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ronald4lif:
I read some saying if a man cheats a woman too should but how many women have the emotional sturdiness and stability to cheat randomly as compared to the men?

How many married women can embark on a fvcking spree without feeling worthless and empty even as some have now mastered the act of body counts? What concerns an average guy with keeping tab of the women he has shagged.

A man can fvck Temi, Oge, Amina on same day without even remembering the next morning, how many women can to do this compared to men? If you think you have what it takes to cheat as much as men then feel free to do so make we see who go taya.

Wow! Have you been a woman before?

Dirkcoyt:
All married women on this thread are retards who live in self denial! toks2008 questions are reality check you can find in every part of the world.

We cheat cause its just a natural phenomenon without an answer to, it doesn't mean we don't love you just the way we're wired!

Y'all men should leave all these creatures that are controlled by emotions than using their brains. I only pity the married folks who live with you married lots on these thread cause you're really something deluded.

As for me I'm of the opinion that I'm liberal in any relationship I'm in, I Bleep other women then you Bleep other men, you can do this if you not caught if you're caught you get kicked out! I own my home and my stipends that runs the home, reasons I say a man should be made before marrying if you want to all, if she bleeps up then she get kicked out!

Your mother is a retard!!

So you know you cannot kick her out of the family home. It will take an ignorant woman to leave her family home just like that!!!

Badgers14:
One cup of coffee for you abegi....

I remember Paul's interview with Naij.com and he mentioned most of the things that Peter is saying abot how the brothers dpn get along business wise that was why Peter started his own show dance with Peter and Endorsements from Olympic milk and Paul started Rudeboys record and signed Muno..
According to Paul, Psquare missed out on Phyno and the deal btw Cynthia Morgan was kinda shade the team was not pleased with the whole drama which echoed what Peter is saying....
Like you said Jude is that over bearing elder brother that thinks because he is the older one, he should pontificate on what goes on both business wise and on their personal lifes.. Why didn't he attend Peter's weeding Why would they share their $ equal with Jude, he is just thier manager not a partner..

Paul have said things he shouldn't have. Like how he has been writing all their songs or how Peter did this or that.

I think they should share everything equally for peace to reign. It became a family business when they made him their manager and it seems like both Jude and Paul believe that he has not contributed much to the label and their success.

NiGeRianTr0ll:
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/lel1.gif

Please only quote me if your IQ enters the 3 digit zone....I APPRECIATE YOU

Will you shut up!

sinizia:



Aww. Pele. But you know Karma is a biatch. You got me my first ban on NL. You threw shots at me sublimnally on that infamous day, and when i retaliated, Antispambot banned my ass for breaking rule 2 (you must have forgotten plus i never complained openly about my unjustified imprisonment). Let's just say justice has been served finally.

Hehehehehehe

Look atew

I will remember you in my prayers

sinizia:
You got banned for that word only? Or cos of your general harshness and brashness?

Ermmmmm.... I am neither

I asked Vanquay to 'STFU' and also called him ‘rude thing'. The coward moderator classified it an attack and banned me.

sinizia:
what made you think such?


Insomnia is slaying me without mercy, and you?

I don't know

Same. My fault though

Tolatutu:
I'am married, stop assuming we're all single

Biko add jobless, dependent and lazy to it

mizquote:
I'm not surprised you re yoruba.

you see, the world isn't as it use to be where women were treated as foot mat and slaves the world has evolved and its still doing.


women re now self independent, educated and have dignity. marriage is not the ultimate, apostle paul said marriage wasn't meant for everyone.


marriage is a fusion of two brings that is why the bible said the two shall be one, as the man and woman body belongs not to themselves but to each other.


I will never ever stay with an unrepentant philander. marriage is not for cheating and no cheating for in the bible marriage can be dissolved on the basis of sexual infidelity.


I better divorce him because I can never pretend to ignore him if hes a bloody cheat.

I may re-marry to a man I'm sure won't cheat if he repeat same I will do same.


with the kind of women I see now I am proud of how our future daughters will be, strong, intelligent and confident.

You are a bigot!

Toks2008:
Agreed but the question i need to ask os this;..Is any man worth making you stoop so low to a slutty level? Does it make sense to turn yourself to a LovePeddler because one regberegbe philanderer can't keep his kini inside his boxers?

Common..i think ladies who cheat as a revenge have smuttiness in them but just waiting for an excuse to unleash it because no one can ever make you do what you are not capable of.

You are a hypocrite!

I don't see you calling men who cheat, dogs?

sinizia:
It still beats my imagination how some/many people still take this OP's threads serious. I usual ignore ALL his threads cos of his skewed mindset and condescending views especially against women. He usually hides his misogynistic and pervasive beliefs sublimnally between several avalanche of poorly-constructed dissertations OR migrane-inducing sanctimonious epistles. What a dumb and pathetic thread. Just man up and say you support men cheating.

