₦airaland Forum

butch:
Bro sorry about what happened to you, Just keep been the nice guy you are.......though I expect your friend to tell you he did it with your woman that's the norm for correct guys so you be cautious about the chap, however now they use your brain try get another sharp damsel so you forget about her and continue you relationship with your hommie,I dont think 87% of black sisters worth the stress they are terrible.....Think how you wan make serious cash and more closer to your God, enjoy.

87% of black sisters?

What shit are you on bro?

1miccza:
Ignore her ladies like your friend are the reasons for some guy's being indiscreet when it comes to sleeping with the opposite sex..

There is something call responsibility. We are responsible for our actions. We always have a choice. The friend had a choice so did the best friend. Therefore you can't blame the friend for the actions of the best friend

charix:
This is a very regular occurrence in Nigerian circles. The only reason I'd contribute is because a lot of girls are fond of this rubbish. I did not finish the story but I'd still advice to the best of my knowledge.

First, the guy is the OP's 'male friend', code word for maga. He has been trying to get intimate since but she put him in the friend zone where he spends on her and takes her out like a proper boyfriend would. Surprise surprise he had a girlfriend already but still wants the prize between OP's thighs so he's settled for the friend zone for the meantime.

The OP's friend saw the guy, knew the OP did not want him but kept him around because there was dating potential in him. This is called pre-selection; one of the things that starts a fire between Nigerian girls' thighs - a man selected by another woman as a friend or bf is always sexier to them. She moved ahead to sleep with the guy, she did the OP a favour as friends should. She did no wrong here.

OP has found out on their escapade and now feels bad knowing if the man moves on, nothing for her again - hence her vexation. The OP's friend now sees the OP as a romantic rival and wants him to cut off all ties with the OP. Him still seeing OP means a shortage of resources going to her; this is what girlfriends do. Do not blame her because they are now bf and gf... or man and side chick - however you choose to see it.

Petkruz your female friend is right, vamoose from that guy's life and leave him alone. Also you should report yourself to the man's original girlfriend for all the times you made him spend both time and money on you. Leave him and his side chick alone, it's not her fault you never made up your mind in the first place.

Good analysis

But you forgot to to talk about the Id.iot that kept spending and hoping

Addicted2Women:
Leave trash for LAWMA.
I know how many of my girlfriends that had sex with my friends & they still want me to give them money or be buying other things for them.

The kind of unfaithfulness girls of nowadays are and how cheap they are.
I dey contemplate on becoming Gay.

Shouldn't you be ashamed of yourself? Most of your gfs are having sex with your friends and you still have the guts to ‘yarn'?

Cheap fo.ol

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]Oh you're suddenly scathing away?

My mother is a Scaredy bítch. [/color]

You are boring

Get lost!

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]Beggars like you would ride. [/color]

Let them be. I don't have your time.

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]Your nemesis. [/color]

If wishes were horses......

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]You're dumber than I thought. [/color]

Who are you again?: (

worriedmind:
Hi guys. They say a problem shared is a problem half solved. I noticed that I've developed body odour ‎for about 2 years now. I'm 35 years and I first noticed it in 2014 about when I just got a new job. I've tried all sorts of deodorants and body sprays and nothing works. Body sprays actually makes it worse for me. I've tried driclor and maximum strength anti perspirants but to no avail. I've tried the baking soda treatment, lime and lemon but still to no avail. I make it a point of duty to shave every night so it's not like I keep hairs. I also shower atleast twice everyday. It's not like i get too sweaty,infact I don't perspire as much as to wet clothes in the pits area yet the slightest hint of sweat that comes on mixes with whatever roll on I have on and then creates a bad smell even when I'm dry. I get a lot of mean looks and turned heads everyday and it's actually starting to affect me mentally as I dream of people rubbing their noses and making faces at me in my sleep. Funny how people judge you immediately like you don't groom yourself properly. My life is on a stand still right now and I get panic attacks from the thought of going out because of the treatment and funny looks I get from people. I've been masturbating for about 7 years now, could this be the cause? Is there any link between masturbation and body odour? Could it be ulcer? I'm inclined to think it's from from the inside because I've tried all measures of outter cleanliness. Please has anyone out there ever encountered this social burden and how did u deal with it? Please help a dying soul. 


Lalasticlala kindly move this to front page so I can get more help. Thanks alot‎
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You need to visit your doctor

Strahovski:
I always knew you were a hoe

Just like whor..ish mama

searchiing4love:
Dey don ban u?

Yeah

Thanks to eyin oso

searchiing4love:
Are u the same daretodiffer

Yes

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]POINT? [/color]

Who the hell are you Mr?

@naijaboiy, don't be a coward, you don't ned this guard dog

searchiing4love:

I have told you several times that I am ready to help you

Deexxy:
[color=#1980BC]Try not to be stùpid always. [/color]

I knew it

I am a smartass


See your life outside, SMH




You are going nowhere

searchiing4love:
If you have ever double dated, cheated or slept with another guy while you were in a serious relationship with another innocent man, may you be barren for the rest of your lives. You shall never carry baby in your belly but fibroid Yes You

If you have ever double dated, cheated or slept with another guy while you were in a serious relationship with another woman, may you never be able to have erection, have children, money, good health and happiness for the rest of your lives. Can you say Amen, yes you

You are the biggest mor..on ever lived

Strahovski:
Oh dear... I see you are really pained. .

