The once elegant and beautiful edifice, prided to be the tallest building in anambra state, or perhaps the whole of the south east region is now overtaken by weed and animals due to years of neglect.
A thread was created back in 2019 when the structural masterpiece was completed, with people showing admiration and potential development the building would bring.
Dougyclan: Well, if she's still in love with her husband and want to keep him, let her go "Senyi Kai" is a harmless combination that will bring the man's head back home, and creates a peaceful home.
ColdHunter: I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.
Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.
Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?
Experienced people should please contribute.
Well, if she's still in love with her husband and want to keep him, let her go "Senyi Kai" is a harmless combination that will bring the man's head back home, and creates a peaceful home.
ColdHunter: I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.
Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.
Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?
Experienced people should please contribute.
In her case all she needs now is what we call (senyi kai) it will cost her 4000 to put together, that man will wash her clothes if she wants. 09034568201
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Alesa3341: Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.
I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.
When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.
Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.
I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.
Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.
Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.
I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!
Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.
Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?
You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?
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Apostle Dr Moses E. Itim is from Akwa Ibom state and he is the Apostle of Mount Zion Lighthouse Full Gospel Church at Ondo State. He is reported to have ran back to Akwa Ibom state.
So, I paid this guy 230K to help me setup something online and he failed to render the service for the past 9 months.
He promised to refund on the 31st of December, 2022 but he failed and complained again that he is expecting money from a platform by ending of February, 2023.
Please, how best can I get my money back from this guy :
1. Arrest him with the Police? 2. Get a Lawyer? 3. Arrest him with the Soldier?
The guy is in Owo, Ondo State, Nigeria
PS : If you can hook me up with a Soldier, I will appreciate.
Thanks x
Oga this is not soldier matter, it will only cost you 4,600 for the items needed to make him pay you your money without any further argument. That's a small issue. 09034568201
A popular Akwa Ibom live band entertainer, Soundcraft D Ritualist has been left heartbroken after his wife revealed to him in the presence of his children that he is not their biological father, GRASSROOT REPORTERS reports.
Taking to his Facebook page on Thursday, he said his wife saved one of her boyfriends' number as 'Pastor's Wife'. He also shared screenshots of his wife's conversation with her boyfriend, whom Truecaller identified as Godspower Abighe.
He wrote:
"Woow Just to come to realized that I’m not the biological father of this kids.. Mandu The Nsit Atai woman said this to my face this morning infront of my kids that I’m not their biological father that she’s taking them to their real father. Neighbors around were so shocked to hear her vomit such words.
"ME:- so all this while I have been suffering in vain chai. F-GENDER
"Normally I wouldn’t have bring this here but I’m doing this publicly based on my popularity because if you see this kids suffering tomorrow, nobody should blame me because I know she can’t take the responsibilities I was taking. Only their school fees is N202k (I have backed off)
"Fear NSIT ATAI WOMEN"
In another post, he wrote:
"Not even my death mother that will tell me to bring down that post.
"So it either you avoid the post or read and pass afteral she said it infront of those kids and the kids were shocked with tears when they heard her said I’m not their father.
"Read the screenshot shots below before telling me to take this down
"NSIT ATAI WOMAN saving man’s contact as pastor’s wife which I do take her phone to her to answer whenever the number calls thinking is pastor’s wife. I am off from this blue app.
"DNA test result will be posted here since she said I’m not the biological father of those kids"
The entertainer also shared another post, saying that he was depressed.
"DEPRESSED What a wasted years,Vanity upon vanity"
Karen2024: Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.
On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'
Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?
A single Nigerian lady says she wants to experience what it feels like to be a married woman in this lifetime.
The woman identified as Chris Amrah took to her social media page to lament that she is going into a new month and year still unmarried.
She said that though she’s heard different things about marriage, she can attest that being without a husband as a woman is depressing. She also said the fulfilment for a lady is to be in her husband’s house.
Amrah further said she would love to experience being submissive to her hubby, adding that ladies should forget about feminism.
She, however, thanked God for giving her good health and life, but she lamented that the fact she is still not in her husband’s house is something that worries her.
Deeprooted: She resumed work yesterday after the Christmas break. Around 10:23am, she sent me text she's not feeling fine and needed to go home for treatment.
Being the head of her department,I told her to hold on till I get the office, which she did. When I arrived, I told her to go the hospital she is using as her HMO but she insisted on going home so she was permitted to go.
I instructed my secretary to call to check up on her which she did and discovered she traveled via night bus to the East, Anambra State particularly. I then called her 3 times without her picking up the calls. Put a call accross to her guarantor who informed me they are on their way to Anambra. The guarantor was surprised she didn't inform me of their journey which was slated for this morning (31st December).
The matter has been reported at the police station.
She left with a total of 3.6M in possession.
What other action will you advise me to take?
Oga with just 2000, you can call that girl back from wherever she is.
