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[quote author=aieromon post=116225277][/quote]Can you kindly pls explain in details the meaning of these? Thanks

[quote author=killmods post=114902161]You're a snake. U liked her from the onset and concealed it. Ur friend went in and u still nurtured the lust for her and now he's done u want to shoot ur shot. Even the girl must be daft to entertain u now. In fact u, the girl , ur paddy are all stupid [/quote
It is the passing of the girl like a ball between the two of them for me�����

Mood11:
Maybe she's equally tired (of you and the marriage) and needed to take some time off..
Does she know you are here on Nairaland opening a thread about her?

Man up and take care of your kids. Don't worry about a perfect salad whatever you are able to make serve it to them with love

BTW, when you knew that women from Enugu or Anambra make better wives and mothers why didn't you marry from there in the first place?

I tire ooooo

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

So on point. Best advice I have seen on this forum. God bless you

SIONKPO1:
R.I.P, but this man tried for Afemai people when he was in SEC,and he was a very simple man that normally climbs the staircase to 5th floor

You are absolutely right. He connected so many youths in Afemai and gave them jobs. May his soul rest in peace

Oh my God. He was a generous man and he assisted so many youths in his community. May his soul rest in Peace

[quote author=squash47 post=90844132]I am now convinced that all politicians are the same,
it's just the name of the political party that differs.
...
Who would have believed that Ize Iyamu will switch to APC, while Obaseki will switch to PDP In less than 5 years.
...
very soon, APC will start promoting Iyamu as a saint while Obaseki will be presented as a bad person all of a sudden.

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And with all of these their deceits, selfishness and greed staring at us in the eyes, Nigerians especially the youths are still applauding them. It is well with us

It is well. This is rather disheartening, because the two of you allowed your flesh to take over the sacred ties you both have. Why not just move on, pray for one another and start afresh again.

harrikoko:
So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

May God restore peace and love to your home. Divorce is never an option my dear.

sweetmelanin:
OP I understand how you are feeling... and trust me, as you get older, it will affect your sex life in devastating ways.
I know the love isn't there anymore but do you at least like him as a person? If so, you guys can still live together in friendship. There are marriages out there like that (mine inclusive)... sometimes it's hard to walk away from a marriage when there isn't a " tangible " reason like domestic violence, cheating etc... society can be so judgemental and it really sucks. I totally get you dear.

Correct!!!! [quaote author=NwaAmaikpe post=80941051]




Wow the crowd looks like Ughele, Uchi and Jattu market combined.

Nice reception for their own "one-hit wonder".
E moh, ukharagbe.[/quote]

Beautiful couples

so much of pretense.

My dear, such delay often times is a sign dat u two can't end up together. 7 whole yrs! It is well. He might actually mean well for u, but since u knw very well dat they marry late in their linage, I think u should be able to do d calculations urself. I wil advice u take d whole situation to God in prayers, ask God for divine direction and step to take. It is well with u

[quote author=kelvincoll post=34216793] Petroleum Managers Cele Bustop, #120 29/05/2015.
Ofcos we all know dis DPR na wash, they re just forming activity. In actual sense we'll just be reporting filling station location were they can go and collect deir bribe [/quot. U are very on point, exactly my mind

Hmmmmm!!!!! Beautiful scenes for tourist destination, but so disheartening that many of these attraction sites have not been harnessed, these are other souce of revenue generation but Nigeria Government will always depend on their monopolised source of development

[quote author=eleojo23 post=32724592]It's funny that some people think that Buhari has been elected as a military head of state. Well, he has been elected as a democratic president.
So don't expect him to come and dictate and throw people in jail as he likes.
In fact, he has told you himself that he will not do that.

Such approach to tackling corruption is merely a reactive one and doesn't really address the problem squarely. Tackling corruption requires proactive measures such as pulling down old systems that have allowed corruption to thrive and raising up new systems that promote transparency so that anyone who intends to practice corruption will be handicapped. [/quote u are very on point, its gonna be a gradual process of refurbishment and rehabilatation

Hello my lovely friend, how are you doing basically?.
But sorry, I just have to tell you these. Ok? I l♡ve y♡u.

There are two muscles in the human body that have destroyed humanity beyond compare. There are two muscles in the body of man that has disgraced so many men. There are two muscles in the body of a man that has put a man to shame and that has made an able elephant to become a lizard. There are two muscles in the body of man that has made someone who is an eagle to look for worms on the ground like chicken.

POWERFUL MUSCLES
These two muscles are:
1. Tongue
2. Penis
These two muscles; more than any other organ of the body, have disgraced men and paralyzed their destiny. These two muscles are still in action and the devil is making use of these two muscles with terrible effectiveness in the life of man. The reason why the devil is using these two muscles is that he knows once he gets you through them, it will take heaven to deliver you.
There is one muscle and one hole in the body of the woman that has put so many women in disarray. It has caused so many high flying women to swim in the ocean of trouble and despair. It has caused so many promising stars to be buried alive.
These are:
1. The Tongue
2. The Vagina

THE GATEMAN
Access to your body is a sacred thing. Once you make it loose, you lose your destiny as well. More than any other problem that has been so complicated for women is the issue of the tongue in the mouth and their vagina. Unto every womb there is a gateman assigned from heaven. If you push off the gateman and you allow just anything to happen then the ball is in your court and you will surely face the consequences.
Sex is one thing that can make you lose your destiny. Reuben lost his destiny because of sex. It is time for you to understand that life is not just about sex. Reuben lost his destiny through sexual carelessness. One of the most terrible statements that were uttered in the Bible was made to Reuben.
The Bible says in Genesis 49:2-4;
"Gather yourselves together, and hear, ye sons of Jacob; and hearken unto Israel your father. Reuben, thou art my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power: Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father's bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch."