I read the hurt in your words... how did it feel?

When you hear a lady say she is a virgin.. and you flashback at your self 2 nights ago riding one dude because of $100.. how does it feel?

It stings right ?
I feel for you

it doesn't because you are totally off track, dumbass

Strahovski:
For your information we were VIRGINS!!!!!

Not everyone in this life are prost!tutes. There are people who value dignity. So I feel for you. It hurts so bad that you a non-virgin will see that indeed there are virgins and in yor pile of regrets over opening your legs for that dude because he had a car, you convince your self "Nobody is a virgin"

You are not married and you are not a virgin

BITE ME!

snailspeed:
You keep defeating yourself in your own posts! Hear yourself:

"Secondly, you can't charge Dasuki for "stealing" or diverting $2.2billion when you are yet to establish that he diverted/stole all the monies on his own."

How can you say he diverted money at all if you dont know how he diverted it? Arent you confused? That means you arrested a man, claimed he is a thief and you are now trying to find out what and how he stole? Thank you for defeating your own arguments. You just made it very clear it is all propaganda and media trial!!!

Read what he wrote again

iceberylin:
I had a conversation with a female friend. She talked about her marriage.

"I thought I was getting married to a perfect man because I loved everything about him. We never slept together during courtship, thinking it's normal cause he's a pastor.
Now my Problem is he snores me and my baby up at night, we end up sleeping on the couch.
It's really affecting my marriage cause I hate this flaw so much." She claimed.

Hidden flaws will always find their way out, so try to let your partner know all about you before walking down any isle.
No matter how bad you think ya flaw is there are people who can put up with it.. Even the least flaw can't be tolerated by same people.
Be 100% and hope you find the right one.

Seun, lalasticlala help somebody somewhere...

That is why we have hospitals

Strahovski:
How dare you insult my mother?

And how did you know I wasn't a virgin?

You think everyone is like you?

How dare you insult women?

You were not a virgin

STILESGANG:
No matter how girls with slacked pussiies try to downgrade virginity.The thing is majority of men still adore and wish to marry virgins

When you have your own daughters you can tell them to bang every tom dick and harry that comes their way.That is your own problem

Some women are not born with tight vagin..as, virgin or not, for other women, preganancy is the reason they have slack vagin..as. Non-virgin women can regain the tightness with few exercises and abstinence for some weeks

Sweetlemon:
Honey, why so bitter? Cool down abeg.

Now if you read me well I didn't say that it's every guy that has sex with them that will marry them. I'm actually advocating for virginity until marriage. Or at least until after he's seen your people and done the needful. And if you read properly, it's not because it will guarantee you an easy ride in marriage but because of YOUR own good.
If marriage is all about character why are all those uncouth, gossips, morally loose girls getting married every Saturday? Mehn! Babes. You never see sontin.

Women also cheat not as much as men but thenyou should stop reinforcing that stereotype.

Strahovski:
Virgin again. ....

My wife's virginity when I married her made me love her even more till today (3 years after) op. So don't conclude like that. There are men who adore their their wives just because of that virginity.

So #TeamVirgin

#Vote4Virgin

#VoteHymen

The hoes shouldn't quote me otherwise I will use the power of Odin on your slackened pusssyays

Your mama na hoe

You weren't a virgin when you got married yet you talk like you are different from those 'hoes'.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Pu$$yeater, leave me alone. Look for someone else to stalk and buttlick. You've been stalking and following me nonstop for the past two months.

Seriously, I can't even understand when this whole infatuation began but I want it to stop. Stop harassing and monitoring my online activity.[/color]

foo.l

very stupid post

Some people ask questions o make you look stupid. i will do the same if i were in their shoes. The idi.ot that is making the claim must be able to provide all answers

naijaboiy, is that you

macfarland:
This government is fake and deceptive. They can only deceive few gullible Nigerians and their APC supporters not a person with sanity

Shut it!

udysweet:
nah! There are some things you cannot make yourself o, I doubt I want to prepare ekuru at home, lol

I used to make it when I was in Nigeria and I have made it twice since I left

safarigirl:
you probably don't recognize plastic surgery then

people get surgery to increase it and most of them would tell you how confident and happy it has made them

9izone:
You talk too much and your words are (meaningless and trashy) as she said.
What's your problem and why are calling this wonderful creature from God Ugly?
@naturaldora All I see is natural beautified and well mannered girl that is setting a cool examples that you too should learn from. And please stop hating check her profile and you will see she's from your Igbo states

Attention seeker!

I did not call her ugly. Read my post again

Who cares about her tribe~

Toks2008:
Egbami..kilagbe kileju?

Ko mu ija wa o..na my opinion i dey talk...

the fact that guys have no control over the size of their mnhoood does not change the fact that below 5inc at erection is small and above 8inch is dangerous so wat is the fuss about?

You called it Abacha

Some people still like it the way they are. Go for what you like and stop complaining about what you don't. No one is forcing you to like them.