I thought you were a misogynist

What's up?

Henrique4real:
There are reasons to call this thread worldly facts of life but I tell you OP, there are more and too many reasons to call it IDIOTIC. I really don't like abusing but jeez! What is wrong with these male mentality u people are selling everywhere. U guys better be very careful cos this whole package is really suggestive of the life u pple have chosen and indirectly forcing the female folks to be complacent about and accept when u cannot accept same as a male. Forget about the deception where u listed options.its clear form the tone that u have already chosen an option for the females. Infact none of ur options are good. Can u imagine? What u cannot take, ur hands are fast to type and suggest! Msheew!

There are two options

1) lets both genders frown at it or
2) Let's condone it while women keep creating alternatives

Amelian:
I don't have time to hate...
No time Mehn... when am thinking of how to expand my biz... no time for such headaches..
Lol, and U say amebo.


Your own Aproko has no boundary..
Number 1 of Africa... abeg go siddon... elders are talking, U r there screaming amebo... U go scream taya..

What business?

Hate Omotayo all you want, she is going nowhere

amdoyin82:
pls tell them.. Tribalism and discrimination is realy the cause of the fight. Peter marries Lola which d family dislikes. Paul sees himself as a king because he always lead d song.

And Jude thinks he is God because he should his car..... This is really getting clearer.

sukkot:
shows you yoruba women are stronger than igbo men. a yoruba woman influencing an igbo man to destroy his own family ? she no fit try that one with yoruba man na. na why she marry igbo man wey she go fit control

I like that twist

Wize1:
Bro you need not get yourself worked up over these morons. You read some comments and you wonder how dumb and naive majority of Nigerian netizens are. Imagine someone opening his mouth to say Jude should leave because Nigerians only know peter and paul. Since when did fame become a factor for superiority in a business venture?

Partners started from nothing all together, put their sweat and blood to build a business brand Psquare( which is way beyond either of the individuals). Jude sold his car to invest in the business. Now the money and fame is here, Peter suddenly feels he is the hero, retutns from squatting with Eto'o in Europe, goes to twitter to say he's fired one of the partners and Jude is supposed to carry his bag and go home? Paul is supposed to show up in the studio the following day for Psquare rehearsals?

SMH to these ignorant comments.

What does selling his care have to do with anything? Should they ensure his BS because he voluntarily sold his car to help them?

The way some of you reason sef

Amelian:
Skipping brother's wedding should not cause such great rift and breakup.. if Lola were wise, she would have calmed Peter and told him that with time his family will love and accept her but no she didn't say such.. I bet she would have been grumbling for months about it. When a sibling takes a wrong step in his other sibling's life.. especially when it comes to marriage, the woman should try and make peace in between.. not holding onto grudges.. two wrongs can never make right.
Now see what because I no attend wedding cause now?
So much money will be lost as from henceforth.. if their split is finalized.
....... their empire spilted.. endorsement deal will reduce as the years go by..
More competitions between brothers, to show who go succeed pass the other.
Mehn, who needs that such headaches between blood brothers...if they are just friends it's different but blood? Cmon? And
All because of a woman who feels she has been slighted by an in law..
I.wonder how some women think sha...
I honestly wonder...
Sighs

Your hatred knows no bound. Hater!

Amebo! Liar!

Toks2008:
you better wake up from your fantasy world into reality.

No sir

It is you that needs to wake up....21st century has made things easier and almost perfect.

I watched two documentaries recently. One was about the rise of GILF and manwhores/sugarboys...Oops! I think I am still dreaming.

Toks2008:
I don't know how to explain this.

I am not encouraging any man to cheat on their wives but these things happen in 7 out of 10 cases and this is why i threw this very sensitive and vital questions for married ladies to ponder over.

I dont know but i presume you are still young to understand this. Pretty face or sexy body does not keep a man faithful to a woman, please go out and you will be amazed at the number of sexy pretty ladies that are single and ready to mingle and its like these babes do not give a fvk if the man is married or not so lets leave sentiments,im not saying there are no faithful men out there and im not going to pretend that im unaware of the fact that many marriages crash today because of this monster called infidelity.

Yet i have seen countless number of ladies change man after man until many men have really used them before they realize that there is more to life than being a robocop over a man's fidelity.

So these questions are for those who find themselves with a cheating hubby and for those who divorcees the question is if the second one does same wil they continue their quest?

I want evry lady reading this to let this sink...your happiness in life or marriage must never be hinged on a man's fidelity towards you else you will only live a miserable life because some ladies are out there to unseat you from your marriage.

Its so foolish that some ladies just rush out of their marriage to give room for a side chic to come dominate a home they have built for years and ironically these ladies go out to start sleeping around with even worse guys MOST TIMES and only very minute few get another hubby fast enough.

I have really tried to make this explicit.

