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lezz:
You're often wont to edit your posts, sparking conflict of response.

Gather your thoughts like your make-up accessories before you hit the submit button.

Men are still exploring Mars, the Artic and Outer space today as they explored your village and founded it millions of years ago .

Evolution can't be altered by theories or debate.

Evolution has designed you for millions of years never to take risks and be adventurous.

That's why you bleed once month and have PMS sickness and symptoms, that's why you carry the foetus for 9 months and nurse it for years of its infancy.

Feminism is the dumbest idea ever put forward.

Evolution has chosen your role and all the books, seminars and rantings won't alter it.

And I won't be reading the other long quote of donkeyshit you dropped ealier.

You're too young, too troublesome and too inexperienced a tiro for me.

You are too deluded for me.

The same stvpid argument again. The question is can I bloody do it and can you do it, and the common sense answer is fvcking yes.

HaneefahRN:
My grandma had her business o cos her own mother stressed the need for her to be empowered rather than dependent on a man who can then chose to treat her as he likes.

Some men don't just care about responsibilities, they want it all. If you knew how lots of those some of those grandmas you call happy suffered in the hands of their husbands ehn. Many just had to endure marriage cos of what the people will say and of course they are dependent. Money is power, and money doesn't make one less feminine, whatever that means.

That was in the past o. Now we all make leeway in our careers, and make our life decisions. A woman can chose to be a house wife or career woman, it's her life.

i don't know who these people think they are talking to especially when it comes to a professionally driven woman

Why should I be able to afford 5 clothes as a full-time house wife because my husband does not like to do domestic chores? When I could afford 10 if I am working? Why should I send my kids to terrible schools because my husband wants someone at home, when I know that with my job I could afford better school?

What we have now are lazy and moro.nic men who have chosen not to change because of its advantages. Bunch of big babies who wouldn';t mind if their wives bathed for them, brush their teeth, wipe their asses after pooing.

lezz:
It's a tricky one for modern women, having to define their role in motherhood, wife, a professional and a career woman.

Our grandmothers didn't have it this tough.

But I think men caught up with the Feminist rant asking women to go live their dreams and be whatever they want.

Now no one seems able to draw the line between a woman's role in the house and her career.


Men can never be domesticated, his nature is adventurous and exploring.

Same way women can never be altered to be career driven and running after the rat race!
She'll always be drown to their children and husband.

Your caring nature isn't made to withstand the dogfight of power, glory and risky adventures.

Biggest lie ever

Keep deceiving yourself

The earlier you realise that it lies with how they have been brought up, the better for you.


I have met men who do not mind doing domestic chores. Why? Upbringing; they do not believe that marriage should absolve them from taking care of themselves and their environment; and personal factors.

In those days, our mothers used to have lots of kids and relatives. Even a new wife is given a small child when she is going to her husband's house. They do not live in the type of buildings we live now. They do not need to do the things we have to do today to make the house orderly.

Why do you think older people tend to be very good with apportioning chores?

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You still do not understand why we are here

One of the main reasons women were prompted to seek financial empowerment, to be self sustainable lies on the rationale that money is power. I am not referring to our forefathers here in Africa. I am talking about women who came afterwards. There was a shift in gender balance when the white man came. I THINK IT WORSENED THINGS.

However in the west, that was one of the primary reasons for feminist movement. And they were right to have demanded for economic empowerment. Money is everything now. You can say whatever you like. in the 21st century, if you do not have power, you are nothing.

The day man stops attributing power, control and authority to money, we might just be willing to sit at home all day and cook and clean.

Ehm, to your point, having women walk long hours, join the rat race, office fights, promotion struggle, competing for office bonuses is not what most women are cut ought for.

hey make the money and lost their womanhood, nowadays married women are transferred out of their husbands' state of residence. Isn't that evil?

It wasn't so in the distant past, a woman working in state or federal civil service is often exempted from transfers away from her husband. It's no longer so.

When you observe things, you seem to selectively pick what you like and disregard the rest. FYI, My greatgrandma used to leave her husband and children in Ijebu and walk for days to Oyo to buy Aso Ebi to sell in Ijebu.

It was easy for them because they lived in a family compound with other members of the family. Even when they do not share compound, they share simple things like food. People do not live like that any longer.

I don't know where you come from but women in my ethnic group were extremely hard-working. They even travelled as far as the Northern parts of Nigeria and beyond just to trade.

You cannot tell me what is womanlike. I have my boobs and vagina to prove that. Thanks for the unnecessary concerns.


