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ireneony:
This is just a forum....so why all these I love a nairalander this days.
There is a thread I have been viewing since yesterday.....a lady...name withheld have been crying over a guy since yesterday..

Me tire o, even topics on FrontPage don't even get much comment like this .
The guy should answered make person ear hear word.
Imagine a thread that suppose to be for all nairalanders has turn to someone diary

lolz...

EstarKeys:
..lol..well,av neva told any of em dat,though av seen it many times..av been der wif ma friend once wen she told a boy to do so......how wuld u hav felt if u wee in his shoes?

embarassed o, but the worse is wen a gurl is bn told to 'close up'

EstarKeys:
that awkward moment wen she tells u silently,,"hey,zip up,ur zip is open"...and u melt..

lol, yhu eva told a guy such?

ximarro:
mehn...dis ur reply Jst opened my eyes. u said it all...putting pressure on a gal most times could make u devalue usef before dem especially when she said No. If all guys could ignore gals after refusing dem, I think much of d shakara de do will not be prevalent. Dotswill, I also wana let u know sumtin n d reason for creating d topic. I actually asked sum1 out n she said she is married but refused to tell me what she means by married cos i know she is not... Jst sum1 in same class with me. What do u think about dat? Guys, help out here.

i tink saying she's married, maybe she just placed emphasis on 'her been taken'..nd nt married literally, just in a relationship. On another luk of it, it sounds lik just kidding u nd pulling ur legs. Xo just let ha to expanciate

samflexxy:
no matter the kind of home work mehn the girl is still cheap

some guys do force

Awkward moment when u having a nice time with ya side chick in ur room, nd unexpectedly ur g.f cme knockin

ProdigyLoco:
6. Y'all need to know that no matter how sweet u think ur honey pot is, there is one that is sweeter nd more affordable ... So drop ur arrogance

lol

Play hard to get

tosyne2much:
I don't know what it feels like when a lady woos a guy

Still waiting for a lady that will outrightly woo me on nairaland

wah abt that miss that created a thread sayin she loves you last yr

..expecting ireneony 's response

ximarro:
Hello guys, what are your opinions on the best time to give up wooing a girl,

when u r aware she's already in a relationship

ximarro:
when u have asked her out and she said No? Does a girl actually mean No when she says No?

in most cases

ximarro:
Also, do girls not see constant pressure from a particular guy as bugging?

man, when a girl tells u 'NO' with no best reasons, just kill that feelinh. No need for constant 'pressure' ..better days r stil ahead, u stil gon' meet xo many people, xo y blockin ur view of meetin the right ones wit a girl who dosnt appreciate ur feeling? Life z too short nigga.. Beggin nd disturbing girls will make u lose respect and value.. U need to hang around some girls nd see the way they make jest of guys asking them out with there friends; shitty, bashful talks, disparaging laughter nd all

, both sex, nt just ladies

Well, well

luigiajah:
Yeah.. any Stuffz

wu Pm u

[quote author=luigiajah post=29445161][/quote]..wazup, yhu a blogger??

samisparkle24:
The guy, didnt make a sexual move,he simply put his arms rounf your waist. He is a friend,couldnt he just cuddle you to sleep?
Na guys with low self esteem,hangs with gals. Having a chitchat once awhile,its okay, but, make her a pal, doesnt make any sense

samisparkle24:
Guy,nothing do you,that is how a guy roll. Why keep extra baggage, for what use.
Most of these guys that claims, friendship with gals, are sexually attracted to them, they lack courage to open up. They end up , being galfriend with a dicck, very pathetic

high five!

chibwike:
Confessing your feelings over text.
As a guy, when you have this bottled-up feelings, you want to blurt them out. You feel only if she knew how much,you like her. She will want to be our gf. WRONG..the moment you blurt ur feeling to a girl tru text. You are revealing you hand, and leaving her nothing to work for.

i don't get ur explanation here
..buh texting z never a mistake, i tink itz cul; u text then do a follow up.

chibwike:
Sennding nice guy texts

thats if u aint friends; she dosnt lik u nd u stil lik a stranger to her.or mayb u keep repeatin same chat texts evryday.. And chattin wit girls, u need 2 add little little sense of humour for example, have u taken ur bath? 'No just about to' ..ok, i'd be thr to scrub ur back for u with my one eye closed....

chibwike:
Being too available.

yea, right. U shuldnt b a freak

chibwike:
Texting your way to the friendzone.

sometimes love creeps in along the line, and before u no it, they alrdy dating..wit the guy nt havin to sweat much on making ha say Yes.

chibwike:
Giving up too soon.

sme girls r always xo mean nd rude, responds curtly, snubs u, wen they tryna play hard to get nd it sucks

..aint crazy

Ermmm...

