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Free Kpekus, you still wan reject...

Vollon234:
I'm in my 4th year in the university. There is this girl I loved. We had sex a couple times, exchanged "I love you" and all that romantic stuff, but when I asked her out she claimed she didn't want a relationship, that she isn't in the right place emotionally. I asked about the sex and she said she doesn't want sex with me anymore because emotions get involved and she just wants to be single for now and only have sex when she is ready to have a boyfriend. I respected her choice and told her I'm okay. I moved on and my feelings for her started to drop. I began seeing someone else that I'm now serious with.

Two days ago the former girl called me in the middle of the night and I ignored. The next day she did the same thing. Calling in the middle of the night. This time I had the new girl sleeping over. I couldn't pick her call. Next day she called me and I didn't pick cos I was busy. Today I decided to call her and she immediately started complaining about me ignoring her and why I didn't call back. I apologized and said I was busy. Next thing she says she is moving to my lodge that she's tired of her own lodge. She had even spoken to the landlord and make plans to pay rent.

I find this very annoying. Her staying in my lodge makes things very weird. I don't love her anymore but I still feel something for her and we have a sexual history together. I can't be able to have a girlfriend comfortably with her around. I'm thinking of talking to my landlord to decline her request. There are lots of good lodges around school why my lodge? It's not like anything is wrong with her lodge. Girls sef.

Congrats to her. Like i said "is it that season 3 and 4 i participated in was fluke while this season 7 is the real deal?"

ogascomax:
Many thoughts the same but later realized that the chosen process is a fair one. My friend sister was selected and we were roommate then in school, we lived in the same town, now the same street. She felt that people were handpicked until it was a goal for her.

WORD!!!

Judybash93:
Firstly, don't quit your job ma niggi. Let that money flow in.
Secondly, the best thing you can do for yourself right now is to become a better version of yourself. Don't let her feel like she has power over you. Work out, eat right, sleep well, delete everything that reminds you of anything that has to do with her. Hang out with your friends, do the things you love, life is too short to worry about a hole. If she tries to make a comeback, tell her to go f herself in the butthole. It's not worth it. Do this and save yourself from stress!!

Hi OP,

Trust you are well and keeping safe.

Will start by consoling you and helping you see lots of reason why you need let go of that childish thought of leaving work for someone that's not worth your actions.

its the Love Guru again.

So she served you hot breakfast, so what?
You now realized that you've been wasting time, burning mid-night oil for naught, so what.
you're not the first and you wont be the last.

you want to leave where you dey get small change stay alive and healthy? now i have a problem with that....

1. If and when you leave work cos of her. you lose and she wins again.
2. If and when you leave work cos of her. you become miserable, remember you're already lonely and disgusted. Idle mind breeds chaos and can never be productive positively. she wins again, again.
3. If and when you leave work and start starving, you become a beggar to all amenities of life that you need and your self esteem drops like flies in insecticide. she wins again, again, again.

Remember, heartbreaks are so messy so try not to make any life altering decision when you're hurt, they tend to stay forever.

Now remember that you are a man. the day your mom gave birth to you, she was glad that she now have a warrior that will protect her and the house. Damn! she even shared jollof rice on your naming ceremony. imagine how she will feel if she heard that you lost to a girl and not just any girl, to a cheating girl and cos of that you want to end your life. Who is gonna be sending money to her? if you have a younger brother then he too will learn from your petty attitude and become a simp too of he will despise you cos you couldn't man up and face life.

Bottom-line brother. live life, ignore her while working (it wont be easy but you can do it) as time goes on you'll discover the peace of mind you've been missing while dating where you work (bad idea). Keep ur head high and do your shakara while you continue praying and looking for another job. In the end show her what she lost and own your shit.

A word is enough to the intelligent oh! no allow kpekus turn you to pushpa.

But wait oh! what kind of future do you think you'll have with her? from your write-up i deduce that she took you as entertainment for the passing moment and doesn't see you as a serious escape plan hence the double dating. bro
From the look of things, this is your first Heartbreak and i understand how you feel, but no matter how much the night becomes dark, the sun will always shine bright in the morning.

BE STRONG!

Best Regards
THE LOVE GURU

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

GI TO COURT ALREADY ANDSTOP THE DRAGGING HERE!!!

dauntless15:
Aside making her sit through traffic to the park, what about the linoleum she won't be able to sell because you made her cut it, life is hard already, you shouldn't cause another person pain by selfishly thinking of yourself whenever you act, it's unfair.

This is good. i celebrate with them.
so happy for them. They worked hard and got what they deserved.

The team spirit was unquenchable, tremendous and inspiring.
never seen a team so coordinated as this Senegal squad.

Congrats to Sadio Mane. He just etched his name in Gold

robosky02:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-60286436

LAST MEAL!!!! IF I FAIL I FAIL BUT HUNGER NO GO COME LET ULCER KILL ME, ABEG.
The kind of stress students go thru these days is so alarming. Don't be surprised if he read all thru the night and couldn't eat b4 coming to the hall.

Pls pray for SERIOUS students all over Nigeria.

It is well.

Ade1234tayo:
Nigerian student hides food under study table to eat while lecture was ongoing. Watch video below;



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1r13fDBDdQ

YOU DO?

Kindly share yours.

its take one to know another.

many thanks

Suspect33:
I understand your grievance

Good Question.

Babalegba:
But do they have the same culture, integrity and self control that Japan is well known for.

Finally!!!! the future is here....

soon we'll be seeing flying cars around and Nigeria my kwantiri is busy celebrating madness...

