₦airaland Forum

vexing:
Don't be disappointed. You expected a guy you just met a month ago to pay your house rent when he is not your brother, boyfriend or father and you don't expect him to ask for something in return. You must be one hell of dull lady. Smh

Emeskhalifa:
even if a guy has d intent to help, bros wen u consider d character of our naija girls eh, u wont help. help them without askin for s.ex and see how they (ladies) will tag u as mugu. infact wan go even call u m.u.m.u sef.
so u see.....dat tit for tat is d best

beeserious:
Please Lady Doveda control yourself.U can make your point without abuses you know.
So you think its ok for a girl to ask a practical stranger, a man,for money and for him to just give her just like that.When we were little,our parents beat us if they even heard that we begged for food from our classmates or worse, asked a stranger for money.
This scenario is no better. Thank you

Odunharry:
doveda and manie nice one..
Oga manie I Lik ur maturity and doveda I'm happy you apologized.

Doveda will advice never to use any foul word on anybody here evn offline..Trust me it's a very dirty,ill mannered and repulsive attitude.
However, I must commend you for the apologies.

dBard:
Its Sunday...Am sure ur going to church, it being the first and all..make good use of the opportunity and pray/anoint yourself to receive sense.........


And Grace to control the long throat.....


Agbaya.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]more bans are coming.

And not like she can even insult sef. I almost killed her the last time. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]The more you think you are victimizing me the more your troubles on Nairaland will increase.

I'm an untouchable god [/color]

Cesclxg:
As I said before, I really think it is a good bargain. A night of hot steamy sex for #40k. That's some people monthly salary. Mind u, I am not saying u sud do the act. Far from it. The Scientist in me is just weighing the scale. I do that alot. However, if u eventually do succumb to the pressure and end up taking the man up on the deal, take consolation in the fact that he says he loves you. Who knows, one night of sex may make u feel the same way about him too. Who knows, he cud end up being ur husband. God works in mysterious ways!

Ravenwolf:
Matter of fact everyone's morality is dictated by a potential profit or loss, you are not exempt.

Still within the context of "ways of achieving Sexual satisfaction/ intimacy", so you find it immoral to use your looks or personality to get sex? If you don't, why do you kick so vehemently against using your money to get sex. One thing comes to mind; Double standards!!


As long as you are a Human, you can never be truly morally perfect.

safarigirl:
low doesn't even begin to describe them. scum of the earth is more appropriate

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]LOL it's not rhetorical!

What did you do that got you banned?

I think I'm enjoying this victim ish because it seems you are the one suffering from it. More bans [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol...I'm happy about your ban.

What did you do?

And errmmm....you keep following me about, is it your own way of showing green light? [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]so you have two accounts? Lol.

Anyway Don't really expect anything from me. There was nothing special in what I said than the fact of things.

So I don't get why you are surprised. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And I don't even know you! [/color]

armadeo:
The kudos would be on me to prepare her with enough sense and morals to be able to make good decisions and not depend on handouts from anybody.

What you fail to understand is that propositions are made everyday it's up to you to rationalize it for either 'aye' or 'nay'.

Bank loans
Job seekers
Promotions
Admissions.

The world ain't fair understand that you'll probably survive.

JOESAJIB:
WOMEN AND MONEY. MEN AND SEX. NAWAOOOOOOOOO!
This is what we call TIT FOR TAT

Cesclxg:
Don't blame the guy... The heart wants what the heart wants... Sometimes desire clouds one's judgement.

dBard:
Takes a particular character/personality for someone to accept an offer from a TOTAL stranger to pay for an accommodation that she'll stay in without batting an eyelid and yet come afterwards with the same self righteous hypocritical bullcrap..

Issorait.

P.s..Next time, politely reject. It's d honourable tin to do.


Nonsense and ingredients

armadeo:
From an economic stand point. Indecent proposal comes to mind.

Btw your logic made me laugh.

Guys should free the baby parrot chirping up and down. Logic cannot be understood by the illogical.

In my opinion an offer was made and it was refused. Case closed.

manie:
Apology accepted, you have earned my respect through your act of humility.

