don't have hope on inec he has already settled iNec for his victory tomorrow
Gwin007: Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes
Thanks
I don't know what give you people impressions that travelling abroad in better off, in your own case you have a business and a family the money you should have used to invest in your business and also open another little business for your wife to do also you want to used it and travel abroad and leave your family , you better Wise up and build your family together
A husband who beat up his wife has apologised to her as she insists on leaving him.
The wife, a mother-of-five, cried out that she has been suffering abuse for the 11 years she has been married to her husband. She then called for help from Nigerians.
However, speaking following the incident, the battered wife said she was intimidated by the DPO.
She claimed the DPO silenced her and told her she must go and live with her husband[/quote
Find Way and open one side of her pant and plug your antenna and she will calm down and forget about going
Politicstoday: #OneKogiOneDestiny: #HowToVoteThisSaturday Dear People of Kogi State, this is how to vote on Saturday, November 11, 2023. 1. Use your index finger 2. Vote for Umbrella (@OfficialPDPNig) 3. Your vote for the Umbrella/PDP is a Vote for @_dinomelaye
4. After voting, ensure your vote is counted and announced.
I am 29year and I am still eating my fingers and I don't find it funny but most times I just find my hand inside my mouth and right now I am looking for a possible solution on how to stop it permanently,
Felixalex: I just remembered him now because of this post, some weeks back if you post your personal pictures or business, you will be attacked. "We are morning Mohbad and you're posting this nonsense" #Justice4Mohbad....
Now everyone has moved on, the noise has died down.
Lesson: unrelated to Mohbad's case but, in this life never overdo yourself, do only what you can and leave the rest to God. If you pressure yourself and die prematurely, those people you were pressuring yourself for will cry for some time and move on. Another man will use gbola to make your babe/wife feel better after your burial. If the gbola slips out, she will use her hand to chook it back in.
Deep down, I was depress because things is not going down for me the way I plan but after reading this I know you are saying the actual true bro, people forget people easily was they are gone
slimjohn2k5: 15k monthly? For children, not child? In this economy? You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife. You either increase the money or hustle more
Do you know the state of the man income, for him to say 15k which means he is trying to live within his means, except you have other way for him to hustle more
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