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HERE'S A STORY POSTED BY THE JOURNALIST Chris Kehinde Nwandu (CKN).


I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives.

December 2018, I decided to come to NIGERIA for the festivities and to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rûde to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband.

I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school.

I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having séx with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening.

I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs. While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave NIGERIA.
My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother.

I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ?
Please help me.


BELIEVE ALL WOMEN AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT. A FEW YEARS BACK A 3-YEAR-OLD GIRL ACCUSED ME OF TRYING TO ASSAULT HER SEXUALLY. I WAS HOUSING HER MOTHER (MY COUSIN) AT THE TIME. NORMALLY THAT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED BETWEEN I AND AN ADULT FEMALE CUZ ALL MY LIFE I'VE HELD UP MY GUARD LIKE A SPARTAN WHEN IT COMES TO FOLKS FROM THE FEMALE GENDER, BUT TO HAVE A 3-YEAR-OLD COOK UP A STORY LIKE THAT OUT OF THE BLUES, IS JUST GOING TO GO DOWN AS THE ONLY THING THAT EVER LEFT ME LOST AND DUMBFOUNDED IN MY LIFETIME. GUYS YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN SCENES. HOW SHE LEARNED THAT SCRIPT AND WAS ABLE TO PLAY IT AT AGE 3 SHOULD LEAVE ME CONFUSED BUT HER MOTHER WAS KIND OF THE WORST PERSON ON THE PLANET, AND WITH NO FATHER FIGURE, NO WAY A BABY'S LIFE WON'T BE MERCILESSLY SCREWED FROM THE GET GO.

MOST FEMALES ARE FINDING FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND INFORMATION TO BE USEFUL AS THE PERFECT EQUIPMENT TO RUIN THE LIVES OF MEN. THERE'S NO PERFECT ANGEL OR DISNEY PRINCESSES ANYWHERE. ONCE YOU DROP YOUR GUARD IT'S OVER FOR YOU.

I fear ladies ooo. Omo, I almost entered into trouble one day when I was staying with my uncle. He has three children, two females and one male. Because of my lovely and friendly nature, the children love Playing and spending time with me because I allow them watch YouTube and YouTube kids on my phone. So, one day one of the females got angry with me (6 years old) the older is 9 years old. She got angry and said she was going to report me to her mum that I touched her private part. I was like, mogbe, what will I do. Of course they will believe her more than me because she is their daughter. I Sha use words to change her mind, gave her my phone to watch YouTube kids, thankfully she forgot and she didn't tell her mum (because it was not true anyway) from that time henceforth, if the parents are not in my vision range, I run away from the children. Make Dem no koba person.

DieRich5:
Met a girl that loves you and you will realize how ladies are rich on airtime and bundles

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Am telling you, that's why I don't give them airtime anymore. They get it regularly from simps... Do you know what? When I stopped giving them airtime, they start giving me instead. No be juju be that?

luminouz:
Accused of sexual assault by a 3 year old?

WTF does she even know about rape? Most of them can't even speak properly at that time.

God Airpus oooooo

Who told you that?
My nephew that just clocked 3 years last week can already speak English fluently

I dey avoid teenagers as much as possible.
Them get very weak self control

Na black and blue be this oooo.

Candidlady:
Good afternoon OP

As much as we really want to read bout your escapades in north please note that we are also watching/observing you..

Post anything that will paint north black and this thread will be taken down


Be warned


Yours sincerely
Mod candid

Is the North not black already.
ALAYE, shift commot for here.

Fuckaniza:
Ehya .. me and this comrade gather dey the same Whatsapp group oh.. ... Local man passed on so much kuntus baq then ehn ... Chai! If I could go baq in time lason, I'll set all those pussies on fia

Bad guy, your head dey there. Na why I no wan bad, cos if I bad ehn... I know wetin I fit do.

I can't count the number of free sex I have rejected. And that's why I am still a virgin.

Op, this life no hard.
In as much as your gf body is not your own, you no fit control am. Even your body wey be your own, you fit control am?? Don't let one lady dey disturb you jare. I understand say you dey under at the moment, but that's not the end.

chikason22:
Karma never forget not forgives.
You will get same hot meal served to you too. It may be delayed but never denied.
Your wife will hang a bastard in your neck for you to raise.
Courtesy...... KARMA

Karma doesn't always work Bro.
We live in a bleeped up world

khalids:
People no dey even fear God again oo....what advise is this person asking for....

All i have to say is...it is a sin and you should flee from it. I your mind you think you are being a sharp guy, meanwhile devil just dey use you play ludo....