An uninteresting 365 days journey round the sun

Tryna edit na, even if na copy nd paste

lilmaxfidel:
NOTE:-Someone sent in this for Us and he needs your Advice.
Well my mom is 42 .. She and my dad just recently divorced. My friend was at my house playing Ps4 and I went out to rent a movie to watch.
On my way to the store where I went to rent movie, I met an Old classmate and we discuss for like 40mins. I manage to go to the store, rent some movies and I headed back home. When I entered into the house, I find my mom on the floor naked and my friend naked.
I almost run mad, was confused and could not believe my eyes, My friend hurriedly put on his wears and left my house and my mum too and left for her room.
I have not been eating at home for 1 week now and I can’t even talk to my mum or answer her when she talk to me, I lost respect for her.
Please help! What should I do?

what u should do? .... Reconstruct the story and make it more interesting

Twinkle twinkle little star, point me to the nearest bar!

herald9:

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15. Let go of wanting to be repaid of every good deed you do. –
Don’t worry too much about what’s in it for you. If you’re
making a positive contribution to others, there’s always
something in it for you. You were born with the ability to
change someone’s life. Don’t ever waste it. Be kind. Be
present. Be someone who makes a difference.

16. Let go of all the little white lies and charades. – How do you
build credibility? It’s not rocket science. Be honest. Follow
through. Honor your promises. Say sorry when you screw up.
Be the type of person you want to meet and spend time with. Be
the type of person whose actions, words and values always
agree with each other.

17. Let go of any hypocrisy. – For instance, don’t pray when it
rains if you don’t pray when the sun shines.

18. Let go of putting everyone else’s needs in front of your own. –
Give as much as you can every day, but don’t allow yourself to
be used. Listen to others closely, but don’t lose your own voice.

19. Let go of fearing what your intuition is telling you to do. –
Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will. So don’t let fear
shut you down; let it wake you up. Do one thing every day that
scares you. The more that you act on your intuition fearlessly,
the more your intuition will serve you. If you genuinely feel
something, pay attention.

20. Let go of waiting for the stars to align. – Remember, you don’t
always need the perfect plan. Sometimes you just need to give
it a try, let go, and see what happens. Just do the best you can
until you know better. Once you know better, do better.

21. Let go of the need to get everything done at once. – Keep
going. True purpose has no time limit. True purpose has no
deadline. Don’t stress and overwhelm yourself. Just do what
you can right now.

22. Let go of the “all or nothing” mentality regarding success. –
Appreciate the grey area between the extremes of success and
failure – the journey, the process, the path – what you’re
learning, how you’re helping others learn too, and the growing
process you allow yourself to participate in. And above all,
never let success get to your head or failure get to your heart.

23. Let go of criticizing yourself. – Nobody is inspired by your
misery or self-deprecating comments. If you wish to inspire
yourself and others, be joyful. Have fun. Love yourself.
Forgive yourself. Accept yourself. Be unapologetically YOU.

24. Let go of those who say you aren’t attractive enough. – More
women worldwide are suffering from anorexia and bulimia than
are fighting breast cancer. There are similar statistics for men
too. Love yourself the way you are, because you are beautiful
just the way you are.

25.Let go of changing just to impress people. – Change because it
makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future.
Change because you know it’s the right thing to do for YOU.

26. Let go of needing everyone to like you. – Everyone doesn’t
need to like you, and some people won’t no matter what you do.
Try not to take the things these people say about you
personally. What they think and say is a reflection of them, not
you.

27. Let go of all negative influences. Period. – You can’t expect to
feel good if you surround yourself with negativity. Be with
those who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.