THE SLAVE DRIVER
Sex was what finished samson. When sarah did not have children and she was old, she brought a house help to the old man Abraham who slept with the young girl. Abraham could have refused the offer of the house maid but he did not. He slept with the young girl and she gave birth to ishmael who had twelve tribes who thus giving rise to Arab nations, some of whom are troubling the world now. Sexual sins are generational in nature.
That man you sleep with even when you feel it is casual sex will make you a victim of generational curses. You will reap the fruit of iniquity. The people whom God can deliver easily are those who are victims of rape because it was not done with their consent. They were forced into sex. But when you go with your senses into the arena and you willingly remove your clothes by yourself for a man to have sex with you then you will reap the harsh consequences.

HOW PEOPLE COME UNDER CURSES
The manifestation of a curse may not come instantly, or be easily noticeable. However, it develops gradually. Pay close attention to this:
By breaking the vows and covenant of marriage, you come under a pursuing curse.
It is better not to marry than to go to court, mosque and church and join yourself to somebody and then break the vow you have made. It puts you under a pursuing curse.

When a man uses his money or position to abuse womanhood, he is heading for a curse.
Nowadays, only few people are ready to do anything for anybody without charging money.
You might have done these things when you were an unbeliever, but you will need to pray to break the curses and change from your sinful wicked old days, if not it will still come back.
When women use themselves as objects of satisfaction to men, they come under a pursuing curse.
If you allow your body to be abused because of money, you reduce God's honour on your life and come under a curse.

There is a curse on all men who mess up ladies, take cheap advantage on them and dump them.
There is a curse attached to breaking people's hearts. Most of the time, the challenges we face come as a result of some of the things we have done in the past.
Some people flee out of the country, yet the curse of the bad things they had done purses them wherever they go to.
A curse has a terrible influence and could result in all kinds of things.

A lady comes under a curse when a man begins to hate and beat his wife because of her. Anyone who breaks other people's home will not have a peaceful home when he or she marries.
This is why a lot of women who do all kinds of things while in the university or else where experience a lot of problems when they marry.
Their marriages are filled with problems. There are some wayward ladies who send romantic messages to other women's husbands that results to problem in the marriages of such men. This kind of women come under a pursuing curse.

There is a curse attached to every adultery and infidelity committed by any person. It is a pursuing curse.
There is curse on anyone who covers his or her sins. The bible says, "He that covers his sin shall not prosper." This is why some people are suffering today.
And all forms of rebellions against God attract curses.

THE DANGERS OF CURSES
A curse has a terrible influence and could result in all kinds of things.
1). Curses can make a person to live a perverse life.
2). Curses can lead to a life of non-achievement.
3). Curses can be transferred down through generations.
4). Curses can be inherited.
5). By associating with accursed people, you can share out of their curses.
6). No matter how good or rich you are, you cannot bless whom God has cursed.

However, we are really close to end time, but a lot of people have so many reasons to ignore God.
So, are you one of them? Ask yourself?.
With this filthy sinful life you are living now can you make heaven? Ask yourself.
And the bible says in 2 Chronicles 7:14;
"If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land."
And in Malachi 3:7 says;
"Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the LORD of hosts. But ye said, wherein shall we return?."
Listen, you return to God by;
1). CHOOSING TO CHANGE
Because;
SIN: This sold the mandate of man to satan and his demons.
IGNORANCE: This has been a strong weapon in the hands of the wicked to keep man out of his inheritance in God (Act 3:17).
NOTICE:
»The promise of long life is not for everyone. So, use all what you have to serve God because after death there is no other chance.
»Be heavenly minded
» Make God your first priority not your last resort.
God first and man follow.
2). Genuine repentance
3). Complete salvation
4). Reading and studying the bible regularly.
5). Obeying his commandment
6). Practising holiness and brokenness.
More importantly; get baptised in a bible, holiness believing ministry close to you. And be prayerful, then you will you receive refreshing fire from God which is the "HOLY SPIRIT".

I LOVE YOU, BUT GOD LOVES YOU MORE. God bless.

chimkaire:
Quantitative Techniques in U R P., the lecturer: Ezemmuta is a lecturer from hell . Come see ''F''. The fear of him and his course is the beginning of wisdom. Come to his lecture a minute late, your mark starts lessening from there. He was a visiting lecturer and thus, difficult to track him down when your cup don full *old bat*

Hmmm, u gat it great planner, Quantitative Analysis was one hell of a course I never I want to come across again, but we can never do with it as planners

I love dis forum, its as if am watching d match from d office. Nice job, keep it coming plsssssssss

Every individual has his or her preference, dat a bank disappointed u today doesn't mean d same bank will nt be able to satisfy tomrw. But UBA should try and work on their banking system, I left my account with them without even closing it cos of frequent disappointment

U fall cheaply for a guy, he throw u away cheaply after getting inbetween ur legs.