Transfer or no transfer. It shouldn't be so for couples. The Western society have managed to live without it. In situations where transfer is necessary, they give you an allowance to move and offer other support. If it were a promotion for your wife, would you rather the family stay with you because you are a man instead of moving with your wife. Men who choose to be inflexible have decided not to consider their wives professional lives as an integral part of the family. Shikena!

Why wouldn't they be sad?

They are not more or less sad because of it. There have been lots of injustices against women to be sad about. Making money and kicking asses are definitely not part of it.

SmartChoices:
dear take it easy o... epe ke lenu Hajia?

Not my fault

komododragons:
this is what WOMEN always know how to do!

talk talk talk and abuse.


who will even marry you!


have a nice day

Is that what your mother does?

Sexist pig!

Loser!

komododragons:
yes!

You would only beat mofos not someone like me

I bet a woman should also beat and almost kill a husband that doesn't act accordingly

Is that how your father used to beat your mother?

May your daughters and sisters be beaten too

Olorib..uruku

I know men like you.

You have poor social skills and the only way you can communicate is through violence.

Los..er!

Olo..shi with an inferiority complex

Left to me, I will gladly pois..on you and send you to the great beyond

komododragons:
says who?

this one deals with anger management and the relationship is not even healthy when one can't control her angers.

until she carry knife come kill him before you go characterize the relationship as unhealthy

one need to act fast before it get out of hands and now is the time for him to either beat the hell out of her and show her that he is the man or take her to a psychiatric hospital.
but I knew you know that she won't even agree to this bolded option because no Nigeria WOMAN WILL ever admit that she has a mental problem until its too late.

So it is okay to beat a woman who doesn't act accordingly?

Lezzlie:
Stupid man, loser! These are the adjective and nouns you just cursed me with

I don't need voodoo powers to know I got to you deep down, baby

If you continue like this, Aisha will end her days fulfilled as a woman and you'll be be an overeducated, sad lovelorn crone!!!


No matter how educated you end up being, you will prioritise a loving home of your children and husband more than work, or career or power.


Oh, and your type of men are the well-dressed, creamed-up, sweet-tongued losers who will milk you of your physical and material nectar and dump you like a discarded banana peel to look for another fool of fantasy and ideological maladjusted newt

A real man will find you incompatible and just another male with a longer hair.

Quasi-male

You wish

You and I know that you are a joke


I am quasi-male, I am a she-male. Infact, I have got testes

Whatever,

It won't stop us from making you open countless threads

Farano and Roctation

daretodiffer here, I was banned by the antispam bot after I had edited my posts. Can you please look into it?

joseph1832:
Now that's a thing of choice. I know many women who are married and are being battered by their husbands, yet, the chose to remain in such abusive marriage.

Now even I can't argue this. Yes I believe attitude is everything. I've lost count how many times I've seen and heard some women lament that they wish their kids have the influence of a father in their lives, that's after realizing at a stage that all children, need the influence of a father in their life.

Like I said earlier, a primordial society... I can successfully handle any single lady, I've never been a coward, just as long she doesn't wake up one morning and say "when are you going to propose to me?" Seen this one time too many.

I want to believe you're among the women who tow this line of thought.

Why don't you read her post again? This time, read and understand it

RadicallyBlunt:
Nigerians overrate marriage that's the issue. Although it has advantages but has demerits too. Its like sweet honey packed up in a swarm of deadly bees..how can one reach d honey? Actually God has blessed some women without marriage (although such women usually have their wealth traced to their father/family or father's connectivity) but actually too, for a woman to feel comfortable abt being single at 40, definitely there's an iota of bitterness in her.

Averagely a lady at early 20s is more enthusiastic about marriage than a guy of same age..it just means a lot to them that even d guys wonder if they can ever attain the financial level of whoever is making these ladies freak out and find marriage so appealing that they envy and talk abt their friends marriages till it appears as if a man who can't do such is a failure.

To now find such an lady at 40 with so much un-interest about marriage that she was once flakky about, definitely bitterness must have taken the enthusiastic heart over.

You are very daft

henrydadon:
when i saw how beautiful and sexy that girl in his ay crib show is.. the one he calls "mimi"..i knew his marriage wont last long

Mimi is married

Amelian:
Jeez..! are u for real?
Cmon Ay takes her to every fcking events! Her evening wears, her clothes , shoes are very lovely and looks expensive.. And its not like she works.. She doesnt have a job! Except following Ay to events and take care of kids..
I doubt the abuse story.. Nah, i dont believe it..