28. Let go of thinking that giving up the wrong things (and
relationships) means failure. – Giving up and moving on are
two very different things.

29. Let go of the idea that it’s too late to start over and get it
right. – Remember, it’s always better to be at the bottom of the
ladder you want to climb than the top of the one you don’t.

30. Let go of putting things off for one more day – Stop
procrastinating. Stop wishing for it and start working for it. Do
what you have to do today so you can do what you truly want to
do, and be where you truly want to be, tomorrow.


Happy new year in Advance !!!!

Now the New Year is just few hours from now, which
inspires many of us to refocus our energy and attention on the
right things, I think as we 'advance' into a new year we gat to start letting
go of the wrong things. Wouldn’t you agree?



1.Let go of your temper. – Never do something permanently
foolish just because you are temporarily upset.

2. Let go of petty grudges. – Life is far too short to be spent
nursing bitterness and registering wrongs. If there’s someone in
your life who deserves another chance, give it to them. If you
need to apologize, do it. Give your story together a happy, new
beginning.

3. Let go of the idea that everyone has it better than you. – If the
grass looks greener on the other side… Stop staring. Stop
comparing. Stop complaining and START watering the grass
you’re standing on.

4. Let go of lingering false beliefs. – Stop from time to time and
ask yourself, “Is it true?” It’s funny how we can sometimes
wrap our minds around things and fit them into our version of
reality. But thinking something does not make it true. Wanting
something does not make it real. So watch your thoughts. Be
wise. When your identity is not rooted in the truth, it can lead to
toxic and lonely places where we seek approval from the wrong
things.

5. Let go of expired ideals. – Growth is painful. Change is
painful. But in the end, nothing is as painful as staying stuck
somewhere you do not belong.

6. Let go of yesterday’s tragedies – You are not what has
happened to you; you are what you choose to become in this
moment. Drop the needless burden, take a deep breath and start
again. Ultimately, you will know you are on the right track in
life when you become disinterested in looking back, and eager
to take the next step.

7. Let go of your tendency to avoid problems. – You cannot
change what you refuse to confront.

8. Let go of life’s little annoyances. – Don’t let dumb little things
break your happiness. Frustration and stress come from the way
you react, not the way things are. Adjust your attitude, and the
frustration and stress is gone.

9. Let go of assuming other people are more “normal” than you.
– The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t
know very well. Period.

10. Let go acting unapproachable. – We all need
to learn to be more human. Don’t avoid eye contact. Don’t hide
behind gadgets. Smile often. Ask about people’s stories.
Listen.

11. Let go of the idea that some people are below you. – Even if
you’ve worked really hard to get to where you are in life,
there’s no such thing as a self-made person. Someone believed,
encouraged, and invested in you. Be grateful and be that
someone for others too. What goes around eventually comes
around. No one has ever made themselves strong in the long
run by showing how small someone else is. So don’t be lazy
and make assumptions about people. Ask about their story.
Then listen. Be humble. Be teachable. Be human. Be a good
neighbor.

12. Let go of the idea that you are what you physically own. –
You are an incredible human being who’s entirely detached
from what you have physically acquired in this world.
Remember to remain humble. Ultimately, two things define you
more than anything else: Your patience when you have very
little, and your attitude when you have more than enough.

13. Let go of wanting stuff you don’t need. – Don’t think of cost.
Think of value. And remember, it’s always easier to find wealth
by needing less, instead of making more and more and more.

14. Let go of seeking happiness from outside yourself. – In life,
you have to create your own sunshine. Happiness starts from
within. So read something positive every morning and do
something positive before you go back to sleep. Keep your
focus on all the positive possibilities and opportunities, and you
will feel great. Feel great, and you will do great things.

15. Let go of wanting to be repaid of every good deed you do. –
Don’t worry too much about what’s in it for you. If you’re
making a positive contribution to others, there’s always
something in it for you. You were born with the ability to
change someone’s life. Don’t ever waste it. Be kind. Be
present. Be someone who makes a difference.

sophieabou:
lol,m nt dah childish bae,,m guilty of none,bliv it or not.

owk o

cutieberie1:
...hmmm....z nt an anthem

hmm.. Xo wat is it?