SojWORLDWIDE: THE Nigerian Army has denied the rescue or release of a Female Army Officer identified as Lieutenant PP Johnson held captive by members of IPOB/ESN since December 26, 2022 in Imo State community.
The Army gave the Press Statement signed by the Director Army Public Relations, Brigadier--General ONYEMA NWACHUKWU released on its Official Twitter Page available to SOJ WORLDWIDE on Friday, the statement said the female officer is yet to be rescued contrary to the news making the rounds on Social Media.
Press Statement "ABDUCTED FEMALE OFFICER NOT YET RESCUED, SEARCH EFFORT STILL ONGOING The attention of the Nigerian Army (NA) has been drawn to some publications circulating in the social media insinuating the rescue of Lieutenant PP Johnson, a female officer who was abducted on Monday 26 December 2022 while visiting her grandmother in Aku-Okigwe in Imo State, shortly after completion of her Cadet training and subsequent commissioning as a Lieutenant into the Nigerian Army.
A video footage of her abduction had emerged in the social media where her abductors claimed her abduction was in line with their fight for Biafra against the Nigerian State. It is instructive that the officer’s circumstance as a woman and a Nigerian citizen of South Eastern extraction did not dissuade her abductors from dehumanizing her in their mindless attempt to commit atrocities under the guise of fighting for Biafra.
This evidently is another pointer to the myriads of crimes being unleashed by IPOB/ ESN on Ndigbo, the very people they claim to be fighting for their emancipation. It should therefore be crystal clear to those who are still in doubt of the true status of these groups, that IPOB/ESN are terrorists, masquerading as freedom fighters and do not deserve the support of anyone particularly the good people of South East Nigeria.
The NA wishes to state that the information making the rounds is unsubstantiated as the officer is yet to be released or rescued from her abductors. Likewise, the video footage being circulated and associated with the rescue claim is an old video of the arrest of a suspect earlier effected by troops.
Much as we appreciate the concern and goodwill of the general public for her safe rescue, we also wish to note that the information on the rescue of the officer did not emanate from the NA. READ ALSO: FIVE Aggrieved PDP Governors make demands too bitter to swallow before Tinubu
The Nigerian Army will leave no stone unturned in its effort to rescue the officer and bring the perpetrators to book.
We appeal to the general public to provide credible and reliable information that could lead to her safe rescue and arrest of the perpetrators."
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cassie0000: Good Day everyone Please My father died over 10 years ago We are six children from my father Since our dad died our elder brother has been the only beneficiary of our father's estate He is far older than the other five children
Since my father died our eldest brother has been the only major benefactor from our father’s estate He has built himself different businesses including a hotel bought lands and landed properties and gifted different people goods, property and huge amount of money But the remaining five of us nothing
Momsi took him to court since 2015 when momsi has been in court nothing has changed This is just a summary of everything that has been happening And sincerely dunno what to do It's not fair that only our senior brother is benefiting from what our father left behind And the only benefit we have gotten is our fees been paid as dad died when we were much younger And I sincerely do not know what to do
I had similar case, but i was told what to do, which i did and am ready to tell anyone with such problems. Pls it doesn't include killing anyone. It's annoying 09034568201, I confidently left my number here.
Newsmic: The spokesperson of the Lagos state police command, SP Benjamin Hundeyin, has shared the photo of ASP Dambri Vandi, the officer who allegedly shot dead Lagos lawyer, Bolanle Raheem, at Ajah roundabout on Christmas day, December 25, IGBERETV reports.
He posted the photo on his Twitter page and wrote;
3310adeb: Compliment Of The Season To All Nairalanders.
I Worked As A Valet Attendant In One Of The Night Club At V.I And Guess What,I received Alert Of Unexpected 600k This Morning,
Valet Attendant Is Someone That Take Cars From The Quest That Comes To A Particular Places, Parked It And Hold Unto The Key Till They Are Living, And This Mostly Come With Tips And Some Other Kindness,
So Right Now, I have Several Customers, (Dignitaries) That Have Took My Account Number And Promise To Make Me And My Family Smile, But I'm Confused Because #600,000 Is Not A Joke
ThereFore, My People I need Your Advice
Both Constructive And Insultive Ones Are Welcome Because I understand The Tradition In Nairaland Thanks
merry Xmas bro, later you fit just push like 10k to me. Nothing dey happen flex jarre...
I got this new 1000 naira notes like 30 pieces this morning in between many old notes.
I sorted it out and just run all through mercury light because I was in a rush to check it individually. Everything was fine.
But I was shocked when i got to the bank, I was told the golden security detail is missing on 1 of the 1000 naira notes, even though all other details were present.
It was also validated under their mercury light at the bank and it was valid.
Long story short, it was tagged fake and perforated. Could this be an error from CBN or Fake money has bypassed the mercury light check?
Now you fit just add some more colours to it if you not ok with the painting....
Properties › Re: Tallest Building In Anambra State Abandoned (Video, Pictures) by Dougyclan: 7:55pm On Jan 22, 2023