See no randy man in 95% of the case is ready to give up his precious woman or wife for a desperate low self esteem lady but he just wants to have her as a side meal and in most cases what we have is husband sharers and not snatchers but it is the wife at home thaat willingly give up her man to be snatched and men as weak as they are will always be carried away by the tot of having a new body to explore so once you leave the lady moves in and take over the man and the man forgets you ever exists and worse still the so called lady divorcees end up living a solitary life or even start frolicking about with useless men so who is fooling who.

If every lady can understand how to remain indifferent, trust me, that randy hubby will always eat these desperate ladies and run back to you.

Used who?

Are you referring to the consensual act they engaged in? Chai!

njokusboy:
So you guys are essentially "follow follow" with no minds of your own..
Why then do you dispute the notion that males are superior, you have clearly stated that you do only what a man does....
People who call women "zombies" surely have a strong argument.

Would you say your mum is a zombie?

Joy1706:
Na no. 4 sure pass o. I know of someone wwho husband was a chronic cheat. She prayed o, begged o every every. One day she told him to his face that th days of her being faithful are over. Now na she dey do pass the man. The man has begged, threatened, reported her. For where? He can't chase her out as she contributed to the building of the house. Now the man don mellow but the woman's own just dey start

This is why I dey tell women to have lives outside marriage. If it comes to the worse, na to ask him to leave the house for her

Toks2008:
Freecoco you are on your own o. Whatever rocks your boat.

Sometimes i laugh at some ladies that hink cheating is a way of revenge. T will surprise them when it dawns on them because the same man you cheat with will tell you to your face how useless you are...

We are living n a wicked world of men.

I don't know the spirit that makes you think that a woman will die if her husband calls her useless?

You need to upgrade yourself. Surround yourself with women not dummies!!!

Toks2008:
Absolutely you are free to cheat on a vheating hubby...its your choice as long as you can bear the stigma.

See dont ever be among those who claim equality with men when it comes to philandering except you just want to jettison your essence as a woman.

If you are divorced base on adultry,walahi it will take the grace of God to find even a blind man to marry you except he has no clue...be wise.

What stigma? Do you live in a village?

Toks2008:
Kilode gan?

You see me for dream?

Abeg free me.

We are in this together

Toks2008:
The last time i checked,these questioons were meant for married ladies and not teenagers or unmarried ladies in their adolescent ages.

Coming from who has never cheated or dated more than two ladies......sincerely you are in no position to tell what a 21st century woman what to do

cococandy:

You guys are cracking me up.

This is the reason why many Nigerian men aren't the father of their kids.
Then after 20yrs of playing away match in the marriage, they have the nerve to ask for aDNA test for their kids. As if their wives no sabi that thing wey them sabi.

When their own offspring litter other men's homes. What's the problem in helping their guys raise their kids while they are helping you raise yours? The circle of life ehn.

I am laughing like a mad woman at the bolded


Biko it should be we lead while they follow

Timbuktou:
You have answered your first paragraph in your second. There's no need to list that option because it goes without saying that the woman never married or intended to marry a cheater. The cheater was, in the beginning, a "faithful man" wasn't he?

And then you say there's a lie that all men cheat, that's true. It is a lie. But in a case where the woman finds her second "faithful husband" has cheated, what is she to do with the five options listed in the OP? We can address this thread based on the OP or you could just start your own counter-thread.

She woudl remarry again or starts cheating too

Life is not hard at all

Toks2008:
Please put yourself in the shoes of the man and see if it makes sense for me to spend thousands of my hard earned money to divorce a lady and then makes her very free to be with the man. Never will i be that foolish.

It will be on record that she has cheated so that at anytime she wants to make trouble with the new woman she just won't be able to do that so let her go look for money and divorce herself and i will let her go.

How would you know she is cheating?

Married women they cheat wella....magun wasn't created today

Go figure

Toks2008:
See with your parrot mouth if i marry you and you cheat on me i will just start acting like norrin happen and start treating you like real slut,nd i wll hatesvrw you in ways you cant imagine while looking for another lady to marry because to me you are no longer my wife but a slut.

God forbid that i spend a kobo to file for divorce but you must do that if you want to move on which i will gladly consent to.

You talking about her continuous act of cheating is inconseequential to me.

What does a man who has been with just two women knows about slut-shaming?

Kilode100 go fit you die

Toks2008:
I laugh at your ignorance because you just responded to a comment from a lady who is yet to understand a dint of what marriage is all about.

This thread was nver for the unmarried and the best they would have done was to view and learn.

FYI im just trying to learn the act of philandering because up til now i dont even know how it feels dating different ladies cos for the past 20yrs of my life i hve really been with just two ladies and i was married to the latter and stayed faithful but the problem is that ladies love liies,they are so gullible and that is why smart guys take you all for a ride.

I wont bother explaining anything to people who have no clue about marriage.When they get married they will understand better.

Ladies love lies...agreed

But you....you don't even know who you are

Take jaybee's advice please