Cesclxg:
U sud consider the girl lucky that the man considers sex with her to be worth the accommodation fee.... Some of these hostel fees can go as high as #100k. I really think it is a good bargain. Just my 2 cents

Twill92:

I won't give you the luxury of time to exchange words cos unlike you, i am not an attention seeking mofos like you and time is precious to me. I won't join your life which boring and as worthless as a white crayon without nairaland. Get a chair, sit, rant, write an epistle or a book but hear this... it is as useless as u saving them in your DRAFT... When you learn how to talk, i can save few secs to listen to you (which i know your stup!dity won't allow you to learn). Till then, i say you are a big f00l... enjoy jumping around people's comments like a frog suffering from elevated temperature.

safarigirl:
you and efficiencie are the only sensible people here.

Everyone saying what the guy did is OK is morally bankrupt. If God asked every human being for a piece of their humanity everytime He helped, what would be left of us.

There is nothing worse than taking advantage of a person at his or her time of desperation, it is the most disgusting thing anyone can do.

He offered, she did not ask. I have confided in many people who I barely know when I'm in need, but thank God I look more like Simi than Toolz, else, the serpents of the world would have bitten
me


I have never been so down that I accepted an offer from a guy I couldn't afford to pay back. I'm blessed enough that even when I have nothing, I pull through without demeaning myself for someone's change and I pray one day, I can help enough disadvantaged people to raise their heads even when they are down.



Shameless people everywhere

manie:
It is irresponsible men that give birth to children they can not comfortably provide for. It is an insult on me, for my unmarried daughters to rely on men they barely know for financial assistance. Nigerians should plan, be disciplined and be fully responsible for the consequences of our actions and in-actions.

snowlizard:
Lol
Ur right in 2ways and wrong in 5.lol
Dog bite im owner cos im dey hungry den u say he shud not av bitn d owner. Waste of time. Dogs bite.
He shud but he did. So why dont u ask ur friend why she refused after giving first guy free and now reporting the guy to nairaland as if we should jail him.lol
For all dose quotin bible even Christ says if u never sin dont cast d first stone.
Now we kno she actually was a keziah now stoning her colleague openly

Ravenwolf:
Still despise you.. Scum.


If my daughter is propositioned the same way, if She is wise and uncomfortable with such an arrangement she would turn it down. Simple, the world moves on.


Why you find this hard to understand makes me question your cognitive quotient.

hebex12:
When d child grows up

He would b lyk my mum said I wz born in a keke,,

So my name is KEKELABI

manie:
You can always pass your message in a civil, rational, responsible and matured manner without resorting to insults, I know this may be very difficult for most people but you can "dare to be different" by learning this soft skill which is the hallmark of an "emotional intelligent" person.

freemile2ru:
even pastors says give and it shall be given onto u. Nothing is free brother

Twill92:

Even though you have a right intention concerning the situation on ground, the way you comment shows you are a f00l... a very big one! learn to channel your opinion rightly and leave the innocent bloods out of their to-be father's comment.

@ op... helping a stranger is a good thing. Its something i have done and i am enjoying currently... the guy gave his terms and conditions just like we have in communication industry! it wasn't okay by you, move on!... i wonder why some e-diot find it convenient opening the fowl anus they call mouth raining curses on someone over his sweat and blood cos his term didn't suit yours...wtf!
op you didn't nothing wrong accepting an offer from a stranger but making this a public show like it was your right is a NO NO NO...

to those guys that still feel helping makes them mugu... cool down guys! pump your brake, sincerely it pays a lot to help with nothing attached but some bad eggs made the better ones look ugly... keep doing your thing the way it feels right and let no b!tches change that...

Ravenwolf:
Bleep.er did you read anywhere the lady said she was violated.

Whenever two people meet, they bring together two different perspectives, moral sets and believes . If any preposition is made by any of the parties, it left to the other party to determine if proceeding would be contrary to their morals or believes. At which point they decline or accept. The lady did not accept. Simple, period.

She shouldn't come here and act all uppity.

I wish I could curse, then you would have received the most vitriolic jab of your life.... Find respite though in the fact that I despise you!!