Where you see devil?
Greet am for me

MHElijah:
I want to tell you something bro
This temptation that you willingly want to fall into is expensive. If you fall into it then get ready to pay the price. I'm very sure. It's dangerous to sleep with a married woman

What's dangerous there?
Stolen waters is sweet Biko and bread eaten in secret bring joy until a dagger is pierced through your heart

Dikegodspower:
Did you guys chat on facebook or whatsapp?
Blc I detest lies.
Secondly accept jesus christ as your Lord and personal saviour, or else you will regret your existence

Why will he regret his existence?
Abeg free op jare

Op, no loose guard ooo. E fit be set up.
Make sure the arena is your base or near your base, get escape plan, protect yourself. She fit get STD. Her husband or baby daddy fit don put magun on top her (less likely but possible) and no go die in active service. F**k like there is no tomorrow and give us update for here, you be Manche!

Unfortunately, there are many people in jail serving term they didn't commit crime for. Most likely, when they come out, they will become full blown demons. I hope op doesn't become a demon one day if the story is true. God know say if na me, my revenge go bad no be small. I hate injustice with passion not to talk of me now being punished for a crime I didn't commit, omo my underwork go loud but you no go suspect anything. Anyways, the ball is in your court op. Life moves on

Moscodee1990:
Just watched it on a blog, kaiiii na waooo.

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Abeg share the link to the blog. I wan check something for there

I have had some crazy encounters with cockroaches. One has flown iniside my boxers before, not a funny experience. But I am not scared of them at all. The way I kill them ehn, them dey fear come my side

Prettygirl200:
playing the victim or not does not mean it should be one sided.

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But it's a fact that guys are more straightforward compared to ladies. As ladies like to code things. Are you straightforward yourself?

Prettygirl200:
that's in few cases. 85% of it there are not true. Both genders do make use of these words everyday. y making it one sided.

Because ladies like to play the victim card. Don't you think so?

quentin06:
There are many idiots on this planet that cannot handle simple truth, a 15 yr old girl who can receive gifts from a married man is a hoe , she was taught by her mother.
Raise your daughter well, stop bleating like a castrated goat.

Ode, so you cannot give a lady a gift without expecting anything in return?
So giving a 15year old gifts is enough reason to justify you flirting or sleeping with her? You're sick in the head, go for treatment

Prettygirl200:
Una no get anything, which kind thread be that. So u mean say una just sit down think of anything to attach to what women do say Habaaa that's too much.

Smiles.... Baby girl, we both understand that in many cases, what ladies say and what they do are far apart from each other. Agree or not?

quentin06:
There are many idiots on this planet that cannot handle simple truth, a 15 yr old girl who can receive gifts from a married man is a hoe , she was taught by her mother.
Raise your daughter well, stop bleating like a castrated goat.

You no get sense at all. Of course, it takes two to tangle but na men dey bleep up pass. If you no make any sneaky moves, babe no go loose guard but because of your lusts, you trap them and then blame them. Karma is coming for you, enjoy while it lasts. Hediot!

Prettygirl200:
Jesus Christ!!! God forbid for all this nairaland men.

We don get your scopes ba??

IamDora:
Lol, funny

Meaning - "I am enjoying this but I didn't laugh"

Cutehector:
I miss you own dey make me laugh


Cc dontrulee

Abi ooo.... Hope your babe no dey tell you say she miss you whenever you're away??

I don't know - "you're disturbing me"

Maybe - "deep down, I want it- persuade me"

Not really - "I am not straight forward, I'm cunny"

Kk. - "you're getting boring"

I love you - "I have done something wrong, but I want to distract you"


I miss you - "I have cheated on you, or I am Planning to cheat on you and it's your fault"

Petoski7:
I'll call you back - Goodbye forever

Anytime my babe tells me this, she never calls back. Anyways, guy man no dey bother since she dey spend on me and I get plenty other options. What she does with her life is her business, what I do with my life is my business. No time to stress over someone with a pussy.

Majority of red pillers here on Nairaland are toxic and simps in real life. Cruise everywhere

Finally, Baba don collect breakfast.
I hardly use stickers even though I have up to a thousand of them.

IamDora:
My name is Isadora, I've been a silent follower of this wonderful forum since 2020, not until I felt the need to finally create a Profile here today so I would be able to drop comments too.

I discovered Nairaland from a male friend who always post news about them on his WhatsApp Status. So one day, out of curiosity, I decided to search the website on Google, and since then, I became addicted to it.



Hope I'm welcomed here?

You be fine girl, give me your WhatsApp number I gat something for you