How can you chook preeq where your head came out from?

Is that not lunacy. and these herbalist is just catching cruise eh! dishing out impossible tasks to these toddlers thinking they will run away.

E shock you say them go do all...

It is well...

Starpost:
A boy has hinted at his source of enormous wealth as he affirms that he does the unthinkable for money.


Responding to a question from a netizens who pleaded that he reveals his secret to success, the boy asked if he could sleep with his mother for money.

This comes amid the trend of ritualism among Nigerian youths all in a bid to attain instantaneous wealth, The lad is seen in the clip making videos with his iPhone device while

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Hi OP,

Trust you are well and keeping safe.

Its the love guru again.

Quick one. how close are you to your elder brother? if you both have a chemistry then i suggest you talk to him first. mind you, if you tell the wife (whom you're already in love with from what you wrote up there) you are also setting off the NUCLEAR bomb in her home. Confront your brother and when it dawns on you that the beautiful and sexy side chick is not enticing your brother with just her body, looks and constant humping, I'll suggest you go ahead and inform your own family. note that if a family comes together to tackle problems in the family, there won't be any NUCLEAR explosion. (women in general process news of infidelity differently, especially if they're directly affected) Thread carefully and with wisdom.

Best Regards
THE LOVE GURU

NotoriousBiggyS:
My elder brother who is married have a side chik who is from anambra state. I have so much love for my elder brother wife because she's such a good woman. My brother use to call this gold digging anambra girl so much that he tells her everything going on in his nuclear family affairs even in my present I feel jealous about that because I like his wife so much that I feel like telling the wife about this. Will it be bad or good idea if I expose this mothe*fuc*King gold digger of a girl to my brother wife before she breaks her home?

Hi OP. Quick question. Are you married?
if yes, did you marry from your tribe? how is the union progressing and how old is your marriage? did you father marry from his tribe? if yes, i can see that the union progressed but how old is the union now and is it still waxing strong in love and the main objective of marriage?
if your response to my question above is not in the affirmative then you are not in the right position to give advice on marriage, kindly desist from it. Tribe does not guarantee a lovely and lasting home. Love, in all its entirety guaranties that.

Naijabad:
I know alot of people will come for my head for this thread.

But the truth is, if you are a Nigerian, please marry from your tribe. You will be fine.

A lot of women and men are crying in secret today because they married outside their tribe.

Please, consider the words of your parents, do not make the mistake of marrying outside your tribe.
It almost always end in premium tears.

Learn from what happened to others. Ask questions, do research, you can find love among your people and folks.

I have seen alot. A greater percentage of inter tribal marriage is on manage mode.

Finally, 50% of marital problems are solved when you marry within your tribe.

Nice One.

Our peeps use to say 'na who don see they understand when dem draw ear tell you word' Thank God for life.....

Rastaramsey:
WTF man...

Say no to cultism....

There is no gain there....

Na like this them kill one of my friend for one deadly hits wey sup 2017.... I dey lucky say I dey out of town, cus me and that niggar dey always Waka up and down for night..... We dey proud of our m.y (charm)...
Omo, naso gun am down for road leave hin body..... We just carry am go throway for our pit... No burial, nothing nothing.... We no even sing for am sef....

That shows nobody dey for you...

One hit sup 2018 before army barracks, omo aiye kill one guy for my compound,and I dey house, I bin call my ibk make he send person cum save me, omo ibaka cut call oooo..... I Thank God for life,omo I just pass our store, fly window, travel go rivers stay for my aunt place for one month..... People think say I don fall....


Abeg Mr o.p, keep posting this things and include the graphic photos...

Let them learn....
Cultism is evil....

EdemIboro:
Woman’s Breast Spills Out Of Her Dress In A Public Bus In Lagos (Photos)
https://tsbnews.com/2022/02/womans-breast-spills-out-of-her-dress-in-a-public-bus-in-lagos-photos/

Now this is the best view i have had in days. God bless women with big lumpcious endowment. Amen!!!!

Suspect33:
Ahaaa, a reality show that actually rewards real talent unlike the other crap

What reward? A show that have the already selected few. i wonder how it rewards real talent. pls tell nairalanders how Nigerian Idol rewards true talents when the winners are already selected before the show.

Or maybe the season 3 and 4 i participated in was fluke while this season 7 is the real deal?

Abeg make we hear word! its all arranged. Hustle your thing and pray to God until you make it.

Righteousness2:
The things of GOD are not what you calculate , Describe or understand with a Carnal mind..

The Move of GOD is uncontainable, Uncontrollable and Undescribeable.

When the Orginal Power and Glory of GOD Decends, you won't even know nor understand yourself.

If you wanna see and receive Great Deliverance and Glory from GOD , then Prepare to attend From Sorrow to JOY this coming weekend , 12th &13th February 2022.
8am daily .
It is Happening live at the Lord's Chosen Charismatic revival Ministries Headquarters at Amuwo- odofin expressway, Ijesha, Lagos Nigeria

Oh please Shut UP!!!!!

Religion has done more harm than good. Stop making it seem like the last bustop to solutions cos it ain't; just another industry to make money and deceive gullible persons.

This nairaland is something else. how is this news?
I want to believe that any material that is not informative and educative is no news. I made a job vacancy post on nairaland, up until now that ad have not been published but we see rubbish like this everyday. what is my concern if confused couples fight in the middle of the road? they can go to mars and behead themselves for all I care.


#bringbackourinformativenairalandbiko

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