I bet one big boi out there is telling her stories bigger than the type of story Ay is dishing out..
Chai....
And my instincts told me , this one Ay dey display him wife for every events and parties he goes to... Showing off those boobies... Na wahala he dey cause for himself oooo... The wahala don land nw...
Well their cup of tea... Ay sorry, next time if u guys reconcile or u marry someonelse , learn not to bring her along with u on every celeb occassions.. Let her manage the home and do a flexible buisness along the line thats different from showbiz.
Not all women can handle the heat , games, tricks , and dirty things that comes with the limelight , especially if shes sexy and pree..
Sighs
Drops mic...!

Will shut up for once? We both know that you are a fvcking transexual.

Loser!

cr7lomo:
If this is the case, then it is quite unfortunate...most women can b very unappreciative , he brings u from no where to somewhere and another guy from no where comes and u mumulishly listen and follow him

Mumulishly... Nice word for Webster, should be considered

Which one is most women?

Stop believing an transexual idi.ot

AyeeIdris:
This coming from a girl is terrible. So because a man spends money on his wife or takes her to places with him means there could not possibly be domestic violence Realllyyyyyy? She must be cheating Cos Ay must be a saint? Person wey you no know? Women remain their worst enemies. Anyways, we do not know what's going on with them and it truly concerns no one but them.

It is a he not a she.

Go through her post history

enieme:
Im guessing the op is yoruba. Cos that permision on more than one wife is like their most liked part of islam

Really? What about Atiku and other Hausa/Fulani men that have more than one wife?

SETechyBlog:
The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a 34-year-old trader, Mallam Isiaka, for allegedly we learnt that Isiaka was arrested and detained on Saturday by the Iju Police Division after the victim, Christopher, (pseudonym), complained about pains in the anus to his mother.

Christopher, a primary 1 pupil, who stayed with his family on Coker Alhaja Street, Old Akute Road, Iju, was said to have opened up to his mother that Isiaka allegedly raped him through the anus at different times when she sent him to buy items from the trader.


Our correspondent gathered that the boy was taken to the Mirabel Centre for tests which revealed that the boy had been slept with through the anus. Further tests to ascertain infections were carried out on him.

The mother thereafter reported the matter at the police station and Isiaka was arrested on Saturday.

we learnt that Christopher also told his mother that he could not open up on the incident because the suspect allegedly threatened that he (Christopher) would die if he reported anything to his parents.

a neighbour, who identified herself only as Olawumi, said the parents first became suspicious when Christopher was sent on an errand penultimate Monday and he came back with his pants soaked after staying longer than usual.

She said, “Isiaka sells items across the road in his shop. The boy’s parents used to send him on errands to the shops. He bought household items like sugar, milk and biscuits from Isiaka. We call him mallam.

“It was on Saturday that the boy got the courage to open up on the incident. The boy said mallam had been raping him in his shop anytime he ran errands for his parents.

“The boy said the mallam warned him that if he opened up to his mother, he was going to die. The mother calmed him that he was not going to die as the mallam threatened.

“About two Mondays ago, the boy came back from school and he was asked to go and buy items from the shop. He came back with his pants soaked. He later confessed that the mallam had raped him about eight times.”

Another neighbour, who gave his name as Chukwuka, said, “The mallam is not known with any wife though he has stayed long in this area. The baffling thing is how he did it eight times and nobody caught him for once in the shop.

“The boy went to the hospital on Sunday and the tests came out positive that he had been raped.

See full story and pictures at http://setechy..com.ng/2016/02/woman-rapes-nine-year-old-boy-in-lagos.html[color=#990000][/color]

Liar!

SETechyBlog:
Thirteen-year-old Pelumi Fawibe, an apprentice photographer, has yet to recover from pains after his boss, Olajide Olaoye, reportedly damaged his scrotum while he was beating him with a wire for being obstinate.

Our correspondent learnt that the boy had been living with the boss for three years before the incident happened on Sunday, February 15, at his shop in Ile Epo bus stop, Badagry, Lagos.

Fawibe was said to have been admitted to the Badagry General Hospital, while the boss was arrested by the police from Area K, but was released afterwards.



We heard from Residents around Olaoye’s shop that on Monday that the boss had consistently assaulted the boy.

An eyewitness, who identified himself only as Gbade, said the extent of the injury to Fawibe’s private parts prompted people to alert the police.

He said, “The boy’s scrotum became swollen and was bleeding after he beat him up. He claimed the wire hit the boy’s private parts by accident. We invited the police who arrested him, but he had been released. He said the boy was stubborn. Is that how to discipline?”

see complete story and photo at http://setechy..com.ng/2016/02/oga-damages-13-year-old-apprentices.html

What stupid correspondent? You should be ashamed of yourself

kilode100:
Which Blessed? Person wey born Toto full house?..

What is that supposed to mean?